I’ve had several instances where I’ve hit up girls through snap, get her number under the pretext of “imsg games”, and then after fucking around with her via text for a bit I try to set up an IRL meetup.

Usually I get met with disinterest and resistance, and it doesn’t go anywhere. Other times I’m given a shitty excuse, after which I soft next (at least I do nowadays, after I foolishly made an example of what the definition of insanity is with a couple girls). There’s been one time where I actually met a girl in person. We met in a park, it went well and I actually had the opportunity to kiss her but squandered it like a chump; overall I didn’t move fast enough.

Anyway, back from my tangent. I’ve attempted to just get some basic information from the girl (trying to stick to the “text for logistics only” principle) and then set up a meet up right after. It just gets me labeled as a creep or I’m met with disinterest followed by a next on her part. Getting to know her entirely via text runs the risk of me just becoming a digital orbiter (which has happened more times than I care to admit).

Going through Quick Add and adding as many girls as possible has worked for getting me girls to talk to and work on what little game you can even do through text, while things such as online school and the winter months keep me inside most of the time for the time being. I know full well that talking with her face to face is where I can really make things happen, so how do I effectively get girls interested via text to meet IRL? Better yet, how do I keep her interested long enough to not flake on me, especially if we didn’t plan to meet in two minutes or something (because I can’t make time in my schedule)?