She keeps pointing out my flaws

sejlee09 · 2019-10-18T10:04:28+00:00

One thing you could do is just hit back. When she says youre skinny just say, well someones gotta be skinny in a couple right?

And when she asks you what you mean, just ignore her.

kaazsssz · 2019-10-18T10:17:43+00:00

Make fun of her too. Do the same thing back. It’s fun! It makes you both more comfortable with eachother. Shit tests aren’t even shit tests if you ask me. I think it’s a bad term.

I believe that the reality of “shit tests” is that it’s actually a social lubricant. I’ve noticed that “cool” people do this A LOT. Like, the “cool people” are constantly trash talking eachother, pointing out flaws and making fun of eachother. It’s how you acknowledge that someone is not perfect yet you still accept them for who they are.

When you take it all personally, you are showing you are really not in the upper echelons of the social status world. You’re actually really low if you can’t take these “shit tests.” They are a joke once you get it. No woman can shit test me. I laugh my ass off! I love shit tests they are so fucking fun! And you get to do it too. Try talking some shit and it will go far. They call it “negging” But I think that’s a bullshit term too. It’s just social lubricant. Use it liberally!

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2019-10-18T09:41:44+00:00

"Yes - I am like these bloodhounds, wanna see how much foreskin I got?"

"Yup - I sometimes have teenage girls come over to ask me how I do it"

Agree and amplify.

Redditgoodaccount · 2019-10-18T10:55:09+00:00

Agree and Amplify, Amused mastery, dread, next

Two_kids_in_a_coat · 2019-10-18T11:24:26+00:00

Shit test. If you’re confident and hold frame it’s very attractive to them. If you’re weak and complain about it she’s gonna dry up.

Haytch1234 · 2019-10-18T11:54:09+00:00

Shes insecure about her own flaws. Thats why. Shes projecting. You can do the same but girls that do that shit generally are stubborn. Your energy is better invested in a a girl that is less brain damaged.

gambitr · 2019-10-18T13:13:48+00:00

Insecure women will try to make you feel insecure to raise there own value. From a secure woman it's a shit test.

If she's insecure and trying to bring you down, bail now because it only get's worse.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2019-10-18T14:28:28+00:00

Treat like the shit test it is. If she keeps doing it, exit. Tell her you're leaving, give zero explanation. She knows what she said.

Title	She keeps pointing out my flaws
Author	kristalno
Upvotes	1
Comments	13
Date	October 18, 2019 9:36 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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