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FixYourselfFirst/r/askTRP11/12/18 05:21 PM
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58

Focus on success, not money or girls
/r/askTRP06/11/19 11:07 PM
3

Make a schedule for everything. Just write it down what you wanna do every day and every week and every month.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 10:21 PM
3

It’s better to work on new prospects than try to fix this woman. She just doesn’t think about you in a sexual way. However if she was aware that other women were fucking you, She might get interested. So, in both cases, the answer is the same
/r/askTRP31/10/19 07:57 PM
25

She was DTF, inviting you over for a movie at 2:30am. You didn’t put out, so she probably found another dick to ride.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 08:51 PM
23

AWALT Sorry, you thought your oneitis unicorn was above that. Just do your own thing. You shouldn't ever worry about a girl's social media.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 07:57 PM
10

Dude, why are you scared to go up to her door and ring the doorbell?
/r/askTRP23/08/19 08:56 PM
1

I could work one the little issues one by one. But overall, you are the one that is putting up barriers for yourself. You seem to be afraid, so you Create excuses as to why you can’t approach women . I’ll add more to comment later, when I am not on mobile
/r/askTRP23/08/19 08:50 PM
1

Women are not attracted to men with no social skills,depression, and suicidal. What work have you done to fix yourself? You suggest that you “deserve” a woman. It doesn’t work that way. You have to be attractive to them.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 07:35 PM
6

So make gym a bigger priority, lift 45-60 minutes three times a week. Then you are not permanently fucked
/r/askTRP22/08/19 09:07 PM
7

What’s your bench/squat/deadlift? Being muscular and athletic will make that nerdy look go away quickly.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 08:48 PM
1

She’s 17 and he’s 27, that’s just insane. Why is that insane? There’s nothing wrong with an older man dating a younger woman
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:18 PM
1

Are you lifting? What else are you doing to improve yourself?
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:09 PM
4

I’m not sure how we can help. Our strategies are designed for arousing women sexually. Instead, you want to make female friends. I don’t know how to advise you.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 01:12 PM
3

Reported. No examples from fiction 😀
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 09:26 PM
5

Just use an established program, and you will be fine. Don’t roll your own until you have a couple years of lifting experience. What are your lifts at currently?
/r/askTRP20/08/19 12:10 PM
119

Soft next. Spend your time on other girls.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 07:22 PM
9

Stop worrying about what she wants. Focus on what you want. If you want her to be a plate, then escalate. If she just wants a friend, you’ll find out soon enough. Don’t over analyze everything
/r/askTRP19/08/19 07:15 PM
3

Text for logistics. Set up a “date” at your place, for dinner and Netflix. If she wants you, she’ll accept.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 06:36 PM
11

. Most gyms will let someone sit in on a class for free. Do that for both, then pick the one that interest you the most.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 06:10 PM
3

Explain? There are some sick people
/r/askTRP17/08/19 06:06 PM
3

It is normal for people to want to go out and have a good time with their friends. Why is that strange?
/r/askTRP17/08/19 05:41 PM
19

I think she kinda likes you
/r/askTRP17/08/19 05:03 PM
9

Look, if you get the date wrong in the subject, just delete the post and resubmit
/r/askTRP17/08/19 10:41 AM
16

She sounds like the perfect plate
/r/askTRP16/08/19 08:08 PM
2

Maybe you got uglier. Maybe your game sucks. Maybe you’re trying to hard. Maybe you got lucky three years ago, and five or six this is the best you can do
/r/askTRP09/08/19 08:22 PM
16

Don’t try to change too fast at once. Just make tiny improvement every single day. If you can change just one percent a day, you’ll be 100% better in 100 days. You are not in a race. You are improving yourself for the rest of your life.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 08:13 PM
34

Many women would rather be the side piece of a high quality alpha instead of being the main for a beta
/r/askTRP09/08/19 05:04 PM
1

Troll? Last week you posted questions about your plates stinky asshole.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/19 12:12 PM
1

Make more, spend less. Anything specific? Stock market? Credit cards? Real Estate?
/r/askTRP09/08/19 11:28 AM
42

Why are you scared to hang out with three women? Be the life of the party, flirt with her roommates, then fuck the girl
/r/askTRP08/08/19 09:15 PM
7

You wasted over a year chasing one girl. You should have been approaching other women. Don’t put all of your eggs in one basket, especially with an alpha widow.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 09:09 PM
13

Good job. You were more of a pussy than she was
/r/askTRP08/08/19 05:14 PM
1

There isn’t one. You need to do some legwork yourself
/r/askTRP07/08/19 06:32 PM
4

If you see her in person nearly every day, ask her out in person.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 06:14 PM
26

That’s a terrible idea. Revenge is for pussies
/r/askTRP07/08/19 05:51 PM
12

They can and do, just not always.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 03:30 PM
2

I’m not understanding you very well. To improve yourself, you typically have to change your habits. You need to stop playing video games. You need to eat better, workout, etc. You have to learn new skills. Starting a family is a personal choice. I’m unsure how this ties into the rest
/r/askTRP07/08/19 03:19 PM
2

Red pill is a sexual strategy designed around being Alpha and increasing your smv. It works no matter the political leanings of your society. Women want to fuck hot men
/r/askTRP07/08/19 03:13 PM
39

Your live in LTR has a crush on another man. She’s just marking time with you. Why are you still with her?
/r/askTRP07/08/19 02:56 PM
6

What??
/r/askTRP07/08/19 02:53 PM
3

It’s like being a member of an exclusive club. We have a huge knowledge advantage over the others. Don’t try to save the world. Use red pill to help navigate your best path through it.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 02:52 PM
1

You have to factor in her age. 1 to 2 per year is low
/r/askTRP02/08/19 08:53 PM
5

Most women will be able to tell. Don’t sweat it. It’s fun practicing
/r/askTRP02/08/19 04:46 PM
10

Just set up another meeting. And don’t jerk it beforehand
/r/askTRP02/08/19 02:59 PM
6

Don’t listen to what women say, watch what they do. IMO trying to lock yourself down with any girl after only three weeks is insane. Especially when you want it more than her. Let here earn the relationship. Spend only 1-2 days a week with her. Let her ask for more from you
/r/askTRP02/08/19 02:57 PM
6

She’s the alpha, gatekeeping the relationship. She probably just wants to slot you in as another orbiter.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 02:46 PM
3

Sounds good. You are doing it with a purpose (saving for a car). Nothing wrong with that
/r/askTRP02/08/19 12:27 PM
1

Just sign up for a 30 day free trial.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 05:29 PM
6

Make new, better friends.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 05:24 PM
7

Yet you come ask the same question every week. Obviously this is something that concerns you
/r/askTRP26/07/19 10:06 PM
9

Not for you, but for real men
/r/askTRP26/07/19 09:17 PM
22

are you planning to bring your kids on your tinder date?
/r/askTRP26/07/19 09:16 PM
3

So 1500+ approaches and zero numbers? Give it up.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 05:55 PM
80

Women love attention. She was jealous of the attention you were getting from your promotion.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 05:45 PM
1

You are playing the wrong game
/r/askTRP25/07/19 11:38 AM
6

Fuck his wife and get a new job. Or just get a new job
/r/askTRP22/07/19 11:53 AM
1

Brad Pitt won’t talk about how great his plants are
/r/askTRP22/07/19 11:37 AM
3

I consider you too inexperienced to marry for life
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:40 PM
8

Be attractive. Fuck her well. That will keep her coming back for months. If you are unattractive or suck at sex, there is no magical phrase to keep her around.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 06:28 PM
1

Continue bulking... You have no muscles to make a cut worthwhile. You would resemble a POW. Look here: https://strengthlevel.com/strength-standards/squat You are still below "beginner" Focus on consistency. Get to the gym 3x per week.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 06:25 PM
1

Normally, I'd say get a job and move out. But you are still in high school. You need to deal with this for another year. You still have most of your life ahead of you. Learn to do your shit at home. Keep your room clean, do your chores. Prepare yourself for living on your own. Don't give your dad any more reasons to yell at you. Finish high school. Get a job, save up some money. Then move out.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 01:02 PM
7

Only betas deal in absolutes. Do what you want to do. If you want a night off, take a night off. Its only a problem if it starts affecting your mission.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 12:55 PM
3

Your options: 1. Give her ultimatum, drop her if needed 2. Get over her responsible drinking Really, you need to understand why it bothers you. Drunk mom or relative in your history?
/r/askTRP19/07/19 03:08 PM
2

No, I enjoy having sex (with women) a couple times a week
/r/askTRP18/07/19 07:08 PM
2

MGTOW now has a significant incel population. Most of the posts now are memes about how bad women are. I see no posts on how men can improve themselves.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 07:01 PM
2

FWIW, today’s MGTOW has drifted far from core TRP beliefs.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 06:44 PM
7

Wrap it up
/r/askTRP17/07/19 11:58 AM
3

Sure
/r/askTRP16/07/19 04:50 AM
16

Why do you care if my exGF contacted me? Do you wanna fuck her?
/r/askTRP16/07/19 01:10 AM
3

Why not start with your own achievements and goals?
/r/askTRP16/07/19 01:08 AM
15

Fill out a change of address form at the post office.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 09:57 PM
1

You are afraid of white nationalist. You have to realize that these people make up a tiny minority of the overall population. You are not in any kind of immediate danger. Instead, do you have your self all worked up over nothing.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 09:53 PM
4

So something you saw on the internet scarred you for life. Boo hoo, grow up. You are not a child that needs a nightlight on. Be a man and face your fears
/r/askTRP11/07/19 09:41 PM
2

I would stop asking stupid questions on the internet
/r/askTRP11/07/19 09:25 PM
17

IUD doesn’t stop STDs
/r/askTRP11/07/19 04:49 PM
1

Love, countered by AWALT
/r/askTRP11/07/19 11:30 AM
2

No one can give you motivation. If it was that easy, everyone would be motivated. Instead, Your Drive has to come from yourself. Where do you picture yourself in 10 years? Do you want to be a successful man? Or will you still be a lazy fat fuck?
/r/askTRP11/07/19 11:22 AM
3

What are you trying to do, vet them for marriage? With a plate, I don’t want to know if her personal problems. She’s there for us to have a good time.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 09:48 PM
41

You still have to close the deal. Pass the shit tests, escalate, and conquer LMR.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 06:26 PM
13

You are right, the advice won’t work for you.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 08:30 PM
6

If you cannot even identify weak/strong frame, how can you learn from it?
/r/askTRP09/07/19 07:44 PM
3

This is TRP, not politics
/r/askTRP09/07/19 07:41 PM
6

Don’t you know how the search button works? Stop the porn. Fap (without porn) every 5-10 days as needed. Regular ejaculation is normal
/r/askTRP09/07/19 06:10 PM
2

IMO, you won't find the answer you are looking for in askTRP. You should talk with your doctor. You might need treatment for depression.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 12:19 AM
5

I'm skinny I look weak. ​ Fix yourself. Start eating right and lift heavy weights.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 06:51 PM
6

There's no scientific evidence either way. There is anecdotal evidence on both sides.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 06:49 PM
24

Every woman has different standards.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 06:47 PM
10

Fapping to porn daily+ is bad. Rubbing it out once a week is fine.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 06:41 PM
2

You swallowed the red pill, then pooped it out the next day. Nothing you wrote implies you understand the first thing about the red pill.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 03:17 PM
3

Their frame is stronger than yours. They are showing alpha tendencies. Work on your frame
/r/askTRP04/07/19 07:53 PM
6

I’m now 18 and really don’t know what to do. SMH Anything you enjoy and are good at? Don’t pick a career just because you need money
/r/askTRP04/07/19 04:42 PM
2

If you have already decided, what advice are u asking for?
/r/askTRP03/07/19 10:27 PM
1

You are just the sperm donor. You have done nothing to help raise her. You are not the dad. Let it be for her sake. Telling her only hurts her.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 09:12 PM
0

How does it help you out to hurt him? What are you gaining from this situation?
/r/askTRP03/07/19 08:53 PM
4

It's easy mode. Everyone there is on vacation, wanting to have fun. Be the fun guy (not funny guy).
/r/askTRP28/06/19 11:10 PM
6

There's a game called "The Frame".
/r/askTRP28/06/19 11:04 PM
3

6.No examples from fiction or lyrics. Fiction, pop songs, daytime television freakshows, and reality tv do not present useful examples of typical human behaviour, and thus cannot be learned from. Discussion of overarching popular culture themes, however, is on-topic and makes for an interesting analysis of the shifts in cultural thinking. Use of fiction or other controlled narratives (reality tv, etc) should only be used as an example of the author's psychology, not the character's.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 10:26 PM
3

Hi!
/r/askTRP27/06/19 10:24 PM
1

Rosy Palm You’ve eliminated all other options
/r/askTRP27/06/19 08:33 PM
5

If needed, Fap at most 2x week, without porn.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 06:02 PM
3

How deep are you in? Are you living together? Do you have your time without her?
/r/askTRP27/06/19 05:59 PM
1

What are your lifts at now? A newbie can get great gains 3x week, while a professional will need to workout 6x week.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 02:09 PM
7

No for sure
/r/askTRP20/06/19 05:17 PM
2

I like everything about this gym. Is being emotionally attached to the gym bad? You have oneitis, for a gym.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:51 PM
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You cannot save a man who is in love with a woman. Just set a good example for him. Be there when he hits bottom.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 12:54 AM
3

Basically, you are asking how to hold an interesting conversation with a woman. Get her talking about something she likes. Be interested in what she has to say (pretend if needed). Ask open ended questions that are interesting to her. Get her telling stories about herself.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 12:51 AM
3

It's just a shit test. They are putting this in your face to see how you can handle it.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 12:43 AM
3

"study partners" isn't a meetup. Try "let's grab a coffee and get to know each other". You need to frame it as a date, not as friends. If you get a crap response, then you didn't make a good first impression.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 04:25 PM
2

When you contact them on Snapchat, you should be inviting them to a meetup. Then escalate at the meetup
/r/askTRP13/06/19 03:57 PM
1

Or the author is a virgin, writing about his fantasies, with no grounding in reality. Who knows? It is their job to sell more books, not spread any truth.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 10:15 AM
4

Don’t learn Red Pill from fiction.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:29 PM
3

What do you have to offer a hb9?
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:24 PM
6

Skip one day. Lifting while drunk, you might hurt yourself.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:18 PM
6

Do you expect us, in a couple of paragraphs, to give meaning to your life?
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:16 PM
1

Why are you asking for RP advice to achieve your BP fantasy?
/r/askTRP05/06/19 02:53 PM
1

You posted the same question last week: So basically most women spend their lives fucking muscular assholes and when they become old they want to settle down with some poor schmuck? That’s female nature in a nutshell, correct?
/r/askTRP05/06/19 02:51 PM
2

One real world example isn’t statistically relevant
/r/askTRP04/06/19 08:51 PM
4

Your posting history is a train wreck.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 06:06 PM
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Instead of worrying about "pair bonding", concern yourself with pregnancy and STDs. As the man, you need to protect yourself most of all. A child isn't worth an extra 2-3% of pair bonding. If you do believe in the bonding mumbo jumbo, then administer orally. More will get to the bloodstream. ​ Iron Rule of Tomassi #5 NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 08:06 PM
2

It depends on why the girl is sending them. If you are fucking her regularly, then nudes are a form of foreplay. She’s feeling frisky and wants to show that to you. That’s fine to encourage. Instead, if you are not having sex with her, she’s just looking for virtual attention. Her whole goal is to get you to tell her how beautiful she is. Your goal is to escalate. Obviously don’t beg for nudes. That makes you look weak and desperate.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 05:22 PM
4

While I agree, this was a stupid question to start with.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 12:47 AM
3

I was drunk when all these events occurred That’s the source of your problem. You need to learn how to have fun without being shitfaced. You need to maintain frame.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 02:53 PM
5

What are your lifts at?
/r/askTRP16/05/19 01:21 PM
2

Look at some POW pictures. Yes, your abs will be visible. They just won’t look good
/r/askTRP16/05/19 12:32 PM
1

Can we just get the post removed? This isn’t a “request for personal advice”.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 12:30 PM
1

Did you add the recommended accessory lifts, chin-ups and dips?
/r/askTRP16/05/19 12:21 PM
2

Stronglifts is a solid program for a newbie. With the linear progression, you will make significant gains. After a couple months, add chin-ups and dips to increase the arm workouts. After about 4-6 months you will start to plateau. Then switch to any intermediate program.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 12:20 PM
1

You are bad at math. 5x5= 25 3x8= 24 So it’s one more lift and two extra breaks (90s each). So an extra 3-6 minutes per day.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 12:13 PM
2

Lawbreaking isn’t necessarily Alpha. Yes, they dngaf about the law. But no clue how they act around women. They may be betabux, stealing to pay for their girlfriend.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 12:05 PM
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She had a legitimate reason, and immediately offered an alternative day. Just go with it. It would be a problem if she consistently rejected your plans and tried to suggest her own plans
/r/askTRP16/05/19 01:07 AM
1

Not every plate will have a high n-count.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 09:05 PM
1

Sustainable? Depends on where you are currently at. If you are 40 and haven't done physical activity in 10+ years, that's way too much.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 04:48 PM
2

Right, Go over Thursday and fuck her.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 04:15 PM
15

Next week “I want to lose 60 lbs in 10 weeks”
/r/askTRP14/05/19 09:50 PM
8

I took the Red PIll in 2014. Bullshit.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 09:04 PM
6

IMO, 5x5 is better than 3x8 for the main lifts
/r/askTRP14/05/19 07:32 PM
1

Take some Adderall, study 10 hours straight.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 06:39 PM
3

The book Sex God Method is what you are looking for. If you look around, you might find a pdf to download.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 06:38 PM
8

