We want to be fearless, strong and dominant. But in a realistic outlook, what about us guys who like love songs, enjoy romance and adventure and want to be sensitive and romantic with women?

I personally like doing romantic shit to play around with women, like pick up a random flower and put it in her hair, or twirl her around in front of me in a public place.. Shit even go as far as eskimo kiss her in line at Starbucks just to be spontaneous

My point is, I am past the stages of basic TRP knowledge and focused on lifting, finance and self power. But now I'm interested in quality romances, I simply don't just put my dick in random girls because why nut with a random when you could nut with a woman who you genuinely enjoy looking in the eyes?

TL;DR how do you guys exude romance to random girls you genuinely like without being "bluepill"?