Shit test or cold?

Rodent9 · 2019-08-12T05:31:34+00:00

Sidebar? Texting for a week? Sidebar.

FereallyRed · 2019-08-12T05:33:05+00:00

Stop "texting for a week."

Why? Why would you do that?

No wonder she was confused when you asked her for a date.

But that's just subtext.

She was poking you. Making fun of you, yes, shit testing you.

And you went all autistic mansplain on her.

Shows you have little social skills.

Text for logistics. You shot yourself in the dick remotely with pixels.

Stop using that line. It's feminine, submissive, open ended, and allows women to not answer the fucking question.

" Hey, I'm going to Cocktails and Dreams on Wed at 7. Meet me there. "

Solid date and time, you're choosing the venue, you're TELLing her she's coming on a date with you, not asking if you can go on a date with her, and doesn't rely on juvenile lines that weaken the solidity of the directive.

You need to get some reading done.Very rookie issues.

intl_plyrs_clb · 2019-08-12T09:16:09+00:00

Got a girls number from tinder and we were texting for a week, then I asked her is she free next week to meet a cute guy for drinks or coffee.

She texted back saying "hahaha who is the cute guy, are you trying to set me up with someone"

Even I thought "Why are you trying to set her up with someone else?"

Don't text for a week, it's Tinder ask her out within 3-5 messages
Be direct, ask her out at a specific time and place, not this "sometime next week" bullshit

Is this a shit test or just a cold one? Should I even bother trying to reinitiate this?

This is dead, you blew it. Move on.

Title	Shit test or cold?
Author	EfficientPin8
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	August 12, 2019 5:20 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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