AWALT. Girls are hooking up. They still want, and enjoy, sex. They are just doing it discreetly. Just be the big fish in the small pond
/r/askTRP14/05/19 12:23 PM
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Truthfully, it's going to be 2-3 years before you can get laid. You've got so much work to do. There's a lot of mental issues you need to correct. ​ Get a job, any minimum wage job Track your calories, eat +250 above your TDEE Join a gym, just do treadmill for the first month After a month, do Stronglifts 5x5 3 times per week Report back here every month with your progress. After six months, come back here for stage 2
/r/askTRP14/05/19 01:46 AM
0

lol, I don't think he has a chance.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 01:28 AM
0

Soccer 3x and Gym 3x is only 6 days a week. Your body is young. Eat well and sleep 8-9 hours per night.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 06:57 PM
5

Do both. Lifting will help you on the field, especially the squats and deadlifts
/r/askTRP13/05/19 06:36 PM
1

Why does race matter? Just make yourself the best version of you.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 09:34 PM
18

Style can increase your SMV by at most 1.6 gigawatts
/r/askTRP12/05/19 07:31 PM
7

TRP is just one of many possible strategies. There is no “right or wrong”
/r/askTRP12/05/19 07:29 PM
8

AWALT. She doesn't see it as screwing him over. She's improving her own situation.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 06:07 PM
6

The 2/3 ratio is for texting and attention. Not for kissing/sex. You are the man, you should initiate most of the time.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 06:04 PM
8

Sure, the flames killed all the STDs.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 06:00 PM
5

You still have feelings for her.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 03:42 PM
1

I don't think you are being honest with yourself.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 12:57 PM
5

Tell her she has to name the kid after you, jokingly. Then invite her over as normal.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 08:47 PM
8

FWIW, an excellent RoR would be 15%. With 6k, you would earn $900 the first year, plus compounding. This isn't a "way out". That said, you should invest for your retirement. With discipline, you could retire early, 25-30 years from now.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 08:38 PM
23

How do I handle if guys hit on her - "I'd hit that ass too if I didn't have a GF" Meet everyone new, expand your social circle. When you are ready to leave, grind on GF for a bit, then take her home.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 06:09 PM
6

Low body fat with muscles. Not some starved POW.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 05:40 PM
14

Women value men with higher SMV.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 05:38 PM
1

How expensive is a cover charge and cup of water? No money = don't drink
/r/askTRP09/05/19 05:20 PM
10

You need to lock her down ASAP. This is a once in a lifetime opportunity. Hurry before some other Chad gets to her.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 04:07 PM
83

Absolutely not. The current situation with your GF and her EX explains exactly why you should not be on the mortgage.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 03:35 PM
6

This woman was dressed up nice, going to a wedding. I threw mud at her, getting it all over her dress. She called me an asshole. Being called an asshole is good, right? Should I try to get her number? Duh... The words they use are not important. It is the context and their actions.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 03:28 PM
34

AWALT. Nothing more to learn.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 03:19 PM
1

All three blocked me. Either they blocked you for a tiny petty reason, or you have left information out. Have you read CorporateLand on the sidebar?
/r/askTRP09/05/19 02:26 PM
3

Just give it a week or so. Your body needs a little time to adjust. You are working muscles that have never been used in your life.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 01:21 PM
1

I thought you wanted both sex with women and porn? "can't have both?" So your whole post is just a troll?
/r/askTRP09/05/19 01:15 PM
1

. I just looked up mgtow and that seems like something that I would be into. ..and you went back in time and posted something there 2 days ago? Do you think we are stupid? You are an obvious incel. You created this new account 7 days ago and posted as soon as the waiting period expired. Your old account probably was banned here recently.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 01:00 PM
3

Just be his friend. Don't try to fix him or his relationship.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 12:52 PM
1

Try it, then let us know how it turns out.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 12:39 PM
1

What are you trying to accomplish by stating my username in your reply? You delete your posts after the fact.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 12:36 PM
1

Get some other plates. This one doesn't seem to worth the effort.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 12:25 PM
4

Depends on your definition of "bad". If you are happy pleasing yourself for the rest of your life, an eternal MGTOW, then do it. But if you want women in your life, enjoying the pleasures of their flesh, you have to quit.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 12:19 PM
8

Hell no. I'm not drinking piss
/r/askTRP08/05/19 08:08 PM
1

I don't use the mobile app, no idea
/r/askTRP08/05/19 07:27 PM
2

Urophagia too
/r/askTRP08/05/19 07:04 PM
5

From the sidebar: We use shit tests to make value judgements about people, likewise they can be used to determine how people cope under pressure. The underlying mechanism of shit tests is to test your mettle. ​ So if you are some weakling beta, they have no interest in fucking you. They already "know" you are a loser, no need to test you. Now that you have a nice body, they are thinking of fucking you. They want to know if you are just a musclehead or the real deal. That's why they are testing y…
/r/askTRP08/05/19 05:59 PM
16

Because you haven't read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 05:10 PM
2

You can't just decide one day that you need a mission, then pick one. It's grown inside of you over time.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 03:57 PM
-1

There is no "Chad". You should be yourself.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 02:36 PM
1

If you want to forgive her, then do so. You don't need our permission.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 02:23 PM
6

I would expect my GF to control her drinking enough that she doesn't pass out at parties. This is a big red flag. IMO, you both are not ready to settle down for a committed relationship. Just make her a plate, or drop her.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 01:37 PM
2

So I have been seeing this girl for 1 month Have you agreed to be exclusive or not?
/r/askTRP08/05/19 01:29 PM
4

Work on your reading comprehension. He said the exact opposite: That rich good looking guy over there in the corner who is single will get dropped in a second for the loser that dates multiple women.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 01:11 PM
1

If I had millions, I'd probably do the same thing as you. That said, it is a betabux strategy.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 01:02 PM
1

Nature isn't fair. The strongest lion runs off the other lions and then fucks all the lionesses. Be the strongest lion, or at least in the top 10% of men.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 12:58 PM
1

Send her a couple texts back and forth to build some rapport, then suggest a meetup in person to catch up.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 12:52 PM
2

Test your strength. That's the only way to see if you are improving.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 12:49 PM
1

I feel like I didn't do anything after finishing my work outs. Contrarily to that, I still cant put more weights on my bar though. So when you do 5x5 bench press of 100lbs, it doesn't feel like you worked out. But when you bench press 105lbs, you can't finish the sets? IMO, this is a mental block. You are scared to push yourself to lift the heavier weights. Try some 1.25lb (or whatever kg equiv) microplates. Can you lift 102.5?
/r/askTRP08/05/19 12:48 PM
3

"I deserve it"
/r/askTRP08/05/19 12:29 PM
3

How long has this been an LTR? How long did you vet her before LTR?
/r/askTRP07/05/19 04:10 PM
41

"You should worry when I don't want to have sex with you"
/r/askTRP07/05/19 03:57 PM
1

You can't expect your mother to get over this in 24 hours. Do what she says and be a good boy. The situation will improve over time (unless you screw it up again).
/r/askTRP07/05/19 03:37 PM
2

You need to spend as much time as needed to form good habits. This will vary from person to person. If needed, focus just on some habits at a time.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 03:32 PM
1

It could be low T. Have you had the bloodwork done? Switch to Greyskull LP now. The AMRAP sets will help you break the plateau.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 03:16 PM
1

StrongLifts doesn't handle plateaus well. IMO, greyskull lp will help you out here. The good news is that you've lost nearly 100lbs, and can almost deadlift your bodyweight. The bad news is you still need to lose ~30lbs, and your lifts are still very low. ​ Conversions to US: 5'6" - 187lbs DL: 176lbs BP: 99lbs SQ: 138lbs OHP: 61lbs
/r/askTRP07/05/19 02:56 PM
7

Only one way to find out. Just escalate and see what happens. Read her reactions and body language.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 02:21 PM
3

nSuns, greyskull, 531, PHUL. What are your SL numbers at now?
/r/askTRP07/05/19 02:19 PM
8

5 months in? This should be the honeymoon period. It's only going to get worse from here. Marriage counselling, then divorce. PS - having a baby won't fix anything.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 01:03 PM
10

Where do you want to be in five years? Still in the same LTR? Married to her? Probably not, right? So it's just a matter of "when".
/r/askTRP07/05/19 12:47 PM
1

Read Sex God Method.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 09:55 PM
1

As a beginner, SL 5x5 is about 45-60 minutes, three days a week. Cut back on thay study time.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 09:53 PM
12

Every one of your lines was cringy.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 08:53 PM
1

Just pay cash after they perform. Craigslist or depends on your state, or country.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 08:15 PM
3

If you were a 23yo HB, why would you want kids? These are the best years of a woman's life. They all change their mind as they near the wall, 27-30.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 08:09 PM
11

Money is not unimportant. Make money for yourself, so you can live the life you want. You are not doing it to attract women.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 08:02 PM
-1

This
/r/askTRP06/05/19 07:35 PM
2

If you don't enjoy movies, find a better way to spend your time. You can't fix the world. Just enjoy your life while you watch it burn.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 07:32 PM
14

You have it backwards. Give her a specific date. If you are available whenever she is free, then you don't have a lot going on.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 07:26 PM
7

You can't get rid of guilt easily. The trick is to not do anything you would feel guilty about. Have you made promises you don't intend to keep?
/r/askTRP06/05/19 06:44 PM
16

Are you asking for RedPill advice? Have you read the sidebar? You have to maintain time apart from her, to do your own things. It's healthy for the relationship. Tell her that this will be how it is going forward. She will likely have a power struggle with you on this.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 06:27 PM
5

But I have full confidence that they are attracted to me. A girl that was into you would scrape up bus fare to your city, to spend the weekend with you eating home cooked pasta and watching Netflix.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 05:18 PM
7

Dump her. Not because she didn't buy you a gift. Dump her because she thinks you treat her like shit, trying to use this as a power play. You can do better than her.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 02:48 PM
21

A sugarbaby is a BetaBux strategy. If that is what you want, go for it. Basically you are paying her to fuck you and be nice to you.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 02:42 PM
19

It's a red flag.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 12:57 PM
10

Stronglifts 5x5 is a good starting program
/r/askTRP06/05/19 12:34 PM
1

you've pretty much dismissed most chances of screwing a stripper for free. That's just not on my bucket list. Don't you have better options?
/r/askTRP06/05/19 12:27 PM
3

IDK, I don't have any medical training. I do know if you push it too soon, you will hurt it worse.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 12:25 PM
4

From Google: You'll usually be able to resume most activities within two weeks, but should avoid heavy lifting and sports involving shoulder movements for between six weeks and three months.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 12:18 PM
1

Vote for the person, not the party.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 07:43 PM
1

Just three hours ago, you claimed: I have high success with women. So which are you, the omega male (criminal) or the zeta male (weak loser)?
/r/askTRP03/05/19 07:37 PM
1

This is BlackPill nonsense.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 07:34 PM
1

Earlier today, you insisted "The only thing that matters to women is social proof." Now you claim it is genetics. You are contradicting yourself in the same day. Black Pill
/r/askTRP03/05/19 07:30 PM
2

Is it even possible for a woman to have a good LTR with a guy who earns less? Yes, it is possible? Are you thinking of LTRing that cougar that has been plating you?
/r/askTRP03/05/19 06:57 PM
6

I'd wait for her to bring it up. Say "I deeply value our friendship, and don't want to ruin it. We made a mistake last time."
/r/askTRP03/05/19 06:56 PM
14

That's what I thought. You can't use redpill tactics to make your blue pill fantasy come true. RP is the wrong tool for the job you are trying to accomplish.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 06:12 PM
1

Do you want to win her back, marry her, and raise a family?
/r/askTRP03/05/19 06:00 PM
2

I want him to be better He needs to want it as well. You can't make him do something he doesn't want to do. He's going to view you as attacking his GF, trying to break them up. This will ruin your friendship. You should be supportive of him and his relationship. Then, when things eventually go sideways, you will be right there to help him up.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 05:26 PM
2

Wayne Gretzky: "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take."
/r/askTRP03/05/19 05:22 PM
13

I doubt some comments on Reddit will solve this for you. Think about seeking professional help for Social Anxiety Disorder.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 05:07 PM
2

What do you want? You don't even know if you want to have sex with her. We can't decide that for you.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 04:58 PM
6

She's not into you. She's just being polite.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 04:54 PM
4

Your brother is a line cook at a chain restaurant. He's lazy and doesn't want to try harder.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 04:45 PM
1

OK, who here made this troll account?
/r/askTRP03/05/19 04:21 PM
17

You won't get anywhere bringing this up. You won't win many battles against a SJW. Just be a better man.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 04:09 PM
3

How can we be expected to be normal men when we weren’t brought up that way. OK, let's assume you are correct. Then why are you here on TRP? MGTOW should be your home. You'll never be able to change if you don't believe it is possible.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 02:44 PM
10

End it. Start working on yourself. It will hurt for a couple months. But you will be a better man afterwards.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 02:39 PM
5

So other than that I ignore it and just go on? Proceed as if it never happened.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 02:25 PM
6

Yes, you fucked up. Water under the bridge. Proceed as if it never happened. If she asks about it, make up some BS excuse, "it is your fault for being so hot". You need to work on that PE. #1 cause is porn.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 02:20 PM
5

Stop worrying about her and her motives. Everything is going great for you. There's no need to force a FWB to initiate.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 12:37 PM
3

From the RP perspective, you shouldn't be splitting bills, as you are not living together.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 12:34 PM
9

You spent 16 months digging through the trash to get back with your ex. Now she’s about to throw you to the curb again
/r/askTRP02/05/19 09:25 PM
11

​ Monday - I majorly fucked my life up. How can I start anew? Tuesday - GF has period and refuses sex, how do I deal with this? Wednesday - Choked on break, fell, shoulder injured, life fucked cause I can't go to the gym Thursday - GF might be dying, is this another shit test, or is she cheating on me? ​ What's Friday going to bring?
/r/askTRP02/05/19 08:25 PM
3

yes
/r/askTRP02/05/19 07:20 PM
2

Is that in Sex God Method? I missed that chapter.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 06:30 PM
4

Just invite her out. Tell her to meet you for drinks after work to "catch up".
/r/askTRP02/05/19 04:24 PM
0

this morning I argued for several hours over Instagram with some guy Ignore, block if needed. You should never engage with some woman's BF.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 04:22 PM
3

For reference: / r /asktrp/comments/bjvghk/dominance_battle_with_special_ed_guy/
/r/askTRP02/05/19 03:37 PM
3

What should I do after the bar? Sex. After escalating for an hour at the bar, you should know if she is receptive to sex. Search this sub for "good first date". Read the first 10-20 results.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 03:33 PM
1

There is no cheat code. It's not what you say, but how you say it. Building up sexual tension, reading and responding to her IOIs. Push/pull, making her qualify herself to you. And you have to put all the hard work in beforehand, building your body, learning how to maintain Frame and pass shit tests.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 03:06 PM
6

Movies are terrible first dates, as you are looking at the screen instead of each other. You want eye contact first, good conversation, and then kino. Your goal is to build attraction. As CainPrice said, get drinks at a later hour. This is Tinder, she wants to get to know you a little before she jumps in bed with you.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 02:56 PM
1

Many virgins partake in oral and anal.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 02:34 PM
1

94% of US paper money tested positive for poop.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 02:33 PM
3

You still thinking about losing weight before your August 1st family gathering?
/r/askTRP01/05/19 10:11 PM
1

He's still a virgin and learning.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 09:56 PM
3

Maybe she has a BF, wanted a ONS, just got dumped by a player, found someone else, got mad at something you said, you came off too needy.... Not enough context to determine.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 09:55 PM
12

She probably had a great time. The next day, she's chatting with her friends about you. After she mentioned your n-count, they told her "he's a player, just using you for sex". So she ghosted you. Iron Rule of Tomassi # 2 NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 09:22 PM
5

troll?
/r/askTRP01/05/19 09:18 PM
3

I don't think it will work out for you.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 07:12 PM
3

A good entrepreneur needs to be a self-starter, a person who is sufficiently motivated or ambitious to start a new career or business or to pursue further education without the help of others. Does that sound like you?
/r/askTRP01/05/19 06:41 PM
7

You should read the book Sex God Method
/r/askTRP01/05/19 05:47 PM
56

There is no failsafe against divorce. A successful marriage is RedPill on hard mode. Too much include in a reply. There's a whole subreddit dedicated to it.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 05:13 PM
189

According to Rollo man's SMV goes through the roof right when marriages start to fail (mid to late 30s) Your SMV doesn't automatically rise as you age. Look at all the dad bods out there. Many married men let their SMV slowly decay, then wonder why their wife no longer gives unsolicited BJs. ​ Your potential SMV rises in your 30's. But you have to put in the work, diet, lifting, etc. Having the body of an athletic 20yo with the maturity of a 30yo is what gives you the high SMV.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 04:58 PM
2

DEVI is the main theme of SGM. Dominance / Emotion / Variety / Immersion From the book: However, there is some value in having a larger cock. It doesn’t provide anything additional physically, but it does provide psychological stimulation, namely Dominance. It is more dominant to be fucked by a large cock than a small one. But, the amount of Dominance created by a large cock is trivial compared to the Dominance you can create in other ways. If you master the methods described in this book at est…
/r/askTRP01/05/19 04:39 PM
3

The answer should be obvious if you have been paying attention. For women, sex is 80-90% mental. That's DEVI, from SGM.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 03:59 PM
8

But I was very surprised that 80% of women can’t orgasm from piv IMO, the correct interpretation would be that 80% of women don’t orgasm from piv with the man they are currently fucking. For women, sex is 80-90% mental. If you are sexually attractive, and know how to push the right mental/emotional buttons, she wants to have sex with you. She's already primed before the clothes come off. She might not have PIV orgasm every time, but there is a good chance. Last year, I had 30 second sex. Our sch…
/r/askTRP01/05/19 03:07 PM
1

