So I actually started a monogamous relationship with a girl. Have the rules changed now? Can/should I show her affection more often or does it still communicate scarcity? Is it okay to tell her I love her and not just answer with a "yeah love you too"? Will telling her that I miss her still make her think less of me? I know dread is essential. But I actually want to show her at least some feelings. Is that beta behavior?