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Building Powerintl_plyrs_clb/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 04:17 AM
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Learn how to sell yourself and advocate for yourself. Learn when to speak and when to shut up. Learn how to read a room and understand not just what people are saying, but what they are not saying. Learn how to read emotions. Learn how to engage with office politics without being consumed by it.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 05:26 PM
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I'll add my take on it: Yes to not doing dinner / sit across from each other dates. I used to do those in my early dating days... 3-course meals and all that, spending close to $70+. What a waste. Now I strictly sit at the bar. No space at the bar? We're going somewhere else. First dates are generally at a low-key bar...a spot I frequent and I know some of the bartenders. I get there early, order myself a drink and hand my card over. If I don't know the bartender I'll tell them to just add my da…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/21 09:00 PM
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Meditate and or go to therapy.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 10:14 PM
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S I D E B A R
/r/askTRP19/01/21 10:12 PM
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Looking at your post history: You need therapy help. Get off the internet, look inward and fix your own demons first.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 11:52 PM
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Breathe Follow the conversation Open your mouth when you have something to say, believe that it is adding to the conversation and actually add to the conversation Don't be afraid to just leave the conversation when it's done being relevant to you.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 12:27 AM
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Be a man: Be sure you actually want to break up with her Tell her directly how you feel without being unnecessarily cruel or mean: "This isn't going to work, I don't feel the same way you feel" etc. Be sure to make it clear that it's over though. Don't leave a dangling loophole to get back together. Stand your ground, don't falter because she starts crying Answer any of her questions honestly, but don't let it turn into a round of 20 questions Don't offer platitudes: "you're so great, you'll fin…
/r/askTRP10/08/20 09:00 PM
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Do what you want. Don't worry about the rest.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 08:51 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rt0spqQtMKg&t=0s&index=10&list=PL5rGA1FZ-cOm1SxguAHlseXUcdtddghPR
/r/askTRP20/07/20 05:09 AM
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The book Think and Grow Rich has a chapter on this. It talks about transmuting sexual energy. The basic theory is this: All life is born with the "REPRODUCE" command built into their DNA That command is the single biggest motivator and source of energy in the universe By learning to redirect and focus that energy you can accomplish anything So it's not so much that it gives you super powers, but by taking that energy and effort that you put into sex you can accomplish so much more. Accomplishing…
/r/askTRP15/07/20 08:57 PM
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They approach with confidence They are hitting up the lower 20's crowd who are into novelty (dude with a camera is novelty + girls gone wild effect like someone else mentioned) It's a youtube video, they don't show the failures...only the success. Maybe these are all from one night, maybe these are multiple nights stitched together.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 01:13 AM
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I went to college and. have mixed feelings about it. You are right most things are online, however, I think college does have some benefits. I think the biggest things I learned from college were: How to learn, get information and teach myself How to deal with people in groups There is also the idea that college provides you with connections for later in life. I didn't really take too much advantage of that, so YMMV. Also, the plus to college is that if you go to learn a specific thing, generall…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:42 AM
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just say yes or no I have things to do Comes off as a little butt hurt / trying to be a tough guy. Next time just try saying something like "sure" and go silent. If she's into you, she'll make it happen. Also the "give me a night to think about it" is a soft no.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 02:27 AM
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They can act just like drugs. Try this: Don't watch any TV or play video games for a week cold turkey. If you can't stop then you're addicted. It's a "soft" addiction, but it can still take away from you being your best self. Learn how to use them in moderation.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 07:04 AM
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Copied from a response I gave a while back: Practice talking to EVERYONE. Man, woman, beast, or child; talk to them. Read something new everyday that interest you outside of your field of study or work, that will give you a war chest of topics to pull from overtime. I used to be far too dependent on alcohol to socialize too. For me it came down: Learning the art of small talk Learning how to lead a conversation and push others into a conversation Learning the art of small talk People always comp…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 06:52 PM
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When I was ~16 I was in a phonebooth and pulled out my fancy new camera phone to look up a number since I had no calling credit on the phone. Group of guys around my age surround the booth, start asking about the phone, asking to see it. I realized I was in a bad situation, no way I'm fighting off 6 guys. I start trying to talk my way out of it. One guy grabs the phone out of my hand and draws a knife then they all draw knives of all types: butterfly knives, butchers knives, steak knives, pocket…
/r/askTRP10/06/20 08:26 PM
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I used to be addicted to games. I basically used them as a coping mechanism to escape from my real life. Step one is to recognize why you're addicted. Figure out why you're playing video games instead of doing something else. Step two is to find something to replace this addiction. You have to find something that replaces this habit you want to break. Also, try limiting your game time slowly. If you normally plant video games for 6 hours a night, set a timer to only play for 3 then go do somethi…
/r/askTRP05/06/20 04:08 AM
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This election year is a shit show. Trump isn't a great choice either, he has zero leadership skills apart from "Give me my way else I'll throw a tantrum" Biden's biggest selling points is "Obama was my bro". He has the same sense of entitlement that Hilary had. Both have a terrible sexual assual rap sheet. No good choices this year, but I'll still go vote for the one I feel puts the country on the right path.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 04:01 AM
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Two options: One: Be a man about it. Take it on the chest. "I let things get out of hand, but it won't happen again" Then don't let it happen again. Two: Say nothing, ignore it.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 10:13 PM
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Crab mentality. It happens. Ignore it. As you improve you're bound to lose some people around you.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 09:05 PM
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Was in Vegas, saw this girl checking me out, but she was with an older lady, assumed it was her mom. She's throwing me IOIs like crazy. Said fuck it and went in. Told her mom hi once and then completely ignored her. Got the number and met up later. EZ
/r/askTRP18/05/20 08:57 PM
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I am 21 and never had any success No success and also a multi millionaire?
/r/askTRP18/05/20 08:56 PM
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Always had one set of rules for her, but another set for me, constantly goal post moving (made me wait for sex for an embarrassingly long time), gaslit me like crazy and was overall a miserable human being. But she always portrayed the modest "I'm not like other girls / I'm a great girlfriend" persona. I caved and bent to her. I was at my peak bluepill thinking at the time, even though all around me were redpill lessons in my society, school and social group. I guess TV bled through and I ignore…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 11:23 PM
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Dated a covert NPD woman for over a decade. You cannot run away from them fast enough. They will break you to your core. They see your weaknesses and will exploit them. It's like coming face to face with the void itself and it stares back at you with loving eyes however you can feel the absolute malice toward you at the same time. They do not care about you They have no true personality They do not want to change They do not want to be saved The games they play are the only way they feel alive P…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 12:47 AM
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Lots of good advice in the other responses here: practice, listen to people to emulate etc. Two other things I think that can help are: Get their attention Make sure you have people's attention. No matter how great the story if you don't have their attention it will fail to land. You'll see people who are great storytellers do this when they're sharing a story in a group setting. They will make sure they have the audience's full attention. Kevin Hart does this with a simple "Listen" since he's w…
/r/askTRP15/05/20 12:33 AM
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Getting drunk, bars, etc isn't that appealing Then don't do it. Some other things you can do on a Friday night: Work on a hobby Read a book, any book Watch some critically acclaimed TV / movies. Form an opinion on them Invite a single friend over for quality one on one time Finish that puzzle you always wanted to finish Go to the gym Go stargazing Learn to cook a new recipe Review your finances for the past week Clean your house / apartment / room Really anything you want to do. Just don't get c…
/r/askTRP05/05/20 02:07 AM
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You sound like me from a few years ago, all of your bullet points resonated and people around me told me to do the same, move on and I didn't listen. It just made it harder. Stop trying to rationalize reasons to get back together. It's over. She was never a unicorn. Listen to the collective wisdom here on the sub.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 06:33 PM
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Sidebar.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 01:12 AM
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http://archive.is/wip/uTz70 I've started keeping track of my progress salary-wise about 2 years ago. Still have some ways to go.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 11:56 PM
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Copied from a response I gave a while back: Practice talking to EVERYONE. Man, woman, beast, or child; talk to them. Read something new everyday that interest you outside of your field of study or work, that will give you a war chest of topics to pull from overtime. I used to be far too dependent on alcohol to socialize too. For me it came down: Learning the art of small talk Learning how to lead a conversation and push others into a conversation Learning the art of small talk People always comp…
/r/askTRP03/05/20 11:32 PM
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The look of a vagina has nothing to do with how many people a woman has been with. Nothing. The look can change with weight gain/loss or aging. Your dick doesn't look the same from when you were a boy either.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 01:03 AM
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What are your stats? How much do you weight? How much can you lift / squat? What are the current goals you're working towards?
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:57 AM
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Ask her out. Don't try to entertain her or build a connection over text.
/r/seduction29/04/20 08:00 PM
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Just ignore? Generally, yes.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 07:52 PM
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Pay off outstanding debts Learn to say no to frivolous purchases Save as much of your paycheck as you can. Start small with even $1 if you have to, slowly try to ramp up to put away 20% each pay period. Understand how compound interset works. You were going to buy something, but changed your mind? Got a discount? Put that into savings. Live below your means.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 10:00 PM
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Check out / r / malefasionadvice for getting the bare minimum. After you have the basics down, figure out your personal style and take it from there.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 05:38 AM
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It doesn't mean never speak, but OP sounds like he's jumping to get a word in every conversation to prove he knows something. Personally I like to be silent and let my words matter when I speak and not rush to open my mouth just to have a turn.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:29 AM
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A wise man once said nothing at all.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 10:56 PM
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No. Was still flirting with women at the supermarket. Same rules apply. Lift, focus on your goals, SMV etc
/r/askTRP21/04/20 10:53 PM
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Rule one of Fight Club: Don't talk about Fight Club
/r/askTRP21/04/20 10:49 PM
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When people say "X%" of people are like this, usually it's X% of the circle they spend their time with physically or virtually. If you prune your social crowd and are selective with them you'll find this number is much lower.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 06:08 PM
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We all have to start somewhere. Feeling a sense of shame, regret or even cringe about your past just means that current you has grown enough to see the error of your old ways. That feel sucks, but it's a sign that you're getting better. Keep growing.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 06:05 PM
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Yeah for about a day week when I was 11. Then you know what happened? Nothing. The first girl I ever hit on was due to my friends egging me on when I was about 13. Looking back she was clearly taller than me. I opened my mouth, said what I had to say (which was absolute crap), she eyed me up and down with disgust and just walked away. I'm the only person who remembers this story. My friends don't remember, the girl certainly doesn't remember me. I could have dwelled on the fact that she looked d…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 06:01 PM
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Oneitis. Sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 02:41 AM
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Yup, lots of bitter guys in here as always. There have ALWAYS been shitty low quality women. Thing is that society pushed them into the edges. They're just now more to the forefront of your life with social media and the narrative of "I'm a queen" etc.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 02:33 AM
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Should I follow this chick on insta to maybe get a rebound/ltr? No. Not reading the wall of text.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 08:05 PM
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Yeah I've come a long way. Oh and of course she was "emotionally invested" with some other guy well before we broke up. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/20 02:34 PM
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Three possibilities here: They fucked in the past They are fucking now They will fuck in the future Maybe all 3 are happening right now. Move on.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 05:13 AM
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5'7" is short? I'm 5'7" and never considered myself short. I'm right smack in the middle of average height. Would I like a couple more inches? Sure, everyman would, but it's never crossed my mind "I'm short, need to be more dominant". I have been with taller women and honestly, it's never been an issue. The same rules apply for if I was with a 5'2" woman. Don't let your height be a special consideration. You sound insecure about it.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 05:10 AM
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Say nothing "Clean your room" Literally anything other than commenting on her nudes
/r/askTRP16/04/20 05:06 AM
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Quarantine sucks, but try to recontextualize it as a gift. Instead of "Why can't I go outside and hang with everyone" think instead "This is a great time to catch up on all the reading and projects I've wanted to do". Have you read everything on this list? No? Then get to it.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 05:00 AM
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Yeah, it happens. Men have an innate sense to provide and protect. Some women exploit that. Been there on two occasions, one long term and one was a one time thing. Long term: Was dating this woman since high school and I was in a decent tech job, she was hopping between HR jobs. My protect and provide instincts took over and I started paying for everything, most of the groceries paid for all our dates etc. At the time it felt like the natural and right thing to do as a man. At one point she was…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/20 04:03 AM
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Generally speaking yes.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 02:25 PM
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The thing is regardless of your reasons asking for nudes is a shit move, as I mentioned earlier you're in a losing position. If the thought of being an orbiter simp disgusts you that much then put the phone down, work on yourself and focus on making sure you come out of quarantine better than you went into it. Because going around asking girls for nudes, whether it's an experiment or not is a beta simp move.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 04:51 AM
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What is the obsession with nudes? Why not put that energy into meeting women you can physically touch and be with? From the second you ask for nudes you're in a losing position. The women who have sent me nudes have sent them without my requesting them. Also, there is a literal endless supply of nude women on the internet, so what's so important about getting HER nudes?
/r/askTRP15/04/20 04:39 AM
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Yes. Sidebar.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 03:14 AM
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Asking for a friend 🤣 Dear god, this sub
/r/askTRP15/04/20 03:09 AM
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What are some examples of messages / conversations you're having with these women in this circle? It's 1 of 2 things You truly are coming off in a weird way in your conversations (Sharing your texts with these women may help others point it out as you could be oblivious to it) These women are talking and "complaining" about you. What that really means is that you're doing something right, but it got back to your friend's ears as a "complaint" from his girlfriend. By complaint I mean you're now t…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 03:07 AM
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What I've noticed is that they said things along the line that they don't like this new person and that my ego did a 360 during the Quarantine. They would always talk to me about their ex, when I'm taking them out to eat, or to smoke them up. You're in full orbit / beta territory with these women if they felt comfortable talking to you about their ex and just using you for food / smoking. They can feel you attempting to escape their orbit and they don't like it. You've been supplying free valida…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 02:56 AM
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Escalate more. I used to be where you were. All that stuff about waiting a few days and timing things out, making sure you make contact and then trying to keep her interest is where you are messing up. Overall it sounds like you're taking too long with her, 1.5 hours talking, 1-2 dates etc. Get to the point faster. Try spending 30 mins chatting, wrap up by making a date on the spot (or the very next day via text). On that first date do all of the escalations you normally do, all of the touching,…
/r/askTRP14/04/20 08:00 PM
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Do woman vet males on the memes they post on social media. No. Ignore what women say and pay attention to what they do. This is no different from a woman lamenting that she wants a "nice dependable guy" but then still goes of an "asshole". I feel that woman would test a man frame by posting these discouraging memes You're not entirely wrong, it's the most basic shit test. She'll post all of these memes and then tons of guys will try to be that perfect guy she describest through memes. But you do…
/r/askTRP14/04/20 07:49 PM
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Choose your battles. You can't save everybody.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 06:39 PM
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You're going there to work out and learn, sweat happens. Stop worrying about what other people think. You know what's worst than a sweaty guy? A mortified anxious-looking sweaty guy. Puts you right into creep territory. Get a towel, wipe off sweat as you go and invest in some of those athletic clothes that wick sweat away. Apart from that, nothing you can do about it.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 06:38 PM
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Stop trying to get nudes. Chat with her occasionally, escalate when quarantine is over.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 08:23 PM
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It's like alcohol: a little bit can be fun, but you can easily go overboard and start using it as a crutch to avoid real issues. Passionate about something and it makes you happy and you can afford it while living a happy and balanced life? Collect away. Collecting things to try to fill a void in your soul? Go to therapy.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 04:59 AM
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Say whatever you want minus the smiley
/r/askTRP08/04/20 03:38 AM
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It means taking what is in the sidebar to heart, not thinking your situation is unique.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 03:32 AM
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Consider it the cost of a lesson learned. Aim to only ever pay it this one time.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 03:54 AM
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Sometimes helping my brothers means clowning them hard and giving some harsh love. I wish you success in all of your endeavors, hope you internalize the sidebar.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 02:06 AM
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I just want to get laid I met a stripper through some the girlfriend of one of my friends two weeks ago She had introduced the idea of being chaste to do what is “right” in the eyes of God Last night, she says she is hurt by having sex, confused, it makes her feel bad about herself, feels an obligation to have sex when she no longer wants to told her she’s the only girl you’re fucking Lord please let the current plague purge this sub root and stem.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 01:24 AM
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Seriously. Textbook. 1) I know from her mutual friends thats she was so head over heals for me at the start and would risk taking a rejection by coming up to talk to me and stating how she feels about me. She was even telling everyone she was seeing me (we go to the same school) and tell me stories how she was trying to get my attention here and there blah blah (which all fed into my ego tbh) Flying monkeys 2) And when she spoke to me, she went off about how she felt we had a connection and she …
/r/askTRP30/03/20 02:51 PM
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Remember what I said about the recipe being open-ended and able to be remixed? Just replace go to a bar with go on a walk in the park. Just find an excuse to invite her back over to your place.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 02:47 PM
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Bruh, you're describing classic narcissistic / borderline / histronic personality disorder. Look em up. Reading through it I kept wondering "Did he run into my ex?" Since they all have the same patterns. The best thing to do with emotional manipulators is cut them off, move on and be thankful it only lasted as long as it lasted. Don't loose sleep over "how did I lose her interest" That's just how those kinds of people are.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 03:50 AM
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Between your comments and post it seems like you haven't fully absorbed everything that is trying to be taught here. First of all 30 isn't even that old. If you take care of your body you're just hitting your prime as a man. Second, you sound like you're in your head too much. You come from a long line of people who have had sex. It's literally in your blood. Don't over think this. Third, I know having that "V-card" is like carrying a bodybag of shame around, but honestly it shouldn't be that wa…
/r/askTRP30/03/20 03:44 AM
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I rarely ask directly and I've found that the ones who are good at it, like god level tier good, don't have to be asked. They jump at the opportunity to show off their skill. They'll blow you and swallow your load whole and take pleasure is seeing how fast they can make you cum. But for when I would try to coax a woman along: I either remain standing with her seated at the edge of the bed, or I sit on the edge and stay there. Both positions make it easy for her to slide down onto her knees. Agai…
/r/askTRP30/03/20 03:17 AM
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Sounds like you met an emotional manipulator. They sink their claws deep into you, build up your ego, have some BS sob story I didnt put out after 3rd date, are you going to dump me now? Classic trap, almost text book. She brings the issue you, and you trying to be a decent human being end up working against yourself. Yes dumping her would have been the right thing. No worries though man: I fell for a narcissist a while back and she strung me along for years with no sex: only handjobs and rubbin…
/r/askTRP30/03/20 03:07 AM
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Open a book.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 09:49 PM
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Pray that you never attract a true narcissist into your life. They aren't just holding frame and lack empathy. Narcissism falls into the Dark Triad (narcissism, machiavellianism, and psychopathy) They will gaslight, lie as easy as breathing air and make your life hell if they are close enough to you.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 05:20 AM
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How can I tell them to text me only about logistics like plausible deniability? Don't just outright say text me only for logistics Engage in the conversation a bit and then spin it into "blah blah blah, let's pick this up when I see you next on DAY at TIME and PLACE" You can also stop responding at any time and then pick the conversation back up agian later.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:43 AM
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Or it is more have to do with my leadership? Sounds like you have your answer.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:30 AM
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Being sympathetic doesn't mane you have to do anything for anyone. It can just mean expressing your sympathy eg "That sucks that you're going through that, I hate to see that happen to you" Taking one for the team is something different from sympathy. If you're going to step and lead or "take one for the team" do it knowing that you're at a disadvantage and expect nothing in return, otherwise don't.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 12:27 AM
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It seems like something is wrong with my approach. What is your approach? Nothing wrong with showing sympathy, the problem is that sometimes coming from a blue pilled programming you can let people walk all over you in the process.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 11:12 PM
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Stop sending women Goodnight / Goodmorning messages. Their inboxes are flooded with it and it just marks you as just another endlessly thirsty dude.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 06:04 AM
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this girl. She gave me her number like 3 years ago It was 3 years ago so of course, she doesn't remember me. Say whatever you want to say, it likely won't matter anyway.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 01:13 AM
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It just has to do with your brain's perception of reward. If you're knocking yourself off every day then it's less motivation to go out and actually speak to women. It's almost like a self-fulfilling prophecy.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 01:09 AM
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It's part of life. If you can look back at things you did in the past and cringe at them it means that the person you are today has grown away from that. You're not alone Check out all of these failures over here: http://archive.is/7r8hH
/r/askTRP19/03/20 03:35 AM
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Only read the title. The answer is yes.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 03:14 AM
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Get out of your head and into her pussy Someone should write a bot that responds to all questions on this sub with this and it would work for most guys.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 02:57 AM
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First of all: you need to keep talking to other girls and not develop oneitis for this individual girl. But hey we all start somewhere. drank a coffe and went to a walk in the park afterwards. It was rainy so it was easy to tell her to grab my arm. Conversations were light throughout, jokes hear and there, never awkward, but not very flirty. You should have been building sexual tension from this point. She was already holding your arm, you broke the touch barrier but didn't escalate. So that was…
/r/askTRP19/03/20 02:54 AM
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33 checking in. Left a blue pilled decade long relationship in my mid 20's, was lost and wandered for a while, easily went without getting laid for about 3 years. I started to find some TRP concepts on my own from trial, error and lots of rejection. TRP helped focus what I had already learned on my own. Make well past the 6 figure range, planning my ultimate escape from 9-5, starting to set up alternate income streams, feel healthier than ever (blue pilled me would order two boxes of pizza and w…
/r/askTRP18/03/20 03:52 AM
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Every day is a bunch of idiots asking "How can i get teh secs during corona virus lol" I wish the mods would ban them all since they're missing the entire point of this sub. Personally I've been using the time as a free social sabbatical. I've chewed through 3 books on my backlog already, made some great headway on a personal project of mine and working up a sweat doing at-home exercises that my body isn't accustomed to. Can I get plates to com over? Yes, but they are not my priority at all.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 03:46 AM
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Boys like you will be the first to die in the true apocalypse. It's been all of a couple of days and all you can think about is getting your dick wet. This is like a test run for a true end of the world situation and all you can think about is sex. Imagine if this were far worst, like a virus that actually killed on contact or a higher mortality rate. What if North Korea went crazy and dropped a nuke. Would you be prepared? Do you have food stocked up for a few months in such an event? Are you i…
/r/askTRP18/03/20 03:41 AM
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Sounds like you're trying too hard and overthinking it.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 03:33 AM
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Group chat I'm in was primarily concerned with the fact that the liquor stores were closing and rushing out to buy alcohol.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 03:28 AM
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Absolutely none of this matters.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 01:20 PM
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There are seasons to life. Some seasons are quick and some are slow. The balance between them changes all the time.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 05:55 AM
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My grandma causes alot of issues Stopped reading right here.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 05:54 AM
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Fairly certain I have the dreaded COVID-19. Personally I was happy to take a break and pump the breaks. Got a ton of my reading backlog done since Thursday.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 05:48 AM
3

