Hey All,

I've noticed a consistent pattern in the manner i "try to" game women and frankly it's something i need help with.

The pattern is as follows:

  1. I go up to girl. Break the ice and in 8 cases out of 10 end up
    1. Making her laugh a lot
    2. Get her phone number and add her on whatsapp and social media.
  2. Start slowly. A ping here a text there. A phone call now and then over a period of days and sometimes weeks. Sometimes i really hit off with a girl and we can talk for hours *just did that 3 days ago with a girl and she was complaining that her jaw was hurting after 1 1/2 hour of talking with me from laughing that much).
  3. As recommended by TRP, i aim towards 'compliance' and vet her.
    1. See if she answers my calls / IMs quickly.
    2. See if she'll do things for me. Small small things and favors.
    3. Check for IoIs via 1-2 dates (usually some inexpensive cafe and yes i always pay despite some women wanting to do so).
    4. I generally escalate on those vetting dates (usually a hug at start > touch her on her face, her hair, always grab her around her waist at goodbye). Women generally like me as i'm not Alpha but i'm not beta now either thanks to TRP.
  4. Things are going well, and then suddenly it's like she starts losing interest.
    1. I message and despite the fact she's answering, she's not initiating anything from her side. No 'Let's go out', 'not even a hi'. I give it time (5-7 days) before a ping. Again she always answers the ping (laughs a bit) and then silent again.
    2. I ask her to call and there's no reply or if i call, there's always a late reply that she was busy.
  5. Not wanting to be 'thirsty' i give it more and more time after which it's like we both lose interest.

  6. I keep up the pings but the answers take longer and longer to come and after some time, nothing.

    i don't understand where i go wrong. I'm strong at the start and then suddenly when things are supposed to go to a conclusion, i'm left with a flaccid D in my hand and wondering why the f did this happen to me again.