Context: I'm a 17 year old male residing in California. I've been browsing TRP for over a year now but this is my first actual post. Please keep in mind that this is my alternate account, as many of my friends know my main account and aren't aware I follow TRP religiously and all of them hold the same stereotyped views of this community as most other redditors do.

As I said I'm 17 now and didn't start regularly browsing TRP until about a year ago. Back then I was a super beta and since then have undergone major transformations in mind and body. I've educated myself in my desired career field and have lost 50 pounds and built up muscle in my core and upper body. Half way through my transformation I met a girl who I was fond of and since then we've been dating for coming on 6 months now. I picked her because she's a natural submissive so I can use that to my advantage in our day to day habits and in the bedroom. She's also surprisingly mature for a typical high school girl and isn't completely idiotic. During these 6 months I've groomed her to my preferences and enforce various rules and consequences. I also have a basic reward system set in place in which she earns beads which are rewarded and subsequently taken away based on behavior. She is incredibly loyal and understanding, which I love, but of course she comes with certain unsatisfactory traits and qualities.

First and foremost: She is incredibly forgetful. More so than any other person I have ever met. This is obviously annoying in its own respect but is also a nuisance when it comes to memorizing a new rule or anything of that nature. I'm not sure if this can even be helped, but I thought I'd throw it out there.

Secondly: Because she is a natural submissive, she is very easily influenced, especially by other males. This is obviously a problem since I can't always be there when she is out with friends. She says she'll be back by a certain time, but is then dragged along by whatever the leader of the group wants to do, and ends up staying out hours past the agreed upon deadline. This is very irritating and has me worried of adultery themed behavior in the future. How can I stop this and/or change her behavior completely? This is probably what is most important to me.

Lastly: Amplfying my worries from the article above: there is another boy my age who seems to influence her more than anyone. Before you jump to conclusions, I know what you are thinking. This boy is as beta as they come, so I know he would never even consider doing anything. He's also a cutthroat Christian and he thinks of me as a good friend, so I know he'd never try anything, and I trust him in that respect. But nevertheless, they have been "good friends" for 9 years as they both went to the same Christian school as children. So when him, the SO and another girl of the same background get together, he always ends up dictating the plans and events. How should I handle this? I don't want to do anything rash, but I realize the problem won't go away unless I adress it in some way.

Any and all feedback on these problems and my life in general are welcome and appreciated.