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It’s not Like they turn to me and over. We’re walking by a bar and one of their girlfriend’s wants a drink, they tell the whole table to get something. Or we’ll be eating dinner and usually with my girl and I go with friends we split the bill (couple by couple). But here, we go to eat at a place and we all order something then when the bill comes, big bro pays for everyone. When I’m eating with my homeboys and one of us covers the other, there’s an unwritten understanding later down the road you…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 02:04 PM
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I appreciate your advice and I see things in a different light now.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 01:55 PM
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You’re right. I do see wealth as a sign of accomplishment. I’ll make more money once I graduate and get a full time job. I’m not embarrassed I can’t afford stuff for myself, I know I’m broke. I’m embarrassed that since the older brother has gotten there I’ve had everything paid for by him and my girlfriend’s sister’s SO and I don’t know if I should offer to reciprocate, or if they understand I’m a broke college student. Like the saying “it’s the intention that counts”. Are they expecting me to a…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 01:46 PM
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I don’t believe so. I’m not at peace with everything. I just don’t care enough to do something
/r/askTRP22/09/18 02:19 PM
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You right 😂
/r/askTRP22/09/18 02:07 PM
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That’s what the counselor told me. I have minor depression/depressive episodes because everyday isn’t like this. Just 2/3 of my days. But I feel my real problem is a lack of purpose
/r/askTRP22/09/18 02:06 PM
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I’ll spend today finding answers to those questions as I don’t have them. Thanks
/r/askTRP22/09/18 02:06 PM
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I appreciate this answer. There's a lot of shit I'm doing, but if I'm not angry at shortcomings, I must not be investing enough into it
/r/askTRP22/09/18 02:16 AM
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I ain’t got no money in there. I’m helping my brother, mother and best friend and on top of that I have loans of student debt so there’s zilch in there.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 12:15 AM
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A black suit screams "this is my one and only suit and I wear it everywhere because I don't know anything about suits." That is... Exactly correct. I'll try and save up for a grey suit in the near future. Thanks for the heads up
/r/askTRP08/09/18 10:14 PM
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I might get this. I'm liking the low fade more at the moment
/r/askTRP08/09/18 12:00 AM
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Your work ethic with no experience is literally what you are competing on. This helps me understand what employers are looking for. Thank you again for all of your responses
/r/askTRP07/09/18 11:19 PM
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look around see what everybody looks like and when you show up to the interview try to look exactly like you fit in. After you get the job then change your look to whatever you want. This is a smart idea. I'll end up cutting my hair down to get in then once I do grow it out within reasonable levels.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 11:19 PM
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It's a great book. I'll reread it this weekend. I'm trying to walk the line of wanting the job badly verses seeming too desperate for the job. My end goal is to have a steady enough income from a "real job" so my parents get off my case and I can support myself to flesh out my photography and shoot weddings and once I'm making enough to fully support myself with that, swap and do that full time. But instead of trying to go all in on the photography from the go, I'm taking it a safer way.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 11:15 PM
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Thank you for your replies. I've got the beard part down then, now to hone in on the hair.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 11:07 PM
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Thank you. Is this the beard you had in mind?
/r/askTRP07/09/18 11:05 PM
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Thank you. I'll shave the goatee off as I'm unable to grow a beard for now.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 11:03 PM
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That's my goal field, although I'm going for a more "official" field to make sure I can pay my bills incase my photography/video doesn't pay as well as I need it to
/r/askTRP07/09/18 11:03 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/slYBQ6U This is what I'm planning to wear for my interviews after a haircut of course. How's that look?
/r/askTRP07/09/18 11:01 PM
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Thank you. I'm hoping most people share that same mindset but that's not always the case so I want to play it safe.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 11:00 PM
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that hairstyle is ridiculous for a professional setting. I would strongly recommend a clean shave as well. That matches what the older folks have been telling me. I'll visit a barber this weekend.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 10:57 PM
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You look young. The hair is a bit of a statement. Some employers don't like statements. That's not me in the photo, This is what I look like. That's what I thought. For some fields the hair would be okay, but most people won't like the statement it makes.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 10:56 PM
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Your current haircut looks ok That's not me in the photo. This is what I look like, but of course I won't sponge my hair for the interviews. I'll pick it out. I’d say you should have a fade but a lot shorter on top. How short are you thinking? Like this? Learning how to dress and speak well will go miles in how professional you look. Check out r/malefashionadvice I've been browsing that subreddit for 2 years and believe I dress well. Granted, my brown shoes need to be replaced, but for a majorit…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 10:55 PM
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If you speak without using Ebonics you are already head and shoulders above other black men in the work force. I have that part covered then as I've been told that I speak white all my life and go to a PWI.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 10:36 PM
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Gotcha, I'll see what I have to sell and then do so on either platform
/r/askTRP27/05/18 08:13 PM
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Okay I gotcha. I've been doing Craigslist and OfferUp for a year buying but I've only sold 5 things there. Ebay takes 10% of computer things/camera things I wanna sell that's why I avoided that but if you say it's better I'm down
/r/askTRP27/05/18 05:16 PM
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I thought I wanted to do computer science for the rest of my life but I don't like it. I could finish my degree and keep taking the online programming classes I've been taking and gain knowledge there AND have a degree to show for it. That's my current plan
/r/askTRP27/05/18 02:31 PM
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Not at the moment. I see what you mean
/r/askTRP27/05/18 02:38 AM
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My scholarship paid for everything up until this point. If my appeal is approved, I will finish Next year all paid for. The debt I have now is from fixing my car as it broke down a few months ago. But the whole thing is that I don't know what I want to do if I get the degree anyway, but I figured I'd be better off with the degree.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 02:06 AM
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That's part of the thing. The courses I failed, I can retake and at my university it'll replace my failing grade with my new grade and only the new grade will be on my transcript.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 07:20 PM
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Okay, I appreciate it. I just heard loans were the devil and to stay away from them as much as possible. I don't know how bad 60k is but if you say it's average, I'll manage with it.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 07:06 PM
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No, it'll all come from Loans. I'm actually 5k in debt at the moment. I'm asking because I don't know what I'll do with my degree to where I'll earn the money back or it'll be "worth it" but I'm only getting the degree because more doors will be closed if I don't have a degree.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 07:02 PM
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Sounds like you're saying having any degree + being 60k in debt > not having a degree and saving 60k. And if so okay, I'll continue with my education. Appreciate the response.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 06:59 PM
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Ah, congrats. Thank you for your response.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 06:36 PM
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Mind if you have a degree, what it's in and what you do now?
/r/askTRP26/05/18 06:34 PM
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Does selling them on eBay net you more profit than reselling on Craigslist/OfferUp?
/r/askTRP26/05/18 01:23 PM
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What do you do?
/r/askTRP26/05/18 02:34 AM
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Alright thanks for the idea. I was doing this with camera equipment during the semester and I made a few hundred. I'll look for other things to flip
/r/askTRP25/05/18 08:32 PM
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Thanks, I'll look more into this. I have a little invested into Crypto (150 put in January) but I'll do more research on the topic and learn how to make some money from it.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 06:49 PM
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I'm great looking, but I'm not interested in homosexual activities. Thanks for the idea though
/r/askTRP25/05/18 06:48 PM
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Did you get this nothing box from Patrice O'Neal? I've heard him talking about that on the black Philip show and was just curious
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 02:43 PM
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That's probably true. I have given people reason to dislike me, but being cocky/funny gets me girls and I'll admit sometimes I take it too far and some think I'm genuinely an asshole. Looks like I'll have to carve my own path. It'll be fun and I'm ready to do so
/r/askTRP03/05/18 03:27 AM
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She's not "popular" but within our small 500 people she's well liked. Kind of a bumbling person who doesn't wish bad on anyone, not cool, but people know about her. Circumstances were, we've numerous had breakups and the most recent one was a fight we had and I basically said fuck it and fucked another girl. I thought it could be other things, but our mutual friends don't say hi to me anymore when I pass by them and the facts I presented in my original posts only started happening this semester
/r/askTRP02/05/18 08:20 PM
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Well before this semester everybody liked me, besides people of the rival frat at our school. I didn't have trouble making friends and my reputation was good. But like you said, there could be something about me people don't like. I believe I'm a likable person but this situation proves otherwise, so I'll reflect today.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 07:04 PM
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Yeah I have some issues and I got to figure that out.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:39 PM
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Thank you for the explanation
/r/askTRP02/05/18 02:37 PM
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That'd be nice, but we wouldn't workout. If I was with her I'd be only to make me feel better. I'm with another girl but the guilt is getting to me
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:50 AM
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I've apologized 2 weeks ago and was told I was forgiven, but it ain't feel like it. She sees me, turns around and heads the other way and I see her my stomach drops.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:49 AM
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Thanks for the straightforwardness. I know it'll take time, but what else can I do to circumvent this feeling?
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:49 AM
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https://illimitablemen.com/2017/02/23/how-to-stop-feeling-tired/
/r/askTRP13/01/18 02:20 PM
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You start with one, then you add another. Keep at it brother
/r/askTRP25/12/17 11:10 PM
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Go get you some bro. There's PLENTY out there with more turning 18 every day. Merry Christmas
/r/askTRP25/12/17 10:38 PM
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Then do that man. Your life's all you man. Do what you wanna do
/r/askTRP25/12/17 08:56 PM
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My nigga what? Big niggas can carry guns too. We talking bout shooting people or getting hoes? It's Christmas man
/r/askTRP25/12/17 08:50 PM
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Most people on TRP aren't able to do that else they wouldn't have stumbled here. They'd be too busy being rockstars in their lives to be posting and reading reddit. For everybody, lifting has never had a negative impact on your SMV. So why not lift?
/r/askTRP25/12/17 08:20 PM
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Rollo is an OG. Without his contributions we wouldn't be where we are. He also played in a band in his 20s and lived the rockstar life so the lack of lifting didn't effect him pulling girls since his SMV was already high from that.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 07:50 PM
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A girl that REALLY has her shit together in her relationship doesn't befriend men who hit on her. That's the main takeaway that makes /u/dahcima s' point more valid
/r/askTRP04/11/17 05:41 PM
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Thanks for this detailed guide. I've been applying most of it such as not posting political or sad shit, but the deleting things that didn't receive lots of likes I haven't done before. I'll keep these things in mind as I mold my page
/r/askTRP16/10/17 01:59 PM
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We usually do it on the frat account but only 1/3rd of our service events. Is that enough that I don't have to post frat stuff on my personal account or I should still every once in a while
/r/askTRP15/10/17 09:28 PM
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That's what I thought. It seems anti social not being on social media even a little and hurting the fraternity rather than helping it by showing things we're doing in the community
/r/askTRP15/10/17 08:59 PM
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I know the validation part, But if group A doesn't post shit on their Facebook/Instagram And group B is always "out and about" in the community hosting events and doing service elsewhere Group B looks a lot more involved and fun that group A
/r/askTRP15/10/17 07:04 PM
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Things like this are more what I mean https://imgur.com/a/r0a9I Imagine going to a new city for fall break and I put a caption like "when in Rome do as the romans" assuming I'm in Rome. Or does that still hurt my smv?
/r/askTRP15/10/17 07:02 PM
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I'm active on Snapchat and I put up stories when I'm on road trips to other towns. In this post I was specifically talking about Facebook and Instagram
/r/askTRP15/10/17 06:27 PM
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True that. So I'm overreacting from what could have been a worse issue than it is now and I need to behave better and chill tf out.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 02:56 AM
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Yeah, she eventually went through my Facebook and saw when I was talking to my brother about it. A week later was when she started talking to her friend about what I did and what a jerk I am.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 02:19 AM
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There was a party we were going to where that girl was gonna be there. She knows the girl likes me and I forgot what made her mad but she said "go on an fuck that little hoe you wanted to. You're single, I don't give a fuck" to where I replied "I'm not gonna fuck her" and she says " go ahead you're free. Do as you wish" With that my ego saw it as a good idea to do it so I did later that night.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 02:11 AM
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Will take note for future reference.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 07:48 PM
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Yeah it seems like it. Thanks for the reminders
/r/askTRP12/09/17 07:44 PM
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A few hours
/r/askTRP12/09/17 07:44 PM
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I cheated once by kissing her friend. The girl I fucked was after we broke up
/r/askTRP12/09/17 06:08 PM
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Damn. I appreciate you sharing your insight to me.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 05:09 PM
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That makes sense. Thanks for the explanation
/r/askTRP12/09/17 03:50 PM
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Do you wish you ended it when you had the chance?
/r/askTRP12/09/17 03:49 PM
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You're saying there's no way for us to make a monotonous relationship work anymore due to what I've done?
/r/askTRP12/09/17 03:33 PM
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My ego got all worked up and I didn't see this for what it really was. Thanks for clarifying it and setting me straight
/r/askTRP12/09/17 03:32 PM
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Thank you for your advice. I'm going through some stuff
/r/askTRP26/07/17 04:52 PM
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Pretend like every girl is a mildly-ugly chick: "I don't care about whether I get any from her, but if the opportunity presents itself, I'll fuck her as long as no one finds out." You're able to summon just the right amount of masculinity, boldness, and disregard for their opinions to touch them, tease them, marginalize them, and boss them around. This actually makes sense why it's easier to flirt or attract girls when I have a girlfriend because I treat act as if "ill fuck her as long as no one…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 04:35 AM
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Sounds easy enough. Thanks
/r/askTRP10/05/17 12:15 AM
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We're the only "minority frat" as in not IFC that throws big house parties so we got that part down. The gladiatorial style games seem interesting and could bring about lots of competition and bonding. Any more ideas you're willing to share I'm willing to listen and possibly implement
/r/askTRP08/05/17 12:10 AM
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http://longfiles.com/m5mpemtxkyx9/Daniel_Rose_Sex_God_Method_pdf.html http://pualib.com/pp.php?v=761883896
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/17 12:51 PM
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I never thought of it as "We don't want to bring you along. We want you to lead us on this trip" That puts this whole trip into a new perspective.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/17 12:13 AM
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You're right. We talked and going to an amusement park with an Easter special in a nearby city is our new plan. Something both of us want to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/17 05:06 PM
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I know exactly what you mean. A lot of the times I would rather watch porn and masterbate rather than have sex because it takes less energy, I can have a new woman to get off to and I can get back to reading/doing whatever I was doing faster. If it was another girl I see on the streets or my dorm I would have no problem fucking her in 2 seconds, but like the last girl I fucked, after you've fucked them a few times the novelty wears off and you're looking for your next target. Having sex with my …
/r/askMRP19/04/17 04:45 AM
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20 y/o in college. Relationship: I've found that I want to spend less time with my girlfriend. We're in a new country studying abroad and the reason she decided to come along was because I asked her to. I was thinking it would be a honeymoon where we explore together, have frequent sex, and grow a stronger bond. So far, only the frequent sex is happening. We practically cohabit as her room is right next to mine but she's always in my room. (Bad thing to do/have, correct?) Being around a female f…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/17 04:17 AM
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Very good way of looking at it. I'm 20 so I have time. The only reason I really feel like I'm missing out is because we're studying abroad together. When I first got here girls were all like "oh you're new here? Let me show you around ;)". "You haven't been to the clubs here before? I'll be your date!" This seems like a big deal to my because in America I'm too young to go to clubs or legally drink and here being a foreigner boosts my smv so I feel like I have even more abundance and options her…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 10:25 PM
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Thanks for the advice. Instead of looking at the other side I'll focus on my side of the grass.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 10:18 PM
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Thanks for pointing that out. I have noticed that my game has suffered a lot and instead of being known as Chinny, I'm Chinny & his girl.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 10:17 PM
1

Going out as a group seems like a good idea
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 02:02 PM
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What I really want is to be able to look back and know that I've "been there done that". I'll look at your other suggestions such as going out together. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 02:02 PM
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How do you guys deal with the fear of missing out when you're not going to the bars/clubs 3x a week with the usual college crowd? I'm in a relationship and we have frequent sex, but as I listen to the guys and girls tell stories of what they did when they got back from the night I feel like I'm missing out of the experience of banging different girls and passing them around. I know in my head that doesn't really matter, but I feel like I should be doing it.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 01:26 PM
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Yeah it's my girlfriend. We're studying abroad together at the moment and we have a lot of free time between exploring and classes
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 04:15 AM
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So if I'm barely cumming but still orgasming, should I take a break? Or just keep at it. Talking about the once or twice a day
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 01:51 AM
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Thank you so much for your responses. Reading FRs where people say things like "we fucked like rabbits all weekend" had me assuming that going for 3 rounds on a daily basis should be normal around my age.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 01:04 AM
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I've stopped jacking off and I have Sex daily. The days I have it more than twice I find it difficult to get I up the next day at least until I have a lot of foreplay. That's just the side effects of heavy lifting and frequent sex right? Only reason I'm worried is because in high school while I was going through puberty I could beat my meat 4-6 times a day (often within a few hours) and do it the next day, and then the next but it seems like I've lost that stamina.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 12:42 AM
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I'm 20 years old and while I've had no problems weightlifting, some days I'm unable to get hard and other days I can stay hard for 3 rounds. As of recently this hasn't been an issue, but I'm not sure if this is a sign I should get my T Levels checked. Should I get them checked, and if so, where can I do it in The states
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 12:16 AM
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I am, sort of. Studying abroad for a semester in another country
/r/askTRP28/03/17 05:16 AM
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I'm 20. And I know I can't be good at them all. I mainly focus on weightlifting and reading. I draw because I like recreating art I look at and play guitar since when I stopped playing pokemon and final fantasy, I wanted to learn the music to the games and the violin I've been playing as a kid is limited in the number of pop songs it can play, so I picked up guitar. How could being in my slump cause me to start lying? I'll start meditation again. I tried it last november and since then I've only…
/r/askTRP27/03/17 12:31 PM
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Gotcha, I understand what you're saying. I play league with my buddies who are at other universities to catch up and have fun, not disappear into a "fantasy land". I play basketball, lift, code, draw, play guitar and read for hobbies. I only mentioned those two since they're my favorite ones. Anything else I should do besides go camping again?
/r/askTRP27/03/17 06:53 AM
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Haha thanks for the reply. I went camping last weekend (not this one but the one before that) and it indeed did help. It helped me realize I had these thoughts and feelings in me, but not understand why I had them or what to do about them. Enjoying games and music about games make me a faggot? So being 20, I can't enjoy the things I enjoyed 4 years ago? Interesting.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 04:13 AM
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I've had the same issue if you check my post history. My decision came to this: If she's done everything in her power (besides say have a 3some or go fuck the other girls), why throw away something so good for, what you said, "scratching an itch"? That's like a drug addict wanting another hit of the drug just to relive the high. It's normal to want so, but think of the consequences. Or you could smash a chick on the low. It's your life so your decision
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/17 08:40 AM
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20, studying computer science and I have an on campus part time job. How do I get a side job/ side income? Is it too early to worry about something like this now? Should I finish school first? From what I've read, you have to have a skill to monetize to use for your side income. For programming, I'm only in my second year so I don't know how to do a lot of things. Other possible things I've thought of doing for money are: Learning to cut/style hair Boost people's accounts on LoL Be a "personal t…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 03:04 AM
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Holy shit! My girl has been asking me for sex 2-3 times a day and even and I've been like wtf is up. This explains it. Now that I'm tracking things, I'll make sure to prepare for this next time
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/17 09:48 AM
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This is what it looks like from a better angle. http://imgur.com/ff1BBfp For a 20 year old, I feel like my facial hair game is lacking
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 09:51 PM
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Cut off the mustache and keep the "beard"? Appreciate the rating and tips. I have to was pics on tinder and I've been getting matches, but using my professional camera will make them all better
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 02:16 PM
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Can I get a rating too? I have a face, body, and shirtless picture included http://imgur.com/a/4IJ8j
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 11:06 AM
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I'm hoping this reaches you and you take it in the best way possible. Back when I was in high school, I was in love with this girl. I was obsessed about her. I did everything I could do to be around her and make her fall in love with me. Long story short, she finally dated me out of pity and she broke up with me a while after. I sent her this essay of why we can make it work and she told me "I don't want to talk to you, at least for this summer". After that I found TRP. Since then, I've been lif…
/r/askTRP12/03/17 03:18 AM
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All good brotha
/r/askTRP12/03/17 02:54 AM
2

