So we got to bed and everything and she was wet. I tried fingering her and everything was fine while I was at the clit but when I went to the vagina she started saying it hurt, which I understand.

So eventually I go to put in my dick, and when I get the tip in, she jumps. I try again and she starts crying. I stop, explain to her it's going to hurt a bit, then try to go in again and she jumps again. Afterwards I decide to just call it a night and cuddle her (she was sobbing).

In the morning we find some blood from the attempted insertion but I don't know what to do.

I haven't had sex before so I don't know if all vaginas are that tight or if it's just her (or my dick too big lol).

Is there any way to make it easier on her? Anything else I should do? Would it be better to ask this on /r/ sex?