Just a quick backstory I met this girl about 2 months ago, and we hit it off rather quickly. Didn’t take me longer than a few dates to sleep with her and before I knew it we were spending at least 2-3 days of each week together for about 8-9 weeks. At about the 4-5 week mark I got her to do the majority of the pursuing even had her investing into me by cooking meals, doing good deeds for me, etc.

So the last weekend we hung out which was about 2 weekends ago I didn’t realize it at the time but I allowed her knock me off center a little bit and I was being slightly emotional and a bit needy. Starting last Tuesday (11 days ago) she Ghosted me by not replying to my last text message, shortly after that on the weekend she never hit me up like she normally would for us to hangout. I ended up doubling texting her on the weekend to grab some stuff I had at her place that I needed.

She gave me a short response to my message pretty quickly and I went over to grab my stuff. I kept the interaction short and didn’t get emotional nor did I ask why she wasn’t talking to me. We engaged in a little bit of small talk and she said she’s been busy with finals for school which is understandable however it is just an excuse.

Since that Last Tuesday when she started ghosting and the weekend when I had to grab my stuff I’ve employed “No Contact”, and I haven’t pursued her whatsoever.

So my question is what is the best course of action for me to re-attract this girl? (Fortunately I have not professed any of my feelings for her. Also neither of us have engaged in the “what are we” conversation).

I’m gonna be going on a 3 month deployment coming up in about a month or so roughly (I’m in the military). With this being said would no contact continue to be my best option or should I wait say another week of no contact and then pursue her?

Knowing that I’m deploying soon makes me realize I don’t have much to lose with her if I do pursue because ultimately I wouldn’t do the long distance thing while Deployed.

However I do dig this chick and I don’t wanna fuck it up by over pursuing her. But with limited time prior to me leaving I’m not sure how I should go about this situation.