I've been fucking this girl every date (about once per week, sometimes multiple times per date), but we always are out doing something. I do this because I enjoy being around her, she's not a dumb bimbo.

Should I just focus on fucking each date instead of going out to do things? Does going out with her make me appear too "nice"?

We do fun activities like longboarding and other active things, we never do anything crazy formal and I never pay for her.