but how do I resist the urges? Sometimes you just have to stop. Decide if it's really important to you, and commit to stopping. That's part of being a man, holding yourself accountable. Replace the drinking with something else that you really value doing.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 05:45 AM
1

You should thank your haters, they are proof you're doing something right. Ignore them and keep doing whatever it is you were doing.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 09:02 PM
2

Another addiction that can cause self sabotage I'd consumerism. I used to be addicted to buying dumb shit online just to have it even when it offered no real benefit to my life.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 08:57 PM
3

How do you deal with being bored if not drunk or high? You should examine your need to not be bored and need external stimulus to cure your boredom.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 08:52 PM
14

Everyday this sub strays further and further from the light.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 08:48 PM
12

Just do some at home body exercises. Get one if those at home exercise classes like T25 and see if you can keep up for the full duration.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 08:47 PM
1

All the details of what she said and you knowing how she feels about you are useless. Set a time to meet up and move in. If she's not responding, move on.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 08:45 PM
2

Put your dick in their mouth, fuck what they say.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 02:27 PM
18

These are 10/10s Don't believe everything the magic nightmare rectangle shows you. (Pro tip: Stop following "Instagram Models")
/r/askTRP13/03/20 04:36 AM
16

I feel like if you're in the position where you : Have been tracking how long it's been since you've watched porn Have to ask Then you probably shouldn't. It's like a drug or alcohol addiction, if you've had issues with it in the past it's best you just stay away. If you've always been a responsible and infrequent user then you wouldn't even be on here asking. You'd watch and move on with your life.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 04:21 AM
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REMOVED , this sub needs a cleansing. EDIT: since this sub is already under quarantine I'm toning this down.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 09:23 PM
1

How do I fix it? Learn from your mistakes and move on. Honestly, the best thing you can do is stop talking to this woman. She's not even in the same country as you? bruh the bitch is exactly my type. Very attractive and her personality is just the way I like it. You're not special, that's all of our types. We all want an attractive woman with a great personality. You're not special, she's not special. She lives in another continent and will visit soon. Bruh: She's not even on the same continent?…
/r/askTRP12/03/20 09:20 PM
2

I think OP can turn it around by making changes slowly, notice his pedestalizing and stop doing them. A 180 switch could come across as fake, but that's up to OP and how much is coming from a place of genuine change in his thought process vs acting out a role.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 09:04 PM
1

Honestly sounds like you're the butthurt one from the post and all of the comments. You've fallen into this guy's frame, body mind and soul. How do I know you're in his frame? You're on reddit posting daydreams about what to do next time you see him. You were nice to him and he wasn't nice to you in return? You're out there seeking his validation. Ignore this guy, out him out of your mind and get back to the sidebar and gym.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 09:01 PM
2

What the fuck is a "taunty sentence"? Enjoy the girl you're with and ignore him. The fact that you're thinking this needs to escalate into a fight because someone is using "taunty sentences" makes me question your frame.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 08:56 PM
-2

You should be busy with your life and then you will have the answer to this question.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 10:23 PM
3

So there is this one girl...
/r/askTRP10/03/20 10:22 PM
2

Open your mouth and talk to her, anywhere, anytime. Also read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 12:53 AM
2

Have you exhausted every other option to it's fullest extent before you consider drugs?
/r/askTRP10/03/20 12:47 AM
2

Make plans to meet up, if she agrees she's interested otherwise move on.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 09:01 PM
1

If she sends it, cool. If she doesn't send it you shouldn't be bothered by it and wondering what it means.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 05:40 PM
1

Do what you want.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 07:03 AM
2

I wouldn't worry about that. Also don't ask women to text you when they get home safe/
/r/askTRP08/03/20 06:56 AM
2

Get a new dod. Dog only cares about the hand that feeds it at the end of the day.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 10:41 PM
1

Do what you want, pursue or don't, but get back to the gym and read the side bar about "there is this one girl"
/r/askTRP06/03/20 10:30 PM
1

When you start out after having no attention it's like a drug when you get it. Turn your phone off, go for a walk with the intention of just clearing your mind and not approaching anyone. During the walk try to figure out what you want next for your life that the "have sex/procreate" box is checked off.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 10:29 PM
5

It's worth noting that she didnt hook up with anyone last year, is not promiscuous, How exactly do you know this and better yet why do you care? Just bring her o a bar, get 1.5 drinks, some bar snacks and then take a short romantic walk back to your place.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 07:10 PM
0

Do what you want.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 07:06 PM
1

Be busy with your life, text women back when you're not busy.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 03:07 AM
2

Me: lets grab a cofee sometime Set up solid places and times next time instead of this weak "sometime" Her: Sorry I never saw your messages tinder is bad for not showing notifications. We should, when I have a free day Ignore, respond with a solid day and time. If she flakes or doesn't suggest an alternate time, move on.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 03:05 AM
1

How long were you with her for? It takes time for the mind to get accustomed to the new reality. Our brains evolved to seek out a lack of change.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 08:13 AM
2

Don't ask for a kiss, just go in for it.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 08:12 AM
11

