Can someone tell me where I went wrong? Long story short met a girl from online we had a lot to talk about and a lot in common i thought it went well. Before she left she says shell send me some movies to watch blah blah so I'm thinking it didn't go badly. Ito be fair I didn't escalate and only applied a little kino. She ghosts me after. My question is did she ghost me because I didn't escalate? That seems the only possible reason since we had pretty good conversation and commonalities. Also if that was the reason wouldn't she want another date to see if anything happens? Yes I know oneitis I'm slowly getting over it but I'm more frustrated that I don't know where I went wrong to improve next time.