EDIT: made this a top level response for visibility
/r/askTRP01/05/19 03:02 PM
0

Why would other men's failures trouble you? Yes, a woman's failure to orgasm is mostly the man's fault. Why do you care if 80% of men don't know how to fuck well?
/r/askTRP01/05/19 01:50 PM
6

You don't understand the 80/20 rule.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 01:29 PM
1

Reddit accounts are free
/r/askTRP01/05/19 01:14 PM
3

This is a significant red flag. Shes eventually going to fuck him again.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 01:12 PM
1

You are having a baby with her?
/r/askTRP01/05/19 01:09 PM
1

Faking another man to get a reaction from you is not a red flag. Fucking another man to get a reaction from you is a red flag. ​ Sounds like you are doing fine. You have time with her and have your own time.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 01:00 PM
1

Why do you spergs worry about why some other guy isn't attractive to girls? Don't you have enough things to worry about?
/r/askTRP30/04/19 11:42 PM
1

Your one and only comment on Reddit is to push some personal website, that has nothing to do with TRP?
/r/askTRP30/04/19 11:24 PM
3

It's simple. Stop doing those things! The main problem is that it takes a lot of time to rebuild your reputation. You don't seem to have a lot of patience.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 11:16 PM
5

Jaw line is caused by low body fat
/r/askTRP30/04/19 05:24 PM
3

The world isn't so black and white as you think.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 02:37 PM
2

Catch them at the coffee machine, bathrooms, etc.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 02:14 PM
8

Another day, another problem....
/r/askTRP30/04/19 02:11 PM
3

You seem more interested in labels for her and you. Good luck.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 01:47 PM
1

He specifically EXCLUDED Issues of mentality and asked about positions and the physical dynamics of size. But then he asked "Surely she will get bored if I can only do her with her legs in the air?" hence the need for SGM.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 01:32 PM
8

AWALT. Most girls, early in an LTR, do all those things. She's just a GF. Yes, even betas have girlfriends.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 01:21 PM
1

cuz you just ignored half of the points i made ​ Did you post this from the wrong account? LOL
/r/askTRP30/04/19 01:03 PM
3

You've been here over a year, and you still don't know what women are attracted to?
/r/askTRP29/04/19 08:32 PM
5

This isn't helping you get laid.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 08:07 PM
21

A. You can fuck a fatty from behind, her belly doesn't get in the way. B. Sex God Method
/r/askTRP29/04/19 07:27 PM
1

See a doctor. Low blood pressure can be a symptom of a more serious medical condition. Most health plans in the USA cover an annual wellness visit with zero copay.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 06:39 PM
1

FWIW, a hard next would be the easy way out, avoiding facing the thing you fear, rejection.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 06:07 PM
31

If you are not seeing anyone else, what's the difference between an FWB and LTR? Basically, she is your de facto GF because you are too lazy to acquire another plate.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 06:02 PM
1

Not normal. It's typically a sign of low blood pressure. Could be dehydration, or some chronic condition. You might check with your doctor.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 05:19 PM
2

Be an adult. Make adult friends. It's a great world out there.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 04:23 PM
2

And can these relations successfully work long term? We call them long term relationships for a reason. Typically, plates & FWB are not long term. Basically you are asking how to turn a FWB into an LTR (which you don't want).
/r/askTRP29/04/19 04:04 PM
2

Yes. Barbell is 45, plus 22 on each side.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:57 PM
7

Understand that half of lifting is diet. You need surplus calories to build the muscles. Calculate your TDEE, then add 250-300cals. Get at least 120g of protein daily. ​ I started on all my lifts with empty barbell and added 22 pounds on each side for the deadlift and 16 pounds on each side for bench press and squat. The normal nomenclature is to just list the total weight: Deadlift - 99lbs (22*2 + 45) Squat - 77 lbs (16*2 + 45) ​ Specific to your routine, you only have a list of exercises. Ther…
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:25 PM
3

Are you still a virgin, and scared to make the first move?
/r/askTRP29/04/19 01:56 PM
1

You can't control your emotions for one month? Use this as practice.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 01:24 PM
14

I'd fuck so many girls over the summer, I wouldn't remember what this one girl looked like.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 07:46 PM
6

You just rediscovered something already in the Sidebar.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 07:30 PM
10

I had to Google "LMS", as I didn't know what it stood for. "LMS" is not in our Glossary of Terms and Acronyms. TRP talks about Frame, Confidence, and Game. Look, Money and Status are all secondary or third level stats. Basically, you don't understand what women are attracted to. Yes, incels take LMS way too seriously.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:47 PM
3

You can "Enjoy the decline, just have fun, be high value" AND "monogamy, settling down, making your own family flourish." While we don't recommend marriage, TRP is just a toolset. You can use it for your own objectives. ​ But now I also have the TRP in the back of my head. "Enjoy the decline, just have fun, be high value (=would be good if you had nice clothes, nice car etc)" You don't understand TRP. Clothes should fit well, brand is not important. A $5 color t-shirt is fine. Keep your car clea…
/r/askTRP26/04/19 04:11 PM
1

It's fiction, not real life. You are seeing what the writer wants you to see. Not what happens in the real world.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 03:50 PM
3

Speak with the gym management. It's their job to keep troublemakers out.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 03:46 PM
6

She was looking to branch swing, with the working out and going to bars, then asked for a break. Why are you feeling guilt? Just keep improving yourself and approach other women.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 03:41 PM
19

Yes, if you have to ask, you are in her Frame.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 01:28 PM
4

You've giving us no context. Why do the dates not lead to sex? What happens when you escalate? What happens on 2nd date? What are you texting them? Are the women excited or bored?
/r/askTRP26/04/19 01:23 PM
1

His post history
/r/askTRP26/04/19 11:35 AM
22

Your words: I'm not attracted to her.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 06:39 PM
1

Have you had sex with her, technically?
/r/askTRP25/04/19 06:03 PM
1

It wasn't personal, he treated all the employees shitty. Realize that in five years, he'll still be managing some shitty chain restaurant. Do you want an assault and battery on your record for him?
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:59 PM
3

You've given no context about the first two dates for me to judge. If all you've done with her is a kiss on the cheek at the end of date 2, then you have been slow pedalling it.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:15 PM
6

Everyone knows "watch a movie" is code for sex. If she is ready for sex, then it's fine for a 3rd date. If you've been slow pedalling it, it might be too aggressive.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:08 PM
2

Did you try Google?
/r/askTRP25/04/19 04:28 PM
3

You want women to notice your body, not the brand of clothes you wear. For this, you need well fitting clothes.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 03:06 PM
0

Start lifting for more than two weeks. You are soft, weak and overweight. Focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 02:36 PM
2

Start Lifting Read the Sidebar
/r/askTRP25/04/19 01:43 PM
14

When Reddit banned or quarantined most of the incel forums, the incels fled to MGTOW. It is currently a cesspool.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 01:32 PM
25

You were confident, sexy and masculine. Do the same thing with other women, and you'll get similar results. Sure, throw one more Hail Mary text at this girl. But don't expect any reply.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 01:09 PM
1

IMO, StrongLifts is a beginner program designed to get someone into the gym for the first time. You are ready for 5/3/1, Greyskull, PPL or some other intermediate program. ( thefitness.wiki/routines/ )
/r/askTRP25/04/19 12:59 PM
1

Rehab. IMO, based on your history, you won't be able to fix your dependencies yourself.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 12:48 PM
53

AWALT - All women are like that. You can't change the system. Just learn how to play the game.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 12:39 PM
2

A good lifting goal would be to hit the 1000lb club, bench+squat+deadlift =1000lbs Google FIRE - financial independence retire early. Depending on your targets and success, you could retire at 40. IMO, this works perfectly with never getting married & no kids.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 12:36 PM
1

Question back at you: Has weed helped or hindered with your weight loss?
/r/askTRP25/04/19 12:22 PM
1

Lifting is the #1 way to improve your attractiveness.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 07:12 PM
2

I have one. Share yours, then I will share mine.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:35 PM
3

Find your own purpose. Don't copy someone elses. Do you really have no hobbies that interest you? EDIT at add mine: One of my lifelong goals is to climb a mountain on each continent (skipping Antarctica). This requires extensive training and preparation. I'll be able to see some amazing sites around the world and meet interesting people.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:33 PM
3

So you gained 20 lbs in two months? That requires a caloric surplus of nearly 1200 per day. You are getting fat! As elsewhere stated, eat around 250 surplus calories per day. This should add about 20-30 lbs over a year. You are at 140BP/200SQ/220DL. This is still beginner stage. Set a six month goal of 200/300/400. Eat clean, and you'll be around 200lbs. Then spend 3 months cutting back down to 170-180. Note that abs are made in the kitchen. You need to get into the habit of counting every calor…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:32 PM
1

Don't listen to this guy. He only deadlifts 120lbs.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 05:58 PM
2

I'm unsure of what you are asking. It's your turn now. It was someone else's turn previously, and it might be someone else's turn in the future. That should not stop you from enjoying your time in this LTR. You asked she’s been with other men but is madly in love with me, and that’s all that really matters in the end? All that really matters is if you are happy. No girl is a Unicorn. Stop looking for one,
/r/askTRP24/04/19 05:12 PM
5

She's not yours, it's just your turn. As you noted, she is a wonderful girl for you. She is a result of everything she experienced in her life, including the 20+ dicks she sucked. This has made her who she is. Enjoy the LTR as long as it is working for you.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 04:52 PM
1

I don't view my actions as "treating women so poorly". If I meet a woman at a bar, hit it off well, and take her home for consensual sex, how have I treated her wrong? We both got what we wanted, and enjoyed it.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 04:39 PM
8

She already said "obviously I wanted to sleep with you". Do you need her to put it in writing? Set up a fun activity. Lead, be attractive, don't be unattractive. Have a good excuse to bring her back to your place.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 04:08 PM
13

Shy girls are afraid to respond, especially in public. Plus many Asians frown on PDAs. Just invite them back to your place, for some non-sexual excuse ("feed my goldfish").
/r/askTRP24/04/19 03:05 PM
2

My gym is my temple, the sidebar is my gospel. j/k ​ I'm pondering to give other more theistic religions a try... Does it matter which, if any, of these religions is true? How can your religion give you a "great sense of meaning" if it is all based on lies?
/r/askTRP24/04/19 01:38 PM
2

I recommend SL5x5 because it is the simplest possible full body routine that can give good results. We're mainly targeting non-athletic men with no history of weight training or other sports. It's better to get them into the gym and develop a lifting habit. After 3-6 months of progress, they can transition to a intermediate routine. The killer feature is the free app to track progress. The app even includes videos to show proper form. ​ If OP, at 5'10" and 180 lbs, plateaus at 100lb bench press,…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 01:19 PM
2

If you can't even get to Beginner Level with SL5x5, there's no point in trying other routines. Have you fixed your diet yet?
/r/askTRP23/04/19 06:47 PM
2

is there a question?
/r/askTRP23/04/19 04:51 PM
6

Many white women I meet don’t even view me sexually. It's not because of your race.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 04:51 PM
6

Terrible. You need 48 hours for your muscles to recover, yet you are working each muscle group daily. Pick a standard routine. You are not smarter than all the experts.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 04:49 PM
6

It's subconscious and instinctual, driven by millions of years of evolution.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 08:51 PM
6

Check your T levels.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 08:49 PM
8

You already were in the friendzone. Game other girls.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 08:38 PM
3

I don't think pair-bonding makes any significant difference.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 07:51 PM
8

I guarantee a girl who banged her high school sweet heart for 2 years 1200 would be more emotionally attached to her ex Wouldn't you want to date a girl that wanted sex 600 times a year, plus anal, BJs, etc? And you want to disqualify her because she 'might' have feeling for her ex? How risky is it to date her and see if she "pair-bonds" to you, or still has feelings for the EX?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 07:36 PM
3

But am i gonna fuck her again? Probably not. You'll be too worried about your nut instead of enjoying the moment.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 06:44 PM
13

Tell her the larger one is where you keep your brain.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 06:35 PM
5

Did Tinder recently add a Salary field? In general, I don't disclose my income or ask about hers. We're just dating, not buying a house together.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 06:32 PM
14

This is so MGTOW thinking. You are trying to distill it down to some mathematical formula. Women don't come with a sex resume listing their # partners and bang count. You'll never know the truth, only disqualifying those that are truthful with you. And if Pairbonding is so powerful, why after "raw dogged it 1200 times" is this guy her EX boyfriend?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 06:30 PM
2

There is no absolutes with women, no guarantees. Typically the longer you vet, the better. But there is no magical cutoff date that prevents her from riding the CC in the future.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 05:53 PM
3

What do you think? Posting the same question over and over doesn't change the answer.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 05:45 PM
2

Google 12 Steps of Dread. Sounds as if you are being too Rambo about dread.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 05:34 PM
17

Soft Next. She just wasn't that into you.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 05:22 PM
7

No, no one here ever stated that as a fact. For example, Bill Gates 'mission' was to dominate the PC software market. That's like pouring kitty litter in women's panties, it's just not an attractive mission. You can still follow your mission and be completely Beta.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 05:19 PM
2

Never argue with a woman. Even when you 'win' the argument, you still lose. Dread should be passive. Don't throw it in her face. Looks like it didn't backfire this time. Let her say what she wants to say about the 'situation'. Then tell her what how you are going to handle it.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 05:11 PM
2

Will Power. Most people quit as soon as it gets "hard".
/r/askTRP22/04/19 04:27 PM
15

You were too direct, which triggered her ASD. Give her a non-sexual reason to come back to your place ("help me feed my goldfish"), then escalate.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 06:53 PM
10

Pick up a new hobby, learn a new skill. For example, learn to play the guitar and join a band.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 07:01 PM
4

Do you have a plan if you drop out?
/r/askTRP19/04/19 06:33 PM
1

$20, my price just went up
/r/askTRP19/04/19 06:26 PM
2

Look, my advice is free. But you are asking me to buy a video game and waste my time playing it. Why do I owe you that?
/r/askTRP19/04/19 06:03 PM
1

Sure, I'll do it for $10 for my time and effort.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 05:56 PM
7

One dick yes, second dick no.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 05:49 PM
5

They say I'm cold, unfriendly, unfeeling, boring, etc. That's what you have to fix. Just a little adjustment will make a huge difference.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 05:42 PM
3

The sidebar explains all this.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 04:55 PM
4

Move to another city, start over fresh.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 03:08 PM
12

A cold approach from a 4-5 is creepy. A cold approach from an 8-9 is exciting. Start lifting and improving your SMV so your approaches won't be creepy.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 03:05 PM
3

i wanna now what trp users would do in this situation. Are you asking us how we'd seduce a girl in a video game? That's the most important question you can ask us today?
/r/askTRP19/04/19 02:52 PM
5

someone can call this ending good. Who is this someone? The game programmer? Is he a neckbeard living in his mother's basement? Maybe a woman wrote it?
/r/askTRP19/04/19 02:38 PM
20

Read the Sex God Method book. For women, sex is 90% mental.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 02:34 PM
12

WTF? Play the real world, not some computer game.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 02:32 PM
2

Nothing is absolute when dealing with women. A safe, quality LTR is possible, just not guaranteed. Even with the best vetting, AWALT can happen. IMO, the best approach is to make sure she is more invested in the relationship than you. If/when one LTR runs it's course, find another. Just be a serial monogamist.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 01:06 PM
6

Tell her you are busy.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 12:56 PM
-1

Make the 5 a plate for a couple months until she breaks. It will give you some confidence. But it doesn't sound like you are approaching other women.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 12:49 PM
2

Don't enter her Frame. Ghost her a week, then set up a new ONS on your terms. SMH
/r/askTRP19/04/19 12:41 PM
3

The important one is "Exclusive". Are you free to date/see other people, or have you agreed to be exclusive. You both know you are exclusive when the woman asks for it, and you agree. Breaking up always hurts. Just do it like a bandaid, all at once. Dragging it out just lengthens the pain period.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 12:33 PM
3

waiting until the meeting Monday to say anything about my intentions to have sex or a relationship. ​ Your intentions should be to get to know each other better. You should never directly tell a girl after one meeting that you want a relationship.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 09:11 PM
47

Exactly. Too many people focus on how to act Alpha. Once you are Alpha, you just be yourself.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:17 PM
4

Some believe that a woman that has ridden the CC will never settle long term for just one guy. IDK either way.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 07:43 PM
39

"Tuesday 3pm @ place" (or whatever works for you) Is it really that difficult? She's asking you to lead.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 07:34 PM
2

blackpill / purplepill / bluepill / greenpill / yellowpill
/r/askTRP18/04/19 06:04 PM
2

If you just care about the money, male prostitute. You can make good money letting other guys fuck you in the ass.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 06:02 PM
6

Even Phelps uses weightlifting to help him train.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 03:07 PM
3

You couldn't be further from the truth.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 03:02 PM
3

Women will test your frame and resolve, even in a stable LTR.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 01:51 PM
4

Most of us go thru an Anger Phase after learning the truth. Some take it worse than others.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 01:46 PM
11

You are correct. Average males can't just find women easily, they don't have a lot of options. Just don't be average, be in the top 5%.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 01:41 PM
1

/TheRedPill/comments/9cf6po/going_to_an_event_where_you_dont_know_anyone_fr/
/r/askTRP18/04/19 01:35 PM
9

...picking up different women all the time must get old. Married to the same woman for 30+ years gets older.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 01:13 PM
1

Great progress. IMO, you are ready to start bulk/cut cycles aka recomp (google it). Basically it involves bulking for ~9 months (putting on ~20lbs), then losing weight (~20 lbs) for ~3 months, and repeating. The end result is increasing your muscle to fat ratio at the same weight, giving you more definition. Note that during your cut period, your lifts and running will suffer. PPL is fine. But nothing wrong with changing it for variation. Check out nSuns 531.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 01:11 PM
5