And 1 kg a week is too slow. Try losing a pound a week. Um...
/r/askTRP12/03/17 02:52 AM
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Here is an excellent guide that will get you started http://stronglifts.com/5x5/ That's what I followed my first full year of lifting weights and it helps with both fat loss and muscle building. If you have any more questions feel free to shoot me a message
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 10:23 AM
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That makes a lot of sense. Thanks for getting the words I wanted to onto my post
/r/askTRP08/03/17 03:54 AM
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I should switch to whole milk. I'm not trying to gain a lot of weight, I'm at 6'0" and 200 lbs, but rather around 15 lbs over the next 3 months. And I've realized my body is talking and I'm doing my best to listen
/r/askTRP08/03/17 02:59 AM
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I'm not talking about things as in material things, but rather rest, healthy food and water, and schedule/routine for optimal performance. Back then I could walk into the gym and go straight to my workout weight, but now if I'm going to squat 3 plates, I need to stretch and warm up and work my way up there. On top of that, I need to have had proper rest the night before.
/r/askTRP08/03/17 02:52 AM
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I agree. Having them the evening before makes it easier to plan out your day.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/17 02:59 AM
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You replied to the wrong person 😅
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 11:05 PM
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Either the red pill is unilaterally true, or it is false but the purple pill very very difficult to achieve and there is some variable that is really not well understood. I believe the purple pill or 80% red and 20% blue is the best, BUT THIS DEPENDS ON THE WOMAN. My last girlfriend was attracted to me and loyal beyond doubt. She came from a traditional Indian family with both parents together, her dad being the leader of the house (although sort of weak), n count of 0 (before me), and dependent…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 09:57 PM
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I never thought about that, I'll talk to her and her her to see what I mean
/r/askMRP26/02/17 09:44 AM
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Holy shit dude you're right. Fuck am I thinking
/r/askMRP26/02/17 09:19 AM
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Agreed, I just wanted to know that if I wanted to, I could have girls on deck since in high school i was a video game addict who played football but couldn't talk to girls (had 2 girlfriends tho). Even though I look "swole" and have a lot more social status, I still feel like the old me is valid
/r/askMRP25/02/17 09:59 PM
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Thank you for your input. You're right about her not doing something that requires nexting. Since what you're telling me that what I want will still be available to me in the future, I'll enjoy what I have now then if it doesn't work, not enter a committed relationship until I want to.
/r/askMRP25/02/17 09:25 PM
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I was hoping that men who have been married after playing the field or not playing the field would be able to give advice to a youngin like me about the situation
/r/askMRP25/02/17 06:23 AM
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Good thing you told me that because if I would have cut it off, I would have made that mistake
/r/askMRP25/02/17 06:22 AM
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Thanks for your insight. Right now, I'm 60% down for the LTR 40% wanna go hunt other girls. Until that changes, I'll stay with her
/r/askMRP25/02/17 03:54 AM
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What you're saying is, as long as I do what I want and remain with an I'm the prize mentality and abundance mentality I'll be fine in life. Thanks you for explaining
/r/askMRP25/02/17 02:28 AM
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Thanks for the explanation and reassurance. I just don't want to make potential "life altering" decisions now without the proper knowledge
/r/askMRP25/02/17 02:17 AM
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You're right. After reading all of this "enjoy the decline", "all girls are sluts" "no marriage women left" makes me believe that they're a commodity. Because of that, I don't want to throw something away that later down the road id want to have. Also I appreciate you remembering me saying this when I was 19. We fought, I took a tiny bit of the advice and fucked this other chick that was into me, but after a week of ignoring her, I decide to accept her plea and get back together because we're st…
/r/askMRP25/02/17 01:49 AM
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If other people are nailing her it might sting, but we've broken up and I fucked a chick 12 hours later so I'll be over it easily. We're staying here until July so it's gonna be a while
/r/askMRP25/02/17 01:19 AM
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You're right, thanks for putting things in perspective like that
/r/askMRP25/02/17 12:34 AM
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Thank you, I'll wait to see if it ends and if it does I'll go fuck other chicks, but I won't purposely end it just because of that
/r/askMRP25/02/17 12:33 AM
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Doing it for the wrong reason the leaving someone who cares for me (as much as girls can) and basically stranding her in a different continent with me when we planned to do thing together
/r/askMRP24/02/17 10:50 PM
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Thanks for your perspective. Did you get back with your LTR?
/r/askMRP24/02/17 10:49 PM
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Will do brother
/r/askTRP15/02/17 05:23 AM
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If that's the case I'm glad I picked this place to study aboard
/r/askTRP15/02/17 05:17 AM
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Haha that's good then. And when I'm a little buzzed I'm more steadfast in what I want so it works both ways
/r/askTRP15/02/17 05:17 AM
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Being black with an american accent (and african one since I'm bilingual) is a good thing here? I'll remember that girls are the same all around and use that accordingly.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 12:31 AM
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Thanks for the detailed information. I'll make sure to check those places out money permitting
/r/askTRP14/02/17 08:38 PM
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Haha I'll remember that. My physique is good (visible abs) and solid build, but I've only been lifting for 2 years
/r/askTRP14/02/17 07:48 PM
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Will do. Anything about the culture I should know?
/r/askTRP14/02/17 07:25 PM
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Wollongong
/r/askTRP14/02/17 07:04 PM
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That would help
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/17 09:04 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3hg6ej/talking_to_girls_like_dudes/ I had this question a year ago. Hope this helps
/r/askTRP24/01/17 06:07 PM
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Ah that makes complete sense. Rookie mistake
/r/askTRP23/01/17 10:05 PM
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Ah. I don't know why I thought that was a good idea. Thanks for explaining
/r/askTRP23/01/17 09:29 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/askTRP23/01/17 08:57 PM
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Someone correct me if I'm wrong, but from what I believe, charisma is making the other person feel warm and good around you. In this sense, talking to your daughter in a way she can't understand made her see you as not knowing what leadership meant and she got bored. If you would have talked to her in smaller words and in a time frame that her attention span can capture and maybe sprinkle some excitement in it, she'll be intrigued and feel smarter (the feeling good I was talking about earlier) a…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 11:40 AM
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But if you go TRP all the way all the time, you will never find her because if you try to plate a genuinely good, relationship oriented girl, you're going to cause her some serious trauma and get a self-fulfilling prophecy of distrust and drama. Speaking from experience, this is very true and almost the reason my current relationship ended.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 01:42 PM
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So how exactly do we support her Feelz then? My girl telling me that I'm too busy for her even though I have time and use that time to talk to her, she says I'm doing it because I'm obligated. What I did today was ignore her after that and she's messaged me to come over. Is that all I need to do to fix this issue or is there a bigger problem I'm not seeing?
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 09:07 PM
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This is what my hair looks like.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 06:17 PM
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I realize that and with the 11k in the bank and a full ride for the remainder of my 2 years I could be okay if not well off if I left home.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 03:15 PM
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As you've mentioned yes that is exactly what was going on. I remember my dad mentioning multiple times that "if I want to say I'm a grown man, he'll treat me like a grown man" by taking the things he's given me since I wanted to be independent so bad. I'll do the little things such as asking him for advice when I need to make a decision (I usually come here, but I'll chew it over with him).
/r/askTRP21/12/16 03:13 PM
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They're overly worried that this is me spreading my wings to become a disobedient child who does whatever. They think society believes if you have tats you went to jail. You wear piercings as a guy you're looked upon negatively. You wear a non professional haircut you won't get a job/whites won't hire you in their corporate because you don't fit the image.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 09:29 AM
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We talked for 2 hours after that and just when I handed them my keys my brother came in and got my dad to realize that while he was in college he had an Afro but for some reason won't let us grow out hair out. Then my dad decided to let me keep my hair and stay at home. Thank you for your suggestion
/r/askTRP21/12/16 09:16 AM
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It's my first time growing it out and as a black man that kinda takes a while. He waited until I grew it out and came home for the holidays then hit me with it. Being black, if I cut it black he'd be happy af since he's bald also
/r/askTRP21/12/16 06:30 AM
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The power of now
/r/RedPillBooks22/11/16 06:06 PM
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Shit, reading that made me feel bad for the guy but hey, he's enjoying his life. I have so much to be grateful for, especially things I was born with.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 02:42 PM
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Yes, I'm afraid it'll be a long time before I get sex, but, Sex doesn't matter to me at this point of time as much as her companionship. Studying together, cooking together, dancing, going to events, I like doing all of that with her. I've gotten used to life with her that life without her will be painful at first until I get adjusted to it. Before we met she was highly religious, virgin, good family, etc and I took her virginity and got her to have me as a boyfriend behind her parents back. I f…
/r/askMRP21/10/16 05:12 PM
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Good: I've had some insightful comments thrown my way a few days ago when I came here for help letting me know I was the main problem in my relationship. Bad: Did bad on this round of exams due to bad planning and back to back nights of cramming. I've been a shitty leader to myself and my girlfriend. I would get passive aggressive when things don't go my way and try to emotionally manipulate her. This is a comment I liked 2 years ago when I first found TRP but didn't realize until Wednesday that…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/16 03:42 PM
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I love how you played he second example off. I'll keep this in mind and work on it
/r/askMRP19/10/16 10:25 PM
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Old me might have backpedaled, but new me just says "Seriously though, did you see it? It's fucking amazing. How the fuck did she manage to get it that way?" Damn, instead of backpedaling you doubled down and things came out well. I read your whole post and you're right. I have been changing the way I am to try and prevent things from upsetting here while she should be the one preventing herself from being hurt.
/r/askMRP19/10/16 09:04 PM
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Understood. Thank you
/r/askMRP19/10/16 06:20 PM
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Will do. Thanks again
/r/askMRP19/10/16 06:20 PM
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Yes, I did change. Thanks for pointing out how bad the change was. If your leadership sucks, everyone has a shitty experience. That's what we're currently going through. You are honestly too young to lead a relationship. Is this something that'll come from age or from experience? I want to get better at this especially since I lead a few organizations and if my leadership is this shitty in one place, I'm sure that trickles to other places.
/r/askMRP19/10/16 06:11 PM
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You are a punk kid. The future me thanks you for the chord you struck me today with this comment. If the kid version of myself was looking at me today go through these things like this he would PRAY he doesn't become a bitch like this. I got complacent and comfortable and soft. Spare the rod, spoil the child. Thank you for opening my eyes. I greatly appreciate this. Everything else I need to do I now know.
/r/askMRP19/10/16 06:09 PM
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It sounds like it. I don't want to just call her crazy and say "there's nothing else I could have done" but this situation does seem major.
/r/askMRP19/10/16 05:51 PM
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Very true. I replied to your other comment.
/r/askMRP19/10/16 05:49 PM
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Yeah I am 19. Since I have nothing to hide or lie about here, the reason I'm not going out looking for other girls is because I'm one of those guys who got little female attention before college and here I just snatched up the first one I could find. I've still got this scarcity mindset. I'm part of the 5% minority at my private university. I'm not in any of the big frats. The one I'm, our chapter is (7 members) small on this campus while at public schools or predominantly minority schools our n…
/r/askMRP19/10/16 05:49 PM
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huge insecurity She's insecure. It got to this level because of the situations I've been in. Is it possible for her to re trust me or will this be something that even if we stay together 20 years she's going to bring up? Stop worrying about hurting her feelings Funny thing. First 6 months of the relationship I was like that. Everything went fine and even when I was in the wrong, I wasn't wrong. 2 weekends ago, we go on a retreat and there I talk to her about the relationship and she tells me tha…
/r/askMRP19/10/16 05:34 PM
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Focus on your education and making yourself into the strongest, most self reliant, most ambitious man that you can. Make your education and the development of your earning ability your top priorities. That's what I'm currently doing 90% of the time. The other 10% I'm not, its because I'm consoling some issue we had with her feeling unwanted because she didn't want to work out 6am, I left her to go work out and she's upset about that. Or that girl was flirting with me and I still have her a hug b…
/r/askMRP19/10/16 05:14 PM
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Your wife is only as shitty as you let her be. I don't let my wife be shitty, ergo, I don't have a shitty wife. If my wife still tried to be shitty, regardless of my actions, I would disregard her as a wife until she decided not being shitty was in her best interest. If your marriage is shitty and your wife is shitty, it's because you are shitty. Stop being a shitty faggot. Truer words have never been spoken. I've been a shitty faggot, if you check my update, by the things I've done in the "Reas…
/r/askMRP19/10/16 05:08 PM
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I don't commute but as I walk to classes I always have ear buds in. Studying? Earbuds. Showering? Music playing. Cooking? Music. I read physical books and pdf's on my laptop if I don't have the book yet. I started meditating for 20 minutes but I only find it bearable with, yeah as you can guess, music. So yeah, I have a huge problem with doing things in silence or without white noise I played football and basketball in high school so lifting was easy to continue in college. Like I said earlier i…
/r/askMRP19/10/16 04:57 PM
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Thank you for this and you're completely correct about everything. Things happen in our lives because of the actions we took and didn't take to get them there. If I'm not going to continue pushing myself even though I'm "tired", I'll never get there. Of course we get tired, of course it's frustrating when your mind reaches the level of Chuck Norris but your body is still Peter Griffin. What if it's the other way around? Lifting, sports, physical things are easy for me and I can endure them. Ment…
/r/askMRP19/10/16 04:40 PM
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Alright, let me edit my post and put my specific situation and my actions so far.
/r/askMRP19/10/16 04:22 PM
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I understand that, but no one that I can think of is always at 100% and some days I personally feel temporarily defeated.
/r/askMRP19/10/16 04:20 PM
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Understood. I forgot that only I am responsible for my happiness.
/r/askMRP19/10/16 03:51 PM
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Are you asking literally or rhetorically? I'm studying for my midterms.
/r/askMRP19/10/16 03:50 PM
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Not if they know how to use a safe word
/r/askTRP03/10/16 02:49 PM
1

I'll go finish that book then. Thank you
/r/askTRP29/09/16 09:11 PM
1

Ah. Then I haven't figured out my calling. What if I just want fuck you money to do whatever I want in life? Is that a calling?
/r/askTRP29/09/16 08:53 PM
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Is lifting weights a calling?
/r/askTRP29/09/16 07:10 PM
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I've wondered why my girlfriend would sometimes start drama over stupid things or suddenly become irrational. Also, she tended to respond better when instead of giving her a logical response I give her an emotional one ex: Her: "You're only using me for sex" Me: "How could you think such a thing?! YOU are only using me for my muscles, connections, and the fact that I can make your friends and their boyfriends jealous. How inconsiderate of you!" All in a non serious, almost like I'm playfully ang…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 06:46 PM
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I have the rice cooker with steamer but forgot I could cook veggies on it. As for the heavy lifting, I'm currently doing PPL that was posted on r.fitness and only my first lifts of the day are heavy. Everything else is light. I'll invest in a blender so I can blend fruits and make smoothies for more calories. Thanks for all of your replies. I have a better idea of what to do now
/r/askTRP12/09/16 10:30 PM
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It's a stem major so I see where you're coming with this. I'll keep at it and once I'm out it'll be easier.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 10:15 PM
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I've never had issues going to sleep. I can chug down coffee and sleep right after. I feel like the caffeine doesn't really do anything anymore but is more of a placebo as I've gone the last 2 days without caffeine and haven't passed out from exhaustion,but I did take long naps. The latest I take caffeine (I take pills, 200mg) is 5pm. I try to go to bed by 11 but usually go to bed by 12 finishing around the house tasks (dishes, straightening room, schedule for tomorrow, stretching, replying to e…
/r/askTRP12/09/16 10:15 PM
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Will do. I have vegetables in my freezer that I've never touched since I bought them. I'll change that
/r/askTRP12/09/16 10:03 PM
1

I used to nap for 15 minutes, then I replaced that with either caffeine or an hour 30 min nap. I rarely drink
/r/askTRP12/09/16 10:02 PM
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No, I do not. I average 6-7 hours but make up with it for caffeine. I'm planning to move my workouts from morning to night so I can sleep in 2 more hours and be better rested for my days
/r/askTRP12/09/16 09:40 PM
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Thanks for the insight. Today I went to the gym without a plan besides a few Olympic lifts and a lot of stretching and I feel like I accomplished more today than other times at the gym pushing to my max. The food thing I forgot about. I'm trying to bulk and after eating whole foods wasn't helping me gain weight I started eating more junk food for extra calories but that caught up to me mentally. I'll go back to cooking meals and ill drink more milk for extra calories.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 09:14 PM
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I went from cooking my meals to having cereal and pb&j. Water I'm sure I'm not drinking enough due to my urine being yellow For sleep, only on the weekends do I get 8 hours. Weekdays I get 6-7 hours. I think you pointed out issues I didn't even think about. Thank you for this.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 07:55 PM
1

Is school really harder than the real world? From what everyone else says, the opposite is true.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 07:50 PM
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In other words that's what I mean. What I'm trying to say is that I have enough time in my day to at least knock out all the essentials, but after working, class, then studying, I'm mentally drained and can't do the other things. Is this something I can overcome by keeping at this schedule until my body adjusts to it?
/r/askTRP12/09/16 06:30 PM
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Understood
/r/askTRP12/09/16 04:52 PM
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My priorities are: Essentials School Work Basketball Lifting Extras Reading Drawing Photography Guitar But studying has went from taking 10 hours a week to 20 because I have exams coming up and don't know the material well enough. Because of this I'm not really lifting or if I do it's not a full workout. The extras I haven't touched also.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 04:28 PM
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My nigga. I was having an alright day, but this just made my day great. Enjoy your weekend you fucking sick kunt
/r/askTRP09/09/16 10:13 PM
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Thanks for the alternate solution. I was looking at it from the situation if one of her girl roommates's guy friends left a note in her room how I would react and think about things from her point of view. She could claim oh its just a friend or she didn't know he put that there, it's an old friend and that would raise suspicion to me if she tried so hard to get me to ignore it or say it's no big deal.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 12:24 PM
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Her and I were mentors together for a year and she's one of their close friends. It's not some random girl.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 09:05 PM
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Thanks for your opinion. Next time that happens I'll let her know. But I mean, if you're in college, your best course of action is to spin plates. True. Last year I wanted something stable because I figured sex on the regular is nice and "girls don't want to be used for only sex". After a year I've learned it's not all flowers and rainbows.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 08:57 PM
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Oh damn, so that's what's really going on? Would the ideal thing to do leave her room and tell her when she's over her feelings to then talk to me?
/r/askTRP19/08/16 08:45 PM
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What happen to that chick who swerved you that you swerved? Did she talk to you during the 6 months you were recovering or after words?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 10:09 PM
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Along with working 8-16 hours a day, I also spend hours each week cooking, eating, stretching, researching etc. Shit becomes a mission after a while. I feel the same way you do. Do you know a way to turn that into a business or something lucrative?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 03:47 PM
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Cool, I didn't know I could have an online checking account through them. I'll look into that. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 04:36 PM
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Alright, thank you. My rainy day money should be in my savings account for my bank, but the interest rate for the online account is a lot better (1%vs.02%). Should I still put some of that money into a rainy day fund instead of keeping it online? For major emergencies I can always call my parents.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 02:44 PM
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For a college student working part time, how much money should I try to save? For now, I have $950 in my Ally savings account and try to save AT LEAST 10% of my income to put it there. If I continue this through my next 3 years of college will that put me on the right track, or is there more I can do?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 02:18 PM
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I realize that now and I'll be better prepared for it in the future.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 02:19 AM
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Guys are usually more fun to talk to. Most of the girls I talk to either talk about gossip or social media. Hanging with the right guys can give you an outlet to vent emotions, people to bounce ideas with, guys to play sports with or go on an adventure with.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 08:12 PM
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I got it. Im already in a frat and pursuing a comp sci degree as well
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 04:14 PM
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They would always give me shit for my feelings (looking back it was mainly banter) and I would always take it to heart plus they would go smoke and drink every weekend. Don't get me wrong, I like doing that, but I was trying to not do it as much so I wound up declining 90% of their invites. But that'll change this upcoming semester.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 03:20 PM
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Because socially awkward losers don’t have many friends, they don’t have anywhere else to go or anybody else to hang out with. They’re always around. Always calling, always texting, they want to go out every single weekend. She’s worn out from his neediness, because unlike she initially expected when dating a man, he hasn’t been using her primarily for sex. He’s been using her for everything. Friendship, emotional support, validation, entertainment. He doesn’t have any friends, so in addition to…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 03:14 PM
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Didn't you make this post a while back? https://archive.is/1SjoH
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 01:31 PM
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That's good to hear, I'll stay tuned. I enjoy self improvement a lot, but I like knowing it'll lead me somewhere. I lift because I don't want to be old, out of shape and unhealthy. I save money becuase I don't want to live paycheck to paycheck. I play instruments becuase I like creating music and playing it rather than just listening to it. I code because it'll give me great money and make life easier if I'm not broke. I don't do any of these because I "love" them except lifting. It's more of th…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 01:34 AM
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Value is ... your income and expenditure for getting what you want from the world. Is it possible to accumulate value but there be nothing you want to spend it on? I've been improving myself all around, but there's not a specific thing I want to focus on "getting" with my value or goal I want to reach. It's like I'm saving money (value) just for the sake of having money. I don't have anything I want to buy, but I hear that having lots of money (value) is good so I'm getting more.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 12:10 AM
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6'2" 192lbs right now. I said weak hamstrings since I never really trained them and thought I had bad anterior pelvic tilt caused by weak abs, weak hamstrings, tight hips and weak lower back. Further examination shows that I have 0 internal hip rotation which I'm working on fixing now. Also my grip strength is weak af. I find myself dropping weight mid shrug and deadlift because of that, then I found /r/griptraining
/r/askTRP29/06/16 01:53 AM
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Now I'm on the PPL program from /r/fitness. I bench 205 for 5x5 Squat 310 for 5x5 And DL 390 for 1x5. Most pullups I've gotten in a row (after 2 previous exercises) were 12. Chinups I got 15. Never did the first thing in the gym tho.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 01:41 AM
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I've been lifting for 10 months straight since college started and on and off during football season in high school. I cut down to what I would say 14% bf but started bulking again this summer.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 01:28 AM
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Oh okay, this is better in terms of leading the conversation to an interesting place. Thanks for showing me the right comment.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 11:33 PM
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I found the comment and learned about a subreddit that I didn't even know existed. Thanks for showing me this.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 10:43 PM
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Thank you! I'll read that book. The fear of communicating is coming from feeling under prepared in the art (or just basic skill) of communication. But like you've shown me I'm overthinking things.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 09:39 PM
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Give her something to use as an excuse to how "it just happened". Makes her feel like shes not coming over to just get dicked, even though she is. In this context, she'll say (or think) "I just came over to watch a movie and then it just happened" (sex that is).
/r/askTRP18/06/16 02:58 AM
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Very interesting life you've lived. It's just game that you design, make it fun and profitable. I get this now. You ever played a game like Skyrim where after the main quest (graduating college) you're left on your own to do whatever you want? I need to figure out what I want then progress in that direction. That's what I've realized reading the answers here.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 06:52 PM
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I'll soul search. Thanks for your guidance!
/r/askTRP01/06/16 06:49 PM
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Thank you for this. I don't know what I want to do, but I know that I don't want to work under someone my whole life. With that being said, I do want to own companies, or something at least so I can generate passive income and live off of interest and passive income hopefully by 30. I have the end idea in mind, but don't know what the first few steps are. In order to get passive income I need a skill I can monetize. That's why I'm coding, learning how to draw, and learning Spanish. That's as far…
/r/askTRP01/06/16 06:07 PM
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I was unemployed for about a year after graduation so I just smoked weed played video games and worked out every day, and would go out still only on he weekends. Made some serious gains "and hit Plat 2 lol) This was my freshman year of college, except I got to plat 1. Also dude get some cool hobbies! I got into bodybuilding this year also. If you're lucky enough to only work part time or less during undergrads you have to see this as 4 free years to LITERALLY IMRPOVE all aspects of your life. I …
/r/askTRP01/06/16 05:59 PM
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Isn't that setting the bar low for yourself? As an immortal mortal shouldn't you aim for at least super saiyan 3?
/r/askTRP01/06/16 04:24 PM
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Thank you for sharing this. I see this all now as part of the process to go where we want to go. I see that you've found space to squeeze in down time in your daily activities and that might be what I lacked and made my grind feel horrible. Like you said it is a marathon, not a sprint.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 04:23 PM
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It's just life, so I understand and keep moving forward. I know most things mental, physical, and emotional will pass but I will always be with myself. Thank you. You've explained something to me that I never thought about.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 02:21 PM
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Alright, I better understand now. For your ambitions, do you have a set few that you cycle through or is it something you do until you don't feel like it anymore then move onto something new?
/r/askTRP01/06/16 01:27 PM
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What are you doing daily to help you reach those goals? Are there specific things or is it more like go to work, save a lot, etc?q
/r/askTRP01/06/16 01:14 PM
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What do you mean being a man? I understand the part about the ambitions changing, but what does being a man mean to you? Also, what's your life mission?
/r/askTRP01/06/16 01:13 PM
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Off topic from the discussion, but you brought up something I find myself yearning for more and more. it's about an intimate personal connection. What if the #1 thing I enjoy most with my girlfriend isn't the sex, but rather the feeling of the intimate personal collection? I'd like nothing more than for us to lay down together and talk about personal experiences, childhood memories and listen to songs by drake 24/7. With her I can be vulnerable (to a degree) and not worry about her calling me a …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 04:17 AM
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Found this gem in the video description, but it's nothing we already don't know. My Thai Bride is a controversial and widely acclaimed feature documentary that provides a unique insight into the Thai-foreigner marriage industry. My Thai Bride has been screened and won awards at a number of prestigious international film festivals including IDFA in Amsterdam, Hot Docs in Toronto and the Antenna International FF in Sydney. My Thai Bride tells the true story of Ted, a 46-year old salesman from Wale…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 03:48 PM
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This was a very insightful read and it helped me understand a lot of things about myself I had questions about.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 12:39 PM
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Dominant > Domineering - know the difference. A lot of times I think I'm being dominant when in reality I'm being domineering. How can I shift from domineering to dominant?
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 02:03 PM
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Thank you for this post. This is the number one issue I've been having. Only feeling happy sometimes because I'm doing something rather than being happy existing.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 11:01 AM
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Gotcha. I'll check out more young dolph. I've heard him mentioned before but never paid attention
/r/askTRP08/05/16 03:49 PM
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I think thug dresses feminine for attention because that's what sets him apart. Music wise, he seems to know his shit.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 03:12 PM
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I agree. I felt the same about reading bones's album names (or team sesh I guess). Reminded me of those middle school life sucks, fuck the world, I'm emo. How about Young thug and Future? They make lots of bangers and I find myself jamming out to them in the gym. Both repeatedly talk about where their loyalty lies (not in women).
/r/askTRP08/05/16 02:33 PM
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Can you expand more on why you dont like $uicideboys and bones? A few of my bros just introduced them to me and so far I like the vibe it gives off. Their album southsidesucide is really the only one i've listened to thus far, so that's what my comparison is based off of.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 02:26 PM
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Thank you for your reply. Have a great day
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 12:45 AM
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Bonus affect: I LOVE when people talk about me behind my back, whether its good or bad. It makes me bigger than life. This is happening to me right now and I never looked at it like you did. If they're taking time out of their (meaningless) lives to talk shit about me, I must have did something to stay on their minds and as they say, good or bad attention is better than no attention. Don't ask others for advice. That's a sign of insecurity and a way of not being bold and authentic. Holy fuck, th…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 12:10 AM
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Again, I always thought that living together is a bad thing because it hinders your dread game. True. Thanks for calling me out on that. If you live with her and suppose you're not having sex that night, she'll know that. Assume you both live separate, you could go to her place, hear no sex, then jet and make her feel like you have options elsewhere. The same thing for marriage, and on a smaller scale, relationship titles. When a man is in a relationship and is the girl's boyfriend, he, (accordi…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 04:41 PM
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Doesn't the "girlfriend" label apply social restrictions to her as well? It does, but society is more lenient on it. "Of course it's okay to have girls night out once a week even though you're in a relationship. That's normal!"
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 03:45 PM
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Excellent video. This hits the nail on the head
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 01:41 PM
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While I agree with you, I can see why video games are blown off in this sub. This comes down to the crowd that identifies as gamers vs what they actually do/people who represent them. Look at TRP for example. To outsiders, we're creepy neck beard rapists. Think of your casual gamer. What type of picture does that paint for you? Fat, unmotivated individual who does nothing but game. If you wish to game do so. If you're hitting all goals you want to in your life there's nothing wrong with gaming. …
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 05:04 PM
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Thank you for your experience and the reading on the trees. It puts this into perspective for me.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 05:13 PM
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Maybe gaming isn't that bad. I'll stay away from things like league of legends but I might pick up pokemon again. I play guitar, or rather I'm learning it, but haven't touched it in a week. Truth be told, I dropped a few classes due to not going as hard as I should have on my studies. Thanks for reminding me to focus 100% on them first, then everything else second.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 04:13 PM
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I haven't heard of that. I'll see if that describes my situation.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 04:08 PM
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Very true. I'll work on that. Thank you.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 04:07 PM
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Yeah this is my first serious relationship. It gets better with time is what everyone is telling me, but is there a way to speed that up?
/r/askTRP28/04/16 03:52 PM
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i remind to myself that being alone is my normal state of being I guess it has to become my normal state of being also. All my life I've had siblings with me at home, friends at school (high school) and an LTR with me (college). I have never spent more than 16 hours alone-alone.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 01:15 PM
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while I'm doing nothing. Why are you "doing nothing"? After an hour of reading or drawing I just think " I'm bored of this. Let me do something else"then I either think of what I'd do with my ex or what I'd do with others. I think I just crave social interaction. I thought I was an introvert, but after being around people so long it feels weird, almost depressing to be alone for too long. You should be using downtime to improve yourself. I do but after a while I feel "left out". All my life I've…
/r/askTRP28/04/16 01:12 PM
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Sorry for what happened. I'm sure we'll both get over this fear. Good luck on your Monk mode.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 01:07 PM
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Thank you for the words. I already do some of those things but I'll tack on others and work on getting rid of my vices.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 04:11 AM
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Thank you for your advice and direction.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 12:09 AM
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I don't know exactly what I hate, but being alone (alone as in the only one at a place, not left alone when others are there) Makes me feel like something is missing. An achievement, girl, company, partner, friend, someone to spend time with. Especially since the whole year I've studied in my room or my ex's room with her so just studying alone feels different. It lets me reflect on my fuck ups vividly and my most recent one being the break up makes me think about my ex sometimes. I feel exclude…
/r/askTRP27/04/16 11:54 PM
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You can lift MWF, Karate T/Th and play team sports on the weekend or do Karate once a week.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 09:02 PM
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NEED -- think about that word. You don't need shit. Especially from retards on the internet. Need is the wrong word. Want would better fit there. Thanks for bringing my attention to my language and wording. Get fucked. Haven't heard this in forever. This honestly made me smile.
/r/askMRP25/04/16 07:03 PM
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you admit the problems in your relationship has been because of your fuckups - you admit you have been shitty in it. you are inconsistent (either you are with her, or maybe you dont want to be. you are happy, you are miserable... there is no frame.) you are failing her shit tests without backbone. you cave when she says you don't care. you re not LEADING her to an awesome adventure of life. Amen, I'm failing in all those categories. #'s 2 and 4 are the reason everything else is failing. How can …
/r/askMRP25/04/16 06:46 PM
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You have some SERIOUS figuring out to do here. Don't procrastinate it. Do it. Yes sir, I do. I'll have a good ass talk with myself the rest of the day before I open my mouth to her. I want to be honest with myself the path I decide to take.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 06:28 PM
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You say you like the "predictability" of LTRs, so I assume you at least partially encouraged this. But all this does is get you a sequence of boring girlfriends. You're not using TRP to be an engaging, attractive, exciting personality. You're mostly using it to psychologically bludgeon your girlfriend into submission. Which I wouldn't even judge, but you're clearly so fucking bored by it that you don't even want a girl who is willing to do this! This hurts reading because it is true. I have blud…
/r/askMRP25/04/16 06:26 PM
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You're fucking right. Look at my post history, ask any of my friends around. ASK MY GIRLFRIEND FOR FUCKS SAKE. Before I do anything I research, ask around, find people who've done it before all because I'm scared to take risks. I remember my girlfriend told me "I know it's cool you read guides and everything, but don't you think you should go live your life and write your own story?" At the time I brushed it off thinking she didn't know better, but here I am, on an internet form, asking people f…
/r/askMRP25/04/16 06:20 PM
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No, that's not what I was trying to say with this quote. I meant that I fucked up in the relation ship. I didn't set and enforce boundaries. I'm not blaming her, all the blame is on me. But thank you for taking your time to respond to me. Your last post really resonated with me and you've helped me answer my own question. I know what I'm going to do now.
/r/askMRP25/04/16 06:15 PM
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Thank you for the truth. Especially about the part that we're kids. She'll find somebody else and so will I. We're NOT married and have only been dating for 8 months. It might hurt now, but we'll be okay.
/r/askMRP25/04/16 06:13 PM
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This is MRP - where we try to make our relationships work. It sounds to me you should go to AskTRP - where you can look at how to make someone a plate Understood. I was wondering if I should try to make it work or just end it. At TRP all they say is "there's no snowflake. Next." and while I agree with it, some relationships can be fixed if the man knows what he wants and is willing to lead. But that leads me to your next quote: It sounds to me like you are not ready to settle down. that you do n…
/r/askMRP25/04/16 06:11 PM
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No, it's not the best I can do. But do you blame the kid for growing up badly or do you blame the parents? I know I'm just reaching now, but I feel that a majority of this is my fault for not setting boundaries early enough. Best option would be to chalk this up as a loss and leave, based on everything you're telling me, correct?
/r/askMRP25/04/16 06:07 PM
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Thank you, I was told to ask here since I guess it's ok to ask folks on RPW and MRP about how to do it properly, if you do care enough to do it.
/r/askMRP25/04/16 06:05 PM
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because you're afraid of being alone Bingo. Yes, this is the truth I have been afraid to admit. How do I fix this? If I had no issue being alone, I wouldn't go through so much shit to not be alone. haven't fucked enough women to temper your emotional investment. She's the only girl I've fucked. We're each other's firsts. In the perfect world, that should make us happy and attached to each other, but I should also be man enough to lead the relationship which is where I've dropped the ball.
/r/askMRP25/04/16 05:59 PM
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I agree, but the "breaking up" was nothing more then her getting upset and blocking my number/facebook, crying in her room for an hour, then coming to mine asking why I'm such a jerk and didn't go to check on her. It hasn't been over anything big.
/r/askMRP25/04/16 05:58 PM
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"I don't know what I want in an LTR". Imagine how excited a dog gets to see their owner, the loyalty a dog has to it's owner. That's what I want. I just want a girl who is happy to see me, sees me as an asset in her life, and I view her the same. In order to have that, I need to be the man and uphold a specific standard and pass shit tests. "I don't know if I want a LTR. Do I?" I've explained the problem I have in my LTR. Basically, I fucked up and she forgave me, she just didn't forget. It's ev…
/r/askTRP25/04/16 05:56 PM
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Thank you for the reassurance. I just don't want to do that to someone.
/r/askMRP25/04/16 05:44 PM
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I would like to think that I'm not. I've been on TRP for 2 years and after all that self improvement, girls are finally showing me attention and hitting on me without me doing much. That has gotten to my head and I forgot the promise I made to the girl I was with. That's what I think my issue is. Regardless, like you said, I need to be the type of man I want to be.
/r/askMRP25/04/16 05:29 PM
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Understood and thank you. My main question is, why am I like this? Is it because of my lack of experience? Because I haven't had enough sex to see it's not all about sex? Because this is my first real relationship? Because she has everything I wanted, but when I first cheated on her a month in, since then, nothing's been the same. We had our honeymoon phase, but after that everything has been grim/we're always fighting. I will admit this is my fault, but why, what caused me to behave in such a w…
/r/askMRP25/04/16 05:23 PM
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People in MRP want their LTRs and they're enhancing it by applying RP. No space for figuring out there, they already know. I see. So I shouldn't ask there then, for the second question. You want a woman that loves you unconditionally, like your mother does, but with sex. Basically, but not exactly. I wish we could have our old relationship where she would text me every hour saying "I love you" or "When are you getting out of class?!" dying to see me. The honeymoon phase has passed and now it's m…
/r/askTRP25/04/16 05:18 PM
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19, freshman in college. I was sent here from asktrp from a user who suggested I ask here.
/r/askMRP25/04/16 05:14 PM
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you don't want to change now Very true. I can't deny that. I guess it's ok to ask folks on RPW and MRP about how to do it properly, if you do care enough to do it. Last time I went there I got crucified. I don't know exactly what I want yet. I want my freedom, but I also want something reliable. Relationships give me the reliability that I crave, but plate spinning gives me my freedom. I know it's not something I can ask you guys here for and you can tell me what I want, but how do I find what I…
/r/askTRP25/04/16 04:56 PM
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Learn to be emotionally independent and enjoy being fully single. Ever since I've been at college I haven't been single. This is something I really need to work on. The hot cold breakup mess is an indicator that you have trouble finding new options. Very true. She has everything I look for in a Long term partner, but it's the fact that I fucked things up to where I can't post a picture on Instagram with me next to some girls in my sister sorority without her wondering why I'm standing next to th…
/r/askTRP25/04/16 04:32 PM
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Lol you mixed being a complete bastard and TRP guidelines completely up Yes sir, this is completely true. Last semester I was still learning. Now I'm reflecting on that and see how shitty of a person I am/was. But what really does piss me off is that your actively trying to convince her that you are vested, you are the fucktwat that messes up these women I know I am the problem and I don't want to be anymore. Thankfully, this is the first time I've done something like this. I don't want to be th…
/r/askTRP25/04/16 04:29 PM
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I tried 3. Came to her room last night with my voice cracking begging her to remember the old times we had and how were going to be throwing that all away. It worked, but she asked me if she did what I did to her if I would still stay. I told her no and that's ultimately what made me realize how shitty I've been with her. But I might not even want to break up. I haven't had sex in a few days so any girl trying to give me some is catching my attention. I think I should beat my meat then device ve…
/r/askTRP25/04/16 03:50 PM
1

