TL;DR: How do I deal with bullshit excuses

What do you do when a girl gives you bullshit excuses as to why she won’t go on a date with you. Tinder dates do this constantly. I get that they’re a bit apprehensive about meeting someone over the internet but that shouldn’t mean anything (if she wants it bad enough, she’ll do anything to get it). Aside from that, in general, is there a way to deal with this. I have absolutely zero ego investment in these girls. I could care less one way or the other. I’ve learned that if I go somewhere with a girl, lunch for example, I’m there because I want to be there and she just happened to join me. Should I even respond to her?

Example:

there’s been previous conversation

Me: Hey, wyd Monday

Her: I work 4-9, why

Me: let’s go get coffee at noon

Her: Well I’d love to but, insert bullshit excuse (Money is tight, friend is in the ER yes I’ve heard that one before, I don’t have a car, etc.)

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I’m leaning towards moving on and next-ing women like this and not chasing them (bc chasing them means they have control of the frame).

What’s your take?