A. Google "12 steps of Dread". You just went to #12. You should only do that when the other 11 steps had no effect. B. Don't ask a plate for permission to see another girl. C. You have oneitis for her. I suspect she already has another alpha on the side that she is fucking 3x per week. She's going to cheat on you as well. From last week: Girl has boyfriend for almost 8 years. I'm fucking her for 15 months right now. She wants to leave him for me. I have oneitis. There is a lot of drama lately, a…
/r/askTRP18/04/19 12:28 PM
11

You never have to settle for anything. Go after what you want, work for it.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 09:55 PM
105

First date from Tinder? You handled the question right.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 09:28 PM
1

SumsweetSalt - He suffered from GERD and couldn't gain weight or lift.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 08:45 PM
2

Thanks for the update. It's always good to get feedback. Good luck in the future
/r/askTRP17/04/19 08:36 PM
1

He can't bench press an empty bar
/r/askTRP17/04/19 08:04 PM
3

Then use the girls 35lb bar. Or some 10lb dumbbells. You have to lift weights to get stronger.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 08:03 PM
2

I haven’t tried benching or squatting since I’m weak as fuck but slowly getting stronger. Start with just the bar. Surely you can bench and squat 45 lbs? ​ PS - don't delete your threads.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 07:28 PM
9

Here's what you said 2 weeks ago: I’ve been lifting for around a year and a half, but haven’t really been consistent for more than 3 weeks. Bench Press - 135 for 5x5 Maybe Red Pill is not for you? You'd rather play video games than become physically attractive.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 07:17 PM
2

...I'm struggling with this class and she will help... You don't seem to be an Einstein with women. My concern would be that you are misinterpreting her desire to help you.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 07:01 PM
1

his own version of Christianity Christianity also disapproves of any form of sexual contact outside of marriage. IMO, people's views on Christianity have changed over time, some more than others.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 06:35 PM
4

We are not speech therapy experts. Google "stuttering cure". If that doesn't help, seek a speech therapist.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 02:24 PM
6

"Sure, go to bed early like you're a roommate not a husband." Sounds like you stopped gaming her.
/r/askMRP17/04/19 02:16 PM
4

Next - She's weaponizing sex. Find someone that wants to have sex with you instead.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 01:51 PM
5

So you are/were an orbiter. She's just wasting your time. The right thing to do is cut her out of your life. will she be more attracted to me? Maybe, but not likely. It's just rare for an orbiter to be promoted to BF. She's already put you in the box. Approach other women. Start lifting. Lose your bodyfat. Stay off the porn.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 01:50 PM
1

Saving his post, as he deleted it: ​ LTR looks like trying to hide something? (self.asktrp) submitted 15 hours ago by Aesthetic_God__ Met a virgin girl in summer, spinned for 3 months until I vetted and decided to LTR her when she finally gave sex. now it's 9 months complete of us being together. In about 2 days she is going to go to a trip with her school, few girls, mates and teachers. There was a kid friend of mine who she thought was watching her back then and reported to me, as she had seen…
/r/askTRP17/04/19 01:24 PM
2

Thanks for the trickle truth. Look, it's hard to give advice when you only tell half the story. I figured there was more to the story than you let on. That's why I looked for your post history. The Red Pill way is to approach other women. Typically it will take more effort to correct your previous mistakes and get her attraction. Just game some other girls where you are not already in the negative. Build up your confidence.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 01:21 PM
9

You posted this 5 hours ago: How to make your girl miss you while she's on a 4 day school trip away? Nothing you do surprises me.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 10:18 PM
5

Throw them into the pond. Whomever is lying will float. Come on, we can't answer this question.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 10:03 PM
4

You are 18. Marriage should not be crossing your mind.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 09:59 PM
2

Conjugal visits?
/r/askTRP16/04/19 09:54 PM
25

It doesn't matter if you are "handsome". Right now, you are socially awkward and afraid of women, which makes you unattractive.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 09:18 PM
3

IDK. If this is happening frequently, then you are likely doing something wrong. But I don't have enough information.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 07:49 PM
12

GF? Mother? Boss? Coworker? Context needed... edit: Wife?
/r/askTRP16/04/19 07:25 PM
4

If she just wants to text and flirt, but doesn't want the sex, then you are an orbiter.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 07:19 PM
7

She's just using you for Validation. You are probably one of her orbiters.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 07:09 PM
3

WTF? You can't fix a natural instinct. Also your solution is stupid.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 04:07 PM
5

Sometimes SSRI can cause ED. Check with your doctor. You might have low T, do a blood test with your doctor. Recreational drugs, alcohol, porn and fapping can also have a negative effect. Could just be your anxiety. You could try Viagra to see if this helps you get over it.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 04:03 PM
1

Have you been cleared by a doctor to start physical training? If you are cleared, start slow. Just walk for a quarter-mile and do 5lb dumbbells. Slowly increase over time and rebuild your body. If you still have issues, see your doctor again.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 03:52 PM
22

While I'm falling asleep, I think to myself "Don't ask any stupid questions on TRP tomorrow."
/r/askTRP16/04/19 03:44 PM
3

Is this plate recoverable? Just ask her out. You'll have the answer quicker than your whole post took to type up.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 03:15 PM
9

Your problems are much bigger than this one girl living in another country. EDIT - Here's what you said about the situation 3 weeks go: I was doing the favor of letting a friend of my sister to sleep over, she was cute and totally on to me, it was only two days, the first day I try to escalate, but the minute she said she didn't want to do anything I get a little mad, and told her that I wanted to fuck her, but that I can control myself, then asked her what she was going to do if I tried, she sa…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 02:09 PM
2

You have no logistics, living with your current GF. You can't bring her back to your place.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 01:18 PM
1

If they are coming to your house, they've probably already decided to have sex with you. Just don't get a shithole flat, and keep it neat and clean.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 01:14 PM
12

I said " Treat it like a shit test ". Agree and amplify. "Yeah, I've been eating my spinach, any bad guys I need to beat up?" Again, I don't see where this is your problem. The GF is flirting with you in front of her BF. Maybe they get off on this. As long as you don't pursue the GF, you have done nothing wrong.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 12:59 PM
2

This chick is the best lead you have. Try to kiss her next time.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 12:43 PM
19

Not your GF, not your problem. Not sure why you would be concerned. Treat it like a shit test.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 12:39 PM
4

Not a big deal. Nearly every girl has had a ONS at some point. You are only disqualifying the ones that are not lying to you about it. AWALT.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 12:36 PM
2

That's why you spin multiple plates. Plates can have boyfriends or other FWBs, and they can be busy. Without any other details, I don't see any wrong.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 08:30 PM
6

So it's a couples party and she's desperate for a date? IMO, she's probably using you. Do what you want to do, go to the party and practice your social skills, or not. If you show value, her panties might get wet for you. Basically, spend lots of time ignoring her, and chatting it up with everyone else.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 08:26 PM
8

Soft next. You can't use logic with a woman. She will need some time to process this information. Eventually she will reach out to you.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 08:16 PM
12

Go enjoy the party. Flirt with other women.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 08:14 PM
6

Have you ever been to a lap pool? It would be easier to chat in nearly any other spot in the gym.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 07:53 PM
2

MyFitnessPal - Weigh and record every calorie you eat. TDEE - google to find your daily calorie burn. Eat 500-750 calories less than your TDEE.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 07:30 PM
9

Most people are doing laps, with their head down in the water. They don't want to stop and talk, as this interrupts their cardo. You'll have a little window before and after. I'm sure it can work, just seems like there are better places to meet women.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 07:21 PM
2

You sound boring. Plan something fun that you want to do, with or without her. Invite her to join you in this activity. If she says no, invite someone else. If everyone says no, then just do your plan solo. A "plan" might be hiking around the park, then stopping at the pub for a pint and sandwich.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 07:17 PM
2

I'd call it "None of my business". IMO, you are way too involved in this situation. When they are fighting for hours, it's time to excuse yourself. Don't be the White Knight here. If you cause her to leave him, he might come visit you with a gun.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/19 07:00 PM
9

IMO, none of the actions you posted constitute Dread. Threatening to divorce your wife because she cheated isn't Dread.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/19 06:35 PM
1

If you have people disrespecting you wherever you go, maybe the problem is you, not them. Maybe you are the asshole. Look, this man running the desk at an oil change place is just doing his job. Why would you do anything to piss him off?
/r/askTRP15/04/19 05:52 PM
10

No
/r/askTRP15/04/19 05:12 PM
5

Do you want to be an orbiter, and hope that she will date you eventually?
/r/askTRP15/04/19 05:00 PM
1

How obese are you? Can you walk up stairs? Did you do physical therapy after your back injury?
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:46 PM
9

Your next step is to meet 10 more cute girls.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:41 PM
9

Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:39 PM
3

He was risking his life for the chance for something greater Do you understand this is fiction? No one risked their life. The writers decided they would fuck, then wrote some clever dialog to lead into it. Try that in real life. When some HB8 rejects you, give her an ultimatum. You won't have any writers giving you the lines to pass her shit tests.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:32 PM
3

Look for Meetups in your area. Go to a new meetup every Saturday and Sunday (instead of playing video games). You'll eventually find interestings things that you enjoy.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:17 PM
2

See your doctor. Maybe you need to be on an SSRI for a while.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:13 PM
3

Spreadsheets... j/k You'll make time for what is important. Maybe drop a video game session for a date? Clean a little each day, instead of a long cleaning session on the weekend?
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:05 PM
7

Euron is an orbiter. Cersei only fucked him as payment for the troops. Demanding sex from a prostitute doesn't make you Alpha.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:00 PM
5

Logistics, being Attractive, not being Unattractive.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 03:48 PM
51

It's the anger phase. We've all went through it. Channel that anger at the gym. Push heavy weights. Submit your opponent in BJJ.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 02:52 PM
2

but if I have to explain myself... Don't explain yourself. Don't apologize or defend. You did nothing wrong. Women would rather compete for a confident man with a strong frame. ​ Girl1: Why did you kiss Amy at the party? You: Amy is a great kisser. Girl1: Why did you kiss her after you kissed me? I thought we had..... You: Isn't it a little early to ask for exclusivity? You have potential. You just need to work on the kissing part. -- Showing abundance and social proof Making her qualify herself…
/r/askTRP15/04/19 02:40 PM
11

I sent out a snapchat saying I have a sore throat asking if anyone had a remedy. This is not what to use SnapChat for.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 01:23 PM
2

if she finds out and ask me about I will be on the defensive That's your weak frame. There is no need to be defensive about it if she brings it up. You are not exclusive. You can date, kiss and fuck other women.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 01:16 PM
2

Here's another incel that wants to compete with athletes for the HB8's and above. Start at the bottom. Approach women that will fuck you now. Sex will do wonders for curing your incel mindset. You'll learn about women and gain confidence and social proof. Then keep working on yourself, lifting, diet, frame and game. By the end of college, you'll be able to fuck the 7's and 8's.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 01:05 PM
1

Look, I'm trying to give you generic examples, something that you can adapt to your own situation. Instead, you seem to be focused on picking apart my examples. Being better than the guy at the next desk was just a generic example.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 09:49 PM
3

is there any way I can make this into hook up rather than relationship? Make her a "plate" that you fuck every week or so, with none of that GF relationship BS to worry about. Read the sidebar to find out how.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 07:53 PM
8

One can have great accomplishments and still have faults. L30: One of your accomplishments is a great body. Don't tell everyone that you got up at 6am every morning for 2 years straight for the gym. Just tell them you've always been athletic. Don't go into details about your bulk and cut routines. Tell them you just have a high metabolism. L46: Admit to a harmless vice, like watching "Keeping Up with the Kardashians" or reading graphic novels.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 07:47 PM
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Should I call out the situation and try and make light of it? Don't bring it up. Act as if it didn't happen. Proceed as if everything is 100% ready to go.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 07:26 PM
3

Start reading the sidebar.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 07:23 PM
5

Law 30: Make your accomplishments seem effortless Your actions must seem natural and executed with ease. All the toil and practice that go into them, and also all the clever tricks, must be concealed. When you act, act effortlessly, as if you could do much more. Avoid the temptation of revealing how hard you work - it only raises questions. Teach no one your tricks or they will be used against you. Law 46: Never appear too perfect Appearing better than others is always dangerous, but most danger…
/r/askTRP12/04/19 07:21 PM
1

Why don't you bring up the ones that are contradictory? Then we can have a discussion. IMO, you are being a little jerkoff too lazy to read all 48 laws, looking for a shortcut.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 07:07 PM
1

Sounds like you are not fucking her yet. Doing these 'beta chores' for her won't make her pussy wet for you. This is her problem, tell her she needs to deal with it.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 06:38 PM
11

Standard case of "There's this one girl". Best advice is to start dating other women.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 05:33 PM
6

The RP way is to lift. Being stronger always helps in a physical confrontation. You always want to be ready to defend yourself. That said, most hotheads are just bullies, picking on people they think they can intimidate. If you look strong, they may just go bother someone else instead.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 05:17 PM
1

You say be better than the person next to you. Isn't this bad advice in that you are constantly assessing yourself to someone else (living in their frame) instead of comparing yourself to either yourself or someone much better. The higher you aim the higher you will go, the lower you aim the lower you will go. Sorry, I didn't go in depth. Basically, have a series of smaller, obtainable goals, instead of one big, far off goal. Your starting goal might be the guy at the desk next to you. Once you …
/r/askTRP12/04/19 02:58 PM
3

But she wasn’t “feeling it”? I felt like she was lying but not sure. What do you think she was lying about? Do you think she was "feeling it" but playing some game with your head?
/r/askTRP12/04/19 02:39 PM
3

Don't shit where you eat. Coworkers should be off limits. Not worth screwing up your career.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 01:05 PM
13

my weaknesses is to click on her profile That's why you should block her. Focus on yourself, don't worry about her "endgame"
/r/askTRP12/04/19 01:02 PM
8

If you are "average looking", why would you need plastic surgery? An average face, with a solid Frame and body will score HB7s. My advice is to delete the incel username, create a new reddit username, and never visit the incel forums again. They are crabs in a bucket. EDIT: you are only 16yo. Plenty of time to correct your path going forward.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 09:58 PM
1

Sounds like you are wasting your time with her. Develop some better leads, IMO.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 09:33 PM
2

I've stated it several times, easy access to porn and video games have ruined a generation of men. Instead of learning how to deal with life, they hole up in their parents basement, with easy dopamine access. Why struggle with learning how to interact with real people, when you can jerk off to hundreds of hot porn sluts any time you want? It takes so much work to dig yourself out of that hole. I can understand why some men might just give up. Apathy - That's a killer. You need goals, dedication,…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 09:18 PM
19

Stop approaching HB5-7's. Start approaching 8's and 9's. Otherwise you haven't provided any other useful information.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 08:26 PM
7

Congrats! You've realized that sex is not the most important thing in the world. Now you get to focus on the things you want to do.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 08:23 PM
5

Girls are not looking for ugly incels with no status. Be successful or have a high SMV, or both. I don't need JP to tell me that. If you are a 30yo virgin, the odds are stacked against you. The actual numbers you quotes, I really don't care about them.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 08:08 PM
2

FWIW, when you delete all your history, we lose context.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 07:50 PM
16

Next time do a credit check before you agree to any date.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 07:42 PM
7

I'll answer the question at the bottom. But first, let's look at your real concern. You are afraid that your current plate might have received more sexual pleasure from some bigger cock she fucked in the past, right? And you fear that she will eventually leave you, to seek out some bigger cock for more pleasure in the future. Someone with a strong frame would say "I don't care who she fucked, or how big his cock was. I'm the best man she's ever had." The only thing you are accomplishing is cockb…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 05:33 PM
0

A. "red pilled" typically means an Alpha by way of red pill tactics. B. It possible to be naturally Alpha without knowing or understanding Red Pill. C. Nobody's prefect.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 04:01 PM
9

She's not yours, it's just your turn. She's fucking you now. Don't get hung up on any of her previous partners. Just keep being Alpha and fuck her good. Technique is much more important than cock size. PS - Careful with women controlling the birth control. This is always a risk.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:52 PM
8

Is it even worth telling her not to do that Is your GF stupid? Does she believe that being alone with another man in a dark bedroom is innocent? Sure, then explain to her, and salvage your LTR for a few more months. She's just showing really poor judgement here, and likely will in the future.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:36 PM
9

Not enough information. Did you taste any cum on her lips when you kissed her later? j/k. Yes, this would be a huge red flag. No need to confront her, as she will deny that anything happened. Just start figuring out how to unwind the LTR.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 03:16 PM
7

The real problem, most guys are terrible at building attraction via texting. It's just difficult to do without visible IOIs. Plus, you don't have her undivided attention. She probably has 5+ text convos ongoing, while watching TV and hanging with her girl friends. Sure texting can (and does) work. But it is a learned skill, not memorizing conversation topics or catchy lines.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:46 PM
1

Is that your goal, to be a celebrated incel? Sorry, the world is not fair. We can't fix it. Just learn how to navigate it. (or go back to MGTOW) ​ PS - the greatest scientist of all time, Isaac Newton, was an incel. No excuses.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 01:41 PM
4

Either lower your standards or move.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 08:28 PM
1

Don't let Perfection be the enemy of Good. It's better to be lifting on a good routine instead of not lifting while looking for a better routine.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 12:25 PM
19

Buy him a book, No More Mr Nice Guy. Don't mention the whole Red Pill yet. He isn't ready for it.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 09:18 PM
20

Catch up next week instead. She cancelled, but offered to reschedule. Maybe she has a legitimate issue she needs to take care of. Meanwhile, approach other women. You don't want to get oneitis for a mother of two preschool kids.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 07:28 PM
4