Water based lube burns when it touches there. Having sex without lube is doable but the lube is what causes the pain.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 02:56 AM
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I will get one once I either live off campus, or finish university. I have some good male friends, but they're the ones that just want to smoke and drink all weekend and watch movies. Some of them have started going to the gym though.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 06:25 PM
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They lie constantly. It's a very routine, simple thing for them. Can't really 100% trust any woman, ever. If you go LTR you gotta accept that you need to be prepared to split immediately at any time. That's why it's advised not to ever move in with a girl and NEVER marry. 15 year relationship with no big issues, still totally in love? She'll fuck Chad anyway. They're fucking idiots. I feel this is where I dropped the ball. My girlfriend and I have rooms right next to each other in our dorm. We p…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 05:30 PM
1

Honestly it is not possible to portray what meditating is like in words, the things I consistently feel and experience. Meditation makes you feel and experience more? There was a picture going around that said something like "I gained nothing from meditation but lost anxiety, fear of death, etc." I grew up as an avid gamer, I can have experiences more amazing meditating than gaming these days, I love it that much. I also grew up a gamer so I'm hoping my experience will be like yours. Every human…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 05:13 PM
1

I personally don't see how sitting and doing nothing is supposed to help clear my head, but if it has been recommended to me this many times I'll give it a shot.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 03:02 PM
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I don't understand this need to pigeonhole an entire sex based on their AVERAGE biological differences. I'm sure most will be the average "bitchtina" or whatever but surely there will be some outliers. If that's what this post came off as then I missed my intended purpose. What I was saying is that most of the stuff I read here is true. An example of this is AWALT. Not exactly ALL women are like that, but they all have the possibility to do/be like that. Probably a horrible example but imagine t…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 02:44 PM
1

I've read that and the lesson, I feel, isn't particularly only love. Love might have been beginning realization and if it was only that it wouldn't have struck me so hard. It's not that I was lied to about love, but rather I was lied to about life.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 02:36 PM
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That's exactly what happened. Imagine seeing death in movies and books you've read. That's nothing compared to seeing death in person.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 12:39 PM
2

That's very interesting and I can now see it. Thanks for bringing it up.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 12:37 PM
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Yeah can you send me a link? I'd like that. Congrats on your success. That's something to be proud of.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 03:34 AM
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I actually looked and took pictures with her phone. I can confirm that there are 2 almost small gash marks near the entrance. Could be from once I tried fingering her but my nails were a bit long.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 02:47 AM
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That sounds more understand. You can move through the states at different times.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 02:41 AM
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Same thing happen, minus dick in her vagina. But it's scary seeing in person how easy it is for them to lie to people. You think you'll hear hesitation or stuttering but it comes out as if it's the truth.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 02:33 AM
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She doesn't withhold it, or say bad things about the relationship, but she's had a cut near her vagina. Some days she has no problems having sex, but other days she complains it hurts. I'm not her so I don't know how intense it is, but that's just my take on it.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 11:51 PM
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One thing that I can tell you is: If you don't fucking trust your girl 100% than just demote her to plate, it is THAT simple. Up until last night I could trust her 99.9%. After seeing her lie to her best friend "No, I'm not with Chinny. I'm out eating!" While she was with me to avoid spending time with her and spend time with me. While it's nothing major, it's still a lie. Being is a serious relationship is draining enough with someone you trust, with someone you don't trust is unbearable. 100% …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 11:30 PM
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In his defense, most of the things taught here should be taught to boys growing up my their father figure.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 10:16 PM
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Holy shit that makes a hell of a lot more sense when you spell it out like that. TRP tells you to work on improving yourself so that at the end of the day the possible outcomes are all positive: She leaves you for X reason but it doesn't matter because you were more valuable and can replace her. You decide to leave her because you feel you can do better/you don't like the way she's behaving. She sees your improvement and decides to up her game also. She might even ask you for advice or decide to…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 01:43 PM
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Oh, that's where I fucked up then. I've used that twice before and we did break up before (last week) but within that same night she came crying back to me telling me she'll be less childish and we can have a stable relationship. Guess she's called my bluff by me taking her back after what happened. I fucked up big time, I realize now.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 02:06 AM
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Hey man there's nothing wrong with wanting to trade up if you want. If your girl is adding stress to your life that might be a good choice. I understand. If she keeps being stressful toward my life I'll drop her. What I meant in that post was that some girls purposely try to entice jealousy in my girlfriend for being with me. This one girl straight out IGNORES my girlfriend and walks up to me and says hi even after my girlfriend said hi to her. I feel like me associating with those girls (not th…
/r/askTRP18/04/16 06:48 PM
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Comfort tests all the way. Since you failed the first comfort test the second morphed into a shit/comfort test hybrid. She wants to know your shit is together enough to pass her comfort tests, funny enough. Understood. Makes a lot of sense. A good mindset for comfort tests would be "I can't help if other girls hit on me, that's just a fact of my life. But right now I choose to be with you." I'll adapt this mindset. I mentally feel like I'm walking on eggshells whenever an attractive girl I know …
/r/askTRP18/04/16 05:59 PM
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Jesus, you do it all. Have a good ass day
/r/askTRP18/04/16 04:45 PM
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Damn, you make it so easy. I need to reread the sidebar as I'm forgetting how to answer the easy shit like that. Thanks bro.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 04:17 PM
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then grab her and do what you want. I was planning on doing that, but that would lead to starfish sex which, while I still get off, I feel it enables her to act like that because she can still get dick. Thank you for the explanation. Edit: What if she accuses me of "acting that way when you don't get sex"/"you only want to have sex with me"? How would I respond?
/r/askTRP18/04/16 04:08 PM
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B) Haha, that's how I know you're still young! Glad you were able to find this at a young age like I did. Hope prom goes well for you.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 11:53 PM
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I'll do that. Thanks.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 08:18 PM
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I did before but not consistently enough to see results I was told. I'll give it another go for at least 2 weeks.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 07:45 PM
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I will. I'm not working the next 2 weekends so I had to make up for lost income. Hopefully things stay nice with the extra time to rest.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 07:45 PM
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I'm currently cutting so I'm eating less than I usually do. Because of that (I assume) my appetite dropped to where I'll eat one maybe 2 meals a day with a protein shake and not feel hungry but tired. Also I'm working late hours to save money to take summer classes so lack of adequate food and rest could be it.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 07:17 PM
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Recently I downloaded a motivation video to watch before I went to work; I also loaded my playlist with stuff that 'boosts' my mood while walking to work. This really helps me stay in that focused zone as most of my negative experiences happen at work. I do the same thing with my workout playlist before going to the gym! It really helps. I'll try listening to it every day instead of when I'm going to the gym. Thing about meditation is that it works, but you don't realise that it is working until…
/r/askTRP10/04/16 04:13 PM
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Picking the right one. I've never realized that. Ultimately I pick what I'll act like. This is powerful. I'll check out the podcasts. Thanks for the suggestion.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 03:53 PM
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Soon as something happened that I viewed as a negative event, my mindset changed into the negative one. I can see that being true for me too, but it feels like when I'm more neutral I'm prone to that happening. If I'm "in the zone" and a random person comes up to me saying 'You're a piece of shit.' I'll probably respond with 'Fuck you too bitch' or 'That makes 2 of us then' and smirk, or simply smile and ignore them. If the same thing happened to me while I'm neutral I'll think to myself 'Wow, w…
/r/askTRP10/04/16 03:52 PM
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This guy wants money. That guy is me and I agree with you although I love psychology and philosophy. I heard a saying that you should major in something lucrative and minor in what you love. If you're really headstrong about psychology I wish you the best of luck and hope you find the answers you're looking for.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 05:12 PM
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Please no http://archive.is/SVQdF
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 12:40 PM
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Thanks again for your opinion. I'll get onto learning it.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 06:54 PM
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Thank you so much. I'll admit I know nothing about this and was blindly going off of assumption that I'll need to know Java for class but now I see the error of my ways. Thank you for helping me and even saving my future. Like seriously, sorry for all my earlier replies that seemed retarded and off-putting. I'm just a 19 year old not knowing anything about coding trying to tell someone else what I'll do when the other person knows more about it than I do and is offering their time to explain. I'…
/r/askTRP31/03/16 04:52 PM
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This is exactly what I was looking for. Someone to tell me that reading and knowing more won't help me. I already know enough to be okay. Once I'm okay at something, THEN I should seek out more information. Instead I have been seeking the best of the best info just to begin something and this has been killing my time.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 04:27 PM
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Look into behavioral economics. Read some Malcolm Gladwell. The psychology of decision making is permeating into business, law, etc. I chose another route (physician), but I would've pursued this field otherwise. Worst case, you read some very interesting books. I've read his book outliers and enjoyed it. I'll look into this and see what it entails before making my major change.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 04:14 PM
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practical application rather than an academic (teaching, research) approach. From my understanding, this means more software making as in coding and producing. Am I correct? If so this is what I'll change my major too. I'm not too keen on being a professor.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 04:09 PM
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I'd really like to study psyc but not at the cost of having a book valued degree. I'll take the extra year or pay for summer classes and get the computer science major.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 01:42 PM
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Learn C/C++ first to learn about all the trouble you can have with memory leaks and other things that C# and Java hide from you and will have to debug anyway. Better to have the experience going in. I talked to the dean of Computer Science yesterday and he told me that my school Teaches their students Java first. With that, I'm trying to familiarize myself with Java first, but then Instead of C# I'll go into C or C++ like you recommended.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 12:21 PM
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What would you love to be one day job wise? I don't really know. I want something where I can raise kids, retire relatively early, work hours that aren't extremely long so I can get proper rest and enjoy my life. Subjects I enjoy are psychology, math, medicine, business and programming.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 11:30 PM
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I failed to explain my question. I was asking if only a BS in software engineering would get me far (not into 6 figures, but better than a psych bs).
/r/askTRP30/03/16 11:24 PM
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So if I can't get a computer science degree, would software engineer degree be good too?
/r/askTRP30/03/16 11:09 PM
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While the BA is more for not grad school (for example Computer Science)?
/r/askTRP30/03/16 10:23 PM
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Oh okay. Well how then can I get the most out of my psychology degree especially if I'm looking to get a minor in computer science?
/r/askTRP30/03/16 06:40 PM
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Wait, how do you have a B.S. in psychology? I thought that was not a Science major and garnished a BA? I'm not exactly sure, but I read it is better than a BA if I ever want to do research post grad school. http://imgur.com/x4m2QWl I see you mentioning computer science in later posts. Nothing wrong with that. However, you may get shoehorned into the IT/programming field. However, software sales positions are lucrative. Having coding knowledge and a winning personality is a killer combination in …
/r/askTRP30/03/16 05:41 PM
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I'm guessing you looked up the average salary for psychology majors and freaked out? Most people don't know how to correctly interpret those studies. Yep. Bio majors get paid more than psyc majors but I don't want a job in biology besides medicine. Is it possible to make $100k with a computer science job assuming I take enough classes from now on to almost have the major (being short 2 credits)? I will (in theory) have the same amount of knowledge as other CS degree holders, but I will have a mi…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 05:33 PM
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Yeah. Income wise. Not in application.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 05:31 PM
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Yeah I understand that. Once I realized I didn't like biology as a whole I switched majors to Psychology so that I can still do premed, but if that doesn't work out I wont be stuck in a field I don't like (bio). To my surprise, a BS in psychology is almost as useful as a history or women studies degree. If I go to grad school or maybe pursue a PHD I could make decent money. BUT I learned that engineering majors and computer science majors can make decent money straight out of university with the…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 05:13 PM
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Yeah totally understand where your're coming from. I went into biology for the money and luckily hated it before I got too deep and started applying for med school. I never consciously thought about it, but while in the 4th grade me and a friend tried to make our own basic html website. Being young then I didn't understand it took money to get it online, but I remember the building of it a memorable experience. More toward 6th grade I started working on making maplestory private servers with thi…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 04:38 PM
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Okay, I talked to my adviser and unless I want to stay an extra year in university (graduate in 2020 vs 2019) I should puruse a computer science minor and stick with my Biology Major or Psychology soon to be major. Will I still be able to make good money with a computer science minor assuming I know how to code almost as well as someone with the CS degree? I'm asking this because I'm young and don't know how the job market works. Do they look for individuals who can prove that they are able to w…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 04:32 PM
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Thanks for the heads up. I'll switch to computer science and minor in psychology then.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 03:08 PM
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Thanks for your advice.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 02:55 PM
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Yeah. If I'm this against it I can't see myself enjoying it. I would rather do everything else but study bio. Hell, even coming in I told my adviser that I'm only a bio major because it overlaps with pre-med and I won't have to take too many classes. I am certain that I do not love bio. Am I only justifying that because bio is too hard for me? Probably. Is it because I honestly don't like biology? Yes.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 02:54 PM
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people go there when they're rejected from their program. :) Out of the psych class I took and the bio class I took I found myself finding more excuses NOT to study for bio and in turn do badly in the class while for psych I found myself looking at articles mainly on cognitive psychology during my free time and leisurely reading the course book. If I could live life the way I wanted to, I would work a job that offers me enough money to sustain my hobbies while living comfortably enough to raise …
/r/askTRP30/03/16 02:39 PM
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medicine , law and computer science. I was planning on doing medicine but after honestly talking to my cousin who is a surgeon right now and looking at all the studying, residency, med school, and working conditions, I don't believe it's the right field for me especially if I'm only looking at it for the pay as I can do something like computer science and engineering with less stress, less schooling and make just about the same amount. Between engineering and computer science, which would you sa…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 02:37 PM
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Thank you. Have a great day
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 01:08 PM
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That seems doable right now. I'll try starting up something like that with my smart buddies and seeing how far it takes off.
/r/askTRP27/03/16 09:43 AM
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Well I can't get a dog while living on campus so that's out the equation. I can start of dog sitting then progressing from there
/r/askTRP27/03/16 02:56 AM
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I don't have my own dog, but I have a few friends that have dogs. Would the course of action be learning how to train dogs from online videos and books, training the dogs of my friends, then offering my services to the campus?
/r/askTRP27/03/16 02:30 AM
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Grab a pen and paper. Write down your stream of consciousness. No censorship. I had just finished eating and was planning to do this, but instead base it off of Illimitable Man's Maxims so that I will be able to redirect the thoughts of mine. Your idea seems more apt to solving my problem then making rules for myself so I'll do that instead. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 02:02 AM
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Damn that's a shame. Thanks for the info tho. I'll look into it for maybe after college
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 05:30 PM
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Even for young men in college? How much would that cost?
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 01:33 PM
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As much as I accept, the more truths I learn, the more I have to bear. The load never gets lighter, but it is okay, the price for vision and freedom is not paid by the weak. This is what I started experiencing once I got on trp for the first time. Everything made sense and I wanted to explain to my friends some of them thought I was crazy and a few understood. After a while I realized that very little people will understand many things about this world. I'm not saying that I'm some enlightened g…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 08:22 AM
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I have a bad habit of doing things I feel like doing instead of what I know I should. I've changed that in my gym habits but satisfaction doesn't from reading a dry textbook, but the sake of my future depends on it so I'll buckle down and do it
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 07:58 AM
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Any books on the subject you can recommend?
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 07:56 AM
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I do this already. I'm not lost on what to do in order to feel better, as I've been here for a while as well as other sub reddits. It's just the feeling of isolation for an extended period of time that I fear. Imagine it like having a fear of heights. After conditioning yourself that you have no reason to be scared it goes away. That's what I'm trying to do to myself now about my fear of loneliness. Thank you all for being so caring and wanting to help a stranger online. It means a lot to me.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 07:55 AM
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For the love of Christ you explain too much. You're trying to be a bigger woman than your woman. There is a time to just shut up and let her mind work. You're right. I do explain too much. It's something I'm working on not doing so much. You're the damn man. You're supposed to be a Caesar, a Conan. You corrected her conception of what you're about and she called you a liar. Which is good, no? Would anyone else flat out calling you untrustworthy to your face be just cool? Would you continue to wa…
/r/askTRP26/03/16 07:52 AM
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I started that last weak and now I'm at 2 minutes each morning
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 07:47 AM
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Thank you for the explanation and reassurance. Don't take that as a free pass to be a faggot, either. Believe me, after my high school relationship that's the last thing I'll turn into
/r/askTRP26/03/16 07:46 AM
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People always tell me that I sound depressed online. Is that because I ask questions and ask about the real things that bother me? Ask anyone I know in person and I'm the farthest away from depressed. I go to the gym 6x a week and have been working out since August. I've started reading everyday. The only thing that I "struggle" with is studying consistently which is something I'm working on and being okay being alone. Im fine being in my room by myself as long as I know someone is next door or …
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 11:00 PM
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Thank you for your alternative view on this topic. Never in my life have I been that alone. I've been at the house alone as a child before but I can open the door and go to my neighbors and see people. But at a college dorm where no one is there on your floor, you can walk around butt naked, you can't even see people outside, being alone feels real. get off your ass and do something productive, you'll feel a lot better. notice that you specifically noted how you felt lonesome when you were layin…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 10:05 PM
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I'll find some time to do this during the summer. Since I have no outside survival experience besides books I've read should I have a friend tag along, or stay close enough to where my phone can work and I won't be in life threatening danger?
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 09:59 PM
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That was a very beautiful reading. Thank you for it. Next time I have a break (summer probably) I'll take a hike and see what it's like being alone for real. Your spring break felt empty because of was. Normally people fill your life automatically. Without other people, YOU have to fill 16 waking hours a day. You did not do this, and were depressed as a result. If you cannot find 16 hours a day of self improvement, exercise, work, reading, school and fulfilling hobbies, AND stay motivated to kee…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 09:58 PM
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How does one get over the fear of being alone? We now know that being alone is necessary sometimes, but how do we override the fear of it? I have, for a long time, wanted to be alone so I could read books, meditate, and do everything else I wanted to do but couldn't because of obligations. Come spring break and I'm one of the 20 people on campus and all I felt was alone. Half of the time I laid in bed and missed my family. The other half I was at "work" (sitting at a desk doing nothing). Even th…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 04:12 PM
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You are overthinking this and I'm almost certain things in your relationship will go back to the way they were within a day. Things are fine now as if we never had that conversation last night. I'm wondering why this keeps happening and like you told me it could be lack of comfort. I would say work on including a little more comfort into your LTR. It doesn't make you appear weak as long as you do it in moderate amounts. An LTR should be treated differently than a plate. Clearly you care about th…
/r/askTRP25/03/16 02:53 PM
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I am a freshman in college. Thank you for those readings. I'll go read up on them.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/16 04:37 PM
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Thank you for further explaining it. I'm currently working on both as I do like this girl, but at the same time if things don't work out I want better options. I'm now clear on what you were talking about.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/16 03:36 PM
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What do you think of the reply of /u/cj_aubrey Your success will not be found in the actions of a woman. Your major malfunction is the fact that you care enough about what she's doing to post here. This should be a discussion about vetting criteria and whether she's worth keeping or nexting.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/16 03:45 AM
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Honestly her academics and plans for accomplishing her goals are none of my concerns. They are if this is your girl and if you are planning a long term future with her. That is not the primary lesson you should take from MRP. As of now, that's the plan. The only thing you can do is lead her and continue forward without her if she won't follow. Got it. It all makes sense now.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/16 12:12 AM
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Like your edit. It seems you have your own life in order and on track to achieving your own goals. I do now. 3 months ago it was a shit hole (academically) Except for the fact that you can't seem to make your girl take what is in your opinion good advice, how is your relationship? It's okay. Not great by any means. Like you've seen I'm not a great leader or communicator. That is where I believe the root of my problem is. MRP is about becoming a man. Think about what it meant to be a MAN in the t…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/16 12:00 AM
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First off using the word honestly can be a verbal crutch or it indicates anything but honesty. After all if you are being honest you don't need to qualify it. Very true. I will admit I am a poor speaker but will start reading the art of public speaking after finishing what I'm currently reading to work in that. May be she doesn't want to be part of the academia any more, or that field, or maybe she wants out of your relationship and acting out. Could be. Have you tried just talking to her about …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 11:31 PM
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Eh, you talked to her, she refused. You're taking care of your stuff...what else can you really do? Nothing. I thought that being a great man/leader means people will know that you're looking out for them and take your advice. Very naïve of me thinking that honestly. Start reading the sidebar anyway. If you prefer LTRs, you're going to need what it has so you don't end back up here. I've read everything there expect for the second half of NMMNG and married man premier as I've been on trp for 2 y…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 11:20 PM
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Thanks for the good laugh and showing me what I'm like on the inside. I've edited my post and have learned a lot from your words.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 11:04 PM
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Why hello there. I see you've stumbled upon MRP. The place where we explain how to teach your girlfriend to be more like you. I never said that and I should have my question clear. I realize we're both adults and she's responsible for her own life as I am mine but I'm just worried as she's not doing so well in class. She asks me advice for some things and when I advise her to quit x organization so she has more time to study she refuses. Again I apologize if this post came off as masterbstory bu…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 10:39 PM
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No, I'm a regular man like anyone else here. I'm legitimately seeking advice. If you believe otherwise please check my post history about the questions I've asked over the past years in asktrp. If I was here to brag (about what? I have nothing to brag about atm) then I wouldn't be seeking advice. Rereading my post it may have come off as bragging but I'm seriously seeking advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 10:32 PM
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I apologize if this doesn't seem like a real problem. I would go to trp but I believed that mrp is more for LTRs and marriage. I'm not here bragging about my life and I apologize if this post comes off that way, I'll edit and put that in. I'm almost at academic probation level with my GPA but I fixed that. I'm asking about how to prevent my girlfriend from going down the same path because every time I try advising her not to do x and y she feels like I'm putting her down and saying she's not abl…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 10:29 PM
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If you're average-looking, you're being judged very critically, from the very start, for every single thing you do or say, right down to the position you're sitting in right now. Exactly, but because OP isn't an EC and the way he worded this post is a bit off people are jumping at his throat.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 07:18 PM
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I have the first one, but I'll look to get the second one as well and read it.
/r/askTRP12/03/16 01:33 AM
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Thank you again. I will make sure to read the book. Have a great day/night.
/r/askTRP12/03/16 01:25 AM
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This is the classic game of Happy to Help which is often followed by Schlemiel when opposed. The goal of happy to help for the player (your GF) is to get validation or reward for actions which are positive. When she doesn't receive these validation she will resort to Schlemiel which is intended to make you feel bad for her mistake or transgressions. Holy fuck I didn't realize there was a name for this. This is exactly what she does and honestly I'm very stupid for falling for that (but now I kno…
/r/askTRP11/03/16 02:12 PM
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You need to understand the following. You will always accomplish more single than in a any relationship.Sex and relationships are effectively a hobby. You choose to do it and it take time to maintain and accomplish to a degree which is desirable. Understood. She took an hour to cook? What stopped you from napping while she was cooking? I was watching videos about workouts and macros. She wanted me to be in the kitchen with her and hold her while she cooks. Something like this (she's the romantic…
/r/askTRP11/03/16 01:29 PM
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Thank you for this. I'll properly respond once I'm out the gym
/r/askTRP11/03/16 12:14 PM
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I can't believe you're complaining about her spending a long time cooking meals for you. It's not only that, though when you say it like that I seem very ungrateful. Going to eat, going to the gym (when she goes), going to events/class, doing things are all different places I'm waiting on her which is understandable since she's not used to the lifestyle I'm trying to live. Oddly, (obviously?) this reflects my mother and father's relationship where my dad is very punctual with my mother lagging b…
/r/askTRP11/03/16 12:07 PM
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Having too much structure in your life can be bad - gotta get just enough of it. I see. I have my schedule blocked out by 30 min increments in order to accomplish the most I can in a day. I'll make w different schedule (probably a to do list) to make sure that everything I need gets done regardless of order like you suggested.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 11:57 AM
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I wonder how many of us have plated a woman who would have been loyal, yet became just another alpha widow. That's what I was trying to get at. AWALT but some of them try their best not to be like that. There are some quality girls out there, just not many. Knowing which girl is worth promoting to LTR status (if that's your goal) and which ones you shouldn't promote I believe is an important part of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 12:04 AM
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Be careful of thinking the grass will always be greener on the other side. There was a parable about women shopping for men and as she went up in floors the men got better and better until she had the perfect man, but she still decided to go to the next floor to see what she could get (read: greedy) only to find out there was no man there and she was being greedy. Edit: found it A store has just opened in New York City that offered free husbands. When women go to choose a husband, they have to f…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 08:45 PM
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Now don't get me wrong, relationships can (often) suck, and are not really worth it just to have sex. But apparently lust alone is not very sufficient for proper sexual function. If you're "missing out" on hookup culture, you aren't missing much. Thank you for this. I found a girl last semester who I really enjoy being with and she's a good girl also, but I had this nagging feeling of "you're supposed to be out having sex with multiple other people dude1!!1!!1!! you're not partying it up!1!!!" I…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 01:27 PM
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What if you're in a relationship where she doesn't want YOU doing that (assuming she doesn't do that)? My current LTR doesn't like it when I go out with the guys to clubs and stuff and I've even invited her to come and ask some of her girl friends to go but she isn't that kind of girl. I don't really think it's fair to her for me to go out when she doesn't and as a compromise we go out to other things together like movies, parks etc. A part of me feels like I'm missing the college experience, bu…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 05:53 PM
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You can stop an assassination that you don't know is coming?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 09:54 PM
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That last part is what should make people's hairs stand on end. Huh? I'd imagine she would have no problem with a false rape accusation. This should make them scared? She was willing to kill someone out of convenience BUT NOT THIS? ???
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 08:50 PM
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"My mama told me I can fuck em But you better not never ever trust em" -From FUCKEMX3
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 06:10 PM
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Oh okay. Thank you for this new understanding. I've been doing this all wrong then.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 01:24 AM
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I understand. I put that part there because without saying that I feel that she would think that I was addicted to it.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 12:33 AM
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I thought the same thing, but my girlfriend has started working out with me and after the first week of stronglifts she has the basic exercises down. The most she distracts me with is asking me to get her the 2.5lb weights (as she's short), spotting her when she is benching, or checking her form.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 06:08 PM
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You're right. I really don't care if she comes or not but being in a relationship I should make these decisions. Thank you
/r/askTRP21/02/16 09:05 PM
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Ooooh, I get it. Soft as in the sense of being a leader because if I was "hard" I would have told her what to do instead of letting her decide if she wants to. The event is a dinner for a club that I'm in. The mutual friend and I are in the club and going to the dinner when my girlfriend asked a week ago if she could go then our mutual friend told her sure. You're Chinny's boyfriend and there's no problem with guest coming. When our mutual friend texted her the time of the dinner she said "Ughh,…
/r/askTRP21/02/16 08:46 PM
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The worst thing you can do is be compassionate/considerate like you did. That's how you get stabbed verbally speaking. Never be soft. I don't believe I was soft in this scenario. I straight up told her "You don't have to go if you don't want to" and didn't flower anything up. Normally I'm sarcastic whenever she has her "problems" and that handles the issue fine.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 08:28 PM
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Could be, I'll look out for that. Thanks
/r/askTRP21/02/16 08:22 PM
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Thank you for an answer opposite to what I've been hearing. Thinking about it, you're correct. This has happened a few times in my relationship with her getting her feelings hurt and sometimes crying when I say things like that (even though I meant no harm). My words have been more liken to "power talk" while not meaning to. I'll pick my words carefully before saying them to avoid conflict like this coming up again
/r/askTRP21/02/16 08:20 PM
1

