Setting boundaries

Gawernator · 2015-08-28T15:27:52+00:00

Reward good behavior with affection and punish bad behavior by removing attention

RedPillJax · 2015-08-28T17:25:21+00:00

There are definitely different boundaries for an orbiter, plate, LTR, and wife.

Wife will have some leeway an orbiter never will.

That being said, plates for me don't get to monopolize my time or my attention. If they get needy for attention and time beyond reasonable shit-testing, that's a soft next.

Plates don't get to dictate to me what I do, or when I do it. They get one or two amused mastery responses to their bullshit, but if they continue it - I move on without another word.

Plates aren't worth drama, period. If they were, you'd put in the work to LTR and deal with all the shit/comfort tests that come along with it.

Title	Setting boundaries
Author	Sementeries
Upvotes	4
Comments	3
Date	August 28, 2015 5:56 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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