Hey guys, decided to go out to "the hot spot" in my city(which is shamefully lacking in hot girls) and decided to do some day pickup.
Bit of background: I've known about the pickup community since high school but was too blue pilled to actively approach. why would you ignore 50% of the human population?
I recorded some pickup attempts that I based around Tom Torero's Beginner's Guide to Day Game so I can really get the most out of the field reports I'm putting up here in order to become a black belt in pickup (all right enough with the BJJ references ;p). All names changed for privacy.
Approach 1:
Saw a girl walking ahead with me with a great ass, decided to try the "run in front and stop her" tactic that apparently makes you look confident as fuck.
Me: Hi, uh, two seconds
Her: Sorry I'm meeting people
Me: Oh you're on your way (move out from in front of her to walking along beside her)
Her: Yeah
Me: How's your day going so far?
Her: Very well, thanks
Me: Look, I saw you back there and thought you looked really cute and I had to come say hello
Her: Huh.
Me: My name's Thrownawayisland (hand shake)
Her: Hi, Jenny, nice to meet you
Me: Nice to meet you. You look like you're uh, going somewhere uh, very athletic, very...
Her: Yeah, I'm actually in training right now.
Me: Oh, you're in training. Are you like the coach there, the instructor that's gonna empower everyone, haha?
Her: No
Me: No, you seem to have a very Brazilian kinda flair to you, reminds me of a jungle look, haha (she was wearing some jungle leaf pattern hoodie)
Her: Ohhhh... yeah no
Me: Hey look well I understand you gotta get somewhere there. I gotta head out myself. Would you be down to grab a coffee some time?
Her: Sorry I can't, I gotta go
Me: Ok, well you have a good day, eh
Her: You too, take care
Approach 2:
Saw a girl walk into a book store so went in after her:
Me: I just saw you there and thought you looked really cute
Her: Oh, thanks
Me: How's it going?
Her: Good
Me: Good, yeah, no you seem to have a kinda like cool style about you. Almost like an African kinda thing, are you from [my city] or? (she had an African style bag and almost native american sweater or whatever)
Her: Yeah
Me: Oh you are, eh? Just very well travelled, eh, haha
Her: Yeah I guess so
Me: Oh yeah, ya know when I think of Africa I think of, ya know, people hunting on the safari's and all that, comin back with lions's pelt and whatnot, showin off to everybody, haha.
Her: Yeah
Me: What brings you to the book store, here?
Her: I like reading
Me: Oh really, yeah? What are your favorite kinda books?
Her: I read everything
Me: Oh really, everything, right.
Her: Yeah
Me: So you're into the dark erotica, ahahaha
Her: Maybe not that
Me: The dirty stuff there, right
Her: Yeah
Me: Keep it, keep it light. Anything, uh, you recommend, for uh, guys like, playin hooky off work, and ya know, has a short attention span?
Her: Uh.. I dunno
Me: Hey look, I'm gonna let you get back to your books here, I mean there's the pick of the months over there, um, I was wondering if you'd be down to grab a coffee sometime here.
Her: Uh, I'm really flattered and everything but, uh, I'm just... kinda seeing someone.
Me: Hey that's cool, right on, well it was a pleasure meeting you there
Her: Yeah
Approach 3:
Same book store, next day. Saw a cute girl walk by and look at me, gave her the up-nod and she smiled then continued. Approached her
Me: Excuse me, I just saw you there and I thought you looked really cute, so I had to come say hello
Her: Oh, hello
Me: How's your day going so far?
Her: (giggles) it's good, how bout you?
Me: Really good actually, uh, just getting some last minute Mother's Day stuff outta the way there.
Her: Yeah
Me: You can see I'm doing really good at it, right ya know (my hands were empty)
Her: Haha yeah
Me: You look like you're kinda doin... doin the same thing there yourself, or you're just killin time
Her: I'm just applying for jobs (at the coffee shop in the book store)
Me: Oh are you? Hey cool, well right on, ya never know, you could be runnin this place pretty soon here.
Her: Haha, yeah that's true
Me: Well if you do you do, you're gonna have to owe me like... some sort of like gift card or something here
Her: Haha
Me: Ya know, at least some cream in the coffee there..
Her: Haha, just a...
Me: Just a lil bit. Hey uh, ya know what uh... I think when I get the vibe of somebody who's like working at a coffee shop, I feel like they're pretty laid back, pretty chill, right
Her: Haha oh yeah
Me: Are you from [my city] here?
Her: Uh, I'm just moving here.
Me: Oh, you're just moving here eh
Her: Haha
At this point I've noticed she's been giving positive vibes but was doong quick glances around as if she expected someone to show up that she didnt want to. Sure enough, a tall fat chick shows up to cock block things, so I try to win over the friend
Me: Is this your friend here?
Friend: MMMHMMMMM
Me: Hey how's it going, I just saw your friend here..
Friend: YEAAAHHH
Me: ..and decided to give her a hard time, ya know. How's your day going so far
Friend: GOOoood. (turns to her friend) are you gonna...? ["submit the fucking resume already so this shitlord can get the fuck away from you" is what she was implying]
Her: Just waiting... (could tell there was some tension between the two as if this "friend" is a controlling bitch micro managing her life)
Me: Hey look, uh, I understand you gotta, you gotta head, uh, head out here. I was wondering if I'd be able to grab your number, we could grab a coffee some time
Her: Ummm, I actually..
Me: If your friend doesn't mind there, ya know
Friend: I THINK WE'RE GOOD
Her: Thank you, though
Me: Yeah, no worries, you guys have a good one.
Overall I'd say I adjusted my tonality to slow down the pace between the first to last chick and made sure my voice was deep. Thanks for any advice you can give to help me sharpen my "game".
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