Reminds me of the old joke. A young bull and an old bull are at the top of a hill. There are hundreds of cows grazing below. The young bull says, "Let's run down there and fuck a cow!" The old bull says, "No, let's walk down and fuck them all." ---- Be the old bull.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 07:07 PM
2

331,565 Subscribers 11,153 Bypassing Quarantine Right Now
/r/askTRP09/04/19 06:26 PM
5

Didn't you ask the same question this morning?
/r/askTRP09/04/19 05:56 PM
1

It doesn't matter. Acknowledge the issue briefly, then change subjects. Give her a little humor to make her smile. Say "Yeah that sucks. Sounds like you need a drink. Pour me one while you are up."
/r/askTRP09/04/19 04:56 PM
66

I just checked MyFitnessPal. Posting on Reddit doesn't seem to burn any calories. Guess you'll have to do physical exercise and caloric reduction.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 04:43 PM
16

Right now, your focus should be figuring out how to pay for 18 years of child support. Then you can worry about some future GF.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 04:31 PM
3

Say "Yeah that sucks. Come over here and I'll make your day better." She knows she is a plate, and you are both using each other for sex. Don't do BF type things as that will confuse them.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 04:21 PM
3

Then she asked "Should I bring condoms, or do you have any?". Another shit test?
/r/askTRP09/04/19 03:47 PM
6

Not my cup of tea, but... Most younger plates won't have the resources to support you. Look for a post-wall sugar momma woman. There are websites for seeking these kind of arrangements.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 03:44 PM
2

Wait a few days longer than your last soft-next. I am ready to learn and use TRP on this girl. Not really.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 02:21 PM
2

If he did search, he'd find his own post where he asked the same exact question six days ago.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 09:23 PM
2

Maybe he just happens to be an obese 27 year old virgin and wants to doesn't have the willpower to do something about it
/r/askTRP08/04/19 09:22 PM
1

NoFap tends to work, as most boys are cutting out the porn at the same time. Mewing? IDK, never tried it.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 08:10 PM
11

Don't overthink it. Hang out with people. Hang out more with the people you enjoy hanging with.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 08:05 PM
11

So how have you changed?
/r/askTRP08/04/19 07:26 PM
4

PHAT, PHUL, PPL, nSuns 5-day are all good programs. But the best program is the one you can do consistently.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 07:23 PM
15

Stop fucking around. Get yourself on a caloric deficit. Weigh and track everything you put into your fat mouth. At 5 feet 7 inches and 247 pounds, you can safely lose 2 lbs a week.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 07:19 PM
1

I prefer my post-coitus bliss.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 07:00 PM
15

Look in the sidebar for Glossary of Terms and Acronyms
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 06:47 PM
7

TRP is agnostic when it comes to Morality. Basically if a woman is willing to cheat on her BF, she's going to cheat. You are not forcing her to do anything she wasn't already willing to do.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 06:45 PM
8

See your doctor, and ask for a referral to a physiatrist. TRP isn't equipped to handle deep depression.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 03:30 PM
2

You don't need to follow any specific Organized Religion. Live your life by your own moral code. Pick and choose elements from existing religions. ​
/r/askTRP08/04/19 02:24 PM
1

If I worked out more That's what the men in the 80% say.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 02:10 PM
1

The only men complaining about this are the men in the 80%.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 02:06 PM
9

Suck it up buttercup. You are getting free room, board & tuition. Live by their rules until you can graduate and move out.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 01:30 PM
43

Same GF that you complained about watching porn 5 days ago? Something isn't adding up here. r / NoFap/comments/b8sykn/girlfriend_watching_porn_and_lying_about_it/ ​ ​
/r/askTRP08/04/19 12:38 PM
2

You should ask your female therapist why she thinks you are beta.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 12:32 PM
3

Did you buy some more Lotto tickets to enable your fantasy again? All you are doing is living in your mind. You can accomplish much more if you try.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 12:16 PM
34

Let's get you over your fear. Start approaching everyone, women, men, old, young. Approach without any sexual intent. Have a short 30 second conversation, leaving a positive impression in their mind. Probably take a hundred approaches, which you can do in a week. There's no risk, no consequences for you, even if you screw up. ​
/r/askTRP08/04/19 12:13 PM
18

This sounds autistic. Do you really need to ask this question?
/r/askTRP06/04/19 01:12 PM
3

Two things: Most commercial gyms today are pathetic. 200+ cardio machines versus 2 squat racks. Most people won't lift consistently for 2 months, let alone for 2 years.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 12:26 PM
5

WTF? I'd never do math to see if a woman was fuckable.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 07:44 PM
9

I answered the question he should have asked.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 07:31 PM
13

The most important "target" is to continually improve. Everything is great if you are adding weight every session or two. IMO, you can call yourself strong when you can do 1RM 2plates/3plates/4plates, placing you in the top ~30% of all lifters. That means: Bench 225 (2 plates on each side) Squat 315 (3 plates on each side) Deadlift 405 (4 plates on each side) This is obtainable by most men with two solid years of strength training. ​
/r/askTRP05/04/19 06:24 PM
3

SL5x5 is a beginner program. Assuming you are not a beginner, you probably want to look at more intermediate programs like: nSuns LP or PHUL (Power Hypertrophy Upper Lower)
/r/askTRP05/04/19 04:26 PM
267

What are you bringing to the table? You barely lift Aspergers & Incel 5.0 truerateme "very weak frame" - your words "cripplingly terrified of women" - your words Why would an HB7+ even give you a second look? No Frame, no Game, no Looks, no Body, no Social Status. While you might be a 5.0 for looks, everything else lowers your SMV to a 3-4. In other words, that "too ugly HB4" might be the best you can currently do. ​ Apparently you've been lifting off and on for 2 years? In you last 7 months of …
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:28 PM
3

Perfect! You nailed it.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:38 PM
3

PM her number. I'll take care of this.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:03 PM
8

Video games and online porn allowed boys to get all the dopamine they wanted, without ever learning how to interact with the opposite sex.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:54 PM
5

​ Septic Tank Technician Animal Castrator Pig Slop Processor Or maybe find something in a field where you have interests.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:01 PM
3

Yes, meet the friends of your LTR, and do some commitment things. That's why you are in an LTR. You still need to maintain a semi-separate life. Have common friends, yet also keep your own circle of friends. Do things without her a couple night a week. Sleep in your own bed (without her) several nights a week.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:57 PM
6

Is this the girl from 3 months ago that said she was pregnant with your child?
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:49 PM
45

Call suicide prevention or speak with your doctor. You need better help than can be provided here.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:42 PM
11

2 Months ago, you posted: What the point of lifting if you have a thin frame? If you have a thin frame then it’s pointless lifting because you’ll just look slightly more muscular but will never look very big? My advice is for you to go MGTOW. It's much easier.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 05:35 PM
1

Are you trying to bulk up, lose weight, or maintain?
/r/askTRP04/04/19 04:37 PM
1

lollol
/r/askTRP04/04/19 04:25 PM
9

No can do for tonight as I'm working pretty late. Do you want me to pick the night for you, or can you handle it?
/r/askTRP04/04/19 04:21 PM
2

Why, are you planning to date some boys? /s Look, you have to play the cards that are dealt to you. Every person has to deal with their vices and issues. Maybe your personal circumstances require you to work a little harder it. Don't let it be an excuse for failure. IMO, drugs and alcohol don't fix anything. ​
/r/askTRP04/04/19 04:12 PM
3

However I see it as a possibility of getting into an LTR with her. Is there anything wrong with my mindset there/how to look at it in a better way? She's telling you she doesn't want to be exclusive. Yet, you are already considering her as a LTR possibility, after three dates. Let the woman earn the right to ask you for exclusivity. The onus should be in her to prove her worthiness. ​ ​
/r/askTRP04/04/19 04:06 PM
2

Invite her over tonight. For food, Netflix, Mario Kart, or whatever. She will know what is going on. If she refuses, then next her. ​ No matter that you decide to do with this one girl, you need abundance, more options. Then these problems you are having go away. ​ ​
/r/askTRP04/04/19 03:54 PM
1

So either use the time to approach women or play video games.... ​
/r/askTRP03/04/19 07:31 PM
6

Shit test #1 - do you even Google?
/r/askTRP03/04/19 05:00 PM
3

The thing is, we are not scientists. We are not measuring the oxytocin released during "painful sex". Consider yourself a trailblazer. Maybe your discover some new theories on pair-bonding. ​ ​
/r/askTRP03/04/19 04:32 PM
5

You are fucking for 45 minutes, 5-6 times per week. Yet it seems your only goal is to "pairbond". Do you even enjoy the sex part? ​ ​ ​ ​
/r/askTRP03/04/19 03:25 PM
1

Try r / redpillbooks/comments/3rk5zk/the_red_pill_mega_book_collection_v20
/r/askTRP03/04/19 01:13 PM
1

Women are experts at reading body language and other non-verbal forms of communication. They can smell weakness and fear. For women, Frame and Game are just as important as your looks and body.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 08:37 PM
4

If there were only a billion other girls you could win with...
/r/askTRP02/04/19 08:30 PM
1

Are you happy and fun with the women in your class? Or do you still hate them, "after learning the true nature of women"? You are probably still in the anger phase. Angry = unattractive. Women easily pick up on that shit.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 08:25 PM
6

Why do you care what one women says?
/r/askTRP02/04/19 06:42 PM
-7

Movies do not present useful examples of typical human behaviour. They are designed to entertain the audience. There's plenty of non-fiction books you can read to learn more about Frame. ​
/r/askMRP02/04/19 03:07 PM
1

You are slowly going down the drain and don't realize it That was my impression as well. ​
/r/askTRP02/04/19 02:11 PM
1

So arrange a meetup with her after class, or some other evening. Isolate her to a spot where you can escalate. Invite her to listen to music or watch TV in your room.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 01:20 PM
2

A week ago my boss had a go at me being unprofessional and 16 days ago I have developed oneitis for my boss who is 15 years older than me. Maybe the two are related? Look, you have to keep it professional in the workplace. Maybe you can repair things here. Keep your head down and mouth shut for a couple months. ​
/r/askTRP02/04/19 12:58 PM
1

Its a pattern.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 12:37 PM
12

You are prone to violence against women. This isn't the first time you posted such a story. You have BPD and self-treat with Xanax, alcohol, & pot. You've said " Some days it's fine some other days I break down into paranoiac crisis and anger, sudden mood change. " You saw a physiatrist, then ignored his advice and the SSRI prescription. Are you holding steady or getting worse? IMO, you need to focus more on yourself. ​ ​
/r/askTRP02/04/19 12:36 PM
3

There is plenty of room to be unique. You have to learn how to turn a negative into a positive. For example, host a cigar and scotch tasting monthly, and build your social circle. ​
/r/askTRP01/04/19 07:08 PM
0

I'd hire a fee-only professional money manager. We'd come up with a safe withdrawal rate to live on without ever depleting the next egg.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 07:01 PM
8

Sell your positives, minimize or leave out your negatives. She's doing the same exact thing.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 06:59 PM
7

Part of being a great employee is learning how to work well with others, even your boss. This lady won't be the last bad boss/coworker. A valuable employee creates value with their own work, and doesn't rock the boat with coworkers. Start with the sidebar article: "CorporateLand: Rat race survival guide." Leave your world-view at the front door. This is a job, not a political rally. ​
/r/askTRP01/04/19 06:01 PM
1

own place = more expensive, more work required to pay for it.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 05:45 PM
2

Strike now, while the iron is hot. Ask her to meet up with you at a place 5-10 minutes from your house. Have a drink or two, keep up the rapport, and do some kino. She'll be ready for your place in an hour or two.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 05:37 PM
2

Context? Have you seen her in person? Have you been on a date? Are you already fucking her?
/r/askTRP01/04/19 05:20 PM
5

You could learn a lot more over at r\RPChristians ​
/r/askTRP01/04/19 05:19 PM
5

Approach more women.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 04:56 PM
4

Getting your own place doesn’t solve anything. You’d be cash strapped and have even less time to game girls. Plus plenty of sex happens in dorms.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 04:49 PM
1

If he is into you, he will respond quickly
/r/askTRP01/04/19 04:46 PM
1

QQ some more
/r/askTRP01/04/19 04:21 PM
0

thomas-sioutis, Here's what you posted 3 hours ago (then deleted). How to increase SMV? (self.asktrp) submitted 3 hours ago by thomas-sioutis to asktrp I've been lifting , dressing better and having a good career . My face is also nice . Yet I still don't get girls. What are some other areas of SMV I need to increase? Also why do Dark Triad men get women? Is there a way to become more dark triad? Thanks.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 04:18 PM
1

I gave you the answer, AWALT
/r/askTRP01/04/19 04:02 PM
1

AWALT Quit posting your stupid questions, then deleting them later. ​
/r/askTRP01/04/19 04:00 PM
1

Who is Todd? We are not mind readers.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 12:59 PM
1

You should be gaming chicks around your own SMV. If you are a SEVEN, just game girls in that range (6-7-8). No need to go lower. ​
/r/askTRP01/04/19 12:52 PM
6

You are 18 years old, dropped out of college after one semester. Now you want to be a personal trainer. Now you are fantasizing about being extremely high value, and want to get married by 25. Right now, all you have is a pipe dream. Good luck. ​
/r/askTRP31/03/19 12:56 PM
16

We've learned that some people will overanalyze the tiniest nuances of TRD in order to delay actually approaching women.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 08:34 PM
12

Don't shit where you eat. That means no sexual relations with anyone at your place of employment.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 08:31 PM
7

Women are more emotional, and tend towards careers that are artistic, creative or nurturing. ​ ​
/r/askTRP29/03/19 08:24 PM
2

There is only one way to find out.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 06:15 PM
1

50-55 ​
/r/askTRP29/03/19 06:14 PM
3

You should stay home Friday night and read the sidebar. Google for a gym nearby your house. ​
/r/askTRP29/03/19 06:00 PM
5

Then keep her blocked and text the mom. Or don't reply at all. Don't overthink something so simple.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 04:51 PM
2

No examples from fiction... lol
/r/askTRP29/03/19 04:49 PM
2

Are you trolling now? Per your post earlier today from PPD.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 04:46 PM
3

I don't see the issue. Just say "wasn't me".
/r/askTRP29/03/19 04:25 PM
9

You have to learn how to succeed despite the autism. You have to practise at the social situations to get better. One thing you can do is date down. A 4-5 will be more willing to deal with your autism, if you are truly an 8. Use her as leverage in improving your social circle and confidence. As you improve, you will be able to date higher.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 04:21 PM
11

See other women, get some abundance. Keep her plated if you want. But she is not GF material.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 04:04 PM
15

You don't need other people to tell you who you should find attractive. If your sweet spot is 20, then go for it. Everyone can have different preferences.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 02:08 PM
25

Look, it has been explained to you about 8 times today (including your other thread), your definition of SMV is not women's definition of SMV. the loud mouthed jerk that enters the group in a house party despite not being the host and definitely not the most attractive , manages to draw all of the attention to him and the women as well. You see: jerk, not attractive = low SMV Women see: Confidence, Frame, Leader = high SMV ​
/r/askTRP29/03/19 02:05 PM
3

Meet people. Join clubs and activities. Talk to people everywhere you go.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 01:54 PM
15

You already gave the criteria They are relaxed, having the strongest frame in the group,leading the conversation and taking the decisions, calling people on their bullshit and generally being the leader. ​
/r/askTRP29/03/19 01:51 PM
58

"always" is too strong of a word. But yes, women tend to be attracted to alpha males. the women in these settings will show IOIs to the group leaders, despite his SMV. For women, SMV includes alphaness, confidence, frame, and leadership. So while you think some ugly alpha has a low SMV, women will rate him much higher.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 01:50 PM
7

What makes you think I am a bot?
/r/askTRP28/03/19 07:23 PM
16

Delete Tinder. Go out and meet real people.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 07:20 PM
21

73.9% more pleasure.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 06:59 PM
33

She already nexted you. Don't waste any more time or thought on this chick.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 04:05 PM
14

She's dumped you twice already. Get over her. ​ Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 03:53 PM
5

Are you seriously asking on a public forum for a list of high paying crimes?
/r/askTRP28/03/19 03:09 PM
25

Don't overthink this. This is the true nature of women.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 03:06 PM
5

Google "deadliest catch jobs". ​
/r/askTRP28/03/19 01:02 PM
-1

Follow her around secretly, and wait for her to pull her phone out. Then pop in and say "Great, you got a phone just so I can call you. Give me your number" Win-win-win.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 12:39 PM
1

Give her a specific time, date, and place., that's not needy. Don't wait, sounds like the trail is already getting cold. ​
/r/askTRP28/03/19 12:36 PM
1

RedPill isn't for everyone. Some guys find it easier to live a BP life. Sounds like you are scared to fully go RedPill.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 12:06 PM
16

Legal or illegal? If you can land a spot on a crab boat, $10k a month as a greenhorn. Dunno if the TV show publicity has made this a hard job to get.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 10:49 PM
4

You've already fucked up by cohabitating with her. In general, you should only set boundaries you are willing to enforce. This issue now is that you set a boundary, and she is crossing that boundary. You have to decide either to look weak and cancel this boundary, or be strong and dump her. That's your choice. ​ ​ ​
/r/askTRP27/03/19 10:20 PM
1

One can improve status and learn game (otherwise this sub is pointless). Right, but you don't have to make a choice between improving one or the other. Both can be improved. OP seems to want to know which one he should choose to improve (I'm still confused by his question).
/r/askTRP27/03/19 10:09 PM
2

There's Status, Game, and Looks, the three legged SMV stool. Any one of these can pull a chick. A well balanced stool with all three can pull excessively. I think you are asking "Which leg of the stool creates more attraction?" It depends on the girl, the location, the circumstances, etc. And as I said before, you can't change your stool overnight. Work your strengths. If you have Game, isolate early and do your magic. If you have Status, make sure everyone around you is having a good time. Be t…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 10:06 PM
2