Gotcha! This was what I was looking for. Thank you.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 08:07 PM
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I understand what you're saying but what I'm asking is: Did she react this way due to miscommunication, or she knew what I meant and it was insecurity leaking?
/r/askTRP21/02/16 08:05 PM
1

Alright, got it. Thanks
/r/askTRP21/02/16 08:03 PM
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Thank you. I'm still going to the event with or without her. Can you address this part? Is this a miscommunication problem on my part or an interpretation one on her part? Just wondering to learn/fix things I'm bad at or if it's just her and her feels.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 07:56 PM
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Your post about not letting you smoke weed but being okay with drinking describes me and my girlfriend. I hate drinking, but I'll take a few hits with my bros a few times a month. She was soo against it that she would say "if you smoke I'm not going to sleep in your room tonight". At first I thought it was her looking out for my good health and abided by her rules. 2 nights ago I asked my bros about that and they told me " If you've been with her for 5 months and you're letting her dictate your …
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 01:41 PM
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Use the save function of reddit and if you're on chrome use the extension "Group Reddit Saved Links"
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 05:23 PM
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We did it boys! You did it bro. You've found this treasure of information and used it to improve your life. I wish you and your family the best!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 06:12 AM
1

I was worried about precum causing that but thank you for putting my fears to rest.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 11:00 PM
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Even having unprotected sex, the chances of the woman getting pregnant are slim. How slim? This morning I was beating my meat before I had sex with my girlfriend but I didn't cum (came close tho) then about 15 minutes later put it in her. I pulled out and finished with my hand to make sure she didn't get any sperm in her but now I'm worried that there might have been a little bit even though I didn't come from masterbating.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 08:39 PM
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Thank you for this information.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 08:35 PM
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Oh, I thought they did work for the police since they're the ones providing them to you. Thank you for clearing that up.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 08:33 PM
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If they (the police) offer to provide you a lawyer you should NOT take it, correct? I don't have a lawyer or know if my family has one so I'll have to yellowpage some lawyers if I'm in that situation.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 07:07 PM
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Lol guys you're getting trolled. Look at the way he's writing this. Lmao OP you can't lose her bro!!1 you need to do EVERYTHING she tells you to or else she'll leave you! :( Oh wait, that actually sounds better than having her stay with you. Keep doing what you're doing.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 12:55 PM
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Very true. I may be a little too scared of making a bad decision. My thought process was the less mistakes I make the faster I can get from point A to B. But what I learned tonight is that it isn't being rich that makes you rich, but the process and things you've learned that allowed you to build yourself to your riches are the most important things. I think I didn't write that correctly. The lessons you learn will allow you to replicate your success, but only success without knowing why makes i…
/r/askTRP09/02/16 04:51 AM
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Thank you. I try my best to convey my ideas clearly when asking questions to prevent confusion. My friends that go out and drink are ones I keep because we're in a fraternity together and they're a good contrast from the friends that just study 24/7. Financial independence is my goal so to lessen the burden on my parents caring for my 4 other siblings (and family overseas) but to also realize the importance of money and learn how to manage it at an early age.
/r/askTRP09/02/16 04:02 AM
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If it works, doesn't work, whatever, you learned. This is very true. I fear failing to utalize my time properly the most out of everything. If I should spend extra hours sleeping to retain things I learn but decide to study longer causing me to forget, I count that as a big mistake and while it's true I learn from it, I thought that taking out a few extra minutes to mull on the idea will allow me to weigh the outcome before making the decision giving me the highest chance for success. Needless t…
/r/askTRP09/02/16 03:49 AM
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Thank you for the chart. I have started putting away $200 out of the about $300 I make in order to have an emergency fund of $1000 dollars by early April/late March. I live off of the $100 since my scholarship pays for most things. The money usually goes toward soap/toothpaste/clothes but I try to keep my checking balance above $50 for unplanned expenses with the goal of having a checking account balance of $500+ in my account at all times by the beginning of the summer. Doing this means I have …
/r/askTRP09/02/16 03:46 AM
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Thank you for the answer and reason why. Have a good night sir.
/r/askTRP09/02/16 02:29 AM
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Yes sir, I am aware I wrote that. Before I lurch off into that phase I would like just this one question answered as it is about my health.
/r/askTRP09/02/16 02:24 AM
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"I lost a whole bunch of money, chasing bitches But I never lost no bitches chasing money, how real is that?" - Phryme I was asking this based on health and gainz losing. I work out 6 days a week and heard that proper recovery is important to keep gainz, but then again if I work hard enough and save up this semester, I can work less during the summer and focus more on working out.
/r/askTRP09/02/16 02:13 AM
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Would that include the individuals trying to get into med school? I'm wondering what I'll do for the rest of my life if I DONT get into med school.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 01:12 PM
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Thank you so much for the response. I'll tailor it to what I need.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 10:05 PM
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Check my edit on my reply. I'm not doing stronglifts anymore. I've switched to a program (6 day split) that basically has 4 upper body days and 2 leg days a week since my upper body weight are lacking behind my legs by a considerable amount.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 07:13 PM
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I've been doing Stronglifts since August, Switched to IFC 5x5 In December, then started this split program a week ago but before then I've been lifting weights in high school while playing football for 4 years (on and off) Here's a screenshot of my progress before I changed programs http://imgur.com/QwWSg2l
/r/askTRP05/02/16 07:09 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3uvdrt/whats_your_favorite_rp_quote/?ref=search_posts
/r/askTRP05/02/16 06:36 PM
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/r/TheRedPill/comments/2h1ydv/dealing_with_loneliness_as_you_work_toward/ The exact thing you've explained was discussed there. Thought you'd like to read up on it.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 11:29 AM
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Is one instance of unfavorable behavior really justification for ending it? Depends on what the behavior is. If she can do it once she can do it again. Back up even, if she's able to do it but doesn't do it, that's probably out of fear of you leaving her or respect. If she does it (in this case the silent treatment) she feels like she has power over you and wants you to start playing her game. Once you do that you're no longer in control meaning you're not leading her anymore but instead she's l…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 01:19 PM
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If people are that desperate, why not take advantage of them? Comment he quoted above do you rob orphans too? because taking advantage of people is bad and a bitch ass move, idiot His comment (that got deleted)
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 03:59 AM
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For example, if you can bench 1.5 of your BW for 10, but can only do 5 pull-ups, you clearly have an anterior-posterior strength asymmetry, and will need to increase your pulling to pushing volume ratio. But keep lifting. Thank you. This is a slight Issue I've had but with different muscles (push being stronger than pull or vice versa). I'll find out specifically what muscles are struggling and I'll do isolation exercises to bring them up to par. And thanks for the analogy with the camera. I dec…
/r/askTRP21/01/16 01:23 AM
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Thanks. I'll block out time for guitar then
/r/askTRP21/01/16 12:12 AM
1

Oh lmao. I never looked into that. I was never a "weird kid" but coming online and reading my history where I ask things I wouldn't ask in person (probably for fear of being labeled autistic) might say something. I should probably take a test and see.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 08:40 PM
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What does that mean? Also, the pre health advising office said I was okay but I would have to bust my ass even more than the other students who made around a 3.7 last semester. Also, my extracurricular have to be on point.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 08:12 PM
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Alright I'll keep this in mind. Thank you
/r/askTRP20/01/16 07:24 PM
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I needed to hear this. Thanks
/r/askTRP20/01/16 07:23 PM
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Thanks for he answers. I should expand on the point about taking a week off of gym. I mean that instead of pushing my squat @ 295 lbs, I work with lower numbers (135 lbs) and focus on keeping my feet pointed forward, not rocking at all. Or when working on fixing my bench keeping my arms equal lengths and not letting my left hand dip half an inch and have the bar dip a bit. Not taking off totally from the gym. More like a form fix week.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 07:09 PM
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Dude, what the hell is up with these questions? This is a personal choice, another judgement call. We aren't here to make inane life choices for you. Make up your mind. I've become over concerned about little things. I had a 2.0 last semester in college because I didn't study. I flew through high school with a 4.0 so this wake up call has caused me to, before I do things, think and weigh the benefits especially how much it'll take away from my study time. You're thinking of all of this way too t…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 07:07 PM
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5x5 is recommended because for beginners they need to build up their strength before focusing on purely aesthetics. With 5x5 you mainly do the big and heavy lifts (Squats, Bench, Deadlift, Overhead Press, Bent Over Rows) and with 3x10 programs you do isolation movements focusing on individual muscles (Bicep curls, calf raises, lat pull downs, rows, tricep pulldowns, etc.) It's recommended to start with 5x5 as that will help you increase your strength so when you do start lifting for aesthetics y…
/r/askTRP17/01/16 08:24 PM
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In a sense you're right. Didn't think of it as an ongoing balance act.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 12:42 AM
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However, no amount of aesthetics and social game can fool other men into thinking that you're a man. This might be an effective mating strategy in today's safe world but such faggotry would get you killed in a male-dominated environment such as the military or prison. How exactly does one become a man? I'm in a frat right now and I don't feel as manly as half of the dudes there, but I'm hoping that being around them will help build up my character. At the same time I do not want to depend on the…
/r/askTRP16/01/16 08:06 PM
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Hear, read this.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 04:15 PM
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Thank you for the guidance. I will proceed then.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 03:19 PM
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Thank you. Is it okay to incorporate those on my off days or should I adjust my program?
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 12:33 PM
1

Then how is vertical jump increased?
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 09:31 PM
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Excuse me, but if I'm looking to dunk 6' 2" and I can grab rim, should I focus more on squats, calf raises and deadlifts or power clean and hang clean?
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 03:29 PM
1

How to Win Friends & Influence People by Dale Carnegie
/r/RedPillBooks08/01/16 02:09 AM
1

The Meditations of Marcus Aurelius
/r/RedPillBooks07/01/16 10:07 PM
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I will. I'm moving in in a few hours
/r/askTRP06/01/16 04:59 PM
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If you're in a exclusive LTR and yet want to have other girls, it means you need to end your LTR. Forget the room switching and everything, you shouldn't even be with this girl. Yes, I understand this. This was meant implying that if she does decide to break up with me, I'll have my own place. I don't plan on cheating on her if we stay together. Also, TRP doesn't condone cheating on your LTR. The plate spinning theory demands that you be explicit in the fact that you are non-exclusive. Comprendo…
/r/askTRP06/01/16 03:56 PM
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True. I've blind to it this whole time.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 03:06 PM
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Thank you. I'll keep this in mind.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 03:06 PM
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Thank you for this and yeah, the Google story was the first thing that popped into my head when I thought of this. I told myself of course I wouldn't give up on Google for a girl but if I can't give up a girl for a bigger living space for a girl that shows me how much work I need to do. What if I decide not to go to med school just to be with her? What if I don't pursue my dreams to be with her THEN she leaves me? Then I'm left with a future that I don't want. Yeah. Fuck that.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 03:04 PM
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Alright I'll give it a shot. I'll also go and buy pots and pans so I can start cooking regularly at school.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 10:39 AM
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I'll chip in here. Take care of your teeth, your body hair, your haircut, your skin, and body odor. Here's two birds with one stone. Either start an intramural basketball team as the captain of the team, or start a group you can play music with. This could easily become a band, and you'll be able to spend time with people who are equally passionate about music. Or pick up another hobby such as hiking or another sport, like rugby. Add some yoga stretches, yoga can double as meditation if done pro…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 10:38 AM
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Your routine isn't bad, but do you make time to hang out with friends? Good time to find a clique and start going to different venues and having a fucking fun time. I did that a bit too much first semester if you look at my history and that's put me in a tough spot.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 10:37 AM
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Meditation check out /r/meditation. Will do. Interval showers and ice baths. Are these proven to give results? And I can do cold showers, but I don't have a bathtub this year. Go out and meet people. Both guys and girls. Honestly the most intimidating thing on the list you've given me, but I'll go out of my way to meet people. Improve your style. Currently working on this. I'm getting clothes I like to wear and once I can afford them I'll start building my closet. Improve your hygiene. Can you e…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 02:16 AM
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commit to a sport (I like martial arts and soccer) I've played basketball growing up, buy never committed to it. I'll start that. Go out and approach, always (this is essential) I haven't done this due to hamstering away that I'll get to it eventually. I guess eventually is now. Meditate (also essential) I used to do this, but then I stopped once I started staying up late to study. I'll make sure to implement this to my daily life. Pick up other hobbies, and join interest groups to meet new peop…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 02:12 AM
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Set some conditions for yourself that are difficult but achievable and if you meet them, it will communicate that you are committed, driven and serious about becoming a Dr. GPA minimums, number of hours studied, one missed class per semester, office hours visited, etc. Thanks for pointing this out. I'll make sure to make them physical as well as share them with the people I'm apologizing to. This is a study plan that includes times and dates you have blocked out on your calendar for individual a…
/r/askTRP02/01/16 11:33 PM
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You are stupid, lazy or unmotivated. That's what a 2.0 GPA freshmen semester says about you, so which is it? All 3. Stupid because I lacked discipline and let lack of motivation fuel my lazy habits. I graduated rank 5 in my class in high school, but the way I held myself this semester doesn't show anybody my so claimed "intelligence" That is why you are getting advice to do something else, since it only took you 4 months to prove you are too irresponsible to be trusted with tuition money, much l…
/r/askTRP02/01/16 07:52 AM
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I feel a little better, but coding really isn't what I want to do. At least I can make it in the world of I decide to code, but my passion isn't there. But thanks for opening up that possibility
/r/askTRP02/01/16 01:54 AM
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Well I'm on winter break and once I get back I'm appealing for my scholarship. If I get to keep my scholarship despite my poor performance, my GPA might not be good enough to still get into med school so people were advising me to think of other alternatives to medicine. I haven't applied their ideas since the school is out for break for 10 more days, but I'm preparing everything before hand. Best cast scenario, I get to keep my scholarship, fix my GPA and apply to med school in 4 years. Good ca…
/r/askTRP02/01/16 01:03 AM
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https://archive.is/zWGwQ
/r/askTRP01/01/16 06:04 PM
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Just in case you didn't get the notification since he didn't reply directly to your comment, OP replied
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/15 09:18 PM
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Thank you. I will start reading that today.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 01:47 PM
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I have ran Machiavellian game most of my life. There is a difference between understanding the Machiavellian principles and applying them. That's the difference between someone who is fit to be an advisor and someone is a bloody general. Can you further expand on this? I've always been interested in Machiavellian principals and human psychology, but let morals and the feelings of "this isn't right" to keep me from actually applying them. An hour ago, I took milk from person next door to me becau…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 08:48 AM
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Why not just shoot the lion?
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 07:40 AM
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Shit, this explains why people care so much about what the Kardashians are up to.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 03:41 AM
1

What rank are you currently?
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 08:07 PM
1

Gorilla Mindset - Mike Cernovich You know how I can get a pdf of that book?
/r/RedPillBooks27/12/15 07:06 AM
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Thank you for explaining this to me. I understand what I need to do now. I will push myself to diamond this upcoming week (at plat 1), but regardless if I get it or not, I will uninstall league and focus on more important aspects of my life. Your last paragraph brought a tear into my eye. It's the same thing my parents have been telling me, but I've been constantly trying to deny. Trying to assure myself that a balance is he right way to go. There is only so many days we have on this earth. I ne…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 09:00 PM
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How can you find the passion to want to be great in what you do? I want to be a doctor, but my work effort doesn't reflect that. I want to be diamond in league of legends and I'm doing everything humanly possible, watching my reply, keeping notebooks, word docs, excel spreadsheets, watching videos to improve. Why can't I transition the same effort to studying to get into med school?
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 06:24 PM
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IT IS?! Holy shit. Overlooked that warrants me rereading the sidebar again.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 03:47 PM
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God bless you bsutansalt. You've basically explained everything. Doing God's work for this subreddit.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 02:25 AM
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I know what thread you're talking about and I'll see if I can find it
/r/askTRP15/12/15 04:22 AM
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If I'm nearing the intermediate mark with these programs should I switch over from Stronglifts 5x5 to a more aesthetically focused program? I played football for 4 years and lifted on and off with the football team but these past 5 months I've been lifting consistently.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 10:13 PM
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I started this a few days ago. I'll keep at it
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 08:16 PM
1

I take zinc, magnesium, and vitamin B3. These past weeks I've been getting 5-7 hours of sleep studying for finals which I have next week.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 03:17 PM
1

What if I stopped waking up with morning wood? I turn 19 in 3 days. As in I just had sex now, but I had to consciously get it up; I didn't just wake up hard.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 02:47 PM
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Have you read the sidebar? How about anything on game? I suggest you spend a lot more time reading... your life will get a whole lot easier. I have, but will reread it again since I have forgotten a lot. You then laugh and wink at her. You remain stoic and unphased by any emotions she expresses towards you after. Make a joke out of her. She will drop it soon after. When she behaves to your liking you reward her with cuddling. Thanks for the straightforward answer. I'll start knowledge to know ho…
/r/askTRP08/12/15 07:01 AM
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Gotcha. and if she plays the "You only want me for sex / you use me for sex" card just don't buy into it, correct?
/r/askTRP08/12/15 06:52 AM
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Thank you for your suggestion, and surprisingly, the place I applied to was a restaurant.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 05:05 AM
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Look into student jobs that are overly glorified secretaries too. You get paid less than minimum wage but you can study and do personal development. I applied to a few and they'll get back to me if spots open up, but a majority of them are reserved for work study students. Time is the most important thing. It's constant, you can't take it back, you can't give it to someone else (as in here, I'll shorten my life to extend yours). In this respect, make the most of all your opportunities, but don't…
/r/askTRP04/12/15 02:35 AM
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I understand this. Another flaw of mine is being unable to make decisions without ground to base it on, which is why I asked how much you guys value your time? There are so many things I want to buy with money but I don't NEED 99% of those things. New clothes, protein powder, my own food, books, are all nice but not a necessity. With that being said, I appreciate your answer. What price tag would YOU put on your time?
/r/askTRP04/12/15 02:21 AM
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better to be attacked/slandered than ignored. Let's think about it in terms of attention. In high school there was this kid who did anything for attention, whether it was running to class, making high grades on tests, asking stupid/funny questions or asking girls out in ridiculous ways. When we graduated everyone knew him including freshmen that just came in that year. The dude was involved in everything he could be even if he didn't look like he should or could be involved in it. Imagine a guy …
/r/askTRP03/12/15 04:09 PM
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had a small problem getting up again. so I weirdly rationalized that it was because i had no emotional connection to this girl, or that i wasnt attracted to her. My main question is really, whether our first sexual experiences tie into what we are trying to recreate in future sex experiences. IE, If I had been sold an ideology where sex was purely for pleasure and i was there to dominate the girl, and that was my mindset going into the scenario when i lost my virginity, I would use that as a ben…
/r/askTRP03/12/15 07:37 AM
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Almost like a keto diet, not as strict. Less carbs which take the body longer to burn. Less carbs means it's easier for your body to slim down
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 07:55 PM
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Shit, I know I'm enjoying my $100 mechanical one!
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 12:12 AM
1

Just trying to be safe Thanks for the kind words
/r/askTRP21/11/15 07:44 PM
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Be your self. Read GLO's post on "Your own brand of Alpha"and actually work to increase your SMV
/r/askTRP21/11/15 06:55 PM
1

Alright, thanks
/r/askTRP21/11/15 06:54 PM
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Alright thanks, I feel a lot more relaxed now. And about the self pregnancy thing, I make sure to throw them away myself and put them on myself so there aren't any "oops my nails did that"
/r/askTRP21/11/15 06:48 PM
1

Alright, I'll find somthing that works for me. Thanks for the information.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 04:31 PM
1

How much weight classifies as light, medium and heavy? I've been on stronglifts for almost 3 months so the new weight I do each day I consider in the mid-heavy range (ignoring deloads)
/r/askTRP14/11/15 10:42 PM
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Yes sir. Honestly, I was hoping I could start running before I learned how to walk (building mass before strength) but as you guys all have advised me, it's more important to have a good foundation before trying to increase mass through isolation.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 10:12 PM
1

Yeah you're right. Thanks for the honesty.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 08:30 PM
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Don't do triceps and calves 5x a week. How about 3x a week? Cut out the mid thigh crap and do full range deadlifts once a week. Can I do the thigh thing and still do deadlifts? I haven't personally done the thigh things but I heard they give good results. Personally, I do power cleans and hang cleans but these seem to focus more on explosiveness. Insert jumping exercises in place of calf raises limited to 2-3x week. Would weighted box jumps be what I need?
/r/askTRP14/11/15 04:43 PM
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Nowhere you can go is more peaceful - more free of interruptions - than your own soul. Is that what sleep is? I feel that I sometimes sleep when I'm stressed/feel bad and wake up usually better or more together.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 01:29 AM
1