This woman is toxic. You need to cut her off, while legally maintaining the responsibilities for your child. I've been close to where you are (not quite the same situation, but close enough where I understand your mindset) and trust me when I say your life would be better off if you cut contact with her. Re-read what you wrote: she tells you she's fucking other men, tells you she's interested in other men, is cumming for other men, has other men hitting on her. Really think about that. This woma…
/r/askTRP01/03/20 08:09 AM
2

Text with the goal of making plans for the next lay.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 05:17 PM
10

Text less. You're too concerned about making sure she's okay and comfortable. Go in with an idea of constant forward motion, the goal is to set a date with a place and a solid time, everything else she says is irellevant.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 07:54 PM
2

Caribbean RP represent! I like eating pussy, always did, even when I was growing up in the Caribbean and it was taboo. Never stopped me. If I meet a girl and I feel like it, I'll eat if I want to. I have stopped doing it as much recently: STDs are real, but I've been lucky from years of doing it.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 12:14 AM
5

Start investing in ETFs and mutual funds on the stock market. Don't try to time the market, just do it consistently and watch the money grow. Also of you're really good at a skill, charge people for it
/r/askTRP22/02/20 12:48 AM
2

This: http://archive.ph/ZIyqW
/r/askTRP09/02/20 09:04 PM
5

That advice is terrible, don't follow it. Just hang around more black people.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 08:56 PM
2

This is terrible advice
/r/askTRP09/02/20 08:55 PM
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They have a skewed idea of how dating works. They think they have to wait for the right "moment" and when that moment comes they will have their time in the sun. Usually they think this moment is right after the woman they've been orbiting goes through a break up. Because of media they think they'll be the shoulder she can cry on and they boom, they'll finally breakthrough.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 07:30 PM
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Bro, be safe wary of advice coming from Reddit in general asking for a black take. Most posters are white and have never been anywhere near the hood. I grew up in the hood, but my parents kept me away from it all, lots of after school classes, strict curfews and we moved out as soon as we could to a middle class neighborhood. I know what you mean when you say other black girls won't give you the time of day. I went through the same thing. "You talk white" etc. My advice? Be yourself. Nothing wro…
/r/askTRP09/02/20 07:21 PM
13

Find a mission in life.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 07:09 PM
1

Not likely. Given what you said in your original posts this woman is throwing IOIs at you. At worst she rejects you, if that happens you play it cool and act like nothing happened.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 02:46 AM
1

If she buys me something on valentines I’m gonna try to kiss her imma say let’s kiss as friends Listen up young buck: Don't wait for valentines day or any special time to make a move. Ever. Don't try to kiss her, just do it. Be somewhere private, chat casually, escalate with some light touching, get in her personal space, hold eye contact, look at her lips, keep escalating contact, visualize the kiss in your mind, then just kiss her. Don't tell her you're going to anything "as friends". Just do …
/r/askTRP09/02/20 02:32 AM
1

but it's about the principle for me No one gives a fuck about your principles and posting about them here on the internet isn't going to make anyone care either. Get out of your ego: Who appointed you line jumper or music volume police? Think about the worst case of escalating with a stranger; is it worth it? Now think about the best case, the persons stops whatever you asked them to stop and basically you got your ego stroked. How much is that really worth?
/r/askTRP09/02/20 02:25 AM
2

She's most likely into you. That's all. Engage and kiss her sometime if that's someone you want, otherwise ignore her and focus on learning.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 02:17 AM
6

Why are you asking us? If that's a deal breaker for you let it be a deal breaker for you and move on, otherwise stay. I'm not your mom.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 02:14 AM
1

Life is hard and it will chew you up and spit you you. No one cares. No sorrow under the sun is new. Figure out what you want in life and chase it. (Note: the answer to what you want in life shouldn't be women)
/r/askTRP07/02/20 05:11 AM
1

I once dreamed I was being chased by a voodoo priestess and woke up sweating. I just shrugged it off and went back to sleep. Dreams don't mean anything unless you assign meaning to them.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 05:43 AM
1

Story time: A while back when I was still figuring my life out a woman I had been orbiting invited me over to her country. I could stay with her, she would take me around. In my head I thought: "Yeah boi! It's finally happening, I'll be in the sun and between her sheets making those cheeks clap" Instead I came to a blow up mattress on the floor which her cat promptly proceeded to rip and it went flat. Patched it up, but I mostly slept on the tile floor with a thin piece of plastic. We went to a …
/r/askTRP05/02/20 05:15 AM
2

Working in tech (any part of tech) is a lucrative gig, especially programming. There are more jobs than programmers. Check out Khan Academy, start learning, start building things and showing it to people and apply to jobs once you have a few projects completed.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 04:28 AM
3

I’m definitely not the entrepreneur type but I do desire financial freedom. That's good that you realize that now. Too many people try to jump head first into having a business without the actual tools to do it. For now figure out what you're good at. Then don't do it for free. Work for someone that is willing to pay you for your skill, and reevaluate what you're being paid every 6 - 12 months. Also keep improving at your skill, that is how when you ask for more money for said skill your employe…
/r/askTRP03/02/20 02:22 AM
4

God tier alpha move
/r/askTRP24/01/20 01:53 AM
1

Whenever I hit the club, I can never seem to actually have a good time and as a result I don’t end up being successful with females because my mindset is shit. If you don't like the club then don't go. For one, I’m only 5’7 so I’m at a big disadvantage in comparison to most guys in there Stop it. Stop blaming your height. It's not the reason you're not getting girls. I'm 5'7 too and can still pull the few times I go to a club. Your mindset is what's stopping you. Don't blame your height. however…
/r/askTRP23/01/20 05:08 AM
1

We're all human, we get attached and break ups happen and they can hurt. Next time just write it all down in your journal and spare us :) You'll bounce back from this.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 04:58 AM
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Not reading that wall of word vomit. Hit the gym Talk to other women Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP22/01/20 04:02 AM
1

Ah you summer child. It's high school, it probably won't last.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 03:56 AM
0

When I started hitting the gym seriously things changed immensely. Here are some examples: Suddenly I found women's hands all over me especially on my chest and biceps Women at work suddenly were at my desk just to make small talk I started to see women just blush uncontrollably when I gave them attention Tinder basically became Uber for sex Conversation with women on the street, bus stop, bookstore, grocery store suddenly became a thing that as consistently happening Probably because now I was …
/r/askTRP22/01/20 03:51 AM
4

Lead by example. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 12:53 AM
1

If you feel there is a arbitrary line you shouldn't cross.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 09:53 PM
1

Post pictures or shut up
/r/askTRP19/01/20 09:51 PM
1

I've got some pretty sick tattoos and I'm tan and fit 🤣🤣 Post pictures or shut up
/r/askTRP19/01/20 05:37 PM
1

Just ask her out already and stop texting back and forth
/r/askTRP19/01/20 05:23 PM
1

But it was before she saw candid pics of me haha i sent her a snap of me and i felt she started to lose interesr(?) we still chat quite a bit tho so maybe all is not lost. Oh God, you're already orbiting her. Here is a quick noob guide for matching with women on Tinder Match! Make some quick introductory small talk banter "Blah blah blah, let's meet up at <PLACE> and <TIME> or "blah blah blah, let's continue this conversation over drinks at <PLACE> and <TIME>" (Where time is roughly within the n…
/r/askTRP19/01/20 06:53 AM
1

So I asked a stupid question and now a lot of the guys at my job think I am stupid I'm gonna guess you're in your 20s? Making mistakes are part of life. The only way making mistakes is really bad is if you don't learn from your mistakes. So you said something stupid? Make a deal with yourself that you won't make the same kind of mistake again. They have started to act snarky around me and relegate me more This happens and I'd argue it's good for you. It makes you remember my first point. How do …
/r/askTRP19/01/20 06:43 AM
3

Generally if she shows up to your place alone she's down to hook up. You just need to not trip over your own dick and fuck it up. Also you need to escalate appropriately.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 12:13 AM
8

Christ what is happening on this sub? If you're sick rest. You and your health come first above all else.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 12:11 AM
1

There are season to life. It rains some days right? But does that mean that there will never be a blue sky again? No, a rainy day is just temporary. Bad days are temporary. Feel whatever you feel, look at the things that are making you feel bad and set out to not let them make you feel that way again and keep in mind that the bad feeling will pass.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 12:10 AM
3

No, I just live my life and take what I want from the universe. I don't split things up in to blue / red pill. With every situation I'll look at what path I need to take to get what I want, while still abiding by my core beliefs
/r/askTRP18/01/20 01:21 AM
9

Sigh, I'll say it again: Stop trying to game women over social media. Get their PHONE NUMBER and move to set plans up over text. She probably just lost interest because you're just another dick in a sea of dicks in her DMs. Try this to see what I mean: Find any HB 7+ Gain access to her phone Witness the ocean of thirsty dudes messaging her via social media
/r/askTRP18/01/20 01:17 AM
1

Plates break. You're catching a slight case of oneitis. Find other plates with "insane" sex. Do nothing, get back to the gym.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 04:54 AM
0

You're 91?
/r/askTRP17/01/20 04:48 AM
1

You can't fuck women over text or social media. Also limit social media. Get their numbers and text them. Stay away from messaging on any app.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 06:20 AM
6

Cold called a girl i've known for a bit but we never talked until the last two weeks. From what I can tell, most guys don't even call. So props to you for doing it. You already stand out to her that way. I called her up tried to make a little small talk that felt awkward I get it. It can be a little odd since people are out of the habit of calling to communicate with anyone other than really close friends or family. Here is a trick I learned when calling: Be busy doing something mildly interesti…
/r/askTRP16/01/20 06:17 AM
1

You can't fuck her over text and the longer you text back and forth, the more likely it is that you will: Trip over you own dick Make her lose interest. Stop texting so much. Be busy with something else, don't text until you're done with whatever you're busy with. Send a few messages and get back to living your life.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 06:07 AM
3

Amen.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 12:41 AM
4

People say movie dates are a bad idea because you can't talk to your date that much. This is generally true and I avoid movies, especially as a first date with someone I just met. That being said, I've brought dates to movies, whispered in their ear and then taken them back home. If there is a movie I want to see I'll bring a date there because I learned a while back not to choose dates based on what she will like, but based on what I enjoy. In short: Do what you want.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 12:39 AM
2

There is this one girl Also: She’s been a friend, tells me her sex stories and would insist on looking at my dick pics It's like a jedi mind trick. You're talking about sex, imaging her having sex when she tells you her stories, and she's looking at your dick, but pictures of them. You won't have sex with this woman. Also also: She usually texts me to take her to places groceries You're firmly trapped in her orbit. Get out, move on.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 06:32 AM
3

These apps feed on your need to be popular and share. Just stop. Say Less.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 04:45 AM
1

I feel like I should ask her out soon as we have been texting for about a week until the wee hours of the morning. You haven't read the side bar now have you?
/r/askTRP13/01/20 04:43 AM
2

Not reading this wall of text. Read the sidebar, go find other women to cure your oneitis. Come back and tell us about how this LDR blew up in a few months time.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 12:45 AM
1

First and foremost: Don't let other people tell you they know the rules for you life. If you have a gut feeling about it, follow your gut. Sounds like you're overall doing well in life, pull the trigger, try it out and if it isn't what you want, move back. As for the girl: You should never be afraid to pack it up and leave. Or don't. At the end of the day it's your life
/r/askTRP10/01/20 02:53 AM
1

You really need to read the sidebar. Shorten this entire thing to "Let's hang out again at PLACE and TIME"
/r/askTRP06/01/20 01:34 AM
4

Game this chick or find someone else. What do? Game other women, preferably ones who don't work for the same company.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 10:28 PM
12

yet I said „me too This is a God Tier response actually. Next time just work on the delivery. Be calm, casual and drop a shit eating grin. Other responses to "I have a boyfriend" that have worked for me: Yeah? So does Elton John. Oh yeah, is he cute? That's a you problem It's all in the delivery and your attitude. Don't worry about falling flat on your face, I'm sure we all have stories of approaches gone wrong. Worst on from me is where I could see the woman scanning me up and down, deciding I …
/r/askTRP05/01/20 10:24 PM
3

"I can't make it in the big leagues so I'll go back to the minor leagues" What? No It just means you need to work harder. You said it yourself: Physically, he’s in good shape, but not great shape So get in better shape. The content of what you're posting is true, you can go for being a total catch in a small town, to being no one in a big city. The advice to move back to a smaller pool though? Too defeatist. I came from a small country where I generally did well, moved to a bigger country and sa…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/20 03:53 AM
4

You're human and part of the experience is feeling pain and suffering. Let it flow through you, allow yourself to feel however you need to feel, just don't let the feelings take over long term. Attachment happens and it makes loss hard. Go through the motions of grieving, don't let survivors guilt get to you. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 10:05 PM
2

Flash a stern no nonsense look at them, grab your girl by the hand and get on with your night. The end.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 08:57 PM
7

Be busy. Text back when you have a free moment. Text only for logistics. Busy working and a text comes in? Ignore it until you're free. Out spending time with friends or family and a text comes in? Ignore it until you're done spending time with them. Busy working on some goal of yours? Ignore At the gym? Ignore.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 01:37 AM
1

Social media is a tool. Use it in limited supply. and I use it alot too for stalking etc Stop this. have found it hard to quit because I would have nothing to do then. Get some hobbies, get some goals. Focus on those.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 02:51 AM
3

How do I lead in social situations where I’m competing with an alpha? Just focus on competing with yourself. Don't worry about everyone else.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 02:43 AM
1

I followed my instincts which was essentially: get close, create tension by looking at her eyes and having really physical contact. Good job getting your back off the wall and getting her dancing. Always follow your instincts. But then for some reason she started crying, and I, for a lack of a better word shocked. It's a reasonable response to be shocked. Personally I would have either: Bounce on her once she started crying. Crying in public like that is not something you're equipped to deal wit…
/r/askTRP01/01/20 07:26 PM
7