Keep them coming. I haven't eaten well in a few days.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 09:50 PM
4

Men lead and initiate. Women expect that. Don't wait for the woman to set the next meetup.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 08:51 PM
10

Alpha/Beta is a spectrum. VERY few people are 100% alpha or 100% beta. And then I know a guy who is Alpha as fuck around the other guys, but beta all the way with his girl. You can't really give a good answer. ​ ​
/r/askTRP27/03/19 08:34 PM
5

You play the cards you have been dealt. If you have status, use it. If you have a good feelz game, use it. If you have both, use both. Otherwise, I'm not sure what you are asking. You don't typically get to make a life choice between status and game.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 08:28 PM
1

You are an incel. One more chance, would you rather: A. Learn how to not be an incel. B. Learn why porn has big dicks. ​
/r/askTRP27/03/19 08:21 PM
2

We are here to help you solve your problem. Porn is your problem. The size of the dicks in porn is not your problem. You think your dick is too small because you keep watching these big dicks in porn. Ask a real question, and you'll get a dozen quality answers.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 08:10 PM
13

It's a shit test. You don't answer with a real answer. "I'd cheat if we played Monopoly, Pass GO, collect $800" "Only if you gave me a reason to"
/r/askTRP27/03/19 07:47 PM
4

I would plate her for six months. What do you want with her?
/r/askTRP27/03/19 07:42 PM
1

I asked why men have a fetish for seeing men with bigger penises Why don't you ask them men who have this fetish? Look, if you were not so obsessed with porn, you might have lost your virginity years ago.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 07:38 PM
1

TRP is against porn. You know that. If you want to know what other men think, try r\porn or some other porn-positive sub. ​
/r/askTRP27/03/19 06:50 PM
4

Millions of men worldwide approach women daily, without their heads exploding. You are not a special snowflake. The world doesn't revolve around you.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:15 PM
2

If you make a stronger emotional connection during that first approach, you can reduce flakes. A higher SMV also helps. That said, flakes are part of the numbers game, just approach more girls.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:59 PM
1

To turn this relationship sexual, you have to negate 15 years of the friendzone. That's a lot more work than acquiring a new plate. So why plate her instead of some new girl? Maybe just have an open conversation with her about it? ​
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:52 PM
5

So you told her you have no other plans Fri-Sat-Sun. That's not projecting abundance. She's trying to make other plans with other guys. Now she has you as a backup plan, knowing you'll buy her dinner & movies. Without an alternative date from her, she's just not that interested in you. Of course she will keep texting you, to keep you around as an orbiter. ​
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:39 PM
1

So she has you in the friend zone for 15 years? IMO, you should look elsewhere. ​
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:31 PM
2

For someone who has given up porn, you sure ask a lot of questions about it. ​ Posted byu/slimjimjohncock 8 days ago - Can one be alpha and still watch porn or is it impossible to watch porn moderately and be alpha? Posted byu/slimjimjohncock 1 month ago - Are there any positives of porn? ​ ​ ​
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:18 PM
12

She just didn't want to be rude to you. Do you think she'd lose Chad's number?
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:08 PM
19

What advice would you give to your 18 year old self? I should have escalated with Wendy. Buy AAPL. Skip that house party in late May. Don't spend so much time playing video games ​ ​
/r/askTRP27/03/19 02:57 PM
1

If you want to go/not go to the wedding, decide for yourself. Don't let FWB pressure you into doing something you don't want to do. It's not like you are BF/GF. ​
/r/askTRP27/03/19 02:26 PM
15

She probably has a BBM on the side, pounding her with 8 inches. That's what is making her sore. /s Look, not everything is a shit test. You are fucking her good, but her body can't keep up with that. 45 minute sex and 10 orgasms puts a hurting on a woman's equipment.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 01:58 PM
2

Do what you want to do. But here is a warning. Men help these type of women get their life back in order. She'll see this man as a beta, a provider that took care of her. And she'll shortly be off to another Alpha soon enough.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 01:45 PM
3

Captain SaveAHoe! ​
/r/askTRP27/03/19 01:03 PM
8

Mass gaining? You have to eat a surplus of calories to put on mass. Lifting heavy weights then puts most of those surplus calories into building muscles. Just to restate, DIET is very important to building muscles. I'd strongly recommend a full body routine, like SL5x5, for 3+ months. Once you start plateauing, switch to a more advanced routine. ​ ​
/r/askTRP27/03/19 01:00 PM
3

Stop watching porn. Then it doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 12:54 PM
1

How do you know her channel isn't just fiction? ​
/r/askTRP27/03/19 12:11 PM
3

She's not yours, it was just your turn.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 12:04 PM
1

Don't put so much thought into it. If she shows up, great. If she wasn't really into you, and flakes, then find something else fun to do.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 08:39 PM
6

Sure, be an asshole. And she might "remember" that you raped her, and press charges. Or you might find your car trashed in the morning. "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned."
/r/askTRP26/03/19 08:26 PM
6

You can't "teach her a lesson". She'll just think you are some asshole. She'll never even comprehend that it was her fault.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 08:06 PM
7

Forget this chick and your money. Move on with your life. You should have better things to focus on.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 07:47 PM
10

Tell her you are out to the pub. Move to another country, change your phone number.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 07:28 PM
2

It depends. 10 would be high for a 16yo. Yet 10 would be average for a 28yo. That said, don't put so much emphasis on n-count. She gonna lie about it, so you'll never get the true count.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 05:00 PM
1

Just because a bunch of incels post their ideas here, it doesn't magically become official TRP advice. Pay attention to the endorsed posters and the sidebar. Don't use incel logic to find flaws in TRP. You asked basically the same question three months ago. N count while vetting a potential LTR. You are just mentally masturbating again. The real answer would be to date both girls, vet them for a couple months. If there were true red flags, you should be able to notice them before commiting to an…
/r/askTRP26/03/19 04:49 PM
7

6 is more than most men will have in their entire lives. I suspect he could have a higher number if he just approached more than an hour per week.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 03:21 PM
7

He had sex with 6 different women in 2018. That puts him in the top 10% of all men. An approach takes 5-15 minutes. So about an hour per week on average. How many hours have you played Assassin Creed, or some other video game? ​
/r/askTRP26/03/19 03:14 PM
1

How many girls did you approach last week?
/r/askTRP26/03/19 03:03 PM
5

Someone posted their stats for 2018. He was an incel in 2015. 200 approaches 50 numbers (25%) 30 dates (15%) 25 k-close (12%) 6 f-close (3%) This is what happens with you hit the gym, and approach.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 03:02 PM
2

If you are way worse, then you are likely doing something wrong. ​
/r/askTRP26/03/19 02:16 PM
3

Or do you think this problem can be solved? After 2.5 years, no. Don't invest any more of your time in this.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 12:24 PM
3

It will vary depending on your SMV, SMV of the targets, your game, luck, etc. You might be as low as 5-1 or as high as 50-1. ​
/r/askTRP26/03/19 12:19 PM
10

Get an Under Mattress Restraint Kit, no bed posts needed. You are looking for Of Human Bondage – Uncle Vasya’s Guide for Men Who Like To Tie Up Young Ladies. ​ ​
/r/askTRP25/03/19 10:14 PM
3

Next time, don't buy women free food, then you won't get used.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 07:20 PM
5

Who cares? This isn't TMZ.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 07:17 PM
2

Most of us stopped living with our parents/family members.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 07:15 PM
2

Guarantee results? Haha, never. TRP just gives you the tools that allow you to be better than 90% of men you are competing against. You have to still put in the work. And you still will fail, just not as often as before. ​
/r/askTRP25/03/19 07:13 PM
28

You failed her confort tests. You can't just shit all over an LTR. You have to treat them right.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 06:14 PM
0

How do I get past a girl not texting me back This is the perfect example of why you should text for logistics only. You texted too much and screwed it up. ​ ​
/r/askTRP25/03/19 04:06 PM
7

Technique is more important than size and looks. That said, orgasams are 80% mental, 20% physical.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 04:02 PM
1

Opposites attract, no?
/r/askTRP24/03/19 09:23 PM
2

Some men are already in an LTR when they discover TRP. Some men are tired of spinning plates, and are looking for something more than sex. Other men are still living the BP fantasy, and think TRP will help them get an LTR with their Oneitis or ex-gf. ​ ​
/r/askTRP24/03/19 09:19 PM
5

Great story bro
/r/askTRP24/03/19 08:47 PM
8

Sure, plenty of betas can end up with a great woman. It's just not an optimal strategy. ​
/r/askTRP24/03/19 07:32 PM
2

Then don't give a real answer. If your country is Iraq, tell them you are from the Middle East. Maybe your grandmother "might" be of Kuwait decent. So tell them you are part Kuwait.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 04:33 PM
4

So if your country of origin is so bad that girls are repulsed by the mention of it. stop mentioning it.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 04:20 PM
9

FYI, when you delete your posts after you get an answer, it's not there for anyone else to learn from.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 04:16 PM
2

Absolutely. Best girl for an LTR is "missionary-only" and no BJs. I'll take one for the team and plate these "crazy in bed girls" so they don't get in your way. ​
/r/askTRP22/03/19 08:40 PM
2

While I agree with you that incels are toxic and shouldn't be related to TRP, it's going to be difficult to change the current definition of Manosphere.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 08:30 PM
2

Depends on your definition of Manosphere. The RationalWiki says it "includes the incelosphere, men's rights and many pick-up artist blogs, as well as some bodybuilding and men’s fashion blogs "
/r/askTRP22/03/19 08:18 PM
1

Nobody has a perfect life. Plus you can't go back and relive the past. You can always make your situation better, no matter your age. The whole question just stinks. ​
/r/askTRP22/03/19 06:45 PM
3

Sleep on the couch, spend as much time as possible away from the apartment. Block her on your phone if you have to.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 06:29 PM
3

Do you have a new place lined up? See if you can move in a few days yearly. Go sleep at a plate's place for two weeks. ​
/r/askTRP22/03/19 05:52 PM
7

Is this the woman you posted about on AskTRP? Posted by whatifitsfun 5 months ago How many red flags am I not seeing? Should I believe her? Terrible. ​ ​ ​ ​
/r/askMRP22/03/19 05:24 PM
7

What part of her reply do you not understand? She's telling you that she's on the rag, so no PIV. But she will still go out on a date tonight. However, if it's just sex, fine with her, just ask her in a few days. ​
/r/askTRP22/03/19 05:11 PM
2

ZestycloseOne is a woman trolling TRP here. Careful with this one. ​
/r/askTRP22/03/19 05:02 PM
3

That's always a risk. Or she could meet a local Chad and branch swing while OP thinks they are exclusive. No guarantees. ​ ​
/r/askTRP22/03/19 02:01 PM
2

Iron Rule of Tomassi # 2 NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 01:53 PM
1

Yeah, he deleted his account.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 12:36 PM
3

Advice is "Read the Sidebar". ​
/r/askTRP22/03/19 12:30 PM
6

Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 12:23 PM
1

80% of men ignored by 100% of women. Yes, I disagree with that statement. More accurately, 20% of the men have 80% of the sex. The other 80% of the men take from the 20% of scraps left over. ​
/r/askTRP21/03/19 09:35 PM
95

we see each other about one week a month You know exclusive LDRs don't work. IMO, hold steady with the side plates until she moves to you in December. Then revaluate.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 09:16 PM
4

"What would you do if I said no" I would have asked Cindy, or Susan... ​
/r/askTRP21/03/19 07:08 PM
4

Get your meds changes. These are not working
/r/askTRP21/03/19 06:53 PM
1

Look, you've posted several of these type posts in the past few weeks, always deleting them later. Nothing we reply with is helping you. You probably need to be on an SSRI.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 06:37 PM
2

See a doctor or other mental health professional
/r/askTRP21/03/19 06:17 PM
11

No. If she asks, tell her what you are doing to resolve the issue. PS - I hope to are not gambling (per your post history). ​
/r/askTRP21/03/19 04:22 PM
2

Nope
/r/askTRP21/03/19 03:48 PM
3

Yes, a girl with those qualities could have 15+ partners. If she likes to clean and cook for her man, having more partners doesn't make her stop cleaning and cooking. Girls can have many flings or Tinder hookups just to satisfy their sexual desires. Yet they can treat an LTR completely different. ​
/r/askTRP21/03/19 03:44 PM
6

Submissive, cleans, cooks, sex on demand, treats me like a king, super clingy, cums 3-5 times from piv Yet you still want to go digging into her past. SMH ​ ​
/r/askTRP21/03/19 03:15 PM
1

You posted about lifting a year ago, did you stop? The absolute best time to lift is during your bulk. Do cardio after the lifting, not on your off days. You need the 48 hours for recovery. HIIT is better than steady state cardio for nearly every purpose. HIIT will burn more fat.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 01:52 PM
1

I'm firmly aware that the red pill ideology is beneficial to all men I'm not convinced. For some men, the change is too much, and they end up in some broken middle-ground state. Others just would rather live in ignorance, and not look behind the curtains. In the movie that we have taken our name from, Cypher wanted to re-enter the Matrix permanently but he also wants to return to a state of blissful ignorance as a "blue-pill". You can also visit \r\exredpill and see all the broken men. In most c…
/r/askTRP21/03/19 01:43 PM
1

Can you explain how he kept pair bonding with them, yet none of them pair bonded back? And how is he "pair bonding" when as soon as he has sex with the next girl, he forgets about the previous girl? ​ ​
/r/askTRP21/03/19 12:36 PM
2

Will you marry her as a virgin, or will you have sex with her before marriage? The divorce rate for n=1 jumps 4x.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 12:27 PM
2

From Wikipedia: The term "Hail Mary pass" has become generalized to refer to any last-ditch effort with little chance of success.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 10:54 PM
2

You blew it. She's lost interest after meeting you. Maybe she wanted you to escalate, who knows? Wait a week and throw a hail mary text to her.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 10:50 PM
2

Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 07:42 PM
6

You've been posting a sad tale about your "career" here for over a year. Look, the problem is you. With your attitude, you won't be able to hold down any job for more than 3 months. You are wasting your life. Figure out what your problems are. Drugs? Alcohol? Porn? ​ ​
/r/askTRP20/03/19 03:25 PM
1

My goal (which worked for me) was to become normal, not introvert or extrovert. Seriously, Google has way more information on this that I can fit in this text field. Like learning any new skill, at first you have to consciously force yourself to do something. After repetition, it becomes second nature. ​
/r/askTRP20/03/19 03:16 PM
3

Either: She's crazy and made the whole thing up Someone told her ​
/r/askTRP20/03/19 03:10 PM
25

Mentally, you are not in the right place to spin plates. You seem to get attached to anyone you have sex with. Maybe you are better suited for a LTR.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:38 PM
4

Wear a condom, especially with Tinder sluts.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:25 PM
3

You are likely an introvert. You need to move towards being an extrovert. No need to be full blown extrovert, just middle of the road. ​ The mods won't let me link any specific articles, so google "introvert to extrovert". An example: The key to change is to make a specific plan to change specific behaviors. Don’t just say you’re going to be “more outgoing and sociable.” Instead, decide that on this particular day, you will make the effort to initiate an interaction with someone else whom you do…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:23 PM
12

Single moms still want sex, want to feel like a woman, instead of a mom. Maybe she just wants some casual sex for a while? Don't decide for her. Iron Rule of Tomassi #8 Always let a woman figure out why she wont ƒuck you, never do it for her.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:17 PM
1

You are likely referring to the "Institute for Family Studies" report. The 5 year divorce rates given: n=0 - 5% n=1 - 21% n=2 - 29% n=3 - 26% n=4-5 - 24% So yes, if your wife is a virgin when you marry her, there is very low chance for divorce in the first year. However, if you have sex with your virgin before marriage (n=1), the rate jumps from 5% to 21%. So if your goal is to optimize a marriage without divorce, find a virgin, marry her, then have sex with her. TRP, being a sexual strategy sub…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 12:47 PM
4

Going straight for the kiss is a leap of faith. Start with sexualizing the conversation. Light kino, touch her arm, shoulder, brush a hair from her cheek. If she responds positively, then go for the kiss. If she pulls away from your touch, then she's not into you. Google Indicators of interest.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:38 PM
1

2 per year from age 16 seems like a normal healthy amount. If she dates someone for a couple months, starts having sex, dates them a couple more months, then breaks up, that would be completely normal. If she does this twice a year, again, perfectly normal. She's not having sex impulsively, screening her boyfriends for months before putting out. No casual hookups or ONS. So that puts us at N=6 for an 18yo and N=10 for a 20yo, both well in the normal range, IMO. 4 @ 18yo seems to bother you. Is a…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:13 PM
27

Basically MONEY = POWER = CONFIDENCE. When you are happy with your career, that happiness flows into other parts of your life. You are a chump if you spend money on girls, buying them flowers, gifts, taking them to expensive restaurants.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:54 PM
3

Text for logistics only. You didn't listen and wasted countless hours in exchange for a couple of nudes. ​ ​
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:45 PM
2

Months of therapy from a professional might resolve this for her. Not a project I would undertake.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:39 PM
3

You are just deleting this post in a day too, right?
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:36 PM
1

Based on the comments here in this thread, do you think Girl A is a hoe now?
/r/askTRP19/03/19 07:04 PM
1

good sex isn't and never was really important to me versus but she isn't good at sex... So no she isn't good at sex. You don't even think logically. You disqualify A because she isn't good at sex. Yet you claim good sex isn't important. You already decided who you want, and just want us to agree with you. ​
/r/askTRP19/03/19 06:20 PM
15

I've seen a lot of women that want to have a child before 30. So that implies getting married 27-28 or so. And they will start looking at 25-26. It's not always true, just a good guideline.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 04:37 PM
21