God damn, everything I needed handed straight to me. Thank you. I hope one day to be able to come to the same conclusions you came to without defaulting to asktrp
/r/askTRP10/11/15 05:12 AM
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Analyze the situation clearly. If she causes this much of an inconvenience right now, how do you think it'll be when she's locked you down for an LTR. Personally, I wouldn't want to LTR a girl who gets so easily manipulated by her friends. Gotcha. Will look at this then evaluate. You probably need to have a talk with her. Ask her what she wants, and ask her what she thinks of you. Does SHE think you only want her body, or is that just her friend talking. Both. When I first met her (within the fi…
/r/askTRP10/11/15 02:26 AM
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Thank you for this post. I was getting frustrated that I wasn't progressing through girls as fast as some of my friends were. Now I'll make sure to enjoy the process and learn instead of going through the motions.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 08:16 PM
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Glad I could help
/r/askTRP06/11/15 04:53 AM
1

Uhhhh, I don't know what just happened.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:46 AM
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/asktrp/comments/3hg6ej/talking_to_girls_like_dudes/cu71ykl
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:35 AM
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Virginity is a big deal to women, but it sounds like she is exploiting that to get the most of you without giving it up. (You gave her commitment too fast without payback) You're right. Rookie mistake. Lower her on your priorities. Take longer to respond to texts. Be more busy, have less time for her. She will notice she is losing you. Gotcha. If she still does not have sex with you just say the relationship isn't working out the way you want to and look for other girls. Yes sir. I forget I'm a …
/r/askTRP02/11/15 03:10 PM
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and goodies of the relationship without sex, or her virginity is a big deal to her and that combined with her friends pressure is making her not want to lose it. This is the main thing honestly. Feels like I'm dating her+ her friends giving their input to her (since she asks them for advice as I'm her first boyfriend and first person to touch her sexually. If you think the relationship is bullshit without sex, start moving on. If you are happy being in a committed relationship where alot of hank…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 11:55 PM
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Show's I a while to go. When you put it like that it makes me wonder wtf I did
/r/askTRP01/11/15 11:34 PM
1

Thank you for this. I'll have to adjust my actions accordingly.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 11:33 PM
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"May your happiness not be dependent on obtaining vagina, but may vaginas fall from the heavens onto you."
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 07:24 AM
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It's just pink. No princessy stuff. Here's a picture of it. http://imgur.com/wdU24XV
/r/askTRP20/10/15 06:44 PM
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If you are not comfortable with something - change it. If it can't be changed and you can't live with it - leave it. However do remember that desires are infinite and sometimes the path to happiness is being grateful what you have at the moment. Not in all aspects of life but in many. For example I know I can get a better, more powerful mobile phone but that won't give me anything extra. So I stick to my old one as long as it works. That's true. Thanks for the insight and the backpack thing, I'l…
/r/askTRP20/10/15 03:35 PM
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Got it
/r/askTRP20/10/15 04:17 AM
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Thanks for the response The weights are going up at 5 lbs per session (stronglifts) but the last one gave me trouble completing. I'm worried that one day I'll just fail a set and maybe hurt myself in the process
/r/askTRP20/10/15 03:44 AM
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I'd read something and I'd go "So that's why my exes did that shit!!" and id feel like a cloud of fog was lifted from my vision. If I hadnt experienced the thing, it would be basically useless because I wouldnt be able to truly relate and internalize. Exactly what I was hoping to get at. I could see things working on paper, but until I saw it before my eyes or it happened to me, I didn't really understand it as in all the aspects that go into it.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 04:29 PM
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No problem bro. Once you succeed once (and with a body like you described I'm sure you won't have a problem) the feeling you get from you pushes you out there more where you succeed again and then it builds up. Eventually it becomes natural for you and you know even if you don't succeed once, you have the tools that helped you succeed before, plus the insight on why one attempt went wrong leaving you even more prepared for the next approach.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 08:47 PM
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I get what you're saying now. You wouldn't read that "you can fly if you want to bad enough", and then go out and jump off a fucking building. You don't believe it to be true, so you don't internalize it, and thus, you don't do it. This makes perfect sense.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 07:39 PM
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Alright I see where you're getting at. Thanks for the explanation
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 07:35 PM
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No problem. Glad to give my experiences.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 07:34 PM
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So does the internalizing come from doing the thing you read and realizing it is "True for you"? If so, reading will only gets you so far, then actions will lead to internalization which leads to acceptance of what it is.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 07:00 PM
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Yeah, thanks for mentioning that. That's an important step that I forgot to mention because I didn't exactly realize when that happened but it did. Do you know exactly how one internalizes things they learn? I don't know how I did it, but I know it happened.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 06:18 PM
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Alright. Thanks for bluntly explaining it.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 05:14 PM
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Noted, thank you.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 03:04 PM
1

Alright. Since we're neighbors I'll just keep things platonic and on a hi, bye basis, correct?
/r/askTRP11/10/15 03:02 PM
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I feel like she deserves some closure. A few months ago I would never thing of a girl breaking up with me and thinking to myself I got somebody else. I didn't think I would get this red and like you said the closure I was looking to give her was out of pity but saying that makes me feel shitty. If I told her we were fwb but kept calling her my girl and stuff I can see why she thought we were together, then her finding me with a friend she introduced me to not even a week ago is an ego crushing b…
/r/askTRP11/10/15 02:13 PM
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I needed this, thank you. I wish that it was explained that first time sex wouldn't be all easy, crazy and fun as regular sex was. This would have been a lot easier knowing what I was getting myself into, but you live and learn.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 01:58 AM
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Make her cum before you stick it in. This will make her confident and horny as fuck. Alright I'll give this a try. Thank you sir
/r/askTRP04/10/15 11:33 PM
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Shove it in and then let her body get used to it?
/r/askTRP04/10/15 11:05 PM
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I've eaten it for the last 2 nights and we tried lube last night. I think it's more of her being mentality ready for the pain rather than the actual pain.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 10:30 PM
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I can't get more than the tip in without her pushing herself away from me saying it hurts and because of that I can't get in to loosen her up so it'll hurt less.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 10:18 PM
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We hang often and she makes me food sometimes. Our hanging involves studying together, going to the gym, dancing, etc. She told me she felt she wasn't ready and is going to watch a sex ed video this week.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 10:18 PM
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Genius. Thank you for the wisdom
/r/askTRP30/09/15 01:35 PM
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I wouldn't bring it up. Women don't want you to fix their problems, they just want to bitch about them while you listen. So would her concerns about all of that just be things she wants to talk about while I listen, or are these genuine concern? If you do have a 'talk' (whatever sort you decide on), save it for after sex, it always goes better this way. I'll keep this in mind. Seems a lot smarted also. Edit: Start tracking her period if you aren't already. It's like a clock for sexual experiment…
/r/askTRP29/09/15 02:28 PM
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From here: https://archive.is/7BSqX This quote changed the way I viewed myself in the world. 1. Average Person: I am and feel superior. Abundance Mentality: We're all gonna make it brah. The average person has a need to feel superior in order to be in a state of comfort and happiness. We all tend to try to measure ourselves based on other people. This is an inherently flawed habit you must break. The main reason is because the quality of person you are around will fluctuate drastically causing y…
/r/askTRP27/09/15 07:33 PM
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If you want to demonstrate mastery to her by teaching her how to work out, that's one thing, but generally, I wouldn't let any woman near me when I'm lifting. That's why I bought my own weight bench and elliptical trainer, Yeah, I tried to, but she's very short (4'11" I'm 6'1" so adjusting the height is a hassle) and prefers the machine to the free weights. I still get my workout in so I guess everything's fine. so I don't have to deal with any fucking gym sluts pretending to work out so they ca…
/r/askTRP27/09/15 07:21 PM
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Is she using going to the gym as a way to spend time with me/increase her value to me/ask for my guidance/share hobbies with me or is it all a ploy to trap me into committing? Its a trap if she gets pregnant by you on purpose. Her joining in your interests is her convincing you that she's worth committing to. There is a difference. Using them interchangeably takes away from the true meaning and fucks with your perception of her character. Oh, thanks for the clarification. Will this all change if…
/r/askTRP27/09/15 03:35 PM
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and is a virgin thanks to her protective father and society norms back in her country. that won't change anything, i mean, it could change you.. and the way you act. don't allow that. you have no idea how fast a woman can do complete turn around. It kind of is, but I'll stop letting that happen. She's around a 4-5 in looks. Something like this that's not bad, i expected a monster when you said 4-5. with her description and those looks you are right, it's around 6-7 considering i don't know how y…
/r/askTRP27/09/15 04:21 AM
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That's on you. I would never dream of LTR'ing a girl I hadn't slept with, regardless of reason. True. You don't really know a woman until you've slept with them. What are some red flags I should look out for/was too naive to see? You haven't slept with her, and you have crazy oneitis. Reflecting on my thoughts this past week, I do. Not in the sense of attractiveness but in what she does, regardless, it's still oneitis. She's not a plate, she jumped straight from meet to potential (pretty much al…
/r/askTRP27/09/15 03:49 AM
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I think that the effects are temporary or only true when you're high, unless you've been using it for a while then they might trickle into your everyday life
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 06:34 PM
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I understand. I've smoked a total of 7 times in my life so it's not something I do frequently, but I do feel like a careless bag of human material. I believe it's great for going out to social events since like you said, you don't KNOW you're almost lifeless, but I feel very relaxed to the point I can start having deep conversations with strangers I see on the street, but I also noticed that I take lots of things either very personally or I completely blow it off. Once I was driving and I accide…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 04:57 PM
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What role does weed play in this? I often find myself busting out into a full grin often times even when sober, but when I'm high it feels more genuine. Like I know I have things to do tomorrow, but today is a good ass day, I'm alive, trees are around me and nothing bad can happen.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 04:41 AM
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Thank you for the well written out answer.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 03:47 PM
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Thank you. I'm busy "planning" for future events while I'm here burning in flames. Goodnight.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 06:08 AM
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Those unattractive female friends are safe, comfortable, and familiar. Is that what you want? A cheap feelz fix? Do you really think it will be satisfying? You're exactly right. They're safe. No risk involved and I don't have to invest much to get them. Don't fall into the trap of thinking that you can only approach girls at late-night parties, bars, and clubs. You can meet people anywhere during your daily routine. I hate meeting girls at the locations you mentioned. The girls I went out with I…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 05:09 AM
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No, I'm 6'1" 197 pounds. What the other person posted seems to identify my issue. My sex drive is okay in my opinion. After playing a game too long and not getting results you want, you sink back, analyze and see where you've gone wrong. That's the stage I'm in right now.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 04:55 AM
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What if you really just want to cuddle with them? At the risk of sounding like a (for lack of better terms) faggot, hear me out. So I'm in monk mode and I haven't been actively looking for women. Because of this, the contact I have had with women recently is low. I'm not looking for sex (yet), but if it happens, cool. The few girls in my social circle that I am talking to, don't get me wrong, I would fuck them if they threw themselves at me, but if I was looking for girls to fuck, I'd aim much h…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 11:49 PM
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Well this would explain a lot. I thought college was more taxing on me even though I go to the gym in the mornings 4-5 times a week. I thought I was supposed to have energy throughout my day but instead I felt drained. I look to my left and find my window all blocked up keeping the sun from coming inside. The basketball I play is indoors now instead of outside like high school, and the only times I go outside are to go eat or go to class. Starting with opening up my blinds, I'm going to make an …
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 08:49 PM
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women should also not treat men like women and always expect supportive and enabling reassurance. Yeah, I fully agree. Thing is, most guys are okay with that hoping she'll eventually see that they're the right one for them and are willing to put up with the bullshit hoping for that relationship in the end. Until the guys stop acting like that, women will continue to use it.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 04:01 AM
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Problems arise between the sexes when people seek bonding across the gender divide. When a man asks a woman for advice, she tries to empathize (that sucks...) and begins to see him as weak when he becomes more frustrated (why isn't she helping?). When he tries to challenge her opinions in order to understand her values, she becomes defensive because she considers it an attack, and he considers her too sensitive. I asked my ex for advice about things going on in my life and she didn't offer anywa…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 03:29 AM
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This, this is the thing I've been missing all my life. I often times try to speak in a group setting and get cut off and feel like Jaden. This explains so much. In a situation where I am Jaden and a guy like Will is in the group with me what should I do? Should I respect that he's above me status wise or still try to challenge him if I have something to say? I can see either one backfiring depending on how he responds or how I attempt each plan.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 11:29 PM
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like a boyfriend following her around that other girls can be jealous of. That's all dating is to girls right now. You take her places or put her in situations that are outside your dorm room so that she can figure out if she had an experience that other girls will be jealous of, and then she fucks you to keep you interested in her long enough to provide another series of experiences, and on and on the hamster spins in its wheel. Everything makes sense now. Thank you for your response. I had the…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 03:42 AM
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and 6'3. He loses girls all the time because he looks alpha on the outside, but there is an immortal beta inside him that loves being attentive to what girls, say/feel. Damn, take an inch off of him and the 3 degrees then he's me. I'm not making them my priority, but I give them some priority when it comes to me making decisions. An example would be, after a long day of doing what I want to do, I usually meditate, pray then draw a picture before going to sleep. If I had a girlfriend, I'd hit her…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 02:46 AM
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Read the sidebar is the default answer. With that out of the way, remember the axiom that we reluctantly accept. Men love women the way women can only love their children. All the interest you have in them as a person will not go recognized by them as a quality that makes you valuable. Done this, and yeah, I know, sadly. All the interest you have in them as a person will not go recognized by them as a quality that makes you valuable. Oh damn. I'm naturally curious about people. This helps me hav…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 02:28 AM
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Being socially inept So how does one fix this? I'm not scared of approaching or anything, but I'm scared of success because that means more social-ness is required from me, which I don't have a lot of.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 12:52 AM
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Your beta bux brings out the best in you. Alpha fux brings out the crazy, stalker bitch in you. Your beta bux values commitment and partnership. Alpha fux is just trying to hang out. Your beta bux thinks you’re beautiful. Alpha fux’s eyes keep wandering. Your beta bux makes you feel secure. Alpha fux makes you want to check his phone. Your beta bux enjoys conversation with you. Alpha fux just wants you to be quiet. Your beta bux makes plans with you in advance. Alpha fux always pops up out of no…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 12:48 AM
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You're more right then I have been. Younger me did a lot, played sports, won, and was great at things and I was confident out of my mind (oftentimes called cocky). Because of that, I tried to just be good and not great at what I did to not make others feel bad and lo and behold. Here I am feeling bad that I'm not good enough (read: not doing enough to be great)
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 08:57 PM
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This actually makes a lot of sense. Thanks for explaining it like that.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 12:35 PM
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"If you like something, don't do it often." You can burnout on joy. What exactly does this mean, besides literally? If I love drawing and playing basketball, I shouldn't do this too often because I'll see it as a job? It'll loose it's flare? I'll get bored of it?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 10:51 PM
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You're right. I've been using the people here as a crutch for every little obstacle I run into.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 10:43 PM
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Also, "bad bitches"? I'm still not sure I know what that means, but how about you focused on getting laid at all first? You're right. Baby steps first.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 10:40 PM
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Yeah, I remember watching this in class a few years ago.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 10:37 PM
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"You spend your whole life looking for answers, because you think the next answer will change something, maybe make you a little less miserable. And you know that when you run out of questions you don't just run out of answers, you run out of hope." How do I deal with this? I've been looking for "what else can I do" for my confidence. I lift, dress better and stuff like that, but the problem is internal and I don't think external factors alone will fix that.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 06:09 PM
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I thought I was the only one that caught on to that.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 07:08 PM
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Ayy, that's my question. /u/Omlala's answer was clutch. I like the way he went in-depth and addressed multiple things. I believe that that answer warrants its own thread, but that's just my 2 cents. Your post has also helped me tie up loose ends.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 03:00 AM
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So how do I behave in social situations? I suck at that. I went somewhere and it was embarrassing
/r/askTRP13/09/15 07:40 PM
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Oh great. I'll see if they have basketball and tennis and try to join. Thanks
/r/askTRP13/09/15 03:08 PM
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OP, become a man worth something and that will fix everything. Fix your wallet, body, and mind. Then think about getting laid, because now you clearly have bigger problems. You're all right. Posting this here has made me realize how pathetic I've been acting. I'll get my shit together and have a good FR sometime down the future.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 01:26 PM
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Now that we got that out of the system, why the hell would you force yourself onto settings where you are the laughingstock, extra wheel, etc? Why try to fit into something you definitely do not represent? What did you contribute to the event? Why do you think you deserve the situation? You were given a chance to show that you're not really as pathetic as you seem, but you were and probably are. I don't really know why I did that. I thought they legitimately forgot to invite me to shit but looki…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 12:58 PM
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Yeah thanks for the advice. I'll stick to hanging with my regular crew and keep improving myself.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 12:55 PM
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Yes I understand. I meant I made it as a majority of the work is done and now I'm just sharpening myself instead of creating myself
/r/askTRP13/09/15 11:27 AM
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Even if it's intermural? And thanks. I'll just keep at it
/r/askTRP13/09/15 04:26 AM
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Thanks for these. I just need to grab my balls and go out. Appreciate you talking sense into me
/r/askTRP12/09/15 11:10 PM
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You're right. I'm not them. I just need to work on my confidence (which lifting and reading will fix). I can accomplish so much if I don't sell my self short, but I didn't really socialize much in high school so socializing often is pretty new to me, not that I can't do it, it's just awkward. Thanks for the link, I'm reading that right now.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 11:04 PM
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my last advice is not too wait too much, don't try to first be top class, don't try to reach the lader, don't wait until you think you are ready, start as soon as you can, fuck your body. I was thinking about that, but people told me otherwise, and there's this post https://archive.is/OQsU4
/r/askTRP12/09/15 10:49 PM
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The skills I was supposed to have, I didn't learn in high school so I'm starting from the bottom here trying to learn them. I believe it's possible if I work hard enough so I'll keep at it. Hopefully I can learn before college finishes.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 10:31 PM
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How is it too late to improve in college? Isn't that the best time to improve (better now then never) and you have the most "free time" in this phase of life?
/r/askTRP12/09/15 10:18 PM
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Alright, thanks for your opinion also.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 10:17 PM
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I think, idk. Copy and pasted this from somebody else's responce
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 02:47 PM
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Examples this, this, and this
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 01:09 AM
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Well, don't try to be someone you're not Well I sorta wanna change that. The first 2 weeks being here I made new friends, but the type that all study and going out for them is seeing a movie. I want to get more of the "college experience" out of my life but I don't feel I'm ready to dive in there yet, but I'm working on it. If you want to find party friends, just subtlety bring it up in conversation such as, "you heard of any big parties yet" and if they say no, then drop it and try the next per…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 11:39 PM
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Thanks, I'll keep that in mind. It was my first time drinking and I didn't know how strong vodka was and it wasn't working fast enough (like weed does) so I kept drinking until it hit me. Then it rolled over to the next day. And I'm doing medicine so I'll work harder in my classes to have the weekends free to go out.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 11:29 PM
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I don't piss that often if I'm drinking like I normally do, but I finish a water bottle every 20 ish minutes, fill it up, set it on my desk, pee then finish it again within the next 20 mins and do it again.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 10:49 PM
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Happy Cake day! Couldn't have said it better. Answers like: Read the sidebar hurr durr Go approach 5000 girls Stop being a little bitch Just DO it but don't offer anything else to guide the person on how to do it. I'm pretty sure a majority of us know what we need to do, but most times we don't know how to do it. /u/dr_warlock 's guide on how to apply TRP to you ex actually tells you what you need to do and how to do it. Maybe we all don't need step by step guides on how to do things, but someti…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 10:40 PM
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How do you do that? I've been pissing every 15-20 minutes.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 08:54 PM
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Chill fam. I have no problem talking to people. The problem is content to talk to them about. When I talk to people its about school, games or family. I don't really know much about anything else to talk about, so I'm reading books to expand my mind and have more to speak of. The results of me talking to people currently is having a bunch of premed and engineering friends, which is good, but I want more party friends.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 06:27 PM
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Yeah first weekend I got drunk off of vodka and my confidence was out the roof. Had a major hangover the next day and couldn't get out of bed till noon, but it let me see what I could do intoxicated. Thing is, I want to be that confident sober (my goal).
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 11:56 AM
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What if you're not ready and you're still in monk mode? Physically I'm ready to get out there, but mentally I have a lot of work to do. Mainly with confidence (which lifting helps).
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 05:00 AM
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Nigga, I was replying to this Childish Gambino sound beta sometimes. I wasn't putting every ounce of detail into the reply since I wanted to keep it short. Could have sworn this was /r/asktrp and not /r/donaldglover
/r/askTRP07/09/15 11:03 PM
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because the internet is rapped from a character he created for a movie's perspective Yeah, the kid. stone mountain is the character dreaming. Hmm, I see the connection now. Thanks for dropping mad knowledge on something I knew.
/r/askTRP07/09/15 10:17 PM
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Childish, I love him. He had his whole beta phase with culdesac and camp, but there were some rp truths in it. He's albums because the internet where he "toughens up" but it isn't until stone mountain where I feel he truly changes. Im not gonna call his stuff alpha or beta, but he speaks on the stuff he personally , and a lot of people (as well as I) go through when you're seeing the world through rp lenses. You wish it wasn't like that and you could go back to your bp fantasy, but that doesn't …
/r/askTRP07/09/15 08:57 PM
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I don't mean to burst your bubble (as you have great points), but there's a guide for monk mode here. http://illimitablemen.com/2014/04/13/monk-mode/ Though, not many people know about it
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 06:39 PM
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Do you still have family alive? They can give you love (I hope). I felt the same loneliness you felt, but maybe not to a deep degree, where I felt that love doesn't exist, people use you for what they want (as you do them), etc. My parents came to my dorm today to drop off my last textbook. They could have dropped it off and left, but they stayed a while and brought me some food (chips and nuts) and talked to me. That alone made my whole week much better. Their genuine interest in me and wanting…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 06:35 PM
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Don't get me wrong, I plan to do everything I can to fix this, This is exactly what you need to do to go from SadKuntVegeta to SickKuntVegeta. but who knows if it will really ever be as it should have. I know this might sound like bragplaining, but I'm 6'0" and have good features on the outside, but even that doesn't stop my inside qualities (my lil bitch side) from showing. Even though I have the looks of an alpha, my posture is shit, my confidence is low, I stumble over words, say stupid shit,…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 03:35 PM
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You would have already eaten, or brought something that you can stuff in your purse. One minor error I found, but your post is pure gold. I wish I had it 3 days ago when my ex contacted me, but I let some feelz out. Kinda wish I could redeem myself, but there are more important things to attend to.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 03:36 AM
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Age of consent is 18, okay. OP bought her a drink tho. She had a fake ID meaning she wasn't 21. If she calls police or something and she ends up under 18, OP is in for statutory rape. If she was over 18, but still under 21 (which she is because of fake ID) then OP could be arrested for giving alcohol to a minor, or using that to cloud their thinking then having sex with them (think of date rape, but not as strong). Either way it's a lose lose, so op did the right thing (imo).
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 05:14 AM
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Ah alright. So treat the hoes like hoes and the inexperienced ones with more care. Thanks
/r/askTRP31/08/15 09:00 PM
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So the shy, quiet, girls that only had 1 boyfriend or none at all aren't the girls I should be constantly negging, being asshole-ish towards? If so this makes a lot of sense since I saw my ex for the first time since high school ended and she complained that I treat her like shit now (which I did because I didn't care) and she didn't want to see me again (drove to my college campus a town away from hers). I genuinely felt bad and brought back some of the beta traits from when we were dating and …
/r/askTRP31/08/15 08:00 PM
2

I appreciate the honesty but I'm a broke college student. I might as well find a slut and ask her to teach me for "experience" or something.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 06:13 PM
1

I've been reading for a year but this is my first time actually starting to do things, so I'll go re-read the sidebar and continue. Thanks.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 06:13 PM
2

Yeah, I'll look into clubs and see if one offers a type of fighting. In high school for my freshman year I played football but my parents made me switch out of fear of getting hurt into tennis so I lost a lot of aggressiveness that I had back then.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 12:26 AM
2

I'll work on this but knowing me, it'll come off as uncertainty until I master it.
/r/askTRP22/08/15 10:12 PM
1

Alright thanks and by mind fuck people around me are you talking about things in the 48 laws of power?
/r/askTRP22/08/15 10:11 PM
11

Oh damn. I've been trying to say the right things instead of doing them. Thanks a whole lot man.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 03:11 PM
3

Is that good game or bad game? I'm plat 2 so I think thats good, but I'm in the same boat.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 03:50 AM
1

I already do the first and I don't know if I'm shy or scared to be weird. I can talk to people about general things, but only people I know I can talk to about anything and be more lively around, but I'll work to change this.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 11:02 PM
1

Isn't that the main fun part of college? Doing stupid things to have stories to tell after? I know not to do the really stupid things like drinking and driving or unprotected sex if that's what you mean.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 11:01 PM
1

Learn how to cook and shop, depending on your dorm or living situation. Now is a convenient time, you don't want to worry about that when you're entering the career market and pulling out your hair over the real world. The shopping part I'll need help. How exactly do I shop? I'm not rich enough to walk into the mall and buy what ever I want. I have two Ambrocrombie shirts and a few hollister shirts but those are expensive for a few (I don't exactly know the value of money though). Part time job …
/r/askTRP10/08/15 11:00 PM
1

I want to thank you so much for this list. The tip about always stay for one more drink, is there a time it doesn't apply? I heard sayings like nothing good happens after midnight but I'm sure that's what parents tell kids
/r/askTRP10/08/15 08:26 PM
2

Alright that seems easier than people make it out to be. I have friends in grades ahead of me who know people. So I get to know who they know and people that I also interact with. Got it, thanks.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 05:38 PM
1

I see. Thanks for the input
/r/askTRP10/08/15 05:34 PM
2

Social group of the type of people with similar goals as I? (Medicine orientated) or people who know people and like to go do stuff (concerts, parties, trips)
/r/askTRP10/08/15 05:17 PM
1

When people say networking what exactly do they mean? Could you elaborate more on that?
/r/askTRP10/08/15 04:35 PM
5

He got bodied by a singing nigga
/r/askTRP01/08/15 05:08 AM
60

I thought it was like that, till I had a girlfriend and it ended badly. I can't imagine marriage where if that happens they take half your shit.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 12:36 PM
2

I would
/r/askTRP31/07/15 02:21 AM
2

That actually sounds a lot safer
/r/askTRP29/07/15 02:40 PM
2

Thanks for the answer.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 02:32 PM
1

I have a question too. If you nut, do you pull it out and switch condoms or keep going?
/r/askTRP29/07/15 02:25 PM
1

Seems easy enough. I'll keep this in mind. Appreciate the advice.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 11:59 AM
1

Thanks for the input. I guess I should start learning game. I'm tall and athletic, but my social skills aren't up to par so I now know what I need to work on.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 01:09 AM
2

