Scheduling dates tips

GentlemanFilth · 2016-11-05T22:51:55+00:00

Try being honest? IDK but that seems to have worked wonders in my dating life.

lopsidedlucky · 2016-11-06T00:25:19+00:00

First off, fuck their schedule. You're the prize, you let them know what works for you.

Here's what I do that has the most success concerning dates. What is success, top week I had 11 dates without a single flake all from online dating. I'm not advocating online dating, just saying.

When you reach out to them you're clear in your intent. Fuck asking about the weather or their dog, you're contacting them to ask them out. Sometimes you need a line or two of something witty to start off with.

I typically just go straight to asking them out since in my case they matched based on pics. If you need to convince them to go out with you then my smv isn't high enough for her and you're in a weak position that you'll be fighting from the rest of the time. That's okay, work on your smv and keep finding girls that like you.

Basically you contact her, then ask her out, make the date for the next 72 hours period. I tell them a day. "Hey, let's grab a drink on Sat". If she says yes, done. If she says no and gives a reason or alternative then I try for another day/time. This is the point were her schedule comes into play but, you're not asking from a weak place. You're still giving options and if she wants to go out she will offer what day/times will work. If she doesn't then she's not that interested, drop her and find the girls waiting to fuck mr.snowmusic. Because they're out there bro.

If she says no and gives a shit reason or no reason and/or no alternative I drop her. Also when I ask them out I already have a place time and parking situation in mind.

From there I try to find out where they live and plan something near them (I prefer to hook up at their pad). If they live far or in a suckass area, then I have my backup spot with all logistics worked out. Logistics will fuck you, have enough money for a fun hotel nearby if necessary and know the parking situation. Hotels.com can book hotels all the way up until 1am if you call them.

From there have fun and enjoy the encounter. Go forth and slay man.

This also helps you understand when you're contacting these girls. If you're contacting her on a Sunday well shit, you've got to go out with her in 72 hours that's mon-wed. Just be aware of the timing. It also helps to keep you from texting them with bullshit conversation for no reason.

Title	Scheduling dates tips
Author	snowmusclelaser
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	November 5, 2016 10:42 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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