An old plate sent a text on Saturday and we talked about getting together on Sunday. But she brought up a few old things (I was only interested in sex, I only did things for her to fuck her, ASD etc) so I soft nexted her. Today I saw her and she said she was so upset, I was an asshole, she cried all weekend. I told her, I didn't intend for her to be upset and sometimes I'm an asshole. But honestly I was confused, is this a shit test or what? I am really soft nexting her but not sure if I handed this right.

EDIT: not sometimes... I am an asshole