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First off, I met this girl on Tinder. She's an HB9, very cute and genuinely interesting. We've facetimed quite a bit and she's the same in face-to-face convo (although, I suppose, there's nothing like the real thing).

The subject came up and I mentioned I was a virgin (we're 17). She found it very cute and wanted to show me so many things about sex, etc.. At the time I was also chatting with other girls who would be down to fuck if we met up. All HB7s, but DTF on a moment's notice nonetheless. One girl even offered to drive an hour to my house.

I don't like being dishonest. Some may suggest just saying it was your first after getting some experience on lower-level girls. If she doesn't like my honesty she can leave, but I do not want to lie.

So I texted her this. I understand I probably wrote too much and appeared to be needy. I made a mistake here. Regardless, her female brain probably couldn't get off the subject of me fucking another girl.

My intent is to take her out Saturday night for the following:

  • meet up with her and relax in a coffee shop
  • take her to a comedy club
  • take her to a BYOB Italian restaurant in the city, bring a fine bottle of wine. We're under 21; we have to do this so we won't get ID'd.
  • go for a walk through a little-known garden in Central Park
  • get a hotel, airbnb, or breather and f-close

I think it's clear I need to push for a little. That being said, I don't want to let this opportunity to confirm that we will have sex Saturday night, and she will be my first, pass me by. So far she's probably seen that I've read her text (if she's awake yet). Here are a couple responses I've thought of:

  • "Ok, thanks for being honest."
  • "Ok, come to the city Saturday for a date with me."
  • "That's sweet of you to say, I appreciate your honesty."
  • "Very sweet of you. Come to the city Saturday for a nice evening with me. My friend Montepulciano will be third-wheeling."

Any general thoughts? Advice? Criticisms? Thank you so much /r/askTRP. You've guided me through so much and I can't thank you enough for doing so.