Those lines can certainly be lame, but your attitude and delivery matters more.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 07:00 PM
2

Say hi, talk about the exhibits, talk about anything, escalate.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 11:06 PM
3

I get how you could read it that way. Being busy as a shield could be productive in the short term, but will ultimately tear you down in the long run. I figured out my own set of "tools" well before I hit this sub and one of the first ones I stumbled upon was being busy valuable goals. It switched my mindset from chasing women to chasing the best version of myself.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 10:25 PM
10

She has told me she is horrible at texting Women tell you this so they can have an out when they don't want to text you. If she's into you she'll text you back.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 02:31 AM
13

I am gaming other girls and I don’t have oneitis hahahahaha
/r/askTRP31/12/19 02:25 AM
3

Just keep in mind you haven't secured shit yet. She can change her mind at any minute.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 03:51 AM
23

Fuck her. Then go hang with him.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 03:50 AM
1

Girl that I've been gaming for some time now is playing hard to get I believe, what's my move? Move on. Although I'm confident I have this chick in the bag You use the word confident, I don't think it means what you think it means. If you were confident you wouldn't be here, you'd be too busy with her in your bed. I've asked her three times to go get drinks and she does not take me up on my offer by using reasonable excuses (work, not being in town, etc.), but at the end of the day, if a chick w…
/r/askTRP29/12/19 11:15 PM
2

You’re under no pressure to engage the whole firm or be the life of the party, you’re not a performer you’re a guest. I wish I had learned this advice years. Also you don't have to (and can't) save everyone.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 09:20 PM
-2

Stop engaging women on social media. I have plates in their mid 20's through mid 30's and not a single one of them has me on social media.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 05:08 AM
17

Tell me like it is trp. Okay: The verdict is oneitis. Go out and chase your goals or other women. Stop wondering if she'll call or if you can fix it. Move on.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 05:02 AM
1

That's not true confidence. True confidence means you can get chewed out for whatever reason, take it in stride, admit you're wrong/don't know something, and still walk out without your knees shaking True confidence means you can take the lesson and learn from it and do better. True confidence will let you thank them for the lesson and strive to do better.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 11:16 PM
3

He got in your head. You're going to meet people being assholes throughout life. It takes practice to not let it get to you. Most people who do dumb stuff that gets in your head move in and don't think about it while you're left stewing it over in your mind. Next time it happens pretend they're a child and look at them with amusement and agree and amplify everything they say.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 09:01 PM
15

True confidence is the belief that you'll be okay no matter the outcome. Giving a speech at work where everyone knows more than you do? Confidence is knowing that even if you don't know everything you can still offer insight and think on your feet. Talking to a HB10? Confidence is knowing it doesn't matter how she reacts, your day will continue on it's merry way not matter what comes out of her mouth.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 08:56 PM
24

Don't get black out drunk, treat it as an amusing event, don't be bothered by it and move on.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 06:53 PM
1

If you're really good friends don't cut him off. You can't save those who don't want to be saved. Hard as it is to watch, you just have to let him go through the process and be there to make the the fall easier when he hits rock bottom. Try to set an example for him. When he asks you for advice give him some in small pieces. I used to be that guy like your friend is now. The more my friends tried to show me the light the more I ignored them. It's a cruel cycle.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:57 AM
10

"Same phone, who dis?"
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:45 AM
7

Stay away from interacting with women on social media. It's their domain and you become one of the thousands of faceless men that they don't remember who just provide them validation. Instead get a phone number and meet up with her in person.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 03:33 AM
1

This is also correct.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 07:48 PM
6

She wants the D. Play your cards right and next time you're in the same part of the world you'll be able to give it to her.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 09:03 PM
6

As a general rule I stay away from interacting with women on social media.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 11:52 PM
9

Yeah she's just not that interested. She needed a quick ego boost and you supplied. She got what she wanted from you already.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 01:49 AM
4

Be there for her. Listen, hold her, let her cry. Don't feel like you need to sob along with her. Your schedule will be thrown off for a little bit, but gradually re-introduce it as time passes. If she is your LTR these are some of the responsibilities that come with it.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 07:07 PM
1

Turn off notifications from all those damn apps. No one will die because you didn't respond to their text. If it is life an death they should be calling 911 anyway. Turn on gray scale mode. Apple and Android phones have this. It makes your phone a little more boring Silent mode / do not disturb time frames Get in the habit of focusing on the task at hand. Out to dinner with someone? Don't check your phone until you're done. Running an errand down the street? Leave your phone at home. In a class …
/r/askTRP25/10/19 07:05 PM
21

"Put on your own oxygen mask before helping others" You just have to realize that you come first. You need to serve your emotional needs first and not put the other persons needs above your own.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 07:02 PM
8

Stop, pause. Look at why you broke your frame. Tell yourself not to do it again. Move on with your life. I seem to overthink things too much. Yes, you are.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 11:15 PM
3

Think of something funny or something that brings you joy. Get a genuine smile going. Take pictures at sunrise or sunset with the sunlight coming from behind the camera.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 10:09 PM
1

How to stop caring about what a girl does/did and simply keep f**king her? Stick your dick in her and keep your mouth shut? This one girl I know was laying in bed naked with me and she kept going on about how much she loves her "boyfriend" and wants to marry him. She does whatever I want in bed, so I just remain amused anytime she brings him up and fuck her backwards, forwards, sideways, upside down etc etc.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 10:06 PM
2

I dare one of you to do this on a cold approach. Report back with results.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 10:03 PM
5

lol, that was from last night when your phone was dead Useless text message. You shot yourself in the dick. Go radio silent for a bit and then hit her up with some plans.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 10:00 PM
1

You can't save him. I've tried before, and it ended with him making a racially charged joke at my expense in an effort to be the center of attention at a party and him mocking me saying how I thought I was better than him. Think teenage high school movie where everyone goes silent and the center of attention is on two people. I brushed it off and made a graceful exit. He called me at 2AM crying his eyes out. I cut him off after that. Look if you like the dude, hang out with him, accept his socia…
/r/askTRP20/10/19 09:56 PM
5

It's the same as instagram. Talk to her and escalate. The only way to know for sure.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 09:52 PM
6

The dishonesty, the monkey-branching, the disdain they show for decent guys while chasing Chad, disgusting. You're still processing. The anger stage I think this is. I think I will buy a house next year in a good school district, then just sell myself as the ultimate BetaBux. This is not what this sub is for. Hopefully, women will be impressed that I bought a house in cash, then I can just pump and dump single moms while she has dreams of her kids growing up in a nice house and attending a good …
/r/askTRP20/10/19 09:52 PM
8

Does everyone on this sub think they have autism? You're living your life and women are coming onto you. Just escalate when you feel like it.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 12:34 AM
1

Do what you want to do, ignore everyone else. Don't answer him and go out with her. He's basically trying to call "dibs" on her. You can't call dibs on people. If her persists in making a scene about it, keep calm keep your attitude towards him as one of disinterest and looking at a spoiled child.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 03:59 AM
2

A few ways to respond to it: Ignore it. Just set up a time to meet and respond at whatever pace you normally do. This will drive her crazy. If she cancels because of this she wasn't that into you anyway. Respond back with something dumb "I text back when I take a break from saving the world from whale overpopulation" or something. Adjust the level of dumb based on previous humour you two have shared before. Trade: Ask her to do something in return like /u/MotiMorphosys said.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 02:40 AM
1

I generally try to be doing something else while I'm on the phone. Walking around, cleaning shit up off flat surfaces, anything that's not too loud and will distract from the conversation. I feel like it helps me come off more relaxed on the phone.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 02:52 AM
6

I, a non filthy and even moderately strong weeb How is no one else laughing at this?
/r/askTRP09/10/19 02:50 AM
1

Don't get tangled up in trying to constantly comfort and reassure her. Make her earn it.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 06:00 AM
5

Pretend it doesn't exists, make girls sign your cast.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 05:12 PM
-1

Think of something you've always wanted. This should be something that's a bit of a stretch for you to achieve. Think of yourself achieving that thing. Work backwards to how you got to the point of achieving that thing Once you've worked backwards all the way to the first step you would need to take, take action on that first step immediately, even if it's just a small action like looking something up online. Now work forwards towards your goal following the steps you've already thought out. Wri…
/r/askTRP04/10/19 04:10 AM
1

Don't try to take everything in all at once Find one small thing you can change, change that thing until it's a habit. Don't try to do it all at once Focus on your school Go to the gym
/r/askTRP04/10/19 04:02 AM
4

Here is my 101 "feeling down" checklist. I go through each item. Yours may be a little different: Have I eaten? Have I eaten a good healthy meal? Have I gotten a solid 8 hours of sleep? Am I in any physical pain? Am I stressed or worrying about something? Am I in a comfortable climate? (Too hot, cold, humid, dry etc) Have I done any physical activity recently to get my heart rate up? Do I need to take a shit? Is my surrounding environment clean? Usually one of these things is it. If it persists …
/r/askTRP04/10/19 04:00 AM
1

Ah you again. I see you didn't get a new fucking account with a less lame name. With as much as you beat yourself up and you constantly posting about prostitutes you're going down a slippery slope. Yeah you can hire a prostitute or escort and get that sexual release, but you'll use it as a crutch. Instead of doing things to fix yourself you'll just say "Oh I'll just pay again" and you'll never get better at speaking to women because you have an out. It's just like if you eat out all of the time …
/r/askTRP02/10/19 03:38 AM
1

Did I get rejected? Yes Not reading that wall of text. If it's not an eager and enthusiastic 'yes' to see you it's a reject.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 03:23 AM
1

You have a self-defeating attitude. You listed out all the things that went wrong with your life. Boohoo. Shit sucks. I promise you there are other people who have had worst lives. Shit sucks but make a plan to set goals to make one thing better. Achieve that goal and then make another plan, and another. Get your ass off the internet, put your nose down and grind.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 03:22 AM
3

Eh, a few have done it, one even showed me her matches right after we got done having sex lying naked in my bed. I composed a few messages to her matches, then switched it to her looking for women and told her I'm laying down the ground work for a threesome. Don't let it bother you.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 03:17 AM
1

taking baths with 2 cups of bleach poured in Not sure if you're trolling or not.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 08:50 PM
11

Women are like cats. Sometimes they change their mind about you especially if they're not attracted to you enough.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 02:49 AM
3

The verdict ladies and gentlemen? Oneitis. Why are you investing in a woman who lives that far way from you only to see her once a month? Go talk to other women, hit this one up when you're back in town.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 09:27 PM
1

A girl I started seeing for the last 4 months has been slowly opening up, spending more time, make out but no sex yet. She has a busy job with weird hours so we usually go out once a week or 2-3 times a month. I stopped reading. Move on.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 05:11 AM
6

I bought her a lot of drinks and escalated on her but I still got rejected in the end We all been there. Pro tip: Buying women things won't get you in their pants. and she ended up making out with another guy in front of me and going home with him. I bet he didn't buy her a thing, or not as many as you did. I'm fucking furious at myself for being such an idiot and acting in such a needy and clingy manner, Live and learn man. It happens. Just be sure to do better next time. Get back to the gym.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 05:07 AM
4

Personally I'd ignore the gf / date comment. She dodged your invite since it was kinda weak. Just chat it up a bit and then ask her again to meet up. Make a specific plan with a date and time.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 05:04 AM
6

Then all of a sudden I ask her to go to her place instead (mostly because I realized my bed had a blood stain from fucking some other chick from the other night but obviously I didn’t tell her that exactly, just suggested her place) This is where YOU fucked up. You gotta be prepared to bring someone back to your place. It's just plain sloppy on your part to have bloodstains on your sheets still. What are you 12? Put fresh sheets on your bed. You had a green light, but changed it so I guess she g…
/r/askTRP29/09/19 05:00 AM
2

Yeah, It's on the side bar ---->
/r/askTRP28/09/19 05:43 AM
5

Listen: Do you have alternatives lined up to just bail on this job if this goes south with a co worker? Do you have a few months of expenses saved up? Can your career take the hit of being in the middle of a sexual scandal? Can you get another job within 2 weeks? Are you CERTAIN? If you answered no to any of theses questions then DON'T SHIT WHERE YOU EAT.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 03:05 AM
3

Be busy with your life, text them when you want to set up a time to fuck. That's how you make fuck buddies. Keep all other texting to a minimum.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 03:03 AM
3

You were kissing her neck but couldn't make out with her? Are you a man? Next time do better and just kiss her on the lips like a man. She will thank you for it.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 03:01 AM
4

It's like this: She's already back at your place. Women don't go back to men's places unless there is an interest. Be cool, invite her in, offer her a drink, chat it up and feel her vibe. She may need some warming up, so put on a movie. She may not need warming up so get right to it. Read the room.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 02:45 AM
1

Invite her out for a beer, get some food, check out the book store, art shop whatever. Invite her to something.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 02:43 AM
2

Read the sidebar. Stop arguing with women People who are into you will text you back. If they don't text back they're not interested. Move on.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 02:38 AM
2

I have OCD/anxiety Before you interact with any other woman deal with this first. Therapy, or whatever you need to do. All because I'm afraid of living with myself thinking "what if I made the wrong decision, what if she was real all along and I let her go?" She's not real Life is all about making decisions and then living with them and most importantly learning from them. A bad decision isn't a loss but a valuable lesson learned. Again, dropping all contact with her isn't the bad decision here.…
/r/askTRP28/09/19 02:28 AM
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Stop all contact with her. Immediately. You've said it yourself, she's a pathological liar. You met her on a dating site you say? She's basically scamming you. You're the golden egg for her, you gave her a job, a regular salary and even kept just sending her money? This woman wasn't your girlfriend, rather you were her mark and she conned you for a long time. Yes yes yes you had sex with her and she said all the sweet things you wanted to hear. Sorry to break it to you, but she was basically a p…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 04:01 AM
1

This should be up far higher.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 01:17 AM
1

Ignore it Change the topic Comment on something in the background Give a one word reply Ask her for something specific Whatever you do don't get into the habit of letting her see your digital tongue wag with a series of compliments. Do compliment, but keep it restrained.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 03:33 AM
2

