Should I see her?

HotHead121 · 2019-02-28T14:40:55+00:00

Always trust your gut.

TheStumblingWolf · 2019-02-28T14:37:35+00:00

My first thought was "why is there a guy here who's in doubt about free sex from a girl he finds attractive"? From the way you word things it sounds to me like you might be new to TRP. If you're anything like I was/am I would guess that you're afraid of finding out you can't perform. I used to base my life around what other people thought of me, meaning that any interaction with a girl was based off on getting her to approve of my actions. Especially in the sack. That meant that basically every time I had sex with a new girl it was basically a test because I'd given her the power to deem me worthy or unworthy. When you start putting yourself first - to make yourself your mental point of origin - that's when you gain freedom and power over your destiny.

If the above is correct, I would say go, but don't go there with the mindset "we're going to have sex, and I might fuck it up or I might not". Go there with the mindset that it's an interaction. It can go many ways, but no matter what happens you'll walk away with an experience that'll equip you better for the next time such a situation arises.

Basically - you can only succeed or learn. Failing is a matter of choice and judgment.

throwawayycheyeah · 2019-02-28T22:42:20+00:00

Maybe you feel nervous because YOU will be the one going to her, YOU are the one putting off your studying for pussy, YOU are the one who has to go out there and fuck her good and prove to HER that YOU are a man.

Dont put so much stress on yourself bro. If you are already not sure about going then tell her youd hang out BUT she needs to come to you. Show her you have value and are not about to drop everything to drive 1.5 hours away for her ass. If she doesnt want to show then you get to avoid learning a lesson, if she does show up and treats you nice (try to get her to rub your back) maybe it will give you some much needed confidence and you can fuck her brains out and send her back home.

FixYourselfFirst · 2019-02-28T14:44:20+00:00

Do you have abundance, other women you are seeing? Then skip it if it doesn't feel right.

Are you an incel/virgin? Get the chip off your shoulder. Gain some confidence. Get over your fears.

Jabbermouth · 2019-02-28T22:01:26+00:00

Hour away? She comes to you or nothing happens. Don’t drive that far some tinder pussy my man.

Title	Should I see her?
Author	redpillnexus
Upvotes	1
Comments	16
Date	February 28, 2019 2:26 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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