MrBigBolls, Last month you said "currently plating 5 very hot girls." Now you have been "seeing this chick exclusively for a couple months." Stories are not adding up. ​ ​
/r/askTRP19/03/19 04:32 PM
1

Maybe not beta, but you are definitely not Red Pill material.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 04:08 PM
1

If you've already decided that, then why post this question in the first place? Again, you keep looking for validation.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:56 PM
1

Look, if you just want to be a Beta, and have a relationship with a girl, then good for you. Obviously you put some significant value on the virgin. So go have your LTR with the virgin. ​ ​
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:53 PM
2

So? Look, you asked what I would do. I've told you. Now you keep trying to change my mind. It's as if you want to choose the virgin, but you need us to validate your choice.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:46 PM
2

You've added some more info: Girl A: is bad at sex. Girl B: virgin, wants to wait for sex. I'd choose neither. I'm not going to be tied down with Girl A that sucks at sex. And I'm not going to be tied down to Girl B that hasn't put out for me yet (she might be worse at sex than Girl A). You are 21yo. The "Red Pill" strategy is to start working on other options, not deciding between these two flawed girls. ​ ​
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:43 PM
3

I don't put any extra value on a virgin. An n-count of 3-4 guys isn't a negative. So I'd choose the "nice and never stressed" girl. ​ ​
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:18 PM
8

Your whole question is backwards. Women ask for the LTR, you are the gatekeeper to a relationship. You should be dating (and fucking) A & B, before there is any talk of LTR. Therefore neither girl will be a virgin before you choose your LTR. ​
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:43 PM
8

Alpha vs Beta isn't black and white. It's more like a gradient. You can be some Alpha, with Beta Tendencies. As you work on it, you'll become more Alpha. And there will be backslides, where you become more Beta. ​
/r/askTRP19/03/19 01:54 PM
6

If you have to ask, you are not too high value.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 01:48 PM
13

RAW feels much better. She's changed because she trusts you enough to go raw. While there is some truth behind pair bonding, it's just a minor effect. AWALT, she'll still leave you if you start acting stupid. Iron Rule of Tomassi #5 NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:45 PM
1

It's lame to ask for/send nudes. If she wants to see something, tell her to come over and you will show her.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:34 PM
1

"Pair bonding" is not essential. It's barely mentioned in the TRP sidebar. It's more of a Incel theory. Yes, there is some truth behind Pair Bonding. But it's just a minor effect. Not enough to worry about. Pair Bonding doesn't keep your GF from branch swinging to Chad.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:30 PM
1

Specific to a gym schedule, I had to try a few different schedules to find something that worked. Morning didn't work for me. Instead I workout as soon as I get home from work. Motivation - that's the hardest thing to conqueror. In the end, you can only be motivated for yourself. Getting pussy, LTR, etc are all poor reasons to be motivated, as they all come and go. If you lift to get pussy, then you are likely to stop lifting once you get pussy. Same with diet. I'm sure most guys put on 10-15 lb…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 10:08 PM
25

Prioritize: quitting porn - The effects of daily porn can take months (or years) to go away. lifting weights - Strength gives confidence getting finances in order - money issues causes stress ​ EDIT: added reasons
/r/askTRP18/03/19 08:05 PM
4

Start with the sidebar and hit the gym. The sidebar includes articles on How to Open, Day Game, IOIs, etc.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 07:57 PM
1

Feminism = the advocacy of women's rights TRP is just a tool set. We're not trying to change the world. Just see the world for how it really is, and make your choices.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 07:53 PM
8

Is 5x5 and cardio enough for me to cut some serious body fat? Losing fat is 80% diet, 20% workout. (maybe 90%/10%). You won't lose weight without a caloric deficit. ​
/r/askTRP18/03/19 07:07 PM
1

You just screwed yourself. Take another Xanax. ​
/r/askTRP18/03/19 06:30 PM
6

True Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 05:48 PM
1

Is there anything actionable?
/r/askTRP18/03/19 04:36 PM
-1

How to stop caring about what others think? First, don't ask Reddit what we think.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 04:23 PM
2

OMG, get your head out of your ass. She's been your LTR for six months, plus time as a plate. That's all that matters. Or maybe, she is a size queen? Maybe she pair-bonded with her old BF, who was hung like a horse? Could she still be seeing him on the side? Have you checked her phone? Have you searched for a burner phone? Maybe hire a PI to follow her? Is she just using you? Is she stealing the coins from your change jar? Count them before and after she comes over. What if she is an alien repti…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 03:34 PM
2

They fuck the alphas and marry the betas. EDIT: The Alphas are not spreading their seed. No one wants to be stuck with child support for 18 years.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 02:49 PM
5

Don't put "your first time" on some pedestal. It's sex, part of nature, nothing magical about it. Just do it.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 01:54 PM
2

Is this a shit test? No, this is a Stupid Test. You worry about her being a size queen, yet you just made her cum 10x. The only thing broken here is your brain, you are overthinking everything.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 01:33 PM
1

One of the biggest turnoffs possible for me ... Not sure what to do here. You don't like it, so don't see this chick. Instead, your real question is "Am I wrong for being turned off by nipple piercings?" You are asking us to validate your desires. No matter what we say, the first time you see her boobs, you will go flaccid and lose all desire. ​ ​ ​ ​
/r/askTRP18/03/19 01:11 PM
9

Nothing wrong with an LTR with the right woman. I usually see her every 2 weeks or so. Why so infrequently? LDR?
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:35 PM
1

Depends on the person. Two months, probably noticeable. Can you cut back the lifting to once per week instead for 2 months?
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:33 PM
2

So what's your plan to be like "most men" and get laid? You claim to "have been redpilled for 4-5 years ", so you understand the concepts. What have you been trying for the last 4-5 years? What's your plan going forward? ​
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:03 PM
4

The best thing you and your wife can do is show her a great example of a solid relationship. ​
/r/askTRP15/03/19 04:31 PM
4

Try googling "Hybristophilia". ​ ​
/r/askTRP15/03/19 04:27 PM
4

He's confident and has rock solid frame. It has nothing to do with his crimes. ​
/r/askTRP15/03/19 04:13 PM
1

Is that what my issue is? Are you asking me for a clinical diagnosis, based on your hundred word post?
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:53 PM
7

If you have no sex drive, TRP advice isn't going to help. We can't fix the mental issues blocking your sex drive. See a therapist/doctor/psychiatrist.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:46 PM
5

This. Cut these "negative" people out of your life. Don't you have better things to do than "teaching her a lesson"? ​
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:32 PM
1

Start by reading the sidebar. Several articles on Frame.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:22 PM
1

How many girls did you approach last week? Zero, right?
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:18 PM
2

That's a user problem, not a sidebar problem. People come here without any understanding of TRP, being Beta in most every way. They want some cheat code answer that will fix whatever relationship issue they currently are having. Example: "This one girl flaked 3 times in a row. What should I text her to make sure she doesn't flake again?" The real answer could be "she doesn't think your SMV is high enough, you are overweight, not lifting, failing shit tests, approach other women, being needy, etc…
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:15 PM
1

It's fiction, written to entertain you.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 12:14 PM
2

Wool fibres are hygroscopic. ﾠThat means wool is able to absorb and release moisture vapour in the air.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 08:18 PM
10

I agree with you that there is a problem. But how is it fixable? How can you force people to read the sidebar?
/r/askTRP14/03/19 08:15 PM
8

You deleted the previous threads, just like I said you would. You are not here to learn or change. You just want to complain. ​
/r/askTRP14/03/19 07:10 PM
5

LOL, good find in his history. OP - restaurants don't demote servers for no reason. ​
/r/askTRP14/03/19 06:50 PM
9

Hotel bars, women traveling on business. Don't treat them differently than any coed.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 06:07 PM
2

Sounds like you are desperate. Look, if this is the best you can do right now, then plate her.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 04:56 PM
24

You don't want TRP help. We don't have any good advice for fixing your GFs depression. ​ ​
/r/askTRP14/03/19 04:25 PM
16

Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 04:14 PM
2

Figure out what areas you are passionate about. Then look for careers that involve that area. Finally, get educated for that career.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 03:28 PM
2

Speech Therapist ​
/r/askTRP14/03/19 01:37 PM
2

Why would you want a women who has no self respect for herself? Why do you think that women who have casual sex have no self respect? Not every woman who has casual sex is a slut.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 10:19 PM
5

Surely, a worthy ltr would not allow herself to be used as a plate and would stand her ground. This is incel thinking. There's nothing wrong with a woman who has casual sex. They enjoy it just as much as men do. As long as they don't let their n-count skyrocket indiscriminately, there is no red flag here. ​ ​
/r/askTRP13/03/19 10:14 PM
4

Pickup advises to... TRP isn't "pickup". TRP recommends that you communicate to your GF the boundaries you expect from her.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 09:54 PM
2

Why does it bother you?
/r/askTRP13/03/19 08:31 PM
3

She's probing you, a shit test, trying to get a reaction out of you. IMO, "plates" are an agreement between two adults to have sex for fun, with no strings attached. "Exclusivity" is not part of the definition. It's up to you to decide how you want to feel about her seeing other men, and her telling you about it. Set you guidelines with her. If she doesn't comply, drop her.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 07:28 PM
7

If I was in a world without women, I'd still lift. Improve yourself, make yourself better. Women are a nice reward.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 06:46 PM
11

people seem to be really confident that slapping a girl when she gets mouthy is the way to go I don't think anyone here agrees with that.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 06:40 PM
6

Don't hit women, especially in anger.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 06:21 PM
6

IMO, it's a journey, not a destination. Enjoy living every moment of your life.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 06:18 PM
3

Buy some lube. You are likely to be ass-fucked. In today's world, the man is guilty until proven innocent. You need to preserve any digital evidence you can. You also might want to contact an attorney.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 02:38 PM
7

Yeah, that would be an interesting story. OP was a virgin until about a week ago.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 02:06 PM
11

Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 01:50 PM
13

Maybe you should make time to hit that gym now.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 01:46 PM
1

...of sticking to a routine 3-5 days per week. Was it 3 days or 5 days? That doesn't sound like a routine. Always seemed to struggle keeping track of actual progess when I did work out regularly in the past. Try StrongLifts 5x5. Use the free app to track your progress. Do the program 3x a week. Eat enough protein.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 01:43 PM
7

Look, if politics is important to you, just bring it up before the first date. Explain that you are a Repub and would rather only date like-minded women.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 01:25 PM
1

I don't know her last name either ​ Red Flag!
/r/askTRP13/03/19 01:08 PM
6

all have better bodies than me See if the hotel has a gym. Might as well start now. Working out can help burn off some stress and give you confidence. ​
/r/askTRP12/03/19 09:24 PM
5

Do you understand that you have posted 40 questions in the past week about weight loss? This is a really bad habit you have. ​ Fastest weght loss you had - 17 minutes ago What's your record weight loss? - 57 minutes ago What's your record weight loss? - 1 hour ago What's your record weight loss? - 2 hours ago Post your record weight loss - 2 hours ago The quickest you have lost - 3 hours ago What's the quickest you've lost? - 3 hours ago Just curious, what's your quickest loss? - 5 hours ago Jus…
/r/askTRP12/03/19 09:21 PM
1

If someone throws a potato chip and it hits me by accident, I'm ignoring it. ​ ​
/r/askTRP12/03/19 04:15 PM
112

how can you tell? When you don't have to ask random people on the internet. ​
/r/askTRP12/03/19 04:10 PM
3

I do lift occasionally. I asked, as someone who looks like they lift heavily can more easily escalate and get them to back down. ​
/r/askTRP12/03/19 04:09 PM
2

(maybe by accident?) Did it hit you? Did it hurt? Do you lift?
/r/askTRP12/03/19 04:02 PM
1

Study, practice problems & tests, classes, tutor. Serious, how did you get this far without knowing how to learn? ​
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:54 PM
1

Become the midget they throw at the target. That's your best shot at an orgy.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:17 PM
1

once I started talking to her again No contact! Block her number. She dumped you. You don't owe her anything.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 12:50 PM
3

Time heals all wounds. Just keep doing the things you enjoy doing, and sooner or later, you will stop thinking about her
/r/askTRP12/03/19 12:08 PM
3

Look into OMAD. Had a friend drop 50 pounds in three months.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 08:33 PM
3

When i offered her to come over to my place she rejected. How did you phrase this? Did you give her a non-sexual reason to come?
/r/askTRP11/03/19 04:44 PM
1

Do you reach out and start conversation? Keep doing your thing and let her come back? Don't start conversations without a purpose. Reach out, have a little back and forth, then schedule the next outing.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 04:38 PM
0

Bring in doughnuts tomorrow morning. Also work on your anger management.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 03:17 PM
2

Do you have ED? Or just want to go harder and longer? I can get a good boost from half of a 25mg tab [no ED problems]. ​ ​
/r/askTRP11/03/19 02:40 PM
5

There's this one job... Either this job comes through or not. Be prepared if the job doesn't come thru. Apply to some other jobs. Who knows, you might find an even better job. ​ ​
/r/askTRP11/03/19 01:29 PM
1

Wonderful. It doesn't matter who invented RP nor their reasons. RP works for many men, that's the important part.
/r/askMRP11/03/19 12:50 PM
6

4-5 n-count is crazy low for a 25yo woman. That's one man every two years since 18. IMO, you can't judge based on n-count without also considering age.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 08:46 PM
8

You are the man, you should initiate. Be the leader.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 09:02 PM
1

FYI, it's standard to always include the bar when stating how much you are lifting. ​
/r/askTRP08/03/19 08:52 PM
5

Look up PHUL. Day 1: Upper Power Day 2: Lower Power Day 3: Off Day 4: Upper Hypertrophy Day 5: Lower Hypertrophy
/r/askTRP08/03/19 06:53 PM
10

When learning any new skill, you have to consciously think about the steps in order to complete it. As you practice more, you build "muscle memory". Eventually you stop thinking about it, everything just comes naturally.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:38 PM
8

She sold it a year after the divorce to a dealer which is obviously not the best price she could have gotten. When you sent her the $900, you gave your consent to that price. It's too late now to argue over the price she could have gotten. She agreed to maintain an open line of communication between us with a positive relationship if I gave her the money I doubt that will stand up in court. IMO, you should find something more productive to do with your time that worry about your EX. ​
/r/askTRP07/03/19 08:28 PM
1

Don't get addicted to anything. Do only in moderation. Don't use it as a crutch.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 08:13 PM
10

It isn't clear to me why she owes you money. You agreed to give her the $900 for the car, you are not getting that money back. Is there some other debt she owes you for?
/r/askTRP07/03/19 08:10 PM
1

Terrible. Not sure why you are distracting the viewer with a video game, while you are speaking.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 05:52 PM
0

She is sending mixed messages. Could be that the trail has gone cold. Maybe that "gym session" was another guy she has started seeing. Maybe she is playing "hard to get"? As io-wot-io said, best is to find a reason to run into her in person. Game her a little, then ask her out.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 04:41 PM
1

...and now she hasn't answered for half the day. If Chad was asking her, she wouldn't wait to respond. She's got better options. Maybe she's keeping you as a 3rd backup. ​
/r/askTRP07/03/19 04:30 PM
3

You can't stop them from being jealous and talking behind your back. Just drop them as friends, don't hang out with them. High School tends to be this way. Next year, in college, you get mostly a complete reset on your social life.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 04:26 PM
9

They have the same focus no? No. One was for men, the other for women, so not the same focus.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 04:13 PM
9

yes, true.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 03:27 PM
13

IDGAF doesn't apply to attending school.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 03:26 PM
2

It's better than not asking her out at all. Don't be afraid of rejection.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 02:52 PM
1

TRP really isn't equipped to deal with social anxiety issues. People without social anxiety issues just can't grasp how debilitating it can be. IMO, TRP doesn't do enough to filter out people with these types of problems. Your post shows how the physical aspects of TRP do work. You improved your looks and attracted a lot more women. But you were too afraid to try the rest of TRP.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/19 02:46 PM
1

Yes ​
/r/askTRP06/03/19 08:00 PM
3

So high school, and no college? Get some job experience in a field you enjoy, then look to create your own business. Don't buy on credit (except mortgage). ​
/r/askTRP06/03/19 07:28 PM
1

It's a response to a shit test. You find the question cute or funny, and don't take it seriously, maintaining your frame, typically with a humorous or sarcastic response. Try searching this subreddit for " amused mastery ". You'll get hundreds of examples. ​
/r/askTRP06/03/19 07:13 PM
2

You would need a bone scan to see if your bone plates have fused. Fused bones = no more growth, even with HGH. In any case, HGH won't fix your insecurities. ​ ​ ​
/r/askTRP06/03/19 05:24 PM
2

You should check with your doctor.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 05:00 PM
1

Why i should waste time convincing you that women are worth the time and effort? You are just another incel with a distorted view of reality.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 04:57 PM
8

His game is quite good. Yet you say "he closes maybe 1-2 times a semester if lucky and the girls aren’t that attractive". I would conclude that his game isn't that good. He's doing something wrong. You just don't recognize it. ​
/r/askTRP06/03/19 03:21 PM
1

If you have a choice, become rich instead of poor.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 01:07 PM
2

Stronglifts has a free app for tracking your lifts. MyFitnessPal has a free app to track your calories/macros. Or if you are more of a paper/pencil guy, keep a log journal. ​ ​
/r/askTRP06/03/19 01:04 AM
2

She has your number. She decided she didn't want to contact you. She isn't interested. There's next to nothing you could say to her now to make her interested in you. Best you can do is be awesome, life of the party, talk with everyone, flirt with all the other girls. Make her realize that Cyprus370 is a very cool guy, and she is missing out.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 10:47 PM
5

Renting an AirBnB for a first date just seems aggressive. Car? Friends apartment? Blanket and secluded outdoor spot?
/r/askTRP05/03/19 08:37 PM
1