Try these things: Look in the mirror, now bend over, take a deep breath in and as you breathe in start straightening out. Roll your shoulders back at the top and let your entire body land in a comfortable position. Practice doing this until it feels natural. Also keep your hands out of your pockets if necessary. If you can, rest your hands on an object in front of you. If there is nothing in front of you fold your arms, but open them up when talking in conversation. Last resort, stick em in your…
/r/askTRP24/09/19 03:29 AM
1

Okay, snake oil may be a bit far for me to say, but if you just spend 15 mins researching your skin care you can find cheaper and better products.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 03:05 AM
3

That's a lie. Heads don't turn for dad bod, they turn for shredded 6 pack. Here is what happened: A list Holywood star uses personal trainer gets shredded for a movie role All sorts of tricks are used to make them appear even more shredded on camera Women see the movie, are attracted to actors body Movie is over, the actor no longer has personal trainer, puts on a few extra pounds, but remains in generally good shape, good muscle defintion Paparazzi catches the actor out and about, running erran…
/r/askTRP23/09/19 05:34 AM
2

Christ Tiege Hanley is everywhere and is such a BS product. Don't get me wrong, as far as YouTubers go AlphaM seems like a cool dude, but Tiege Hanley is basically snake oil.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 02:32 AM
2

I'm in my early 30's, but had a relationship that started in high school and ended in my late 20's. So I can relate a little. That feeling of craving companionship is normal. For decades you had a companion to do things with, now not so much. You feel the void and want to fill it with the companionship of woman, I get it. When my relationship ended I badly jut wanted someone to step in and fill the hole she left. Don't seek that. Instead, try new things, or do old things that bring you pleasure.…
/r/askTRP23/09/19 02:27 AM
25

When you replied "When" you put the ball back in her court. Next time if you want to see her just set a solid place and time.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 01:33 AM
6

They said i should try being friends with a girl i like at first and if doesn’t work out and she doesn’t like me i still have the time they we’ve had together This is how you end up in the friendzone. Ignore them and do as you please.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 01:32 AM
1

Don't even think about it. Just do what you want.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 04:08 AM
2

None of this matters. Get back to the gym.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 04:07 AM
2

Buy a book used and read it instead of playing WOW. You really just want to play WOW. Do better and do something more productive instead. I'm sure there is something you can improve in your life instead of playing WOW.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 04:06 AM
1

Escalate and find out.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 04:03 AM
4

Fuck him first to assert dominance.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 10:49 PM
12

When women tell me they want to pursue something with another guy I wish them well in their relationship endeavors and move on with my life. Don't chase women, let them chase you.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 10:47 PM
1

If you're still worried about openers you're doing it wrong. Just say whatever you feel like saying. As long as it's not completely retarded ff she's into you she'll respond.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 10:44 PM
3

Begging for karma from internet strangers. I don't want to hear what you have to say about women. Have a downvote.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 10:42 PM
2

Ask her what she's wearing.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 02:56 AM
4

I'm gonna teach you to fish instead of just giving you a fish: Read the sidebar Say literally anything. If she's interested enough in you, she'll keep the conversation going. DON'T say things that every other guy is going to go for, like asking her how her day is going. Instead make an assumption about her. You might fail, but again, see point 2. Just don't be generic. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 02:55 AM
2

Just talk to EVERYONE. Boys too. You'll just be that social guy, so approaching women is nothing different. Also: During all of these approaches, don't be too eager to please. Just keep to chill.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 02:47 AM
2

Nothing wrong with being nice because you want to. You just need to know your worth, and have self respect and not let people walk all over you.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 02:46 AM
2

This applies to just about everything related to women: Do whatever you want.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 02:45 AM
43

Okay buddy, I feel for you. I was there once. Virgin, clueless with women, so I'm gonna give you some basics, but this is not replacement for reading through the god dammed sidebar You've most likely blown any chances you had with this woman. Surprising right? As far as you're concerned you just met her and had a good time with her right? How could you have blown it? If there is one smell women hate it's desperation, and they can smell it a mile away, past the local dump, over the ocean and betw…
/r/askTRP20/09/19 02:42 AM
1

Have fun at the party. Say hi to her if you two lock eyes / pass by each other, and then go back to having fun at the party.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 02:26 AM
1

Like they say, you don't put a bumper sticker on a Ferrari. Thanks for putting into words the feeling I've had for years now. I remember when tattoos were associated with criminals, hookers and general low lifes. Now it's trendy and more accepted, but I've always viewed women with tattoos as damaged at worst, or just following trends and basic at best. I'd venture to say the ones with super tiny hidden tattoos are even more damaged: Damaged but trying to hide it and not dealing with their issues…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 02:25 AM
1

What are you scared if exactly? She's a woman, not a lion. Just ask her out, maybe she says yes, maybe she says no. Either way you got nothing to actually be scared of.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 10:32 PM
1

Don't text to ask if you're still on for tomorrow, instead just say something like "see you tomorrow"
/r/askTRP19/09/19 10:30 PM
6

Cold approaching is recommended for guys to get over approach anxiety. If you're already approaching women (TRULY approaching them without hesitation) in your day to day life on a regular basis then you should be fine. I've never done the approach 10-20 people a day thing and don't feel like I'm missing out. I meet women just living my life. I just talk to whoever interests me, is in my immediate vicinity if I catch an IOI. My entire thought process is don't chase women, let them chase me and I'…
/r/askTRP19/09/19 09:15 PM
10

Stop caring about external factors.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 08:06 PM
3

I don't need millions to be happy, but why not aim for it?
/r/askTRP19/09/19 04:25 PM
20

Dmed girl on instagram. Where did I fuck up? Okay let's break this one down Dm this 8 on Instagram. Your first fuck up. You already sound kinda thirsty. Stop letting your tongue wag out because she's an "8". Never talked to her but thought she was cute so I followed her for awhile See the first point. Also you followed her for a while? Not only did she get a new follower she's never met in person, but he just stayed silent only to pop up and try talking to her X time period later. Anyways, I dm …
/r/askTRP19/09/19 02:27 AM
6

Online dating gives 5s and 6s more confidence. Higher up and they've been with assholes like is which wrecks their confidence.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 01:35 AM
3

Leave. Your family isn't the group of people you were randomly born into.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 02:00 AM
69

Move on. We all make mistakes. Each week you'll remember your past embarrassments less and less.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 08:46 PM
3

BPD and NPD don't even think of themselves as doing anything. It's just in their nature, the same way it's in a bee's nature to sting. Love bombing is just stage one of a deeper trap you'll get stuck in. I wouldn't recommend it to anyone.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 03:02 AM
2

Run. Never stick your dick I'm crazy (except for the first Tuesday of the month)
/r/askTRP17/09/19 02:06 AM
2

You're dam right to go where you want. I've taken girls to the bookstore which is across the street from where I live and still had sex with them. Library / Bookstore isn't a bad date idea, just swing by the erotic section pick a random book on a random page and start reading.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 01:59 AM
1

Put your dick inside her. Then you'll know.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 10:25 PM
1

Ask him out for drinks and then fuck him first. Assert dominance.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 10:20 PM
4

This is exactly what people mean by spinning plates. Sex without commitment. I see each one of mine about once per week. At ~6 women that means I don't see them from another 6 weeks after we last Meetup. Sidebar: One of women in my rotation once told me I'm more regular than her period 💀
/r/askTRP16/09/19 10:07 PM
1

On mobile maybe I'll update later but: Yes, just kiss her on the first date, you'll know real quick where you stand with a woman. Also your messages are kinda meandering. In the early stages just get to the point. Don't ask if she's busy, assume she's free and make plans.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 09:04 PM
1

Depends on what level of crazy she's truly at. First, give it to her straight, you don't think it will work out between you two. No long explanations, just a single sentence, word it however you want. If she doesn't drop it then, go full-on ignore more. Do not engage further
/r/askTRP16/09/19 04:34 AM
2

Yes, escalate.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 04:21 AM
48

I've spent time thinking this through. Two paths of least resistance: Option 1: Find out when the graduation ceremonies for medical schools in your area will be. Hit up the school bars the weekend before and after. Hit up those bars and find the doctoral grads. They won't be quite rolling in it just yet, but in a few years time your investment should pay off. In this instance, I'd say aim for lower on the scale (like the 5s and 6s, maybe even a 4 if you dare). If you've been hitting the gym and …
/r/askTRP16/09/19 04:20 AM
1

Library, bookstore, cafe, street, bus stop, museum, events around your city, online dating sites, at the bar. Anywhere and everywhere.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 04:13 AM
14

Ignore them. You pay rent to be there. Be polite and courteous, don't give any weight to their actions. Give them time to see the chill dude you are.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 04:12 AM
8

Just text her something like "Vegas was fun! Next time I'm in town blah blah blah" Don't become penpals. Hit her up next time you're nearby.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 04:10 AM
12

Yeah, lots of red flags. Run. Never stick your dick in crazy (except for the first Tuesday of the month)
/r/askTRP16/09/19 04:08 AM
7

Well you've already, told her to stop. Reiterate it. Speak to her on a mother-son level (mom it's over and you're making this more painful for me) Otherwise, ignore it and just start bringing new girls over. She's gotta stop eventually.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 04:07 AM
2

If it's been a few days just send her another text, see where it goes. Otherwise be ready to move on.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 02:26 AM
3

OP is this your girlfriend? http://archive.is/SPmTy
/r/askTRP16/09/19 02:13 AM
1

Wait for him to come to you and then lead by example.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 02:09 AM
2

This one is kinda just a wash. You didn't do anything particularly wrong ( too much loling, and I hope if she did answer then your next text message would be trying to set up plans to meet). She's probably just not that interested in you or is busy seeing someone else. Let the conversation die and then just pop up in a few days and make plans to meet. Don't reference her leaving you on read or be butthurt, just pick it right back up as if nothing happened.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 02:08 AM
21

Met a 10 but I'm in a, probably very common, situation Met a 6(max) and I have no idea what to do. She is my oneitis now I've met a pure aesthetical 10 but she isn't emotionally available. noise She's got already a boyfriend that she's not in love with and at the same time she got a huge crush for a pool boy, for at least 3 years no What kind of CW, riverdale, 13 reasons why, white people TV show script am I reading? Noise. I don't think stand a chance vs her idealized boy. Not only have I put h…
/r/askTRP15/09/19 08:59 PM
86

In the beginning it will feel wonderful. You'll be so happy to even have a chance with her. You won't believe your luck because, she's yours now right? You'll dream of your entire future together and your brain will be flooded with all of the happy drugs. She'll also be pleased. She's accustomed to getting attention from guys, but you in your drugged up, over the moon state will really lay the attention on her and she'll like it. For a while. It won't last. Eventually she'll realize she can do a…
/r/askTRP15/09/19 08:43 PM
1

Wait you were on a date for 6 hours? I think there are more problems than her accidentally saying some other dudes name ( which if it truly was an accident you should just ignore and go on about your day)
/r/askTRP15/09/19 07:22 PM
1

Be busy. Don't engage the text conversation. She'll get the point. Be more conversational in person of course.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 07:18 PM
4

Get past your butthurt. Do other things, talk to other women, hit her up in a few days with a place and time to meet up.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 05:35 PM
191

Could be a couple of things: she could be on her period but just doesn't want to tell you. She doesn't want you to think she's not interested in you, so she blows you but won't let it go further. She could think of a BJ as nothing and sex as a bigger deal. So in her mind when she's ready to settle down when some guy asks her what her body count is she won't count blowjobs. Maybe she's just really into blowjobs Maybe has some genital STD
/r/askTRP15/09/19 12:58 PM
3

You're overthinking this. Stop trying to figure out why she is doing something and just live your life. Also stop checking in on women over social media.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 12:54 PM
1

Hahahah move on buddy, she's not interested. Check out the sidebar.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 11:38 PM
1

Seriously can't tell if some of these posts are trolls or not.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 11:34 PM
4

Stop asking "is it okey?" Live your life, do what you want, live with whatever consequences may come.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 11:31 PM
7

All women are single... for the right guy. Seems like this time around you're the guy.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 08:59 PM
2

You're a human being, being social is literally in your DNA. Open your mouth and start a conversation with someone. If they're cool have more conversations with them. Eventually ask them what they're doing for the weekend or later in the day. If they have no plans tell them your plans and then follow up with "you should come". If they have plans you can use the same thing above but add "you should come with me sometime". If their plans are fairly social and open like seeing a movie just say "min…
/r/askTRP13/09/19 08:54 PM
1

This ain't it. You don't settle for being average. You have exactly one life and then that's it. You want to live it in mediocrity? Sit on the couch, watch TV in a miserable relationship and then die? It's okay to feel burnt out and need a break, but it's never okay to settle. Do better. Keep reaching
/r/askTRP13/09/19 07:37 PM
1

If you find yourself arguing with a woman, you've already lost.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 08:52 PM
12

Is he 12?
/r/askTRP12/09/19 07:23 PM
32

All of them. Ignore her words, watch her actions
/r/askTRP11/09/19 08:51 PM
103

Great start man. One tip: it's cool to say yes to everything in the beginning especially after years of not being social, however there will come a point where you have to start saying no to things and prioritizing. Be careful because this can sneak up on you and suddenly you have to many things juggling and burnout.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 07:43 PM
185

Oh I got a few of those. From bad to worst: 3 Invited this girl out on a date. Through a series of events we end up at Ikea (not relevant). I try to be slick and ask her to come back to my place and help me setup the lights. She says no to my place but invites me back to her place instead. I took her rejection of the suggestion of my place as "there will be no sex" rather than "I want to have sex at my place". She ghosted me soon after only for me to bump into her on the street weeks later. We s…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 10:56 PM
3

Here is some more life advice: Easiest way to tell if someone likes you is to just kiss them. You'll find out real quick where you stand vs asking on the internet.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 10:40 PM
1

Except for the first Tuesday of the month.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 10:39 PM
5

Best advice on here TBH.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 10:37 PM
1

