Hi bros,

so I'm a guy in my early 20s and this question has been on my mind for the past few years. When I entered my 20s, I sometimes acted a bit like a jerk and felt like it actually led to some increased success with the ladies. However, when I think back at that time, I sometimes feel like I was faking it and it didn't really make me happy. I'm actually a quite agreeable person and I don't enjoy being intentionally rude (I wasn't that bad though).

Maybe some of you went through the same thought process at some point and have something to share with regards to this. In the past year I made up my mind , that I prefer to be authentic, even if it's not always the most strategic choice in certain situations. I feel like this is the 'right' way to do it and it makes not giving a fuck way easier. Let me know what you think, I'm curious about a RP take on this! Thanks in advance.