Serious Oneitis

nicetimeisback · 2017-04-03T12:24:07+00:00

Ok i tell you one thing, it can be a shock so fasten your seat belt.

She (and other human beings) is not what you think she is. You think you are dealing with a living being who possess free will, but in truth there is no living being, and no free will.

She follow her programming, this programming is about tell you and do things following the best path she have in order to gain what she is looking to gain (a relationship, resources), either from you ("i love you bla bla") of other guys.

Now that you know it, you can't not accept it.

Yes, she lie to you, and she will keep lying to you and to everybody else forever, it is not even lie, it is just saying (and doing) what it is to be said (and done) in order to try to reach a certain outcome (relationship, resources).

She's not bad or special, all women, and even men, are like that.

If you can't accept this, you must then go hermit mode because all humans are like that.

This is the real redpill, the real truth.

Hope it help

vorverk · 2017-04-03T01:30:43+00:00

Was in a similar position. Her being the only plate is the problem. Just refill your stock with new plates, and everything will fall back in to place. Its funny how brain plays this tricks on you. When you're running out of options it starts being clingy and creates oneitis in your head. Just get more options. It really is that easy.

Auvergnat · 2017-04-03T03:38:37+00:00

The expression "spinning plates" means "splitting your efforts between several sexual options at the moment". Clearly you're not spinning plates.

What you're doing is that you're in a relationship with a girl. And even though you might not be "officially exclusive", you actually are by any practical standard.

Now your girlfriend (since that's what she is) is telling you about wanting to be with a guy and that upsets you. It upsets you because she's your only source of pussy and she could be walking away with it at any given moment. Scarcity mentality,

What you need to do is look for other sources of pussy immediately.

saladon · 2017-04-03T12:21:58+00:00

It comes as quite a shock doesn't it?

You already know the concept of AWALT but didnt think every aspect of it applied to your girl. She was your unicorn, not some overtly slutty whore you met on craigslist

The fact is, though, awalt applies to every single aspect of a girl, differing only in severity depending on how confident she feels to act on it.

Your girl outright lied to your face and felt zero remorse for it. In her mind, she has justified the dishonesty as completely natural and necessary. There is nothing you can do or say that will fix her.

Its not a matter of how many girls youll have to sift through to find "the right ones." Thats unicorn hunting and completely ignores the concept of awalt. The question should be how much of it you are willing to look past, and that depends on how much trp truths you understand and how long you remember that awalt applies to ALL women. Trp is an internal struggle, not an external reactionary one.

Good luck .

thoughtsabroad888 · 2017-04-02T23:40:13+00:00

Set up a situation where you slam her at her place, play her out for anal then afterwards, get up and say you're going to the bathroom to clean up but actually lock the bathroom door from the inside and sneak out the bathroom window. Delete and block her on everything and ghost until she comes crawling back on your terms.

Title	Serious Oneitis
Author	thoughtsabroad888
Upvotes	8
Comments	13
Date	April 2, 2017 11:30 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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