bunch of questions

I met a girl asked her out, yep all good.

We go on a date, one of the first bombs she drops is "I'm christian". Okay, fine. She describes herself as a calvinist (Implication of forgiveness for everything, so her ethics shouldn't get in the way). Okay. She is flirting, giving IOI's, laughing, smiling, responsive to escalation, etc. So naturally I attempt to isolate, and I ask her if she wants to go for a rip. She obliges, we're alone and I drive her to a viewpoint where we talk and I get her to sit on my lap, where I go in for the kiss and she turns her head. No big deal, I think. Anyways, Finally the end of the night comes and I actually manage to get her to my house. We end up in my bed cuddling up, but no matter how hard I try, no matter what I do, she would not kiss me, take off her clothes, or anything sexual.

Was I used for her validation? what exactly went wrong?

Question 2:

About 3/5 of the last few girls I have met/ dated started talking about sociopathy out of the blue. Being as women are easy as hell to read when theyre turned on (Flushed red face, eyes round as saucers, touching hair, turning towards you bla bla bla) I can tell each woman that was extremely turned on by me and responding well are the women that were inquiring. Were they testing alpha status using subversive communication?

Seems as though it was a subversive probe to test for it... but is that a shit test? What is that?

Why do women talk about sociopathy in general? I do believe that I'm a naturally born sociopath, and I have always been extremely alpha (Even more so after a 2 year bout with monk mode which increased my income to 300k+/year and educated the hell out of myself in my spare time, lifting to which I've gained from 165 lbs to 210 6'3") The feelings I feel are only in relation to things which directly affect me. It is not that I am devoid of emotion.
Do I need to tone down the alpha? I feel like I've already brought it down a few notches. This is a throwaway ;)