Been with her for about a year and a half. When we met i took pride in being a skinny, 145 pound man(yikes). Nowadays it bothers me cause i know im not my best self so i started working out in about april. Gf loves me being skinny and everytime its time for me to work out she makes snarky comments or says its a "waste of time" or "i like you the way you are now."

Then i told her i dont want to have sex 6 or 7 times a week anymore because i want to save that energy for working out, and so our sexual experiences are better when it comes. So she agreed to 2-4 times a week. Since i stand behind that, she's now called me feminine twice, because "i didnt take sex at the right moments" 1 being after a long night of drunk talking about past experiences and 2 being after i was drunk and she bought a new lingerie suit and i didnt act because the next morning i wanted to workout.

I find it funny shes wants me to stay skinny, yet calls me feminine because i don't want sex. That's all it is and i just shoot comments down or ignore her. Can't figure out if shes just shit testing or revealing feelings though.