Very much appreciate this brother. I've been looking at this from the wrong point of view the whole time.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 01:09 AM
2

Thanks for your reply. When I hear top 10% man I imagine a person who lives and breathes productivity and doesn't partake in frivolous activity. Imagine god making the earth and not resting on the 7th day. That's what I had in my head. I'll shoot you PM's if I have questions.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 12:05 AM
3

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3aiqkh/innocence_and_toughness/?ref=search_posts
/r/askTRP28/07/15 11:50 AM
1

I'm actually seeking advice and thanks. I spend too much time wondering why I'm scared instead of saying fuck it and just doing it. When I was in high school coach would push us in the weight room and now I'm going to college it's just me pushing myself which I have to learn to do
/r/askTRP21/07/15 03:21 PM
1

Yeah, that could be it.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 04:18 AM
2

Just the fact that there's pain and hard work vs just eating at home and sleeping
/r/askTRP21/07/15 04:17 AM
3

Question: Why am I scared to death to go to the gym this summer? I've been going for the past 3 years but everynight before I sleep, I keep telling myself I can skip tomorrow and just sleep in. I've been going since early June so it should be easier to keep up the pattern, but I still feel as scared as I do today as I did last month. Haven't skipped a day so far but that's because I have to get bigger and stronger.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 03:01 AM
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Lessons learned: Good sex is not enough to make a woman faithful. They have free and unlimited access to dick. If she wants it, she can get it. She was horny for me, but I wasn't there. I gave her commitment and emotional validation as well. It still wasn't enough. Nothing. These hoes ain't loyal.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 03:13 PM
6

If feminists were right about men then feminism wouldn't exist because men would just destroy it and anything else stupid that resembled it. I wish this was higher up. Society is just screwing itself and I'm hoping to get through college before any major crazy shit happens. They're already making up take 2hr+ online courses on how sexual assault is NEVER the victims fault. Who knows how much feminism will screw up in the years to come?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 12:49 PM
1

Guaranteed you have a skinny non muscular body because you don't have enough carbs for muscle growth. So follow Starting Strength. Yeah you're right. I'm trying to get a body like this but then again a body like This would be better If you would rather work a conventional job in college like selling coffee instead of being a dick pill salesman, you are a risk averse beta. Have fun wasting your life doing stupid shit for $10 and not having free time. Have fun being poor and eating shit food for f…
/r/askTRP19/06/15 02:59 PM
1

FYI - there is no magical piece to read that negates all unpleasant experiences you must go through to get where you want to be. It's called experience for a reason, you need yours, so go get it! I've been looking for that - advice like don't take a hammer to the head but for trp, but experience is the best teacher as long as I don't do anything too stupid. Thanks
/r/askTRP19/06/15 01:53 PM
1

I honestly skimmed you oneitis story because they all sound the same at this point. Uh, it isn't that, but thanks for the input. Focus on getting more social now over the summer talk to everyone you meet. Yes sir, this I can do. *Your diet and exercise plan is shit. Buy Starting Strength on Amazon and follow it to the letter. Mark Rippetoe's diet and exercise plan is better than whatever the fuck your doing. I'm following a keto diet based on what I read from /r/kino, but i really don't know wha…
/r/askTRP19/06/15 12:19 PM
1

You're right. It's easier to play with friends for 3 hours than go and read new books or work on drawing. Breaking the habit would be the best thing for me to do now, but I might wait until once I'm in college to quit.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 09:08 AM
1

I've read the 48 laws of power. First book suggestion I've read from trp. And maybe I am looking at this a bit too much. If by being out there and trying would yield results, I'm probably over worrying myself.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 09:06 AM
1

Thanks for the words. League is nice, but not going out to play league is where I messed up. I'll keep on reading and lifting
/r/askTRP19/06/15 07:07 AM
8

To really live life, means biting down on the bitter taste of loneliness and mediocrity, and pretending it doesn't taste like shit. Loneliness is something I used to be afraid of especially after my girl and I broke up, but now, after going to the weightroom and reading books, I look and notice I have no one to do things with. No SO. Kind of makes me look back on my past relationships and try to relive the feelings I had back then. Looking around and everyone is a couple makes me feel some type …
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 03:51 PM
1

Thanks for the long explanation. I'm really selling myself short because I assumed that because the things I do aren't interesting to the lay-person that they're not interesting at all. It's more about being interesting as a person, as well as communicating it well with the people that would be interested in it. For example, he's got girl issues. So he got into anime and speaking Mandarin to fit in with the Chinese girls. Bro, I might pick up Japanese like my little sister since I love Asian gir…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 01:33 PM
1

I tried, but they wont. I will not be seeing them again possibly after this summer as we're going to different schools.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 12:42 PM
1

I gotchu. I mainly play on Fridays and binge like 3 hours of playtime mainly because I got siblings at home to take care of since parents are at work and I can't go out.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 12:41 PM
1

Can you share the anecdote with us?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 12:39 PM
2

But honestly, hanging out with the guys who's idea of a great friday night is playing league till we pass out isn't the best. I wouldn't mind doing that once in a while, but honestly, there's more to life, I feel they're trying to tell me. Also if I want a white collar job, I have to focus on studying and socializing more and less on video game skill. Lifting is something I will treat like a religion once I start again.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 03:55 AM
1

I see what you mean. I play pool casually at church, but Ball is life. I really want to take up dancing and spanish to add more flare to my life once I get to college. I've taken spanish for 4 years, but I want to study abroad in Spain for a while and my spanish isn't good enough to live there.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 12:12 AM
1

now looking back i could have written an entire book. Good luck. Can you expand more on this? Doesn't what we think influence what we do which influences who we are? I think therefore I am.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 12:10 AM
5

I'll get all the chicks once I hit challenger!
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 12:09 AM
4

Oh absolutely, I worded that poorly. I meant it to mean games can trick your brain into putting lots of time and effort into training a skill to compete at something that won't improve any aspect of your life. But that's not entirely true, because a very small minority are making a good living from E-Sports. Videogames are fine as long as you're self disciplined and don't allow yourself to turn into a fat slob with no life outside the game. You can indulge in whatever you want as long as you kee…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 06:41 PM
2

Ayyy I like that idea. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 06:39 PM
7

it hijacks the masculine competitive nature Hmm, I agree with all you're saying but this part. Personally, it hasn't affected my competitive nature, and in fact, it's made more competitive in things I do. But I am seeing how they are a waste of time now.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 06:19 PM
3

If you think it's boring, it's boring; don't do it. Personally, I love watching LCS League of Legends games (like playoffs for League). I find it interesting comparing what I would have done compared to what somebody else would have done. But lets be real, out of the general population, how many people watch E-Sports compared to real sports? If I watch sports, the only time is during the super bowl rooting for one of the teams I like the least. What you do is interesting for some people, you are…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 06:04 PM
4

But still, I don't believe anyone is "naturally boring" if they're honest. That's why people like to bond over drinks, it makes you speak without filtering yourself as much. Drunk words are sober thoughts. As a result, the conversation flows easier. To an extent. I guess I'm not naturally boring, but for example, I read something that made a lot of sense to me. They said that when you're inviting a girl on a date, you're letting her tag along on your awesome day. Whether or not she decides to co…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 05:53 PM
5

Hmm. Lemme try. So I'm 18 and graduating today from HS. Since I have 4 siblings, I've been babysitting them for 90% of my senior year meaning I rarely get to go out. With my friends, we sit online and play league of legends and sometimes clash of clans. Alone, I play Final Fantasy and browse reddit. At school, I play basketball with my friends, but rarely get to play at home due to outgrowing my backyard small net. I think this is pretty boring, but I plan on doing more once I go off for college…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 05:08 PM
3

What if you're naturally boring? Do you work on your self first?
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 04:41 PM
3

Next
/r/askTRP05/06/15 11:33 AM
1

Boiii looks like she had the best fuck of her life. I want to become a man able to unlock the slut in a woman like that dude can.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 10:01 AM
53

Posting pictures of themselves on snapchat.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 01:38 AM
69

A guy who wants to play basketball but is afraid to go down to the local YMCA and join a local recreational team cannot be given a book to help him: he just has to decide how important this is to him in his life, embrace the fear/panic, and push through it. This statement has resonated with me more than anything I've read this month. Thank you for this. Ball is life
/r/seduction31/05/15 03:10 PM
3

The latter. Don't LTR a plate with red flags.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 03:36 AM
1

Anyone can hold you back. Friends, Family, Spouse, Team members. We can't tell you how to live your life, but if you feel that your life would be better if you broke up with her, do it. If you can tell her that you're going to better your life and she can leave if she wants to and she stays, that works also. At the end of the day, do you want to be laying in your deathbed thinking about everything you could have done had you broken up with her? Do you want to look back and regret not doing the t…
/r/askTRP28/05/15 12:15 AM
1

Alright I'll use the search function. Thanks for your input.
/r/askTRP25/05/15 03:27 AM
1

Well I'll be going to college this fall so I plan on getting a summer job to get better clothes as well as lifting. I don't want to avoid women as an excuse, but if that'll help I'll do that
/r/askTRP25/05/15 12:19 AM
2

What if you're an African american who was raised similarly/fall under the same set of conditions?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 11:19 AM
2

Have an idea of what kind of man you want to be and work towards it a few steps at a time. I am 32 now. When you hit my age, if you have worked hard on small goals- you will be a fucking Alpha monster at 32. Good luck. This is something I'm still deciding upon. I have a general idea, but I haven't seen the world yet to really know what it's like out there. The list of things I made are this: With summer starting in a few weeks, I've decided to get out and do things rather than playing league all…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 01:56 PM
1

Alright I'll pick a few things. I had a whole list, but that might be too much
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 01:40 PM
1

After summer I'll be at a new college where no one expect for a few guys will know me, meaning I can get to redefine who I am. Is this the best time to start faking the person I want to be in order to actually become that person, or will the uncanny valley theory get me as in people will see through my facade?
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 01:20 PM
1

Awesome. Takes a lot of balls to do that. Look forward to reading what happened.
/r/seduction20/05/15 12:40 AM
1

Congrats bro! Keep it up and remember to have fun.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 01:31 AM
9

damnit I wish you said this sooner Bruh... I responded like 15 mins after you made the post. Sounds like you already had your mind set before you posted this.
/r/askTRP17/05/15 06:54 PM
11

My gut says this is a bad idea as it gives off a clingy vibe It is. Don't be clingy. I'm sure you can find ways to distract yourself for 3 days. Go talk to other chicks
/r/askTRP17/05/15 04:40 PM
8

On a date, this girl starts flirting with another guy right in front of my eyes. I get pissed so I start walking out. She leaves the guy and follows me out cuz she needs a ride back. I pretend to be a gentleman, take her in my car never once talking, stop on a freeway shoulder and ask her to get out. She starts crying and says, "This was unexpected!". I can't help but smile...I'm pissed but can't stop smiling. I tell her to go fuck off. She scurries out of my car like a little girl and starts cr…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 12:09 AM
1

Then where should I go to learn?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 06:45 PM
2

Just try it. You miss all shots you don't take
/r/seduction15/05/15 04:39 PM
3

Yo man good luck with the IB diploma. We're testing until the 20th. I have history of America and ITGS left then I'm free. As for the girl, ask her out. Girls aren't direct about things and that was her way of telling you "Hey, I want you to ask me out".
/r/seduction15/05/15 12:02 PM
1

You're literally describing myself. I had a girl ask me to show her how I flirted with girls and in my mind, it resonated with me that I don't have any game. Should I go to /r/seduction to work on that?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 11:13 AM
1

Got it. I'll start reading it.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 03:57 AM
1

I was fearing more my social reputation. I'm in high school now and I know it's probably going to be different in college, but something like the person talking about it to their friends near a teacher I have for class might make it awkward if they mention they heard something about me. But then again, I'm being over scared.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 01:27 AM
1

Do you and forget your ego. I needed this bit as well as the whole thing. Sometimes I care too much about what others think. Thanks for reminding me.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 01:09 AM
1

I see what you mean. Better to live and learn than sit and do nothing.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 12:18 AM
1

But if it does sometime in the future, what then?
/r/askTRP15/05/15 12:09 AM
1

Thank you so much. I realized that before I could get the attention of people, I had to become a person worth it. A high status male. I'm working on my social abilities and once summer starts I'll work on bulking out and lifting.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 05:13 PM
1

Practice as in even just talking to women. Doesn't matter if you have 20 routines, take no shit and make 6 figures, if you can't stop yourself from mumbling and looking at your feet when a hot girl approaches that'll all go to waste. Yeah that happens when I talk to girls I consider hot. I just run out of things to say and look goofy Become that guy who knows all the girls at the shops he visits the most. Become that guy who always has something interesting to say outside of routines. And leadin…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 10:50 AM
2

I'm the observer type in a conversation and will usually only respond when asked. If I do have a humorous anecdote to share I will; if I have something relevant to add I will. Otherwise I just enjoy the group thing happening. Yeah that's basically what I do. Thing is when talking in groups and trying to get noticed, you sorta have to lead the convo. You can't just be a bystander. Or maybe I'm wrong. That's what I've had success with but I can't keep the attention for long then it turns to me per…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 02:17 AM
1

Practice as in pua stuff, or just being the guy girls want to fuck and guys want to be like?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 02:14 AM
3

Oh I didn't catch that. Thanks for the info
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 02:14 AM
2

My problem about the talking thing is I care so little about the daily mundane BS that fills most people's conversations. I have to feign interest. Deep life subjects on the other hand? You'll have a hard time getting me to shut up. I can relate to what you're saying. I feel the same way. Only problem the things I talk about also are mundane. With my crew we talk about league of legends, anime, school work, summer plans. With others I talk about... Nothing. I pretty much take the passenger seat …
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 01:43 AM
4

Thank you for your input. I'll try and flesh out the person I am more in college after summer
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 11:18 PM
5

Yes they do. And it's mostly confidence/frame. Looks and status always help, and I suppose some game does too, but honestly to get to this kind of next level interaction you have to have some seriously strong mental health, a level of zen calmness and clarity that takes a while to reach for most people. I consider myself calm for the most part. I get loud when I'm very hyped or telling a good story/joke. I can also easily come off as boring though. Confidence I have when it comes to doing things…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 11:08 PM
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To be perfectly honest, so did I. She texted me shortly after I left work with this: "I can't fucking stand you. What're you doing tonight?" Being the upstanding man that I am, I reply in kind: "You." To which she types: " sigh you're such an ass. I get off work at 10. I'll be over at 11." Yo man, I'm 18 and I haven't seen the world yet, but do girls literally fall in your lap when you got your shit together in life? Looks, money, confidence/frame? I'm learning some pua because I'm socially stup…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 10:36 PM
1

Just a side note: /u/NeoreactionSafe is for people /r/ is for subreddits.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 05:17 PM
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I see guys worrying about whether they are fun enough, whether they are boring, "working on their personality", and it makes me feel sick. To change your entire being just to gain access to a little piece of pussy, I cannot think what one could do to debase one's sense of self further. I found myself trying to do this. I was trying to change from an A student who likes to hang out with friends and become this hardcore partier who smokes weed and drinks everyday with the girls. Needless to say, a…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 01:33 PM
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Would the situation have been different if say he looked like Brad Pitt? I feel that if the guy looked more attractive he wouldn't be called a creep or such. It's real sad than men, mainly unattractive ones but still men in general, are guilty until proven innocent in most cases. The police even checked through his phone to make sure he wasn't a pedo. What did he do that raises signs of him being a pedo? Took a selfie near kids? Seems like the most important thing to remember in life is be attra…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 11:04 AM
1

You've already handled this badly - you're two days out from Prom and don't have a place to bang your date? Takeaway - ALWAYS have a crib. She's not my date. My date was an old friend but she's leaving early and I just thought of this. Got any bro's with a big brother who has his own place? Oh shit, you right. I'll ask my older bro
/r/askTRP08/05/15 09:57 AM
0

Guys please lol. Like she isn't attractive, but a nigga tryina get his dick wet for experience so when it comes to college, I'll know what I'm doing (more or less).
/r/askTRP07/05/15 10:23 PM
1

Tent? Woods? My nigga I live in the middle of the city. I see what you mean though. I might get a blanket and in a secluded area.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 10:22 PM
1

At Denny's parking lot? Some abandoned dark place?
/r/askTRP07/05/15 09:52 PM
0

Pay for possibly sub par sex? How much are hotels?
/r/askTRP07/05/15 09:52 PM
2

I feel that that's me. I'm high energy like, but only around people I know. With strangers I'm more reserved. To change this, I've started having the same high energy mindset I do with my friends with strangers. I don't really notice social cues but I'm learning and that leads me to say a lot of awkward/weird things . Should I stop that an just be who I am or keep striving to improve?
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 07:03 PM
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I'm in the same boat. I think, can't speak for it myself since I'm still doing it, but I found this from askmen "Fake it till you make it" is true, in general, but can give you the wrong idea. Rather than wording it like that, I'd say that you shouldn't wait until you're comfortable to act in a manner you consider confident. You say that 'you're not confident' and I think I understand what you mean. Here's how you can respond. First, pick a situation that you think isn't so great based on your l…
/r/askTRP05/05/15 02:27 AM
17

Still more attractive than most of these american whales.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 04:26 PM
1

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2ypdec/ill_keep_this_short_and_sweet_womans_definition/ http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1qb7mi/she_doesnt_love_you/ http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2zy0dj/how_men_love_male_commitment/ http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2w9gi7/true_love/ After reading these I think you can conclude for yourself.
/r/askTRP02/05/15 07:11 AM
2

Alright. I see what you mean. Through becoming a better person I'll reap the results Rather than trying to fake and get results. The former is the right way and more rewarding because it'll actually make me the man I want to be. Bro honestly, thanks for being all over the place and answering all my shit. You're the older bro I wish I had.
/r/askTRP02/05/15 01:52 AM
1

OP you're a mess, go read main side bar twice, go monk mode. changing your mind takes as much as it will take for you to change your fat-ass. Also depends how bad you want it. I'm physically okay. I'm not fat. I look good in clothes but lost my 6 pack. The problem is the open mindedness I need. I had the perception that I had to be this top 20% alpha male in order to get paid and live a good life. Obviously thats not true, but my perceptions were skewered.
/r/askTRP01/05/15 09:53 PM
1

Appreciate this too. Read it, played some ball, then read it again to take it in
/r/askTRP01/05/15 09:47 PM
1

Alright. I was under the impression that I had to lead the conversation and in How to win friends and influence... people love talking about themselves so making them talk about themselves makes them happy.
/r/askTRP01/05/15 05:37 PM
1

I don't wanna be a loser anymore. stop being one. you say you want. stop talking and do. Wow that's so easy. I can just stop being something I was for 18 years. I know I can, but how? Every time I open my mouth to say something witty it comes out retarded like. I try to be funny but my jokes end up with only me laughing to it. Someone else can say what I say and with their delivery it comes off funny. After hanging with my same friends for 7 years I'm adjusted on how we interact and jokes we mak…
/r/askTRP01/05/15 05:34 PM
1

Thank you for this. I'll make sure to read this book. Guess my fear really is irrational and I'm looking at things from the wrong perspective.
/r/askTRP01/05/15 05:20 PM
1

Honestly, if I could go back to the first two years of college. I'd re-do them. Find the connects, for everything. For the parties, for the grades, and be serious about each interaction. If you think someone is party-orientated. TALK to them ABOUT the last party you went to or what you expect. If you expect them to be more academically-orientated. Talk about how to get ahead, which teachers are the easiest, if the subject was cool and your thoughts on it, etc. Yeah this was the biggest piece of …
/r/askTRP01/05/15 11:18 AM
1

Hmm alright. Once I start networking I'll make sure to do this.
/r/askTRP01/05/15 10:57 AM
15

My nigga bitches come and go. Kids stay for 18 years. Better safe than sorry
/r/askTRP26/04/15 09:42 PM
1

That sounds even more passive aggressive. You act aggressive by demanding a name, then go passive by not responding. The answer with the guy just liking the post isn't passive aggressive since you're not confronting her on it. Its a little thing where she knows you know, but you're not gonna bring it up. If she doesn't care that you're seeing the way she's acting, then she doesn't value the relationship that much or she values the other guy more than you, so end it. But I haven't been in a real …
/r/askTRP25/04/15 05:28 PM
2

6' or 6'1"
/r/askTRP17/04/15 12:59 PM
1

You're going to be the reason I'll have kick ass college years. I thank you for this
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 03:23 PM
-1

This was exactly what I needed. God bless.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 07:45 PM
1

I would if I had my shit together in life. Finishing the late work doe almost all my classes this week then planning to stay on top of my shit.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 07:41 PM
1

It will help you get the habit of working out. I also had a little cringe when I saw you putting off working out until summer. Last summer I was hitting the gym at least 4 days a week. Now that school is on since I'm the oldest I gotta drive my siblings places and money Is tight with 7 at the house. Also, regarding "you have nice tits". I literally just said this to a woman last night at a party. She was wearing a very revealing top, showing off her front cleavage well. It was by no means creepy…
/r/askTRP12/04/15 04:39 PM
2

If that will help I'll start today
/r/askTRP12/04/15 01:34 PM
1

Are his podcadts avaliable on Youtube?
/r/askTRP12/04/15 12:26 PM
12

You should edit it in. I would enjoy to read the commentary you put on it.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 12:47 AM
1

Alright thanks for your input. I appreciate it and yeah I'm pretty young (18)
/r/askTRP07/04/15 09:00 PM
1

It is just a boring, everyday conversation that isn't going to make someone attracted to you. You need a plan to escalate the conversation into a date. You just need to show more interest in her as a girl you're attracted to. Alright. Should I wait till college when I'm more free to start doing this or start now
/r/askTRP07/04/15 08:15 PM
1

If you are not naturally an exciting person, do not engage in small talk. Being dry or boring is almost always a one-way ticket to Vagina Desert. Yeah I'm boring as fuck. I don't do much. I play tennis, take my classes, go home, play games and take care of siblings. This will all change next year when I get into college
/r/askTRP07/04/15 07:53 PM
2

Ah alright. This helps clear things up
/r/askTRP07/04/15 07:40 PM
1

Damn I do all of this wrong. I'll work on this when talking to people in general thanks.
/r/askTRP07/04/15 06:19 PM
1

Guess I still pedalistize the ones I feel I can connect to and try not to mess things up. If it's a girl i don't like I can say anything and if I fuck up it's w.e
/r/askTRP07/04/15 06:18 PM
1

Oh I got I'll search that up then
/r/askTRP07/04/15 06:00 PM
2

Alright H for her and M for me. M: Hey H: Hey M: What's up H: not much M: how was your weekend? H: ok M: what did you do? H: blah blah blah M: that's cool. How was xxx H: it was ok M: oh nice
/r/askTRP07/04/15 05:59 PM
1

So I can talk about anything and as long as I do those I'll be fine?
/r/askTRP07/04/15 05:37 PM
3

Then you're fucked. Simple as that. What happens if you have to parachute jump from a plane before the plane crashes but you don't have the motivation to? You die. Simple as that. I know losing family is hard but if you're more hung over your girlfriend breaking up with you than your dying grandmother, this shows how dependent on her you are. If I were you I'd spend as much time with Granny as I can now before it's too late. Tell her you love her while you still can and if she passes away (may h…
/r/askTRP02/04/15 07:04 AM
3

You want to be her friend? Then you're not going out with her. You want sex, you're going to either get sex, or lose her as a friend. It's up to y I u to determine if you wanna waste your type or spend it in other girls you can get sex from.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 12:32 PM
1

Oh alright I gotcha
/r/askTRP25/03/15 02:34 PM
1

Yeah I know guys who are doing this promposal and I also know an all girl group planning to go if no guys ask them out. It seems like a bunch of girls will go there for validation then go to an after party if there is one. Should I just go to the after party?
/r/askTRP25/03/15 12:51 PM
1

That link about not going to college surprised me the most. If I go I'll bring condoms in case.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 12:25 PM
1

Damn. Seems like your game is top notch
/r/askTRP25/03/15 12:24 PM
1

The plate thing is covert. You just spend less time with her and become non exclusive
/r/askTRP11/03/15 04:37 AM
1

Ah alright. So just put the movie on and escalate? If she's down it happens, if not, excuses right?
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 11:04 AM
1

How exactly do you escalate from "let's watch a movie at my place"to sex?
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 02:05 AM
1

I agree with this, except I don't know shit about relationships. Sounds good though, making her jealous and showing her that you have options and if she leaves she can be replaced. Sorta like mini-dread.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 02:40 AM
1

Yeah it was 14 in high school. Now at 18 I know better. Just waiting for college once I get my own place to start putting the other parts of this in action.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 08:31 PM
2

Shenstarted Started talking to me freshman year and this was sophomore year. We went out for like a week, then it was off, then went out again, then off, all the way to my senior year when I finally found the red pill and stopped crawling back go her.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 09:24 AM
8

I wouldn't consider my self grown as I still do childish things, but this was a real kick in the gut and eye opening experience Holy shit I still have the messages. Please bear with me. Looking back on it this was the worst thing I have done in my life. This is from last summer. My ex and I broke up and I was heartbroken then I sent her this letter: Katy, I know you don't want to talk to me but I have to tell you how I feel. Holding it in has been the worst decision I've made. During freshman ye…
/r/askTRP04/03/15 03:20 AM
25

Telling her plans I had for us to get married after we both first kissed. Sophomore year in high school.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 03:03 AM
2

Well it's something like that, but I play games as a means to prove that I'm better than the person I'm going against. If I win, my ego/confidence grows and if I lose I get butt hurt. It's been like this ever since I had to give up football, so I'm guessing this is what I do for competition though it's unhealthy to be outcome dependent.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 04:43 PM
2

Sounds like you quit a lot. You should beat yourself up a little about that and try a little harder to see things through to earn more of your own self-respect. You're right. If I would relate this to anything it'll be an alcoholic saying he'll quit after 1 more drink, but has been saying that for a year. Secondly, if you do fall off the horse, don't ever stop getting back on. Keep restarting even if you know it's possible you might quit, and make it last as long as you can. Discipline is just a…
/r/askTRP01/03/15 12:26 AM
1

There's red pill strategy for LTRs. Here are a couple https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2bnpp6/the_role_of_an_rp_man_in_an_ltr/ https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2kxv2g/psa_stick_to_trp_even_if_you_decide_to_have_a_ltr/ https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2dw53t/ltr_theory_tips_megathread/ https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2w2ine/longterm_relationship_game_theory_a_beginners/
/r/askTRP28/02/15 09:18 PM
1

