Bank teller girl - Hit it off with blast. Started flirting right off the bat. She reciprocated. A little small talk. I asked what she was doing later. She said "nothing." I said "not that I'd ask you out or anything. I don't date tellers where I bank at. You all got too much of my information." She said I know right. . We joked a little afterwards and parted ways.

I think I'm doing this as some sort of psychological revenge. Basically, revenge for all those years of my own personal failures with girls. I have decent style, not fat, active lifestyle, aesthetically above average.

I asked a couple of older ladies about this scenario and we mutually came to the conclusion that I was being a dick.

I agree with this assessment.

What do you think asktrp?

Has anyone had this sort of behavior? Approaching is now fairly easy. It seems like I'm sabotaging myself still. I'm avoiding rejection by rejecting them.