Hey guys, just wondering if any of you have ever been in a similar predicament

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The question is about an ex, we broke up 1.5 years ago. She was not bad looking good body etc, and there was real chemistry between us before it turned bad.

Im just trying to figure out, what do you do when you can't find someone as good looking, or someone you connect with on the same level. Its been a while now, and I have been with good looking women. But didn't share that same connection.

Im at the point where I really couldn't be bothered looking anymore/playing the game. I wouldn't call her my oneitis as I do understand at the end of the day she is just a women.

Any help/experiences would be appreciated!

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Thanks