Should I apologize?

Nucka574 · 2017-10-10T19:41:28+00:00

read the sidebar

vandaalen · 2017-10-10T19:51:45+00:00

You triggered her ASD - anti slut defense. A woman needs to watch her reputation and she is looking to branch swing to you, but since she hasn't got you secured, she risks loosing her boyfriend and ending up "alone", which in other times meant without protection and resources, which might be lethal to a woman and her offspring. It will also put her at the low end of the social ladder, where she might be cut off from social life, including gossip, etc. pp.

That is why she gets angry at you when you imply she deliberately took the ride with you.

On the other hand she is still attracted to you and knows that she behaved like a bitch. So she apologizes.

I suspect that she is still very young, so she isn't totally in control of her emotions and the behavior they trigger.

In general, it was also not necessary to call her out since it serves absolutely zero purpose.

If you truly just wanted to do a nice thing, this wasn't congruent with it, of you don't give two shits about her it's the same, and if you want to fuck her, you want to encourage behavior like this, not punish it.

Don't apologisz though. Just forget about it.

Flpgneves · 2017-10-10T20:45:48+00:00

No, you shouldn't. You need to ignore her.

mrpthrowa · 2017-10-10T20:36:15+00:00

You have absolutely no frame it's painful.

I said yes, not because I am interested in her, but because it was convenient for me and I thought it would be a nice thing to do.

Chump.

Hamster hamster hamster.

Nice guy.

I asked jokingly why her boyfriend couldn't do it.

This is why we say text for logistics. Because autistics like you do this.

I told her that she was being weird so I wouldn't help her anymore

And hereby we uncover why you're Covert Contract Nice Guy. I'm gonna do something nice for you, and for that, please accept my autistic poor taste joke. Haha!

Should I apologize or ride this out and wait for her to re-initiate when she's done being angry?

Go seek other girls dude. you blew this.

[deleted] · 2017-10-10T19:25:03+00:00

Ghost this stupid bitch

Title	Should I apologize?
Author	pepperoninips7
Upvotes	3
Comments	8
Date	October 10, 2017 7:07 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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