I have been reading this sub a lot lately and one of the things I've been changing in regard to game is being more aggressive, pushing through shit tests, etc. I went to a bar with my friend last night and ran game on multiple girls. I was pretty aggressive and I had a few takeaways I'm not really sure what to make of. Almost 8/10 girls I approached last night were there with boyfriends which I'm guessing has something to do with Valentines day lol.

Just for background, I tend to get kind of belligerent when drinking but I'm a big guy so other guys tend to not really talk back or do anything. I'm just going to mention a few scenarios where I approached girls and ran game and would appreciate any advice on how I can do better and improve. I have been reading 'Bang' by RooshV and applied some of the openers he talks about.

Girl 1: She was sitting alone at the bar (HB6). I approached her, smiled, and said "You look like you're having a great time here". She smiles back and says she is. I say "Lets play a game" and she asks what kind of game it is. I say "You get 3 chances to guess which state I'm from and I get 3 chances to guess which state you're from. If you guess right I'll buy you a drink, If I guess right you're buying me a drink". She laughs and we start playing the game. Both of us strike out all 3 times so I ask her where she's from. It turns out we're from the same state and I ask her how she likes it back home vs. where we are. We talk about this for a while and I ask her what her major is and we talk about that. We're having good conversation until out of nowhere her boyfriend comes and sits next to her. She continues making conversation with me and asks me how old I am. I tell her I'm 22, she looks surprised and says she's 29. I say "That's ok I like older women". She smiles and then finally says this is my boyfriend and introduces this guy. I say "I'm a lot cuter than your boyfriend so let's keep talking". She smiles and says she's ok and that she's here with her boyfriend. I'm decently drunk at this point and turn to the boyfriend and say "Why don't you go jack off in the bathroom for 10 minutes while I keep your girlfriend company". The guy doesn't get mad or anything but starts acting but hurt and asks me what my problem is. At this point I know it's a lost cause, and just laugh and go find my friend. I'm not sure why this girl was open to talking to me and playing the game if she was there with her boyfriend.

Girl 2: I say her sitting alone at the bar (HB7) and try to run the same routine but she says she doesn't want to play the game. She says she's waiting on someone and I ask her if its a guy. She says it is but it doesn't sound like its her boyfriend. I say "I like to live in the moment so let's have a good time while I'm here". She says she's fine and says she might be down later if her friend doesn't show up. I say "I'll come find you", smile, and walk away. I look for her 20 minutes later and she's still at the bar alone talking to some 50 year old guy that looks like a hobo. I sit down next to her and say "Why are you talking to this homeless guy when you could be talking to a hot guy like me?". She get's pretty mad and says asks why I'm being such a dick to this guy. She says I was really aggressive when I approached her earlier and that I need to leave. I just laugh it off and walk away.

Girl 3: I see her sitting at a table with her friend and approach. I run the routine and it goes well. I lose the game and she asks me to buy her a drink and I say "Let's dance first". She starts grinding on me for like 15 minutes and when I say lets go to the bar (trying to get her away from her friend), she says she wants to stay there. At this point her friend comes back from the bar and completely cock blocks me.

Girl 4: I see her upstairs at the bar and ask her to dance. She agrees and we dance for 10 minutes. While dancing, I lightly tease her and tell her she must know the song being played because she dances well. At this point I turn her around and kiss her. When I do this she walks back to her friends and one of her guy friends tell me she's not interested. I was kind of confused on what I did wrong here. If she wasn't trying to hookup why would she agree to dance and grind with me in the first place?

I'm wondering if it's a good thing (shows confidence) to be belligerent with other guys in front of a girl? Does this make you look more alpha in her eyes? I feel like girls would be attracted to a guy that isn't scared of anyone but last night didn't demonstrate that. What do you guys think I did wrong and what I can improve on? I was surprised when the second girl at the bar said my approach was aggressive when I thought I was just being confident and persistent like the sub talks about. I also feels like drinking affects my game when I'm not able to maintain that disinterested cool vibe that Roosh talks about in Bang. How do you guys show girls that you're not too into them (slightly disinterested) through body language/communication?