Another thing I would touch on is that this may be partially biological. Eating right will provide your mind with the nutrients that you need to think straight. Lifting will give you the testosterone boost that will help you gain confidence in yourself. Sounds like you're not occupying you free time with enough activities that are self-improvement driven. This free time is why your mind is dwelling on the trivial things that are going to be, in hindsight, minimal and inconsequential. Alright. Du…
/r/askTRP28/02/15 09:14 PM
2

Yeah I've been apart of nofap but then quit. Fapping isn't what's causing my problems neither are girls. It's something along the lines of disciplining myself and living up to expectations I've set, but I keep failing at that. Thanks for the reply though.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 07:39 PM
1

What if you fall between the two? Mondays through Wednesdays I'm usually focusing hard on my school work so I'm often silent, but wed through Friday I'm usually down to talk to people and become outgoing again.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 03:43 AM
1

be in her social group and allow her to see other women giving you attention Ok, I can get there and become friends with them, but this just ends with all of us becoming friends/bros. Possibly because I talk to girls like I talk to guys, but maybe because we're still in high school?
/r/askTRP27/02/15 03:30 AM
9

Best time was a few weeks ago. Second best time is now.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 03:01 AM
1

Thank you thank you so much. My content is good I was told buy my body language and facial expressions suck ass.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 02:28 PM
1

I'm turning 18. Confidence is a big thing they look for in scholarship and job interviews
/r/askTRP21/02/15 03:57 PM
1

Guess that's the first step.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 03:56 PM
1

I'll start doing that.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 03:56 PM
1

Haha, I'll make sure to do that. Thanks
/r/askTRP21/02/15 02:48 PM
1

Alright. I'll realize this. Another flaw I think that is my greater one, is my lack of ability to communicate. I stutter and sometimes speak too fast and trip over my words. Will talking to everyone I see at school help me with this in time? Sorry if I sound repetitive. I thought I was a confident person, but turns out that a only in tennis, basketball, league of legends, and talking with people I know. Not to strangers.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 02:47 PM
1

I see the direction I need to help now. You know any fake confidence or fast confidence things I can do for Tuesday? Starting today, I'm starting to work harder for more confidence, but I need to nail the interview Tuesday. It's the difference between going to a private university or going to a community college
/r/askTRP21/02/15 02:34 PM
1

Alright, I'll start searching. And for vocal projection there are similar things avaliable, correct?
/r/askTRP21/02/15 01:58 PM
1

I'll look into that for the summer, but do you know anything I can do this weekend to help?
/r/askTRP21/02/15 01:49 PM
1

cunt of a heroin addict for a good 6 years Drugs do shit to you and make you act a certain way. You know those bad boy thugs girls see on TV and wanna fuck? You resembled that. Also you give off a wild lifestyle with surprises around the corner and chicks dig that.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 01:27 PM
4

Edit: also, do not record anything without consent. Its not only inadmissable in courts (usually) it's often illegal. Fuck that. Record that shit. Just don't go blabbering about it. If you have some evidence only tell your Lawyer. They might be able to jump through some holes and have the evidence save your ass.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 04:25 AM
2

Oh alright. Thanks for the insightful input.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 06:18 PM
2

Thanks for this. I took a lot out of it. So since I'm still growing, I have a lot to learn from growing up. I should focus on my Future and fun and then everything else will be fine. And yeah, I have about 15-17% body fat. Not sub 12% like I wanted yet, but a I get older I'll have time to join a gym.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 06:06 PM
1

Alright. Appreciate the insight.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 02:26 PM
1

I agree with what you're saying. Coincidence is something that plays a part in it, but the reason I'm not confident about it is because, like you said, my social skills aren't up to par. Playing new sports or taking a new class I can do with confidence (or fake it well) even though I know nothing about it. Talking to people, not so much. I'll talk to people I don't know daily to see if that helps my conversation skills. Thanks.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 01:53 PM
1

Let's say I got a girlfriend and she wants to spend time with me, what exactly do I do with her? Women reflect the man in the relationship. She will be interested in doing the stuff that you do, because she wants to spend time with you. Set the frame, hold it and she will follow. What to do with your girlfriend? Fuck her furiously probably. Acknowledged. Now I know not to buy them gifts and stuff for no reason, but the complement thing I see no monetary harm but know the beta Ness it reflects on…
/r/askTRP17/02/15 01:49 PM
0

Most people trying to spout off the kind of shit I get away with would look like huge, arrogant dicks. That's what I was worried about, but saying gotcha or psyche will let them know I'm joking expecially if I chuckle at the end or say something like "you really believed me? "
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 09:54 PM
8

The second crucial point is to ensure your teasing does not collapse into an emphasis on cuteness, tickling and funny voices that is often conflated with a couple’s inside jokes. You’re aiming to be the affectionate bully, not the touchy friend. Too much familiarity in a tease and you’re just earned yourself a ticket to the comfortable but lust-free “sweatpants and a messy bun” by 9pm. Yeah, I often find my teasing ending up like this. I feel that because of my stature and the stature of the gir…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 11:21 AM
1

It's in the way you say it. If you say it like shut up about this!!11 then you sound buthurt, but if you just say "I've had enough of this, or I'm tired of hearing it" it sounds more like you're in control of your emotions. You know how as a kid adults used to make fun of kids who resulted to cursing when they don't have other words to use (because of their small vocabulary)? Swearing at unneeded times makes you look immature and like you're having a tantrum or some shit, idk
/r/askTRP05/02/15 02:15 AM
1

Wait, it's not ok to bang their ex? Getomc said it was ok to bang their wife/gf/ex/etc. But I don't think that it's a good idea to bang a bro's wife, gf, sister (unless they hook you two up or something) but is banging their ex bad?
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 02:27 AM
1

I thought that trp was a joke when I first came here, but after being here for a year the stuff actually works, though your mileage may very. What I picked up was to work on building up yourself physically, mentally and financially. Once you're in good standing then feel free to pursue women. Most guys live for women so they die from the lack of them, as a quote said (sorry for butchering it) If you live for the applause of the people, you die from the lack of it, You see most guys groveling the…
/r/askTRP17/01/15 06:20 PM
1

Oh I missed it. Re read it and saw it now
/r/askTRP16/01/15 05:27 PM
0

I see. But he said literally. But I see what you mean. Sorry about that.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 05:18 PM
2

The fuck? i got 10 mins up the interstate before i my phone rings and its the “you wanna come over” call. Wine, Movie, more LMR “I’m not having sex with you tonight”…ended up having a great fucking time, literally.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 12:19 PM
32

Well I guess your name gives it away...
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 12:09 PM
1

Damn he's built like a god
/r/askTRP16/01/15 11:51 AM
2

Yeah man, like /u/philly2shoes said above But I realized that if I didn't give her what she wanted, someone else was going to. Remember that. You can turn on the beast inside you, or fail to do so and know that some other dude will be treating her like his fuck toy.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 12:28 AM
1

Oh I didn't know that they would change with my body.I thought it would remain the same and it would be strangely out of proportion.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 10:41 PM
1

I'll make sure to join one. Thanks
/r/askTRP15/01/15 03:18 PM
1

Okay thanks. I see where I was thinking wrong
/r/askTRP15/01/15 03:18 PM
1

Smart smart. Thanks. I'll read more about this. I reckon joining a frat will make this easier?
/r/askTRP15/01/15 02:59 PM
1

An I see. Them use that to later escalate and set up dates and such right?
/r/askTRP15/01/15 02:42 PM
1

Thanks. This is what I was looking for. I love perspiring and working hard for a great looking body, but I'm the person who wants to be a doctor or engineer. I know i can't pull of the tattooed badass, but serious businessman and witty entrepreneur I can pull off.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 01:15 PM
1

Lol not at all. I'm talking about the behavior half of it. I can become as jacked as I want, but if my mind is still bp that won't help me achieve anything. Both needs to be changed. Specifically I'm asking if I can still do what I do when I'm jacked. Things like play tennis, play cards, play pokemon/league of legends, joke and stay lighthearted without turning into a hard cold macho motherfucker. Have you ever seen somebody who looks all tatted up and shit like a motherfucker who will fuck anyb…
/r/askTRP15/01/15 01:13 PM
1

Is making the transition something I should do (from my current state to the other one)?
/r/askTRP15/01/15 11:51 AM
1

I agree with everything you're posted here aside from going to deaf bedrooms. I think that the people here (hopefully) can help him better than they can. I haven't been in op's situation, (I'm 18) but I wish him the best if luck.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 11:25 PM
-1

Might as well try to see if we can say anything positive about you
/r/askTRP06/01/15 06:16 AM
7

Last week marked 1 year since I've found this sub and I'm grateful. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 02:37 AM
1

I gotcha. I'll make sure to do that
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 02:18 AM
1

So 80:20 80 percent on my self and 20 on dating and such?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 02:17 AM
3

Work mainly on my body (lifting) or social contacts?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 02:04 AM
3

What about for me who just turned 18 yesterday? The same thing?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 01:44 AM
1

Alright. I'll do what I need to.
/r/askTRP24/11/14 01:29 AM
2

Oh I get it now. Thanks for this clearer explanation.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 10:12 PM
1

I completely understand what you've said. When I was younger (by maturity like 3 months ago) I did this all the time. After what I went through in my last relationship I learned that doing that will only get me hurt. Sure, I want to love somebody eventually, but for now, I'm busy loving myself.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 07:29 PM
1

Oh okay. The having sex with them part, I do on a daily basis with different girls. Fantasizing a life with them and stuff, nope.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 05:41 PM
1

Ah I see. Always work on yourself and move up if possible.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 03:18 PM
1

Appreciate the explanation. I don't fully get it, but I comprehend more. So if there's a celebrity I lust after, then I can't actually love my SO?
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 03:01 PM
4

Could you please explain the meaning/significance? What I got from it is that dating is a game. You're always moving up to the next level or ep better partner and once you can't get any better and decide to settle you call that "love".
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 07:00 AM
1

Could we also include the reversals in the main post? I think they're also valuable to discuss.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 06:33 PM
2

I think that we should also discuss the reversals of each laws and when to apply them. And I second the motion of keeping the discussion here. Later we can transfer it to another sub.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 11:44 PM
1

While I agree with everything he says and advise not to be like him, this story reads like fiction. Here there is another story written similar to it where op is making up shit and called out on it. The writing style is similar to this one. It could be that the person writing the one I linked is copying this one linked in the original post and if so, I apologize to all of you and OP (of the original story) expecially. /r/tifu/comments/2lm71e/tifu_i_took_my_dream_job_and_it_destroyed_my_life/clwe…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 10:40 PM
5

Appreciate you trying to contribute but this has already been posted /r/TheRedPill/comments/2fn6zb/the_law_of_fuck_yes_or_no/
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 09:08 PM
3

Despite all of this personal development, we are still together. You see, after all this change, my insecurities disappeared and so have all our causes for conflict. With my new skills, we are both happier and healthier. I am no longer the little bitch I used to be. She was never really a bad girl, or promiscuous or a bitch. I was just ridiculously insecure. We graduated together 2 years ago, and have been working since. These past two years have been the most stable of our relationship, ever. I…
/r/askTRP08/11/14 12:21 PM
3

Off topic, sorry, but I swear I've read this before here. Was it you who said it before? I'm having a case of deva vu.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 01:10 AM
1

Alright, I understand now. Thanks.
/r/askTRP07/11/14 12:57 AM
1

I'll be more verbal. What if he retaliate and restates what he said? It's not that I'm not fluent in English, I speak it very well, but I'm the type of person who thinks of the perfect comeback after the situation has passed. I can't think of something snappy on the spot.
/r/askTRP06/11/14 04:16 PM
2

Exactly. I played football since 7th grade, and went to tennis senior year. All those years of lifting, running, and eating right led to me being faster. Not simply because I'm black, but what ever helps them sleep at night.
/r/askTRP06/11/14 05:47 AM
1

What do you say after that in worst case scenario?
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 11:22 PM
2

Thank you. I'll look into that.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 04:47 PM
2

Yeah I should have, but it died down. If it happens again I will.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 04:45 PM
1

Step one -- start sticking up for yourself. If it "feels" like you should, then the action be to stick up for yourself right then, every time. Defend yourself, and I don't mean physically (If you must, you must), but mostly I mean verbally, and with your actions. Will do. Step two: People who are respected act in ways, and do things deserving of respect. In other words, be a leader. Do this by being the person who takes risks, and does the "hard" thing, always. That means, when something needs t…
/r/askTRP05/11/14 03:25 PM
1

About the walking part, if I'm looking straight and somebody and I lock eyes together, I just keep my head straight and keep walking, right? Or do we turn our heads a bit and wonder why the fuck the other guy is staring me in them eye?
/r/askTRP05/11/14 11:44 AM
4

Thanks for the sobering read. I went from going to the gym 4 days a week to just doing push ups in my room, not because my schedule got busy once school started, but because I failed to allot time for the important things in my life (lifting vs games). Also you're right again when you say that it isn't society that makes me act like this. I decided to follow the path of less resistance and that's what has gotten me here. I'll stop blaming the outside world and take responsibility my self. Apprec…
/r/askTRP05/11/14 11:29 AM
2

I'll work on this thanks again bro. Have a good day/night
/r/askTRP05/11/14 07:08 AM
1

Is there a way to learning to trigger that anger? The only time I can trigger it is in he weight room and listening to music with headphones. I'd like to be able to harness and use it at will.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 06:52 AM
2

Next time you feel that someone has been rude to you or makes you feel "smaller" simply tell them fuck you. Now don't get teared up and choke. It's hard when you do it for the first time because you feel emotional. Express your feelings (yes feelings) and say "fuck you" or "fuck off". I'll try this. I haven't told anybody to fuck off without it being in a playful tone. Please know that fighting over a girl is not worth it. (Unless say, some guy slaps your girl's ass) I've read enough stories and…
/r/askTRP05/11/14 06:36 AM
1

My circle of friends consists of the type of people who Do homework then play league of Legends for the rest of the day, so you're right about that. You can't keep both feet on the ground and kick ass at the same time, so what's it going to be, dude? I fucking love this quote. It's genius.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 06:14 AM
3

To start though, you can start flipping them shit back. Sonce you're tall this is prob all you need to do. Say it joking like they do, but hurt them. If they mention you being black, tell them Yeah thats also why my dick is bigger than your tiny Asian dick. Damn, I forgot about things like that. I'll start playing their game and then they'll see how it feels when the shoe is on the other foot. Now they are not used to you not being a pushover, so the first few times your gonna get a lot of resis…
/r/askTRP05/11/14 06:03 AM
2

Thanks for the explanation. I better see what I need to do now.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 05:11 AM
2

Thanks, but how exactly do I fix it? Is not something I can undo in one day and what steps do I take to undo the damage I've done?
/r/askTRP05/11/14 04:57 AM
3

Trying to continue a conversation = beta? You're only giving her something to go on with the conversation. If she starts to move toward you getting her a gift or something, then you can deflect it or ignore or any of the other techniques.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 05:54 PM
1

That's what I'm striving to do. Once I enter university I'll have a lot more free time to hit the gym and socialize
/r/askTRP30/10/14 04:53 PM
1

Ever since TRP I've cut down playing games in public. Occasionally, I play some yugioh with my bros, but mainly its League on the weekends. I'll try and learn to enjoy the grinding more. It was a first for me (besides my ex). And I felt guilty because I'm known as the kid who would "make a great husband" and was kinda scared about word getting to my teachers, but nothing happened. Class was fine this week. I was worried for nothing.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 03:58 AM
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Rhythm and me don't go together, unless it's rapping. But I'll learn to get more comfortable on the dance floor.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 03:55 AM
1

Ah alright. Thanks for clearing that up
/r/askTRP30/10/14 02:37 AM
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I should do things to draw attention to my self and show that I'm willing to do what I do despite what others might think? Or the part about the actual dancing just thought about that.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 02:08 AM
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Appreciate it. Compared to the other girls at the school, she's about a 7. Nothing too great, but it was the fact that I didn't know her like that. We say hi in the hallways but that's about it. The other girl orbits me when she gets the chance but ever since I stopped coming to her she does that less. And I forgot all about the jealousy thing. If I'm with an a girl it will raise my value and make other girls want me more.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 01:27 AM
1

Thanks for this in-depth analysis. I probably should have asked more girls to dance, but I lacked the confidence in my dancing abilities to do so. Had it been something else like sports, picking teams, etc. I would have no problem doing so. I'll make sure to attend more social gatherings.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 01:23 AM
1

Yeah. I listen to him a lot. That's when I really thought about where I belong, and both of you are right. I just need to do me.
/r/askTRP28/10/14 08:40 AM
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I love how people here are giving you shit for learning new things as a medical student. WTF, YOU'RE GONNA B A DOCTOR AAAANNNNDD KNOW C++??!! WHY. WOW. YOUR WASTING YOU'RE TIME. IS BEING A DOCTOR NOT GOOD ENOUFF FOR U" Like bitch, if a man wants to study medicine, code computers, learn Spanish, work out and learn to cook why the hell would you be giving him shit. You should commend him for wanting to be a better version of himself, not condemn him. The your and you're were purposely misplaced. A…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 11:14 PM
2

Thanks for the wise worlds!
/r/askTRP21/10/14 02:30 AM
1

Yeah. I can't let this keep me from my goals. Honestly I think I've been trying to integrate based on skin color instead of interests since the type of people I share interest with aren't black and I guess others give me shit for that for some reason. I'll learn to block it out and hang with people that value me.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 04:58 AM
1

It's too much for me. Back when I was in Africa I never saw a woman challenge a man like these American black women do. Some of them aren't afraid to get physical against a man. Thanks for the conversation we had. It really helped me look at things differently. It's almost midnight here and I gotta sleep for class. Take care!
/r/askTRP20/10/14 04:54 AM
1

Ah I see where you're coming from. Since I was young, my parents forced us to speak Igbo at home no english. Because of that I speak Igbo as well as people who have lived in Nigeria all of their lives (aside form my accent). The bribry I've heard a lot about but my parents have connections and people they know (as well as siblings) so they don't have to worry about it as much. I probably have to so I'll hold off on that. Vietnamese people love karaoke. My homeboy always complains that every time…
/r/askTRP20/10/14 04:36 AM
1

Yeah, Nigeria is where I'm from. I've only been once last summer and it was a joy seeing family I've only talked to over the phone. Vietnam, since a lot of my friends are from there (as well as my favorite teacher) I decided to visit there to know what it was like for them growing up and stuff. And yeah, the language is difficult. England and Germany I'll look into as well. And France, well I love food so it'll be a good place to stop by also.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 04:21 AM
1

Took me a long while to figure out that you can basically say "fuck them!". Never really thought I could just tell them that easily. Honestly, I don't think I've ever told anybody to fuck off or fuck themselves in a non playing manner. Just don't see myself as the type of person to do that. But I guess I have to man up and seize control of my life if I wanna enjoy. About traveling out of the country, I'd like to go to Mexico, Spain, Japan, Vietnam and back to Nigeria. So far that's my list.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 04:04 AM
1

Well I went to one quinceanera. I forgot that. Thanks for giving me this positive look on things. I thought that I needed to be associated with a group to feel accepted. I guess this makes me mixture of many of them. And yeah, the hood dudes have lots of fun partying doing drugs and girls, etc. I sorta want that sometimes too, but my friends (and others) see me as not that sort of dude. "You're better than that" and all other things to keep me from being like them.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 03:34 AM
2

My parents want me to stay out of trouble, and make good grades since I'm aiming to be a neurosurgeon or family practitioner. But trp also advocates having social game which is where I'm very weak. As a sheltered kid, I wouldn't say I'm socially awkward, but I don't have a lot to talk about. I don't watch movies or TV, rather watch exports than regular sports, and rarely get to go out (taking care of 5 siblings). I was hoping that being part of a "popular culture" will help fill in the blanks on…
/r/askTRP19/10/14 11:58 PM
1

I'm Nigerian. West Africa. Also the target of Ebola jokes lol... I just shrug it off. Not worth getting into fights or suspensions when I have scholarships waiting for me.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 11:45 PM
1

Aww shit. I was looking forward to it. With the double cups, jolly ranchers or Gummi bears accompanying it. Is the combination of weed and lean potent? What about shrooms?
/r/askTRP19/10/14 11:13 PM
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If she can fuck some other dude before going out with you, think about how she views you. She doesn't see you as the wild crazy man she wants to have hot sex with, rather the guy who can financially support her and she's trying to buy all of that with her sex. Her pussy isn't worth it. If she won't give it up to you, her boyfriend, but will to some stranger, drop it like it's hot.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 11:00 PM
1

Yeah drinking I'm gonna start (at least see what it's like) in college once I get away from home. Drugs, I'll start with weed and I really wanna try syrup/lean but Macklemore' s otherside video makes me think otherwise. But lil wayne did have a good time with it. Sex, yeah I'll start having it (main reason I started going to this subreddit). Kinda worried about having laced drugs like weed laced with Cocaine.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 10:58 PM
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I have a small group of friends as well as a diverse group of kids that play yugioh (I was heavily into it my previous years). These are the only places I'm fully accepted (no treating me different). I know I'm an African when I get home. At school, the Africans there don't really talk much out of their group so they don't share a lot on of the interests I do such as rap and basketball, so I hang with the black people. As Classes got more rigorous the blacks weren't there anymore so I move to th…
/r/askTRP19/10/14 10:15 PM
2

Damn. What a nigga do?
/r/askTRP19/10/14 10:02 PM
1

For the longest time I forbid myself from listening to that "devil's music". About a few weeks ago I heard hot nigga, then went to listening to bobby bitch, then the carter IV from lil wayne and honestly I'm loving how they're painting that lifestyle. But I'm old enough (17) to know that all of that comes with money (like you said) and has dire consequences. My dad had a friend who died taking Cocaine for his first time. One of his home boys he knew from, college is currently homeless and asking…
/r/askTRP19/10/14 10:01 PM
2

Hey, how's it going?
/r/askTRP19/10/14 09:51 PM
2

Thanks. I'll just ride it out until college where things should be better.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 09:03 PM
2

Women in general I get along with. Dating wise, I've been with 3 girls in high school. One black, one Hispanic and one asian. Currently I'm single.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 09:02 PM
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Songs I think you should consider adding on the list are Beast Mode - B.O.B Sweatpants - Childish Gambino Despicable - Eminem Go to Sleep - Eminem Cold wind blows - Eminem Drop the World - Lil Wayne Ft. Eminem Beat The Shit - Lil Wayne Ft. Gunplay I have a couple more, but I want to make sure these hit the theme you're getting at. Thanks for the list of songs to add to my playlist.
/r/becomeaman10/10/14 10:21 PM
1

Do you want to become more masculine and attract the majority of girls? Follow our advice. Happy the way you are? Keep doing what you're doing. You keep rejecting advice people give you. If you don't need help don't ask.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 10:15 PM
2

Look at the top posts on this subreddit. There's a post titled "she doesn't love you" which explains exactly what you're saying
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 11:26 PM
0

Brah, supports are da real mvp. I remember playing league 2 days ago as master yi and going 26/5 , a king our team win. I got praise by the whole team for carrying them but I had to give praise to our support. When I was caught in 1v3s who was the person with the heals to help me win the fight? The support. When I was stealing a buff and got caught who saved my ass? The support and their cc. We're losing a team fight and I get cc locked, who cleanses the cc and heals me? The support. Sure you're…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 01:30 PM
1

Excelente read. Your flipping confused me for a bit, but you misspelled finance, r/personalfinance is what you're looking for. Didn't know the sub existed. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 04:50 AM
5

Instead of writing posts go play some League Damn, this addresses my problems too. Back before I found the red pill that was how I got over things. Girl broke up with me? Instead of asking what's wrong with me/what can I improve I said "Well, this keeps my weekends free with the guys." Not trying to be rude, but seriously. Focus on yourself and your plates. Best times j had in my life were when I was having fun myself, not trying to get my girlfriend/other friends satisfied. Sorry for the hijack…
/r/askTRP13/09/14 10:03 PM
1

What do they give you that other girls don't? Attention. They mess with you, walk over you and you like it because you're still getting their attention and you feel validated. This reminds me of when I was in a crappy relationship where it sucked but hey, at least I'm not single amerite? She gave me hugs and kisses, but it felt like she was doing it because she had to. But if you personally love bitches more power to you.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 02:43 AM
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I can remember one month where my grandmother died and I cried for about a day. After that I was emotionless. I felt empty but not like I was missing anything. Is that the way psychopaths live out their lives? No ups no downs no emotional roller coaster. I think that was his question
/r/AlreadyRed08/09/14 01:51 AM
2

You're completely right. It would be better if I tell them to discuss it with me at a later time. Thanks for a simple solution.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 04:29 AM
3

Shit, this is me right now. Every morning I'm with my friends and some girls these guys show up and ask me if I heard about the new yu-gi-oh news and other shit. I mean, it's my last year so I shouldn't care much, but it's kinda frustrating having them constantly coming up to me and others associating me with them.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 10:30 PM
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No matter how hard I occupy myself with work/school/gym i still find myself checking her social media, thinking what snaps she might be sending and what kind of sex she withhold from me is she giving some other guy she met a week ago.. you get the picture and it's not pretty God damn bro, you described me perfectly here. I'm not talking to her, but I still check her instagram, Facebook posts, checking snapchat for messages and shit. What I've been doing now is enveloping myself with school work.…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 10:33 PM
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I just remembered that high school is different from college and the rest of the world where you won't run into them ever again possibly. But for those of us in school, how should we go about with things?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 02:03 AM
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I appreciate this. It's a very sobering read. I was the guy who worked his ass off and did my assignments. Last school year I started jacking around and caring less. GPA dropping, getting lazier and lazier, but hey, work was getting done. I now see where that path will lead me and have to change. Appreciate it man
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 07:11 PM
1

So far things are smooth there. Only thing was race. I'm black and she's hispanic so the whole black people are dangerous card was drilled into her since we first met 2 years ago, but she's changing. Kinda hurts when she says that if I was hispanic she would have said yes to me last year in a heartbeat, but life is life :) Thanks again .
/r/askTRP14/08/14 04:27 AM
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Gotcha. Staying away from that shit then
/r/askTRP14/08/14 02:48 AM
1

Kind of iterated that i had to tell her that I'mgoing to do the exact same things she told me for her to understand and say wow, that hurts. You'd think it's common sense but apparently not
/r/askTRP14/08/14 02:38 AM
1

Having an abundant mentality is the shit. Let's you easily let go when you need to, it's just the times we're together getting intimate makes me think of her with greater importance/care. This is a girl who hasn't touched a penis before and I'm teaching her how stuff works (sheltered life), but at the same time chicks Come and go, yeah? :/ The more I'm learning the more frustrating it's getting. I wanted a girl who I could have deep intellectual conversations with and explain complex things to l…
/r/askTRP14/08/14 02:36 AM
1

I get what you're saying, but isn't an open relationship a win for the girl ultimately?
/r/askTRP14/08/14 02:29 AM
1

