First off, I am 20 years old. I began reading and internalizing TRP material for about 6 months now, and have already noticed major improvements in my personal life. I am much more bold, confident and in control of my life than I ever was before. I started taking fighting lessons, eating healthy, going to the gym and generally taking care of myself. Although I feel like I have gotten very far in the last 6 months, I can see that this is only the first half-step of my journey to become the best I can be. Despite the fact that I feel like I've internalized most of the material I've read on both /r/theredpill/ and here, I have a lot more to learn. This is why I am requesting your feedback - any response is appreciated.
Backstory - In high school, I was surrounded by a small population of 'bad kids' (drug addicts, kids with mental issues, etcetera). I didn't like them, so I stayed away from them, and as a result I was excluded from pretty much all social gatherings and had very little social interaction outside of my close circle of friends and a few geeks. On top of that, I was a very late bloomer and didn't hit puberty until I was well into the senior year (18 years old), so no girl found me attractive for obvious reasons (people say I still look like I'm 16). Because of that, during my high school years I basically had no intimate interaction with women whatsoever.
To this day I am still having trouble with initiating intimate contact with women - more specifically, going from meeting to seduction to casual sex. I think I am charming and fairly attractive, but I am so inexperienced in this department that I just don't know where to start. I don't have issues with meeting new women and going out, but that is not what I am looking for. I have considered going to bars and clubs, but I have never been there before, so I do not know what to do there or how to do it. I live with my father and will be for at least the next few years (I have decided to finish college and pay off my college debts before I move out and live a life on my own), so that might be a barrier, but I find that one of my college friends who always has a new girl every week is in a similar situation and is doing just fine. As well, I am entirely clueless about anything concerning 'sex etiquette' - considering I've never had any intimate contact, what should I be expecting, and what should I be aware of?
What do you think is the best course of action for me in my situation if my goal is to start spinning plates? Could you recommend me any good readings/other resources regarding picking up women at clubs/bars and going from meeting to initiating intimate contact? Should I go full out and just talk to them or is there a technique I should learn first and take it slow?
I appreciate any feedback you guys leave me - I am always striving to improve myself, and your response are very helpful. Thank you.
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