Separating my plates

abdada · 2015-07-06T17:39:47+00:00

Next.

A woman should feel possessive of her dude when she's with him. Showing up unannounced is what I call "The Pop-in" and I will give ONE warning and then hard next them.

I also hard next friends who pop-in. I once banned a direct first line blood relative from visiting me for a year because they popped in 5 times in a month during my busiest time of the year after repeat warnings.

"Listen, cupcake -- I work from home and I also relax at home and both of these are very important to me. I don't want you showing up like this anymore because my business and off-time are both things I work hard to maintain and I don't need distractions."

MentORPHEUS · 2015-07-06T17:50:21+00:00

Visit plates at their place, have only your main over to your house.

Have a regular schedule of visits with your main GF so she is reasonably satisfied and not left starving for attention. This also includes scheduled "off nights" for things like work, gym/martial arts etc. Schedule your side plates on these off nights, they are more flexible and expendable than your main.

If you have everyone over to the same house, there is bound to be an accidental meeting and drama sooner or later. Sometimes this can work to your advantage, if you happened to be getting tired of that particular two but lacked a specific pretext to break up. Beware though, sometimes a scorned plate or GF will escalate it to an extinction-level event wherein she organizes all of your plates against you. Going from several women you're sleeping with to suddenly none is part of the potential cost of doing plate business.

tepper2 · 2015-07-06T17:47:07+00:00

I question why she thinks this is acceptable behavior in the first place. Most likely because you've given her the idea that it's OK with you.

full_package · 2015-07-06T17:50:29+00:00

Did you give her keys or something? You have a phone to set things up. You are the one arranging your schedule, not anyone else.

And if you're busy at any moment, you are just busy. No explanation needed. Whether you're with other women, jerking off or watching netflix, none of anyone else business. If she asks what were you doing, say you were grooming your guinea pig and that's it.

However, let her know you're not exclusive with her. Without giving out any details.

4benny2lava0 · 2015-07-07T04:55:33+00:00

She knows this and she is cock blocking you. This is no accident so don't treat it like one.

Title	Separating my plates
Author	RPthrowaway123
Upvotes	2
Comments	17
Date	July 6, 2015 5:35 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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