You're right, but what about the second part of my post?
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 05:24 PM
2

Thanks for the tips. I'll start practicing
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 05:24 PM
2

Oh shit. I even printed this out. A nigga be getting complacent in his relationship. Appreciate the reminder bro.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 06:14 PM
1

Assumed so. Got it bro.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 05:58 PM
1

But bettering yourself is for you. Before I lifted I felt insecure as fuck and like shit. I'm not a body builder now but I feel great as fuck. People even complement me boosting my self esteem, confidence and other good shit, plus girls brushing up and feeling a 6 pack then smiling gives you a warm feeling inside, at least for me
/r/askTRP25/07/14 08:10 PM
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Alright. Thanks
/r/askTRP25/07/14 07:52 PM
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The other girl was cute, but got lazy and fat now. Best if I just shut up?
/r/askTRP25/07/14 07:42 PM
1

Time? Time to lift ofcourse /s But I was wondering the same thing you were. My girl likes going to the park and finding a nice vacant spot where we sit, talk, hold hands, make out, etc.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 08:27 PM
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Yeah, they let me go to the gym, but they say that partying is a waste of time (as playing games is too). I might ask them to go out and hoop or play tennis. My cousins are pharmacists and doctors and they put a lot of time in their studies and my dad wants me to do the same.
/r/askTRP28/06/14 11:20 PM
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I'd love to go to parties but the friends I he are the same ones that stay home and play league (or go to each other's house and play). My parents are over protective and telling them "Hey I'm going to this party. I'll be back tonight" wouldn't fly with them. They would much rather have me stay at home studying all day than out at a party.
/r/askTRP28/06/14 10:44 PM
1

I do strength for an hour and cardio for the other hour. I might learn how to play the piano we have at our house then. Thanks.
/r/askTRP28/06/14 10:41 PM
0

I know that LoL ranking doesn't mean shit, but my first time in my promos 2 games I lost because people went afk after they died from a gank and said they didn't care, they're already told five. 2nd time I fed hard and lost so that was all my fault. The LoL goal, I'm so close to it (S1) but so far at the same time. And I'll start looking at mcat stuff. Thanks for reminding me. As for my essays, I might as well start tomorrow morning. Might finish them by the end of next month
/r/askTRP28/06/14 08:12 PM
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she went on a date with another guy, and she blamed me for the date going bad L O L. I shouldn't be shocked about how women rationalize but seriously. Congrats to you bro. This is the beginning of a new and beautiful life. One where you will not be blinded by the bull shit others are.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 01:26 AM
1

Thanks For the quality explanation. Leaned a lot from it
/r/askTRP03/06/14 01:19 AM
1

A little of both. I understand.
/r/askTRP02/06/14 08:00 AM
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You will never be happy in a relationship if all you think about is how to act with your significant other. Fuck is that true. You're right. I'm here playing not to lose while I should be playing to win and learning from when I do mess up. Just make yourself into the man you want to be and instill the values you want in yourself. The rest will come naturally. I'm assuming that's what has kept the relationship together in the first place. I'll keep it up and work on my future. Appreciate the inpu…
/r/askTRP02/06/14 07:55 AM
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That's what I'm predicting. The old me where life should be easy and fun and because you love somebody unconditionally they will love you back the same way. The right way. I got it. Thanks.
/r/askTRP02/06/14 07:52 AM
1

Only complement her to reward good behavior but never not complement her?
/r/askTRP02/06/14 07:03 AM
2

Thought as much.
/r/askTRP02/06/14 07:01 AM
2

I remember hearing my parents talk about the removal of food stamps hurting the black community because a lot of them live in the ghetto. For the longest I thought this was mainly hurting only blacks until my dad's friend told him to look up the race mainly on food stamps and gov. aid. Turns out that almost 50% of the food stamp recipients are white while only about 25% are black. So really, the race being hurt more is the white one, but the media focuses on the black race. That's why I'm wonder…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 01:11 AM
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I don't know exactly how the white male has it. I am a black male and I was genuinely curious about how bad it is. From the music I listened to growing up (rap) it was saying how white people had it made and they (the rappers mainly black) had to hustle and struggle. Now, being much older, I see that not a single race really has it made. It is hard work of you (or your parents). But I'm still curious about how things are for a white male. I'm a black male and so far (in high school) things aren'…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 01:06 AM
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You are in a bad time in history, you are white and male, people will hate you for just this. Is it as bad as being black and male? I'll be going to college soon and facing "The real world" and I don't really know how it is out there. EDIT: I'm a black male.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 11:46 PM
1

The asian study thing is something my parents love making me do. They tell me to go in my room and study for 3 hours before I can play or go out, but I've gotten used to it
/r/askTRP01/06/14 11:38 AM
1

The negative parts of getting a job are what my father and cousin have told me. Especially the part about the money becoming pocket change if I invest in my self now and get into a good profession.
/r/askTRP31/05/14 11:13 PM
1

Thanks for this guideline. My gpa is 3.98 (spanish killed it) and I am taking AP Calc next year. I'll check out some books from the library. My SAT score is what I'm working. Pretty low for somebody hoping to get into medical school (550 Reading 610 Math) I'm in the IB program and we need 150 hours of community service. I have around 40 at the moment and I need to acquire more this summer.
/r/askTRP31/05/14 11:12 PM
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I've been complaining about an allowance since elementary and finally now they've decided to give us one. It's enough to go out ONCE a month (somewhere cheap). Yeah, getting a job is the best idea.
/r/askTRP31/05/14 08:42 PM
1

Appreciate your input. I'll start looking into this now.
/r/askTRP31/05/14 06:08 PM
1

I'll work on getting one then. Will being a ref for the YMCA be sufficient or should I find a job in a store? (Or mowing lawns)
/r/askTRP31/05/14 05:46 PM
1

"My Compilation Of Core RedPill Books. Read, now." along side with /r/ redpillbooks (can't cross link)
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 10:56 AM
1

I got it. I'm still a bit young to be thinking about marriage, but I will keep this in mind as the day comes.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 07:07 PM
1

I've started lifting and have seen gains and now she's suddenly exercising also. I'm still learning a lot about RP theory, but I can see how it's supposed to be working. Thanks for your input.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 07:05 PM
1

I understand more now. She has to want to stick around and not leave when I show a bit of weakness, but not too much.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 06:57 PM
1

Bro.. I though so too. http://redditlog.com/snapshots/622425
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 06:23 AM
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I've been in his position before. After doing that, next school year I didn't talk to her at all. I had 4 classes with her and when we talked it was strictly for school stuff. I talked to other girls and went out with another girl instead of her. Eventually she started trying to nudge back into my life but we broke up again (because I wen't back to my old self). Found TRP and then started talking to other girls and lifting. Now she's doing things to please me, instead of me please her because sh…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 06:08 AM
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Or they walk in on their girl getting cockslapped in the face.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 10:14 PM
8

Elliot Hulse
/r/askTRP18/05/14 08:59 PM
1

The sniper anology really hit home for me. Thanks for this concise piece of evidence.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 04:58 PM
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Beta: 0:56 Asking her if she's a pole dancer. Her reply "That's not cool" Alpha: 1:21 Asking her if she's a pole dancer. Her reply "You're awesome. I like you" Without knowing women I would have been like WTF? How do you explain this? But now it makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 09:56 PM
1

Got it. Appreciate the advice
/r/askTRP13/05/14 03:39 PM
1

I got it. keep looking out for myself and this relationship is whatever. I'm lm still young
/r/askTRP13/05/14 03:36 PM
1

So I'll refuse her offers and make offers in my free time. So I shouldn't confront her for what happened last time and set standard on what I expect? Also I greatly appreciate the indepth explanations as they help me understand how people work
/r/askTRP13/05/14 03:27 PM
1

Fuck. You're right. Here I am trying to be "forgiving and understanding" and I'm being fucked in the ass by my own bitch. Fuck that.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 01:17 PM
1

So right when I get to school (in like an hour) I should tell her that we need to talk and if she brings up wanting to hang with her friend instead (the girls) I will know how important I am to her right? Or should I offer her no alternative and "force" us to talk (kinda like an ultimatum (but I still lose then)?
/r/askTRP13/05/14 11:16 AM
1

Yeah I need to actually lay down the law with her. I'll do it in person with her, but should it be today or tomorrow?
/r/askTRP13/05/14 10:57 AM
1

I see what you mean. I just can stand here and cry about shit if I wont go and change it. If she doesn't conform it's on to the next one.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 10:45 AM
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I know that, just I want to hone my skills and use this as a learning tool. If I can leave this relationship to learn a lot that would be great.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 04:10 AM
2

Thank you for differentiating between the two for me. Acting pissy and actual dread game. I mean since I'm not texting her or shit today I've ran one mile and lifted some. Now I'm about to work on Spanish and finish the 48 laws of power. There's a post on /r/theredpil about LTRs that I just read and it shows me how her and I are becoming more "merged". I'm losing my identity as the guy who reads, break dances,plays tennis and such and I'm becoming mr. Her interests. Again I want to thank you all…
/r/askTRP12/05/14 10:21 PM
1

Gotcha! Very much appreciate this.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 10:03 PM
1

Okay trying to understand here. This is dread game right, where she knows that she's losing you if she she doesn't comply on your terms, right?
/r/askTRP12/05/14 09:51 PM
1

Yeah, the part about her jumping ship is what I'm thinking is going to happen soon. So if she asks me if in butt hurt or upset I should agree and amplify. Problem is that I don't know how to do that without her taking it as real butt hurt. (Taking me seriously)
/r/askTRP12/05/14 09:32 PM
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Thank you for this in depth analysis. My line did convey butt hurtfulness and yeah I was wrong for that.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 09:20 PM
1

Glad I did the right thing. What would be your next plan of action?
/r/askTRP12/05/14 09:16 PM
3

You should post this over in /r/redpillbooks too.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 05:22 AM
12

SHIT. I thought you were kidding. God damn. http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1xq9pr/woman_steals_mans_sperm_through_a_bj_and/
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 10:32 PM
1

Yeah, you're right. I'll accept this. I'll just play it as it is and when it's over it's on to the next one. Thanks for this bitter lash of reality. I was all up in my feels again.
/r/askTRP07/05/14 01:38 AM
1

She's been more submissive since I stopped letting her take charge of the relationship and a lot more touchy, but this is only the first day and we're in the "honeymoon phase"
/r/askTRP06/05/14 10:50 PM
1

Her friend was in contact with her during the summer, but for all I know they could be lying.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 10:35 PM
1

It was at a camp she went to during the summer.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 09:50 PM
1

High school. And you're right. She met someone else during the summer, they broke up, we went out again last semester, then here I am again.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 09:37 PM
1

Yep. I did everything I wasn't supposed to, but luckily I found this site. So I need to, for example, go 80/20 Alpha to balance the past before I go to 50/50 mode?
/r/askTRP06/05/14 10:38 AM
1

This post has a lot of insecurities about how you feel. But what is the observable reality of the situation? You gave us your feelings. What I'd like to see is how she behaves. Depending on her behavior you can tell whether or not to turn up or down the beta/alpha. Yeah, I'm being way to critical about this. I'm in my head and already jumping to worst case scenarios because it happened before. If I'm being my self before she came in there's no reason I can't remain like that.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 10:36 AM
1

No, you're right. Going back to my old ways will give me the same result it did last year.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 10:31 AM
1

That's the thing. After not seeing each other for almost a year she's seen the new "Alpha" me. The problem I have is that it's easy to be alpha and aloof when you don't give a fuck about the people you're with. My past conditioning is what I am reliving (our past relationship) and I don't want to get into that again.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 03:28 AM
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Awww <3 Coming from a blue pill background this story gets to my feels. It's the exact type of relationship I want. But in order for this to work I have to lead and she has to follow, I can't let her lead. I wish you the best in your relationship and thank you for the insight provided by your post.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/14 04:25 AM
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aye bby. U wan sum fuk? FTFY
/r/trpGAME04/05/14 04:53 AM
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He's saying that your beliefs (based on your post history) will butt heads with the beliefs of the people on this subreddit and he advises you to leave. You're free to stay though.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 12:17 AM
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Not a threat. It's a warning.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 12:00 AM
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Forget about women right now. This is your life on the line. You need to work on your self improvement (what you're doing right now). After you finish your studies you have 40+ more years to chase women. Remember: you are the prize. Women swoon over a good man so work and make yourself a great man. Don't chase the women. Once you're done, they'll be chasing you.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 07:17 PM
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After my post about needing help, here is /u/IllimitableMan here to shed light onto the subject. Great read man.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 03:37 AM
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Greatly appreciate this. I've never looked at it like this and this is a bit skeptical to me, but it sounds believable especially the part about them wanting you to major in something and then just use you. But now that I think about it, most owners of big business are going to pass down their wealth down generations and hire people like us to work for them and get bossed around. I'll look into opening my own medical clinic like my parents are trying to do. Again, I appreciate this a lot.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 11:17 PM
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Holy shit. Can you elaborate on what you mean that the credential is worthless? I was aiming to pursue for a PhD. In college majoring in Math.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:55 PM
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I think that's where my current group of friends are headed to. Two years ago we used to do our homework when it was assigned, last year the day before it's due, not we just don't give a fuck anymore and turn it in late. I've decided to go back to my former state when I was on top of my shit. Not just "living life and taking it easy". You want something? You have to work for it. Thank you for sharing your story.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:35 PM
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I completely understand this. I've been the "Time Ho" for quite some time now and I just realized it when the girl I was hanging with told that she's "glad that we're such good friends now" (instead of after our breakup). I took a step back and asked myself, If I'm not getting into her pants or have any plans of doing so, why am I here? So yeah, we'll be acquaintances. Monk mode seems good for my current position in life. Making 6 figures in the future>being a "Time Ho"
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:32 PM
1

Can you tell me your experiences with this?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 03:27 PM
1

Yeah I'll learn when and where to apply each law
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 03:25 PM
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I understand, but it's better to start now and understand than start when I'm 30. Besides, Donkey Kong, I'm not that old. Grew up playing Pokemon for 12 years. That's my shit.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 04:20 AM
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They never said it would be easy. Thanks /u/IllimitableMan. I enjoy reading your posts and articles. Keep it up!
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 02:36 AM
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I see. I see. Can I do this to acquaintances? I'm a bit soft on doing the harsh things to friends. Also how can I get out of that mindset?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 02:14 AM
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How exactly do I practice machiavellism?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 02:03 AM
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I'll use my judgment and decide who to cut out of my life, the bad influences. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 01:44 AM
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I appreciate the wise words. Though I am attaining the knowledge, I don't have the skills or experience to utilize what I'm learning. There is no go to law for every situation, but a combination of laws in the right amounts should yield good results.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 01:43 AM
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I never told them. When I'm passing through the halls or in the bathroom it's visible.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 01:17 AM
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I remember reading that. I'll get a book cover while reading.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 01:13 AM
1

People will appreciate the time you spend with them more of you give them less of it. I'll hang with them during lunch, but after school do my own thing. Sound good?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 12:10 AM
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Ironically, like you stated, me bettering my self makes then tell me that I'm acting weird. Appreciate your insight
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 11:51 PM
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Appreciate the tips here bro. Not much is centered around the teens.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 10:57 PM
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Or don't have any plan at all, whatever. The only thing you need to remember is that you've really got nothing to lose. I understand it now. Thanks for the info bro.
/r/askTRP16/04/14 03:46 PM
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That's beautiful. Practically, practice with her?
/r/askTRP16/04/14 03:12 PM
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Thanks man. I greatly appreciate this. I needed to get out of my self hamstering. Getting back to work. Thanks bro!
/r/askTRP16/04/14 03:30 AM
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It's exactly as you described: the work load taking away my social life. I know that with my time I should be lifting, reading and learning so I don't have time for women, but here I am making time for Reddit so if I really wanted to I could make time for females. The masturbation tip seems very helpful. Thanks for your advice.
/r/askTRP16/04/14 03:14 AM
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We share many classes together and I wasn't doing anything when she asked me to hang during lunch so I thought "Why not?"
/r/askTRP16/04/14 03:10 AM
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Bitches aint shit 25 to life who do you think I am FDB Fuck you! Stronger than I was 99 problems and Dance All Night
/r/askTRP15/04/14 11:50 PM
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http://www.forbes.com/sites/insertcoin/2013/06/29/texas-teen-facing-eight-years-after-violent-league-of-legends-threat/ The story.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 11:36 PM
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I'll try that out. Thanks bro!
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 11:07 PM
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"I don't have time, I need my time for my intellectual pursuits. I was hamstering. The same fucking excuse I use when I decide to "Read a book instead of running." I end up reading a page and getting on reddit. But now I've seen the error of my ways.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 10:23 PM
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Off the top of my head Damn man. If only my memory was this great. Thank you for your list of books.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 02:41 AM
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Hey Mr. Tomassi, what are some things from your site and book people like me still in high school should focus on doing? I've already started exercising more. What else should we (I) implement?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 09:45 PM
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I'm not even hanging on the rejection. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. I'm just glad that I took a shot. Literally, yesterday I felt like shit playing tennis because I didn't ask her out but today I feel rejuvenated and like I can take the world. It's the feeling of overcoming one of my greatest fears i'm happy about.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/14 07:05 PM
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I'll accommodate this into my life. I appreciate the advise. I asked her out, but she but she said no. But I don't really care for that. The rush Of getting the balls to ask her out really helped me get out of my fear for approaching.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/14 04:05 PM
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Yeah man. I understand what you're saying.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 09:32 PM
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I emulate my cousin who is in his last year of prep to become a brain surgeon. Is that good enough?
/r/askTRP09/04/14 05:22 PM
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Thank you for putting it into perspective for me. I was over-valuing her. I need to work on my self more. Appreciate it brother.
/r/askTRP09/04/14 04:59 PM
1

I'm just going up to her and telling her to call me Senpai now because she's my new girlfriend. Good idea or shitty one? She's into anime so she'll get the reference.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 02:10 PM
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Appreciate the input. Guess I'll act on it tomorrow. I've been trying to gauge whether this is a shit test or genuine interest. Only one way to find out.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 05:48 AM
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Seems true. I'll ditch her if things don't work.
/r/askTRP09/04/14 05:22 AM
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Why won't you do it? ;)
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 04:38 AM
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If I get in that situation again I'll take this route. Appreciate the input.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 03:44 AM
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I was actually hoping she would do something like that >.> It's time to man up. Thanks
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 03:44 AM
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Shit. You're actually spot on. I'm looking too much into this.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 03:42 AM
1

Alright. I'll start here for now. Soon, hopefully, I'll get gym access.
/r/askTRP08/04/14 11:02 PM
1

I have dumbbells at home and a treadmill. Will that suffice for now along with push ups and sit ups?
/r/askTRP08/04/14 10:46 PM
1

That last part was beautiful. It reminds me of when I was playing football and in the weight room we competed against each other to see who could get stronger faster, but when it was time to max out every player on the team cheered for one another and congratulated them for getting stronger/better. I'll find somebody I aspire to become like and start learning how to become like them. Thanks for setting me on the right path. Greatly appreciate this.
/r/askTRP08/04/14 09:51 PM
1

I see where you're coming from. Working on my self should come first, not girls. Thanks.
/r/askTRP08/04/14 09:48 PM
1

I gotcha. I've been watching my friends with their girls but when I ask then what they do they reply that they don't know , but it works. Maybe i'm overanalyzing this
/r/askTRP08/04/14 05:54 PM
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Thanks for the resources. Wii only through failure will I learn?
/r/askTRP08/04/14 04:45 PM
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You have the target fixation issue, where this girl is becoming a valuable object to you, instead of just "one of the hundreds of girls" that are around you. Not exactly, but this girl particularly interests me. I'm guessing you don't have a very good father figure who's mentoring you about the things guys should be doing your age? My father is good father figure. Raised in Africa, but what he's told me was to focus on my studies and disregard females. They're nothing but trouble now. But the re…
/r/askTRP08/04/14 03:59 PM
1

That's only a little part of my problem. The thing is my past relationships I let the girl be in charge so she would be happy and they didn't end well. Now I want to take the reigns but don't know what to do. We play tennis together and see each other after school but that's pretty much it. (the girl I want to date)
/r/askTRP08/04/14 03:04 PM
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So relationships aren't worth it at this age? And the coming and such I'm actually working on.
/r/askTRP08/04/14 02:04 PM
1

Make my life more exciting. Il try doing this. Thanks.
/r/askTRP08/04/14 02:02 PM
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The red pill: Teaching life one post at a time.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 02:06 AM
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Ah. Thank you for explaining. I understand what you mean. Well, your past mistakes make you the man you are today and you've learned a lot from it.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 08:33 AM
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Mistakes? Can you explain them to me? I think I would responded the same way.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 10:45 PM
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Holy shit I still have the messages. Please bear with me. Looking back on it this was the worst thing I have done in my life. This is from last summer. My ex and I broke up and I was heartbroken then I sent her this letter: Katy, I know you don't want to talk to me but I have to tell you how I feel. Holding it in has been the worst decision I've made. During freshman year I started falling for you. We didn't really converse much but when we did, I lit up on the inside. I couldn't explain to my s…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 09:43 PM
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It's seen as a bad idea because instead of saying "Hey, I'm into you. Wanna go grab dinner/watch a movie?" People usually say "You're the only one for me. Without you I feel like I can't do anything. I neeeed you which makes you come off as needy and dependent which isn't attractive to women. Not saying you can't tell her how you feel just be careful in the way you say it.
/r/askTRP02/04/14 12:34 AM
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Yeah man. The work is like damn. So hard. Education over girls.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 10:53 PM
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Yeah I know exactly what you're saying! I'm not the average nigger (far from it) but some people just generalize. And it's true that not all Asian parents are racist. It's sad what our people are doing to themselves. But I'll see what I can do with the girl and if it doesn't work out, there's always more. And yeah I'm a member of no fap. Longest I went was 3 weeks. I'll reset my badge and start working on it again. Any other pieces of advice?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 10:45 PM
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The girl I'm into is a timid Asian girl. When I play tennis after school with the guys and she wants to join she always apologizes to me when she messes up. None of the other girls do, just her. She always asks me for a hug when she sees me and enjoys sitting in my lap. Like you said the maturity is a big things and sometimes when I'm with the guys I get a bit foolish my self, but she's energetic and hyper (as most freshmen are) but I think she enjoys being submissive to me. Everything seems lik…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 09:59 PM
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In the top 10 (8 girls 2 guys) each of the girls are in a relationship at least 6 months long. The freshmen and sophomore girls are another case though, but 17yr old and 14-15 yr old. I've been told it's kind of pedo (though we're both under 18). What's your take on that?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 09:43 PM
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11th grade. Junior year of high school. And like you said I go for the smart girls. Too bad most of them know to not have sex before 18 but I guess that's a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 08:47 PM
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That's what my parents told me and I'm starting to see that. But on the flip side there's the experience I could gain from starting early.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 08:25 PM
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I'm currently rank 5 in my class so I'll try and keep it up there. I won't devote a hefty amount of time into women then. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 07:13 PM
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I just put my daughter in the IB program. I hope she's too busy for dating too. Solid plan. To be honest I am a bit too overwhelmed to date. I can do it here and there but not as a regular thing.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 06:38 PM
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If I can remain emotionally distant I can do this, but the feeling of "love" is coming strong. I need to shake it off.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 04:03 AM
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Oh dear god. I remember last year when I wrote my ex an essay longer than my essay for my world history test. Nine hundred and eighty-six words. Fuck that helpless feeling man. Everything the media teaches you about sharing your deepest feelings doesn't work. It only makes her see you as weak and as emotionally unstable as she is which repulses her.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 01:09 AM
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You're mean because you're already talking to another girl!" Meanwhile she's going out with Matt. Bitch Please.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 12:38 AM
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I appreciate all your well written responses. You have helped me the most in this and I wholeheartedly thank you for your valuable information. I will do as you said and focus on building myself up to be the most awesome motherfucker I can be. Have a great day man.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 09:55 PM
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Just keep this in mind: When you feel that bullshit you think is love - the lump in your stomach, the pitter-patter of your heart, the constantly thinking of her, waiting for her texts and so on... That means you're too invested and you need to back the hell out of the situation. That's not love, it's just your body releasing chemicals and making you temporarily insane. Remember that. I call that "love" feeling "need" because in the past, it's done nothing but make me behave like a needy little …
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 09:22 AM
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This just happened to me today! I was on my way to lunch when this girl held the door open for me though I was like 6 feet behind her. I was having a pretty shitty day but once she held the door for me I couldn't help but smile and thank her.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 10:12 PM
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You know what? You're right. Last summer I cried a bit when we broke up but since then I've found the red pill and started dating other girls. She sees me in person but we don't talk. We just smile and walk by, but yet after school she wants to talk to me and text me. Thanks for your insight. I see what she's trying to do. Do you think I should use this and play the dread game and hit on her friend or just have nothing to do with her? Her friend is pretty cute but I'm sorta in the friend zone th…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 10:05 PM
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This is a good start. http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1wk8og/rp_lessons_for_my_son/
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 02:08 PM
1

I'll be honest, I learned that from TRP
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 03:38 AM
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You'll have to give me like a year so I can get my own place in college. I live with 4 younger siblings here and parents but I'll make sure to post when I do it.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 12:55 AM
1

I got it bro. Appreciate the advice.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 12:42 AM
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I'll go and do something like that then. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 12:42 AM
1

Haha, I'll see if she follows up on that.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 12:26 AM
1

I have little to no sexual experience. I "know" what to do, but have yet to do anything.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 12:25 AM
1

You're right. So maybe she's not the one. Still worth spinning as a plate?
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 12:12 AM
1

Nothing real special, but she was my first real girlfriend so there's that feeling, but aside from that, nothing impressive.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 11:59 PM
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Another good one: The 48 laws of power by Robert Greene
/r/AlreadyRed18/03/14 12:22 AM
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He means he would rather get 20% of the 8-10 (rating) girls than ALL of the 3/10 (3 out of 10 in looks) girls.
/r/seduction15/03/14 02:33 PM
1

I understand. I can do most of these to a certain degree,but not full dark triad. For example, it was my ex's birthday last Friday and she wanted me to tell her happy birthday ( I had a feeling) but when I didn't she told me that she was expecting a happy birthday. I didn't want to orbit her like I used to so I decided to do nothing special for her. Inside I felt bad for not saying happy birthday but I didn't show it. That's what I was hoping was changable. The guilt feeling of not doing somethi…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 12:22 AM
1

Ah. I'll re take it once I get back thanks.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 08:11 PM
1

So I really can't do much to change myself?
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 07:44 PM
2

Is there a way to become "more dark triad"? Like some reading to help guide the less dark individuals onto the dark path.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 07:02 PM
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