Schedules

Hungboy6969420 · 2019-12-12T02:38:46+00:00

Ime I don't think this stuff matters too much , her overall attraction to matters most. Ive made some crappy logistical plans and still mashed and I've made concise plans and been flaked on

Glamourhammer · 2019-12-12T01:16:45+00:00

Doesn't matter too much as long as you don't make it sound like you have nothing else going on. Throwing out a couple days that would work for you is also an option.

lietruth · 2019-12-12T02:29:44+00:00

You're thinking too far into this. Be decisive.

Don't ask her when she's free. Tell her when you're going to get with her.

You can say something like: "I'll pick you up on Friday at 7pm."

She can counter with: "oh nooooo friday doesn't work for me bla bla excuse".

Then if she's half interested she'll make herself available on another day: "but saturday night does".

It's always better to be decisive about your decision, even if you get shot down. Let her be flakey. Rather than putting the ball in her court. Think of how weak it looks to say: "I am free on Wednesday nights"... versus strength: "I will pick you up on Wednesday night."

One is passive, while the other is active. women: passive, men: active. Saying that you're free on Wednesday night just sets you up to avoid rejection. That's her role. Your goal in life is to keep getting rejected, keep failing, keep penetrating until you succeed.

While this is a small distinction, maybe granular at best, little things make up the big things. I've heard bitches complain about shit like this, how some men cannot lead or take action on even setting up a date. Go with the lead, and tell her where and when you'll be picking her up, then let her be receptive to that.

Haytch1234 · 2019-12-12T03:36:54+00:00

First one is better.

Girls are fickle and flaky. Better to iron out the details instead of relying the girl to get back to you unless you have fucked her a few times already

MasculineRP · 2019-12-12T02:31:18+00:00

I come from the stance of asking her when she's free. If I'm free when she's free I'll organise something.

I know other blokes here tell a time and a place, I don't do that though.

RPNorvell · 2019-12-12T12:37:30+00:00

Tell her where and when.

It polarizes, you're leading, it takes out the vagueness.

Title	Schedules
Author	Zeplikes
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	December 12, 2019 1:05 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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