Yeah, don't overshare on social media. Make sure a post on social media is a surprise people eagerly check out vs "Oh it's just another one of his dumb posts"
/r/askTRP10/09/19 10:32 PM
6

Stop thinking about when to text back and just text back when you feel like it. Don't be glued to your phone, be busy living your life, don't let your phone interrupt you from living your life.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 09:40 PM
1

Escalate. If it fails pretend like nothing happened and continue your platonic relationship if it means something to you.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:45 PM
2

Tell them that both of you are going to another bar or back to your place. Calm and direct. "Let's wrap up here and check out that movie I was telling you about" or something to that effect.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:43 PM
2

Change the topic or over-exaggerate your response, keep it light and playful. Her: So how many girls are you sleeping around with? Me: Well after the Queen, Theresa May and Margart Thatcher that brings me to ummmm... divide by 3, add the 5 <more random math nonsense> Her while laughing at my bullshit answer: No really, tell me Me: 6 girls... scheduled for today, about 9 more tomorrow and then only 3 the day after.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 12:24 AM
3

For some perspective for the OP: So just remember girls are DELAYED sign of succes. I started changing my life around 2015. It wasn't until 2018 that I could start to feel comfortable that I could meet women whenever I wanted and had a sex life of abundance. All the while I was just working on being a better me. Keep working on yourself OP.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 12:12 AM
1

Text when / how you feel like it This is the thing most people posting can't seem to grasp. Just be busy with your life and text when it's good for you.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 12:02 AM
2

she hits me up with wassup wyd? She's doing one of two things: 1 Your attention (and thus validation if you give it to her) 2 She's trying to fuck If it's the first point the worst thing you can do is to entertain a conversation that goes nowhere. Try to set up plans for a date. If she's not interested she'll brush you off with excuses. Do not continue to engage her past this point. If she does say yes to whatever plans you setup, get the details locked in (where & when) and then stop texting. I…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 12:01 AM
2

Social media can be used to show you're a fun interesting guy worth being around, but it can also take away all of the mystery surrounding you. If your social media presence looks like every other guy's in your age range / social circle, or if it's repetitive (party, getting drunk, sports) then all you're doing is killing the mystery about yourself. You gotta decide if the life you're presenting on social media is worth killing off the mystery about yourself.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 11:54 PM
2

You can be addicted to sadness sometimes. I felt like that a while back, depression and suck up on me slowly over the years. I got over it, but sometimes I would catch myself being happy and "miss" being depressed and all of the depressing music I used to listen to. Keep pushing forward and making yourself better, the feeling of missing it will go away.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 11:34 PM
4

I feel like a fucking beta bitch. Because you are. Seems like you're reeling in your emotions. Let it go, move on.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 05:49 AM
2

I stopped adding women on social media a few years ago. I let them make that move. Some do, some don't.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 05:44 AM
2

If she's in your bed you just kiss her.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:36 PM
1

If you don't like it, don't go. I hate night clubs but meet women in plenty of other places.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 06:39 AM
3

Yeah, just have a good time doing what you doing, bail and do other things when you're ready to. If you're living your life, have goals and are satisfied, don't do things because you think you HAVE to. 100% normal.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 06:31 AM
3

DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO. Then be okay with whatever the consequences are. It doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 06:29 AM
4

You sound like you need to hit the sidebar. If you're asking questions like if you should hit her up again or how long you should wait you don't quite get it yet. Who cares about her? You should have multiple women in your rotation. If you're just trying to start up a rotation you shouldn't worry about a single woman and always be ready to move on. You're the prize, not her. Sometimes I hit women up after a flat response, sometimes I just leave them alone and forget about them. It doesn't matter…
/r/askTRP07/09/19 06:21 AM
1

Don't listen to this idiot above.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 06:01 AM
5

What are you getting into tn? Two things I hate about this opening message: I try to callback to a previous memory or point of conversation of opening up a conversation, or make a statement. What you texted is so passive compared to something like "We should meet up tonight" which pushes the agenda forward. I know what your subtext is (trying to fuck) and she definitely knows it too. Why not just start getting to that point? Blah blah blah NOT SURE ABOUT AFTER WHAT ABOUT YOU? It feels like this …
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:58 AM
4

yup
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:38 AM
2

Move on from this one. Just drop comms. If she reaches back out to you don't entertain whatever conversation she's trying to have and just push the conversation to setting up a date and time to meet.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 05:33 PM
8

Go to therapy.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 02:51 AM
6

Hit her up, you might learn a thing or two, or it could be fun to try a new thing or two with her. She'll be more open to suggestion and less prudish.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 05:10 AM
12

It's college, freshman year. They're just looking to hook up. Hit them all up. Might there be some fallout? Yeah, but just don't make promises to anyone, stay above the fray, don't fall into their frame and it will blow over.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 05:08 AM
6

Hit her up, see where it goes, you might just end up being a rebound but hey somebody's gotta do it.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 07:32 PM
6

And don't stick your dick into crazy. Except on the first Tuesday of the month, then it's okay. That's my rule.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 11:33 PM
6

I'm 17 and I went on a date with this solid HB7.5 16 I stopped reading after this. Likely none of this matters. Read the sidebar Get back to the gym Set goals and achieve them Get over "this one girl" Text for logistics
/r/askTRP02/09/19 10:16 PM
2

If the ugly ones are hitting on you, the hotter ones are trying to make eye contact or at the very least checking you out.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 10:15 PM
1

None of this matters as this probably won't last. Enjoy it while you can!
/r/askTRP02/09/19 05:30 PM
67

... but what happened instead was I stood in my house with a 6 pack I bought specifically for this reason and looked out windows and my porch for an hour straight... hahahahahahahaha Okay now that's out of the way. Just do it. Next time you're faced with something you want to do: JUST DO IT. Here is your new phone / computer wallpaper: https://imgur.com/BW86Njx Don't give yourself time to think, just do. The worst outcome from you taking an action is that something stupid comes out of your mouth…
/r/askTRP02/09/19 05:19 PM
2

Tone and delivery matter. You want to mention it casually and in passing with an air of un-importance to it. Don't just blurt it out like a confession. Make it a fun story about the crazy wild person you used to be when you were younger. Or just don't mention it at all if you don't think you can nail the tone.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 05:07 PM
3

Just approach and escalate as normal. Maybe it will work out, maybe it won't.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 06:01 AM
3

I usually pay for the first date, generally, it's only a few drinks at a bar that I frequent. I just get there early and give the bartender my card and ask him to put all the charges on my bill. If not I just put my card down and slide it out of the way ignoring the "Let me get my purse" dance. I think of it as part of me leading this entire dance that is going to lead back to my place after our 1.5 drinks (maybe food if I'm hungry) and a short walk back to my place. I don't make paying a big de…
/r/askTRP02/09/19 05:59 AM
3

I know the feeling. Train yourself to entertain other thoughts Just start off by making it a goal than anythime you notice you're thinking about her, acknowledge the thought with the thought of her with the calmness of touching a baby's face with a feather, ever so lightly, and then change the topic to ANYTHING ELSE. It could be about the color of the walls, the state of the economy, that you eat eight spiders a week, do math equations, whatever. ANYTHING. As long as you change the topic. Don't …
/r/askTRP02/09/19 05:44 AM
18

A little bit of both, but your education should be the first priority.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 05:30 AM
3

Whoo congrats on getting this one to do the rain dance with you, but a few notes: I snapped her tonight, just simple conversation and then told her I had a great time with her last night The beginning of problem 1. Let me show you my psychic powers: I'm going to guess it was something along the lines of "Last night was fun, had a really good time :)" and sent it in the morning, like between 8 - 10AM? How close am I? Generally, I don't text the day after a hook up because I'm busy with other thin…
/r/askTRP02/09/19 05:27 AM
5

This means nothing. Stop following women on social media. Ask them out in person and get back to the gym.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 10:11 PM
1

How to get over hurtful comments Just remember that this comment from her won't matter in the near future. In fact I gaurantee that she's moved on from it and forgotten about it already. She's not sitting there thinking "/u/cawkedup really messed up, I can't stop thinking about how lame it was". Instead she made a post in the moment and moved on. If she scrolls back 4 years from now and sees the post she'll wonder what it was about. Even the people who saw it didn't even give it a second though.…
/r/askTRP01/09/19 10:03 PM
12

Problem one: I'm going to be in town tomorrow. We should meet up and grab some coffee if you're free Don't give her an out by saying shit like "if you're free". Better text would have been something along the liens of "Lets get coffee at X place at X time" Problem two: I forgot to add that she has a boyfriend lol. That changes the entire dynamic. Apart from her showing signs of interest, she also has to show signs of comfort with your escalation.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 09:57 PM
2

Check out AlphaM and TeachingMensFashion on YouTube as well as the MaleFashionAdvice subreddit. Don't take anything as gospel, but listen to them on basics about how clothes should fit. Build up your new wardrobe slowly, don't go out in one weekend and try to buy all new things. Also in store ask the people who work there, they're usually helpful.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 09:53 PM
1

So many things! Okay man, let me help you break down all of your thoughts: I'm seeing all these people from a different university that are already getting dates and going home on the first night of meeting. Don't worry about other people.You don't know their story or journey. Other people's success doesn't equal a failure for you. Focus on yourself and being comfortable no matter where you are. I kind of see how they game and try kind of escalating with touching and teasing once they're outside…
/r/askTRP01/09/19 03:42 AM
27

I've had more fun outside of college. In college: Had a shitty LTR from move in day to graduation day Was broke most of the time Didn't know how to socialize so it always felt like an uphill battle Didn't know what I wanted so I floated around with no direction. Post college: Better sex than with my LTR More sex on average than when I was in a LTR Have money to do what I want Socialize and have fun doing it with interesting people
/r/askTRP30/08/19 09:27 PM
1

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Scorpion_and_the_Frog Because it's in her nature.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 09:23 PM
4

It's fun. Plain and simple. Sex releases all kinds of drugs that make you feel good. It's not Disney fantasy magic with rainbows and all that shit. Instead it's rough, sweaty, heart-pounding and the closest link we have to our primal roots. It's a dance passed down through ageless springs from a worlds long forgotten. It's old magic. It's the original rain dance. You do it and ~9 months later an entire new human being pops out. Try it out, it won't change your life, but you'll have a bit of fun.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 06:30 PM
9

Not gonna read this wall of text. Whatever it is, move on, it doesn't matter. Meet more women and get back to the gym.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 06:21 PM
2

For your 3rd you're doing pretty alright. Bound to be some stumbles. Some of my go to responses for "I have a boyfriend": Oh cool, so does Elton John, is yours cute? Sounds like a you problem Great, you'll have something to do when I'm busy * Just wait for a beat to pass, then repeat what you said and ignore it completely * I'm not really into swinging Didn't ask / I don't care Bullshit (then move the conversation right on) Try em out, remix em, see what works for you. Be warned that your tone a…
/r/askTRP30/08/19 06:20 PM
0

Find another girl. Also: That and the combination of nofap for 2 weeks has admittedly made me less in control of my emotions. I ended up being pretty awkward near the end. Do better next time.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 06:06 PM
2

Pretend she was just another random dude at your company doing the same thing. How would you handle that? Think it through and then take those actions. Don't make this about your past relationship, keep it to work.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 06:03 PM
1

Eh, the landing was rough (do better next time) but if she actually meets up with you I'd consider it a successful landing. Ignore the boyfriend, pretend he doesn't exists and escalate. Pay attention to her actions, ignore her words.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 06:00 PM
3

All of this and she's moving in a few weeks? Just keep it professional and keep contact with her to as needed for work.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 05:52 PM
1

The problem is I actually respect her and because of this I’m having a hard time sexualizing her in my mind. This sounds like oneitis. Get over it. If this is a real date she knows what's up. If you don't sexualize her there is a line of guys in her inbox waiting for their chance to sexualize her. Been there before "I think she's so awesome, I don't want to ruin things by objectifying her, I want her to see that I think she's so cool blah blah blah. I don't want her to think I just see her as a …
/r/askTRP30/08/19 03:33 PM
1

My baseline date is 1 - 2 drinks at the bar, maybe some bar food if I'm hungry and a short romantic walk back to my place. If there is an activity going on, or something I haven't done in a while but feel like doing, I'll invite a date to tag along with me. Could be bowling, mini golfing, go carting, trip to the museum etc. If it happens that I can't get a woman to accompany me, then I'll invite a friend. If a friend can't make it I'll just go myself. Dates should just be things you want to do a…
/r/askTRP30/08/19 03:25 PM
1

My baseline date is 1 - 2 drinks at the bar, maybe some bar food if I'm hungry and a short romantic walk back to my place. If there is an activity going on, or something I haven't done in a while but feel like doing, I'll invite a date to tag along with me. Could be bowling, mini golfing, go carting, trip to the museum etc. If it happens that I can't get a woman to accompany me, then I'll invite a friend. If a friend can't make it I'll just go myself. Dates should just be things you want to do a…
/r/askTRP30/08/19 03:25 PM
2

Not your problem. Get back to the gym.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 01:29 AM
3

Seriously, get the number guys. Snapchat or other social media is a trap for attention. They get another follower and you get nothing.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 01:16 AM
3

None of this matters. Ignore it all and get back to the gym.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 12:13 AM
3

Get out of this relationship now and go talk to other women. Also get back to the gym
/r/askTRP28/08/19 07:13 PM
2

Honestly, sounds like an uphill battle, you may have burned your chances just going for a kiss with no warm up. Next time try building basic rapport first, then break it with some teasing, escalate to some light touching and flirting THEN maybe consider going for a kiss.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 04:36 AM
1

Simple example of this is when I used to try to ask women out before I would say something like "If you're not busy, can we go out blah blah blah" Every time without fail, they were busy because I already gave them excuse for why they couldn't meet up with me.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 01:07 AM
5

