Last week i set a date with a girl i met on tinder. She lives in another city and usually goes to my town at weekends.

We just talked basic stuff and she agreed to go to a date with me. 2 days later she started texting me, so I could tell she was interested.

Yesterday night I started texting her and she did not respond until now. We have a date today at 6pm and i think she might have found a better option / lost interest and will flake.

So, the last chat was:

me: hi - 8:42pm

she: hii - 8:52pm

me: so, you already arrived in (my city)? - 8:59

No answers until now, although she was online multiple times today at message app.

Soft next in case of flake and hard next if she flakes and not even care to answer me?