She pushes me back and to my surprise, looks at me and says "whoa" and asks me "what is this?" No previous warm up or sexual interaction and you go for the kiss? She takes a step back towards the wall of the elevator and her body language tells me its a rejection She now starts to text on her phone (my guess to let her boss know shes on her way back). No she was texting people about you trying to kiss her out of the blue. Bravo to going in for the kiss, but you gotta have something more built up…
/r/askTRP28/08/19 12:59 AM
4

Go to therapy and talk about your daddy issues. No really though, go to therapy.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 03:38 AM
2

Sounds like she's just not that attracted to you. If this is the first text you send her and she's not highly interested in you then of course you don't get a response. You gotta open up the conversation with something else and then naturally lead the conversation to making plans. Try starting off with a call back to your previous interaction to get the conversation started first and then transition to making plans. Like someone else said, make it sounds less like an appointment.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 03:37 AM
1

If you're going to interupt her to give her a note, might as well have just said something like "Hey, real quick, give me your number so we can blah blah blah later on" and then move on and let her get back to her conversation.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 11:51 PM
2

I've tried this before years ago to a girl on a train I spoke to for a while on the platform. Don't do it. Looking back I cringe at that moment. It's best just to straight up ask her.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 10:49 PM
3

Hey this is kinda my thing! I travel a lot and usually don't speak the local language. I'm treating it like a challenge, as an opportunity to work on my body language and non-verbal communication. You're already off to a great start. Body language and non verbals will be key. People can still read emotions and moods regardless of language barriers, so bring your good mood and SMV to the table. Another thing is if you're out with this woman and you two don't speak the same language, chances are s…
/r/askTRP25/08/19 09:39 PM
2

Blocking just says "I have no self control and I'm weak, so if I don't block this woman I'll end up texting her again". It's part of oneitis and not spinning plates.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 09:06 PM
2

This is the correct answer.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 08:41 PM
3

Burnout is real, sometimes you just need to take a break and do something else. That's why I have main goals and sub goals. When I'm burnt out on my main goal I work on a sub goal. My sub goals are generally more fun / artistic based goals. Example: Main goal is working on my business, sub goals are learning to play the guitar, how to sketch and an endless series of books to read. If the burnout is really bad I'll give myself a set amount of time off to recover. 1 hour, 1 day, 1 weekend etc. Key…
/r/askTRP25/08/19 06:10 PM
3

Yea we were in their farm From now own I vote that whenever men completely steps into women's frame we say they're just a dog on her farm.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 05:59 PM
5

This smells of oneitis. ... date with short, bubbly Asian girl last week. Her panties were soaked and they were cute af I'll also add.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 05:53 PM
2

Then why are you messaging them in Spanish?
/r/askTRP25/08/19 05:33 PM
1

Women can be like cats. Ever had a cat or hung around one? They can be all over you one minute and then the next you're dead to them. Eventually you'll see it's not strange, it's just how they are.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 05:30 PM
5

Be strong. I know it hurts but you had to know it was happening, you're just seeing it. About her wanting to talk about: what is there to talk about? You broke up and she's out there doing what she will. Nothing for her to explain to you really. It's best to not take this call. I know your brain craves speaking to her now and desperately hopes that the familiar face can be back in your life again, but your brain is a drug addict craving another hit. Move on, get back to the gym.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 04:05 PM
12

When I first saw this sub years ago I was still a "nice guy" looking for tips on how to be better with women. I seemed this place as toxic based on the amount of anger I was seeing from the overuse of words like bitch, slut, whore, cunt etc. I thought part of the core message was anger, hatred and a view that women were lesser. I couldn't abide by it. I went out, failed with women, got better without TRP, learned some stuff and then came back and glanced through some top posts out of curiosity a…
/r/askTRP25/08/19 03:59 PM
3

She sounds like she has low interest in you. Play it off and give it one more swing in a few days.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 03:51 PM
1

None of this matters. Get back to the gym.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 05:32 PM
8

This is the only true answer. People who haven't met true narcissists don't get it until they've been put through the ringer. Narcissists are broken humans. You can't save them, and they will wreck your life, your frame, everything.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 12:55 PM
1

Just wait for the results of you're that worried.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:09 AM
6

The real post here is about you hiring prostitutes. Cut that shit out. Everything you posted is weak as fuck.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 11:48 PM
14

What you're doing wrong is saying stuff like "We should" and "What's your schedule like". Instead make solid plans with a location, date and time. Try instead something like "Let's continue this conversation at BAR in LOCATION at TIME".
/r/askTRP20/08/19 09:54 PM
1

You went for the brazen cocky open, it didn't work and fizzle out. Also you asked her when you are meeting. You can save it by giving a firm time with firm plans. Otherwise move on. Get back to the gym.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 09:43 PM
3

Oh hey this is kinda my thing. I have plates in Beijing, Germany, Spain, Mexico and across the US. My advice: Solid frame, game and abundance mentality while you're there. You gotta max your SMV. Last time I'm in bed with a woman abroad I'll fuck her one last time like I'm about to go to prison (or leave the country) DON'T have a long goodbye at the airport. I never have women say goodbye to me at the airport. My theory is that it leaves them without a conclusion which keeps it alive. A kiss goo…
/r/askTRP20/08/19 08:10 PM
2

Girl I work with... Didn't expect this grand twist.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 02:08 AM
3

Sounds like you're on the right path. Don't worry about your N count. It doesn't matter. I haven’t told her what the plan is, going to leave her wondering until Saturday. This is generally a bad idea to make plans so far ahead in the future. Try to make plans for the next 24, 48 or at most 72 hours. Mini golf overall is a fine date idea, it's also a good test to see how into you she is after you're done with mini golf you tell her "let's get a drink at BLAH BLAH BLAH". An enthusiastic yes is a s…
/r/askTRP18/08/19 10:39 PM
3

Just push forward with solidifying your plans. She's trying to sus out if you're going to be driving a long distance just to see her.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 10:28 PM
8

Hey I remember those days being fresh out of a LTR. Before we we get to this date: Are you doing things to make you happy? Working on goals? Hitting the gym? I'm going to assume yes to those things. If not yes, get on them ASAP. Back to the date. Matched with girl on tinder, got her number within 4-5 messages. I said lets 'carry on the conversation over drinks on Saturday'. Good work. Would this still be a good idea? the golf place is 18+ and serves alcohol so could get drinks on the way round, …
/r/askTRP18/08/19 08:40 PM
3

Invite her out to something and escalate. Only way to know for sure.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 08:29 PM
2

Why are you inviting a random girl to go on a trip with friends? Think about it this way, would you invite a random dude to go on this trip with you? No? Then don't invite random women. Also from your Instagram screens, this woman is not interested, she finds it amusing, and will gladly accept the attention/compliments you're giving her, but she won't meet up with you.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 06:15 PM
2

She said “i have plans tomorrow sorry hun but sometime soon for sure” She sounds like a bot or a hooker. Move on, get back to the gym.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 08:11 AM
4

Get the fucking internship and get back to the gym.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 08:04 AM
6

and I just wanna ask them what color panties are they wearing, and dumb shit like that for self amusement and seeing their reactions. You gotta have a few things: Your reputation as a non-creep has to be beyond reproach( sky high SMV) You have to be able to read a room / social dynamics and where you stand in the middle of all of it. You have to be able to nail the tone/nuance. Try it out, possibly fail. Retry again after you learn a lesson. Do what you want.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:58 AM
3

You've failed on every front. Read the sidebar. Get back to the gym.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:55 AM
1

Consider the loss of your stuff a tax that you should only have to pay once. You've paid it, learn the lesson and move on. Also, get back to the gym.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:54 AM
1

Go make mistakes, it's part of the process. Try things and without ruminating on them, look it over and think "What did I do wrong?". Learn from your mistakes and move on.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:40 AM
-2

Don't ask if she's free, just tell her you're stopping by at a certain time.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 10:28 PM
9

You should go to night clubs to have fun, regardless of what anyone else there does.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 09:34 PM
10

around a month and a half ago I saw her walking on the street You've been sitting on this for a month and a half? You need to strike when the iron is hot. But let's see what else you got going on. unfortunately her bus was coming so I didnt get the time to ask for her number but I added her on facebook 3 days later It's 10 digits, if you saw the bus coming then it's a quick "Give me your number so we can <BLAH BLAH BLAH>". Also if you're going to add her on Facebook just do it right away. You're…
/r/askTRP16/08/19 09:30 PM
5

"Guys I took this girl to the prom, ignored her and hit on other women and was generally a complete ass to her. Why was she so mad?" Complete asshole or troll. Either way get back to the gym.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 09:16 PM
19

lol. Hey everyone, come look at this guy with the tiny dick ^
/r/askTRP16/08/19 09:12 PM
2

Under no circumstances should you ever write a woman a letter, especially if she is a narcissist like you claim. Just no. I have this plate, she is annoying, fickle, a complete narcissist If she truly is a narcissist, then your best and only play is to block, delete and go about living your best possible life while allowing yourself to just maker her another face you once knew. If you ever see her again give her no emotional engagement. It's the only way to truly get back at a narcissist. Trust …
/r/askTRP16/08/19 09:10 PM
1

Or do I stay away entirely too? Stay away. Read the sidebar. Get back to the gym.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 09:02 PM
2

Some off the rails advice: You're 14. Enjoy being that age and the freedoms that come with it. It won't seem like you have many freedoms, but right now you have the most time you'll ever have in your life. Enjoy your time with this girl, don't overthink it and then go do something else you enjoy (outside of video games and TV).
/r/askTRP16/08/19 05:30 PM
2

If people aren't adding value to your life then what are you doing with them? Cut them off (don't burn bridges) and move on. Get back to the gym.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 05:27 PM
6

Send whatever you feel like sending. Or don't. It doesn't matter. Get back to the gym.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 07:05 PM
5

Don't calm her down, you just be calm and steady.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 07:03 PM
2

This is hopeless. The oneitis is strong in this one. You need to read the sidebar. Let's break it down: Hello I need help on what to text to a girl I hooked up (just lots of kissing and butt grabbing in a party/club) with 3 months ago to try and meet her again. Okay so basically nothing. After that we texted quite a bit for 2 weeks and she seemed quite into me. Two weeks? You're a penpal now for when she's bored. We then stopped talking (cause I was a tad annoyed of texting her)and one month lat…
/r/askTRP15/08/19 06:59 PM
1

Don't do anything different. Go to work, do your job. If you see her greet her as normal. She'll get the point that it was just a make out.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 06:44 PM
1

Truth is everyone's skin care is unique. What worked for others on here may not work for you. Go to a dermatologist. If you can't afford a dermatologist the SkinCareAddiction subreddit is a good resource.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 04:32 PM
13

Set boundaries. Don't put up with shit you don't like. Don't be afraid to lose her. Say no, ignore her requests and then proceed as if nothing happened. If she starts making a fuss about about your response, throw a silent quizzical look her way. Be ready to soft next her if she continues to show behaviors you don't like. Also just don't keep your place messy. Have some discipline and keep it clean.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 04:40 AM
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/thread
/r/askTRP15/08/19 12:52 AM
2

Just ask her. Give a time and a place. "Meet me at <BAR> on <DAY> at <TIME>[ optional: so we can <CALL BACK TO PREVIOUS INTERACTION / CONVERSATION TOPIC> ]
/r/askTRP15/08/19 12:49 AM
13

When I was about 27 I started to worry that I wasted my 20's as my 30's were soon approaching. I spent the remainder of my 20's worrying about wasting them, so I wasted 3 years. Then I turned 30 and realized that the only thing that changed was that life got better. At 30 I had a more stable career, savings, the ability to take multiple long vacations per year, take weekend trips, and generally live more comfortably than I ever had in my 20's. My 30's were turning out better than my 20's. You're…
/r/askTRP14/08/19 08:01 PM
3

Ah yes the older woman. Integral part of every man's sexual history, right up there with the fat girl, crazy girl and daddy issues girl. Just do it, older women are usually more straight forward. They know they can't compete with the 20 year old girls you're gonna be hanging around, but they still want a young stud again.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 07:53 PM
1

/thread
/r/askTRP14/08/19 07:33 PM
2

I hate him, he's so ugly Is a variation of You're not that cute or You're not that funny If any of these words come out of a woman's mouth, pay attention and play your cards right because she wants to fuck you.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 02:32 AM
4

I've moved a few times in my life Find a good grocery store Find a good gym Figure out the transportation system in your new area Figure out what the "vibe" of the city is Find yourself a favorite bar / restaurant Find some cool spots for entertainment you enjoy (comedy, theater, sports etc) Figure out where most crime happens Find a few nice areas with a view Find some quiet outdoor spaces to just sit and chill Find out where the party scenes are at in the city
/r/askTRP13/08/19 07:37 PM
1

Still Doesn't Matter™. You may have had an effect, you may not have had an effect. Stop looking for signs to approach or that you're making progress and just approach and succeed or approach and get shot down so you can move on.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 07:31 PM
3

When she knows i will be around her, she might wear shorts that are a few inches higher Did you get a ruler out and measure? wear tighter leggings How does one measure this? Just approach her and escalate. Stop analyzing everything.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 07:11 PM
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This generation of girls can never get their fucking phones out of their hands. Same of my generation of girls and I'm in my 30s. Same rules apply. But man I'm so shit at flirting over text. No such thing as flirting over text, you're just giving attention and validation. Flirt in person. Seriously, meet people in person, flirt there.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 06:53 PM
1

Yes, you still do have a scarcity mindset. Start focusing on getting a few plates. About timing: I message women when I'm free and want their attention, otherwise I'm busy with my own life and goals. Sometimes I text right away, sometimes I text after weeks, not because of some "algorithm" but because I'm just busy living my life.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 06:39 PM
2

I would be super paranoid to introduce her to him and my family now if we were to even make it that far. 😂😂 You're never gonna make it that far. Let's break down everything you said: Been talking to this Brazilian girl I met online and my texting game is pretty good. Basically you're really good at giving free validation / entertainment to a person you've never met and don't know if she's even real. Don't delude yourself She is a virgin at the age of 22 so have been mixing in some beta game as w…
/r/askTRP13/08/19 06:33 AM
5

A couple things about the interaction: You kissed her in the forehead? Next time be a man and go for the lips. She probably thought less of you because she knows you wanted to kiss her, but chickened out, then she lead the interaction to kiss you on the lips. Yeah don't text women "hey beautiful...", "hope you get home safe" or anything else in that region of text messages. Every other guy is sending her the same kinds of messages. Move on. Women who are interested in you will text you back. The…
/r/askTRP13/08/19 06:03 AM
6

This is the correct answer. Her "it's different" answer is one I used to hear from a manipulative narcissistic ex. Be careful OP.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 05:48 AM
2

Close friend? Of course you gotta tell him, why do you need internet strangers to tell you that? Casual acquaintance? Stay out of it.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 11:23 AM
6

You really screwed the pooch on this one didn't you. Shitting where you eat, with an intern too eh? Oneitis Grand romantic getaway? Have you even fucked her yet? No, just no. You gave her free validation that she's good enough to have some sap book a weekend getaway on her. She's gonna find some excuse to bail because in her mind she's already won just by having you book the AirBnB, now why actually follow through? Live and learn.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 11:14 AM
1

Got a girls number from tinder and we were texting for a week, then I asked her is she free next week to meet a cute guy for drinks or coffee. She texted back saying "hahaha who is the cute guy, are you trying to set me up with someone" Even I thought "Why are you trying to set her up with someone else?" Don't text for a week, it's Tinder ask her out within 3-5 messages Be direct, ask her out at a specific time and place, not this "sometime next week" bullshit Is this a shit test or just a cold …
/r/askTRP12/08/19 09:16 AM
4

Meditate, go see a therapist.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 09:11 AM
3

I consider myself introverted, I used to use it as an excuse for my lack of social skills. Truth is being introverted has nothing to do with your ability to socialize, meet women and escalate with them. Keep reading the sidebar, pick up a hobby or two, meet women within your hobby/interest circle.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 09:07 AM
7

Are there any hobbies your #3 might have that would be red flags? Gang bangs.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 03:20 AM
2

Okay listen up, lots of people flaming you, but you say you want to learn so I'll try to break it down. Ultimately: You want to get to a point where you just do what you want and don't worry about what the value of the move is. Your life should be structured as such that you're inherently showing value at all times. That way you won't have to wonder "is this move low vale" etc. So the true answer really is: Live your life, be exciting, focus on yourself, do what you want, don't worry about it, h…
/r/askTRP12/08/19 03:11 AM
1

Don't try to save others unless they explicitly came to you for help. Un prompted help never gets people to change.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 02:56 AM
1

Just got back from Beijing spending a few days with one of my international plates. Got a few other girls like that around the world. I just text when I'm going to be in their city again and we pick things up where we left off.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 02:54 AM
2

Normally I say do what you want, but don't do this. Creepy.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 11:17 PM
2

Plan B next time the morning after unprotected sex Yes wrap it up. Nothing you can do until you know if she misses a period or not Have a frank discussion with her about your ability to provide for a child if she is pregnant ??? Live and learn
/r/askTRP11/08/19 05:54 PM
2

That first time break up hurts to most. It will pass and none of this will matter. Stop trying to figure out why women do what they do. You're in her frame once you do that.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 05:51 PM
4

In summary: Doesn't matter, move on. I think he asked her to sit down and he was putting his arm around her whispering in her ear. Doesn't matter I think he was trying to kiss her too. Doesn't matter I couldn’t tell if she was into it or not Doesn't matter , but I know that he was giving her way too much attention and basically following her around. Doesn't matter. What you Jealous for? She got up to talk to her friends, then they went to the dance floor, and he walked over to them after a bit a…
/r/askTRP11/08/19 05:44 PM
5

Doesn't' matter what she calls you. Approach and escalate.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 05:27 PM
6

In summary you should: Do what you want to do ( read: not what you think is the right socially acceptable thing from movies or tv) Keep reading the side bar Focus on reading up on plates These women sucked your dick already. Keep dates simple, preferably at someone's place ( I have a preference for mine, King of my domain and all that). You can just invite yourself over If you must make it a "date" my baseline template for dates is 1-2 drinks at the bar, maybe some bar food if I'm hungry and a s…
/r/askTRP11/08/19 03:41 PM
5

Stop engaging with women over social media every day.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 03:22 PM
2

Yup, fair game.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 03:18 PM
2

so I could just be too drunk or delusional We often tell on ourselves even the guys came up to me to shake my hand, danced with me and offered me weed. Story time: Back in my early 20s there was an Older dude, let's call him Dan, who used to dance like a fool to his own beat. Drunk woo girls clinged onto him for a bit so they could get videos to show their friends "the crazy guy from last night". Other clueless guys saw girls clinging to him so they tried to get in on it. Some guys realized he w…
/r/askTRP11/08/19 02:24 PM
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A few things: Don't argue with women. If it reaches to the point where you're having a heated argument shouting and telling you've already lost. Especially don't argue about dumb shit Especially if she's a plate /u/Makavelli50 said "Maybe she just wants to be dicked" and he's not wrong, but you gotta read that one carefully. Your best response to "make me shut up" if you're unsure about the previous point is to walk away.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 01:56 PM
3

Yup same applies to any woman on a college campus.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 05:20 AM
1

What?
/r/askTRP11/08/19 05:04 AM
6

Step 1. Stop allowing people to dominate you. That's an internal mindset change.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 05:04 AM
19

Be busy with your life, respond when it's convenient to you, she'll get the point. Stop thinking that because some texts you that you have to give then your immediate attention.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 04:59 AM
12

Doesn't matter, do what you're gonna do anyway. You're already in her frame wondering what it all means.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 04:56 AM
28

Practice talking to EVERYONE. Man, woman, beast or child; talk to them. Read something new everyday that interest you outside of your field of study or work, that will give you a war chest of topics to pull from over time. Also see my response to a previous post: I used to be far too dependent on alcohol to socialize too. For me it came down: Learning the art of small talk Learning how to lead a conversation and push others into a conversation Learning the art of small talk People always complai…
/r/askTRP10/08/19 12:50 PM
2

There is the problem, you are only thinking of women and have zero other motivations. I'm a dude and you reek of desperation over the internet, women can smell it a mile away in person. Get some hobbies other than video games or watching TV, set some goals in your life to improve it and then start thinking about women again.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 11:39 PM
1

... but it does bother me. I find it extremely rude. Jesus fucking Christ, get over yourself. She didn't respond to your text message and probably didn't respond to 10 other needy guys that day alone. You're not special.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 05:01 PM
0

What do YOU want out of your life that doesn't involve women or sex? If you can picture yourself with the hottest woman who will willingly provide you with sex anytime you want, what will you do then?
/r/askTRP09/08/19 04:58 PM
2

Stop drinking. Live and learn.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 04:55 PM
2

Why do we fail? So that we may learn how to stand back up. I failed at so many things over the years, and I'm still failing, but I never stop pushing. That's the key. Even when it sucks, even when you're tired and not motivated you just. keep. pushing.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 04:50 PM
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Check out: RealMenRealStlye, AlphaM and TeachingMensFashion on Youtube. Basically, it comes down to ensuring you pick clothes that fit (knowing your sizes and what properly fitting clothes look like), knowing what the things that never go out of style are (so you don't go chasing trends) and figuring out your own personal style.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 12:58 PM
3

Nope, shame on you for not listening to others who know better. A few weeks at the gym ain't nothing. You gotta hit the gym for at least a year before results start showing. I was 250 at my max weight and I'm down to 185 through strict diet and discipline. You have none of those it seems.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 04:10 PM
2

This is the real question of this entire thread. Why is no one answering this man?
/r/askTRP08/08/19 04:05 PM
3

Looking at your previous post, it seems you have oneitis for this woman. Sorry, but it's best to move on. If she's comfortable telling you about all kinds of details with her and other guys you're deep in the friendzone. She calls me one of her “girlfriends”, asks me to be her fucking maid of honor lol Sigh, I've been there man, been deeper in the friendzone than you can imagine. Now it's certainly possible that you can get out of the friendzone (you can only fuck your way out of the friendzone)…
/r/askTRP08/08/19 12:36 AM
1

Don't go in with a script in mind, know the outcome you want and lead things there. Learn to adapt and adjust on the fly.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 10:32 PM
11

My feeling on porn is the same on light drugs like weed: fun in small infrequent doses once in a while. Dangerous because you can be a functioning addict, but it limits other areas of your life. For the year I've watched porn at most twice, mostly at night after I found myself with some unexpected free time, but not wanting to have a plate come over. Just wanted some selfish pleasure on my terms.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 08:28 PM
2

Seems like you've got it handled then.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 08:21 PM
6

I get not liking her on social media all the time, it is an addiction, but what are you going to do police it? Comes off as insecure. Try to reward her good behavior and lightly punish her bad behavior I guess, but overall I wouldn't worry too much about it.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 08:12 PM
3

Text her, if she really is a 10 as you claim then hundreds of guys are messaging her on IG. Stand out and text her.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 03:56 PM
1

None of this matters. You're still plugged in.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 03:39 PM
0

You can't.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 12:10 PM
2

I wouldn't start off just asking girls in bikini's for pictures at the beach. That's a little creepy. Just talk to people everywhere, on the bus, train, grocery checkout line, anywhere.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 12:05 PM
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Just flip it into a joke: "Hmm let's see, The Queen was my first, then your mom, and I guess you're up next" etc.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 10:50 AM
2

Breate. You gotta make it through training first. Try meditating. You sound really wound up. Take a day off for yourself get some pen and paper and just let your thoughts flow onto the page. Read them back to yourself. Breathe. I can't make your life decisions for you, but you can try the above first and see how you feel.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 09:50 PM
3

Redefine your friendship. If he does shit that you aren't cool with calmly tell him that's not cool immediately and change the topic. Call him out on his lazy excuses for not getting a job. Tough love. Lead the way on your interactions. Honestly you both sound kinda weak. Weak men naturally follow when someone leads, so make yourself that leader. Get new friends, do better shit than just video games and drinking. If he has any self respect left, he'll want to change. Encourage him along the way.…
/r/askTRP05/08/19 09:42 PM
1

I hooked up with this girl off Tinder a few times. She called it off, but I enjoyed her company/asshole vibe she had. We hang every so often usually to catch a drink at HH and sometimes we help each other scout out people at the bar. She shows me a picture of some BS thing she was at, and I see another girl I was talking to on Tinder but went nowhere. I ask her about it and she helps set me up with her. Fast forward a few months I go on a date and hook up with yet another woman, it fizzled out e…
/r/askTRP05/08/19 04:59 PM
2

Stop creeping / commenting on women's social media, stop carrying long convo's via text. Just text her to setup a place and time to meet. MAYBE a little light flirting over text, but only after you've hooked up with her.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 04:51 PM
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She texted you first, she's interested or possibly bored. Just navigate the conversation into setting up a time and place to meet. If she's not down to meet up then you're wasting your time texting her.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 11:57 AM
1

Messaging and talking daily was your mistake. Even if you were going back, you should have been busy living your life and make her wonder what you're up to, not texting every day.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 11:55 AM
1

I have a tent erected on the festival area. I swear to God fucking a girl in a tent is the wettest my dreams could get lol Just don't be overly excited and preoccupied with this wet dream. Women can smell desperation a mile away and it turns them off. Until she's wrapped around your dick, play it cool.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 11:53 AM
2

They are there to have fun. Deliver them fun. Be exciting, be different. Tell them you are a drug dealer when they ask what you are doing for a living. Make up bullshit. Solid advice that I hope OP interalizes.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 11:20 AM
2

Nothing wrong with not being a fan of night clubs. Personally I hate them since I hate dancing even if I have a hot girl dancing with me, not my cup of tea. So you're getting IOIs, isn't it a fun feeling?! There is no one right way to get a girl to go home with you from any location. Giving you advice on that would be foolish. Overall you need to master the gift of gab / small talk, learn how to flirt, learn how to add energy, and know how to close. Even if you fail to bring someone home from th…
/r/askTRP05/08/19 11:04 AM
2

Just text when you want to see her again. Don't get caught up in carrying conversations via text.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 06:08 AM
3

Move on, don't dwell because it ultimately doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 06:06 AM
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I used to be far too dependent on alcohol to socialize too. For me it came down: Learning the art of small talk Learning how to lead a conversation and push others into a conversation 1. Learning the art of small talk People always complain about hating small talk, but I think what they really hate is when small talk leads nowhere. Small talk is a jumping board. Seriously ask people about anything if there is a conversational void such as: - The weather What they're drinking / eating Something u…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/19 12:31 AM
2

Seriously, this. Just delete them. You really don't need them to use them, you're just addicted to them.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 04:44 AM
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First of all stop checking in on women's stories, you're just giving her free validation. Why didn't you go talk to her at the club?
/r/askTRP25/07/19 04:40 AM
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Honestly, you shouldn't care about it. Trying to analyze why she does what she does puts you in this mode of "Where do I stand" which puts you in a bad frame of mind. Assume everything is fine and move forward.
/r/seduction08/02/19 03:47 AM
1

Good job getting out of your comfort zone! A piece of feedback: Don't jump to complimenting them just after you met them. Girls can see through that and it's a quick way to get to the "friendzone". They'll keep you around for the compliments, but will never date you. A better approach is to keep it light and flirty, make some jokes (if it comes naturally), tease her a little, and get her to talk about herself. Keep it up man!
/r/seduction08/02/19 03:35 AM
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Read books more often. Listen to music outside of your normal taste. Ask questions Make purposefully false assumptions Be playful Fail. A lot. Repeat.
/r/seduction29/07/18 06:20 PM
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Been lurking for a bit and finally have a question: Went to a social event with a friend, noticed two women flashing glances at me. At the second confirmed look I went over and just started talking to them by myself since my frien was off chasing another woman. There was a ping pong tournament going on so I just asked if they had played as yet. They opened up instantly and the conversation flowed. One of the girls event left alone me with the one I really wanted to talk to. We chat chat, I tease…
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