How old are you? What is your living situation? Renting an AirBnB seems aggressive for a first date virgin. ​ ​
/r/askTRP05/03/19 08:23 PM
1

I can’t imagine how awkward it would be trying to hit on a girl with her friend next to her?? I’m just cringing at the though of it. Flirt with both of them. No, you are not ready for that. Just talk with both of them, maintaining an interesting conversation. Right now, every girl thinks you are a weirdo. Gain some social proof. Then you can think of hitting on girls that give you IOIs. ​
/r/askTRP05/03/19 08:18 PM
1

so if you have another fwb, you, the man will be in a poly? No. You have two relationships, one with each FWB. ​ Google "polyamory" for more information. ​
/r/askTRP05/03/19 06:35 PM
7

Thank you. Then you have no need to ever post on a Sexual Strategy subreddit again.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 06:03 PM
6

Tagging you livefreely01 My bet, you delete all your posts and comments, then post the same drivel in a few days.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 06:01 PM
10

Guessing you are an incel who got banned, and made another account, right? ​
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:53 PM
2

You have to get her anus to relax. Does she enjoy it when you finger her anally? Or are you trying to go from 0 to 100 with your wide load? Should I just cheat and find someone who will? If anal is that important to your sexual satisfaction, yes. ​ ​
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:21 PM
23

We love sex with women willing to please us. There is no good substitute. You are still in the Anger Mode.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:10 PM
1

She wants marriage and kids. Is this what you want too? Understand that TRP is firmly against marriage. You might want to seek advice from an unbiased source.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:05 PM
1

He wants to get back with her and so he should. Sure, no problem there. All I am saying is that TRP strategy isn't well suited for repairing a 6 year LTR. He would be much better off seeking advice from some other relationship subreddit.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:13 PM
2

"I like to meet interesting people" - now she has to qualify herself.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 03:53 PM
5

Your career and job opportunities should be more important than a plate. This is your decision. You shouldn't need her input. After just a month, it's a little too early to think about an LTR.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 03:41 PM
1

Most of my answers involve zero thought. But not this one. The OP has oneitis for his EX. He has her on a pedestal " She’s definitely a top tier woman. Gorgeous, kind, loyal, and has a good career. "
/r/askTRP05/03/19 03:34 PM
1

The Red Pill solution is to block her completely, and move on with your life. Sounds like you want a blue pill solution.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 03:26 PM
153

Flip it on her: Relationship is not important for sex. ​
/r/askTRP05/03/19 03:24 PM
3

​ Fireman Astronaut Police officer Crab Boat Captain Cowboy Lumberjack Pirate Cave diver ​
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:50 PM
4

FWB is a relationship between two people Poly is a relationship between 3+ people ​
/r/askTRP04/03/19 05:23 PM
2

If the girl was so boring that I didn't even want to kiss her at the end of the date, I would next her. Surely it would be a better use of my time to approach other women. HOWEVER, if you want to try once more, go for it. You need to escalate throughout the whole date. Sexualize the conversation. Kino, touch her arms, back, etc. Go for a kiss at the halfway mark. Tease her, shit test her.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 08:43 PM
1

I can’t tell for sure I don't know either. ​ ​
/r/askTRP01/03/19 08:25 PM
1

Next her and date more interesting women. ​
/r/askTRP01/03/19 08:11 PM
1

Your TDEE is around 2700 kcals. Yet your weight loss plateaued at 1300. Low T will lower your metabolism. The TRT should kickstart your metabolism. Discuss with your doctor. IMO, once your metabolism goes up, and yo start lifting, 1000 kcals will not be enough. ​
/r/askTRP01/03/19 02:38 PM
2

Typical on-call rate is $2-$3 hour. The boss is asking you to be on-call 6,680 hours a year. At $2.50, that is $16,700. Your boss is asking you to be on-call for 15 cents per hour. in order to get a job even close im looking at a 4 hour a day commute Move to where the jobs are.
/r/askMRP01/03/19 02:08 PM
3

Lifting is critical for TRP. Sure, you can skip lifting and just do some parts of TRP. And you can succeed. But you really are not following TRP.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 09:49 PM
1

We are not giving advice for women.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 08:43 PM
18

Keep your head down, turn in your work, pass the tests, and be done with the class. There's really no other answer in today's world.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 08:42 PM
5

Don't waste your time on your EX and/or Linda, whom you've never met. Don't waste your time on your EX and/or Linda, whom you've never met. Don't waste your time on your EX and/or Linda, whom you've never met. Don't waste your time on your EX and/or Linda, whom you've never met. ​
/r/askTRP28/02/19 07:14 PM
6

[ I hate letters used instead of names. Just make something up L=Linda ] The EX views Linda as 'hers'. The EX interprets you contacting Linda as trying to befriend her, in effect stealing Linda away from her. Linda wasn't seeking you out, she just stalked you on Linkedin. Don't waste your time on your EX and/or Linda, whom you've never met.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 07:12 PM
3

Here's your numbers broken down: 20% - 2017 Approach to Date conversions 15% - 2018 Approach to Date conversions 25% - 2017 Date to Kiss conversions 83% - 2018 Date to Kiss conversions 5% - 2017 Date to Sex conversions 20% - 2018 Date to Sex conversions ​ Once you get them on a date, your numbers improved significantly over 2017. But your approach to date conversion went down.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 06:56 PM
4

Congrats! You had 6x the sex compared to 2017. EDIT: from last's years post someone said : 3-5% overall meet-to-sex ratio is normal from what I've read from the better (honest) daygamers. You are 3%, at the low end of the range. Not bad, still room to improve. Your results that you posted from 2017: Speak to 100+ girls (60+ bars, clubs, 40+ Tinder, 5+ on street, 2 from friends, I even visited Romania to try to fuck girls there). Dates 20+ Kisses 5 Sex 1
/r/askTRP28/02/19 06:25 PM
2

...creating a sort of drama story that a woman would latch onto and they'll ask you questions and give you advice... The more you talk about your GF or her BF, the more her pussy will dry up. Getting her to advise you on your own GF will put you straight into the friendzone. ​
/r/askTRP28/02/19 05:47 PM
4

and all their video gaming consoles, where they proceed to waste long hours on video games. ​ IMO, video games have played a large part in ruining young men's lives. Boys could entertain themselves for hours in their own house without ever seeing the face of a real human. They didn't learn how interact normally with their peers. Their social skills are non-existent. PS - TRP specifically tells people to quit wasting their time with video games. ​
/r/ExRedPill28/02/19 05:22 PM
3

"I'm at my wits end" IMO, this makes you look weak, as if you are having trouble handling this situation. Try it as see if it works, and let us know. ​
/r/askTRP28/02/19 05:08 PM
16

You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink. You've done your part. Focus on yourself, lead by example. Be there for him when he does ask for help.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 04:30 PM
1

Just let her know you have other plans a few nights. Lie, tell her you are going out with the guys. Be firm, tell her you are not cancelling her plans. Go fuck your other plate. Come home and get a BJ.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 02:56 PM
1

Do you have abundance, other women you are seeing? Then skip it if it doesn't feel right. Are you an incel/virgin? Get the chip off your shoulder. Gain some confidence. Get over your fears.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 02:44 PM
1

..to your friends ​ We've all done the preaching to friends about the red pill and it falls on dead ears. ​
/r/askTRP28/02/19 02:21 PM
4

You are in the Anger phase. This is normal. Time usually cures it.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 02:20 PM
1

You can probably have a better discussion on this in the Red Pill Christians sub-reddit. They have a strict no premarital sex rule over there. /rpchristians ​ ​ ​ ​ ​
/r/askTRP28/02/19 02:17 PM
2

You shouldn't talk about TRP. ​
/r/askTRP28/02/19 01:36 PM
6

There isn't a flowchart you can follow. You can do all of the above.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 01:30 PM
2

Depends on the club, 20%-90%?
/r/askTRP28/02/19 01:28 PM
1

In SMV, the V stands for VALUE. ​
/r/askTRP27/02/19 10:59 PM
1

Sure, but google where the Biggest Losers are now. Most of them put the weight right back on.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 10:57 PM
1

2 year targets in lbs (Intermediate): Squat: 250-258 Bench: 187-195 OHP: 129 DL: 293-303 If you hit the gym consistently, eat right, and get rest, you could hit 2/3/4 in two/three years. 2 plates benchpress (225lbs) 3 plates squat (315lbs) 4 plates deadlift (405lbs) ​ Google "Basic Strength Standards" and "weightlifting strength standards" for the charts of all body weights. The two charts are very close.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 10:45 PM
1

This guy maths. Yes, losing weight is all about burning more calories than you eat. Losing 3.4lbs per week on average for six months is a lot. I recommend you pick a more reasonable target, 1.5-2lbs/week.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 10:26 PM
3

Sounds good. 1-3 days in advance is fine.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 10:16 PM
0

The law is very clear here. Google "Video Voyeurism Prevention Act" (*). It's illegal to record someone naked without their consent when there is an expectation of privacy. (like in a public restroom, but not a nude beach). Sure, you can have a camera on your own property recording the doors and other ingress points. There isn't an expectation of privacy on your front porch. Yet inside your bedroom or bathroom, most people expect privacy. You couldn't put a camera in the guest bedroom to record …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 10:09 PM
1

Twice? #1 - She was sick and we couldn't arrange a date. #2 - hangover, she cant see me today #2.5 - she didn't reach out to you Sunday before your flight Based on the information you gave, she's just not into you. She had plenty of opportunities to reschedule or make herself available in other ways. If you really don't want to quit on her, give it one last hail mary in two weeks. ​
/r/askTRP27/02/19 08:44 PM
1

There's a lot of good reasons to not marry. But if marriage and children are important to you, get married when you want. You can apply much of TRP knowledge to a marriage: Be the Captain, keep your SMV high, lift, etc. ​ ​
/r/askTRP27/02/19 07:43 PM
2

Did you start out light and work your way up? Or start out too heavy? Ice and ibuprofen can give you temporarily relief while your body heals. However, lifting before the tendon has healed cause cause further issues. ​ ​
/r/askTRP27/02/19 06:41 PM
6

Listened to about 30 seconds. Yes, taller is better. Broad shoulders are better. Muscles are better. All common knowledge.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 06:33 PM
2

Sex is a powerful currency for women. They exchange it for money, gifts, attention and commitment. Women get mad when other women give it away too cheaply. It devalues their currency. So, for a really long time, women have stigmatized the "slut". Men don't care nearly as much. This woman's thinking has bled into men, some whom also slut shame. No comment on this for now. In today's world, men put too much emphasis on n-count. A 22yo, sexually active for 5 years, with an n-count of 10 comes out t…
/r/askTRP27/02/19 05:28 PM
5

TRP is amoral. It's just a toolset. You need to decide what you believe in. Also what is rpt? IMO, I wouldn't do anything with her. You are friends with her and her two brothers. You could screw up three friendships. Lots of other girls out there.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 03:41 PM
0

Dump her, only way to be sure.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 03:06 PM
2

Maybe you are invisible? Drink any weird potions lately? Fall into a vat of nuclear chemicals?
/r/askTRP27/02/19 03:04 PM
3

Then purposely lower your SMV and start dating some fatties so you won't be so far ahead of your beta-friends. Nah, that would be stupid. You said you were "very beta", and likely had beta friends. They saw your transition, and are jealous. It's natural for them to resent you. You may have to drop them and join new social circles. Google "crabs in a bucket". ​ ​ ​
/r/askTRP27/02/19 02:57 PM
10

Winners don't feel sorry for the losers. You just played the game better than they did.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 02:49 PM
1

It's up to you. Decide what your own morals are. You could probably fuck her weekly, while she stays with your friend. But it could all explode eventually.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 02:48 PM
3

Do virgins bleed when you first have sex with them? Most do bleed, a few don't. Sometimes the hymen can break due to non-sexual activity (tampons, sports, masturbation). Why does it really matter?
/r/askTRP27/02/19 02:45 PM
26

Society changes. Computer games and internet porn have destroyed many young men. They are socially awkward, having never learned how to interact with most people. Now at 25, they wonder why they cannot find a wife, or even kiss a woman. TRP didn't cause this. TRP is just pulling back the curtains, showing how relationships work in the real world.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 02:38 PM
35

somehow if you really want it, you can find a decent women to be your life long partner. With divorce rates over 50%, that isn't likely. I got cheated on me as well and also ive cheated alot, That's exactly why the divorce rates are over 50%. TRP isn't perfect. But it's better than a Disney fairy tale.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 02:21 PM
1

Have you tried visiting a dentist? Doesn’t Seem like it
/r/askTRP26/02/19 10:17 PM
3

She rejected the 2nd date invite without offering an alternative. And she hasn't reached out to you. She just isn't that interested. ​
/r/askTRP26/02/19 09:23 PM
-2

So lead her to the Family Room to watch the movies. Then "aw shucks, my parents are using this TV. Guess will have to use the TV in my bedroom."
/r/askTRP26/02/19 08:22 PM
2

This is your eighth post on your cheating EX GF in the last 2 weeks. As FereallyRed said: Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 08:04 PM
5

You are looking for IOIs (Indications of Interest). ​
/r/askTRP26/02/19 07:46 PM
6

She blocked you. She moved away. Dropping her is the only reasonable choice you have. You are not the bad guy, it just didn't work out.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 07:42 PM
2

So give more information. You had 5 Tinder dates. How many did you have sex with? Why did they reject sex? How many did you kiss?
/r/askTRP26/02/19 07:29 PM
7

LDRs don't work. You asked this three weeks ago and got the same answer.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 07:22 PM
11

If no second date, then the first date went poorly. Not much else to say with the lack of details you posted. ​
/r/askTRP26/02/19 07:06 PM
23

How would they feel if they found out I had a prostitute? Why would you tell them?
/r/askTRP26/02/19 06:35 PM
3

LDRs don't work. Plate her, and visit her, and have her come visit you. But don't commit or go exclusive. ​
/r/askTRP26/02/19 05:42 PM
4

​ You can get better advice on marriage over at R-askMRP ​
/r/askTRP26/02/19 05:36 PM
9

This is a troll, right? ​
/r/askTRP26/02/19 03:57 PM
9

TRP was designed to convert an average normal Beta guy into a desirable Alpha Male. And, yes, the material here can turn nearly any average male into a top 10-20% Alpha. But it isn't designed for socially awkward basement-dwelling incels. When an introvert tries to be IDGAF, it comes off wrong, and people think they are weird. They have to learn some social awareness so they can come off as normal. A 28yo virgin introvert male, still jobless, living at home, shouldn't try TRP right away. They ha…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 03:55 PM
8

Be a man and lead. Text her to arrange a meetup.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 03:20 PM
11

This is our problem and we can fix it. When someone asks an asinine question, down-vote it. Bury it, two or three pages deep. The Juul post is at zero, only one net down vote. The job post is at zero, only one net down vote. If we had pushed them down to -5, most people wouldn't even see the post. ​
/r/askTRP26/02/19 03:13 PM
4

You need to give them more time before they will put out. Some may want exclusiveness first. IMO, not worth the time investment required.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 01:56 PM
2

And none of the rFitness recommended programs have an idiot proof free app. SL5x5 has the free app, which compensates for the other issues, IMO. Just switch off of SL after 3-6 months, and you'll be fine. The best program is the one that gets you to the gym consistently.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 01:24 PM
1

SL is a modified version of SS. Both are fine to start with. SL has a free app for easy tracking. One trick for Bench Press. Bring the bar down slowly, over say 4 seconds. Most newbies let the bar come down way too fast.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 01:08 PM
3

Most Naval applicants don't interview with two psychologists.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 07:06 PM
1

Also, is there anyway I can salvage a relationship with her father? He has never tried to mix our personal relationship with our business relationship You implied that the father gave you a Cushy job because you were dating his daughter. That is a direct mixing of personal and business. It's probably a lost cause. ​ ​
/r/askTRP25/02/19 06:20 PM
18

IMO, if you are planning now for after the LTR failure, you've already lost. You should vet more before committing.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 05:04 PM
5

Don't make TRP into something is is not. TRP is a sexual strategy forum for converting a normal Beta guy into a desirable Alpha Male. We can't find you a job. We can't stop your drug addiction. We can't remove porn from your life. We can't fix an Incel who has broken thoughts about women. TRP is not a cure-all for every problem a man might have. Honestly, "we" should do a better job filtering out people who are not ready for TRP. We do have some gate-keeping, like lifting. If someone doesn't hav…
/r/askTRP25/02/19 04:51 PM
3

TRP is a sexual strategy forum. You should expect advice based on that context. You have no job, drug addiction, porn issues, probably depression and other mental illnesses. Honestly, you need to get yourself on track first. You are not ready for TRP. ​
/r/askTRP25/02/19 04:33 PM
1

Sorry, I don't know how to help you.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 04:04 PM
2

You need to post some more information and context. We are not mind readers.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 03:48 PM
10

He has posted 215 questions here in the past 10 months. If he doesn't have his answers now, more questions won't help him.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 03:23 PM
2

Sign the divorce papers. That's the only reason she contacted you, starting this shitstorm.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 03:09 PM
2

You said it here, in your opening line: I can’t believe I’m still engrossed in this shit all these months later but here I am. You need to block them completely, remove them out of your life. They are a drag on your emotional state. You still can't let them go, as you want "Insight into their minds". Every message you see and/or respond to just keeps this shitpile around longer.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 02:37 PM
1

Compensate with social proof, solid frame, good game, and lifting.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 02:10 PM
3

What Is Her Endgame? Who cares what her endgame is. She your EX. You need to start focusing on your life going forward.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 02:04 PM
18

This is you, 12 days ago: I'm 27, i live at home with my dad and i feel like fucking trash. anyone wanna help out? You are using porn and drugs to mask just how bad your life really is. At some point, you have to take responsibility for your own life, and make the changes you want. If "stop using reddit" needs to be your first step, then do it.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 01:55 PM
5

Are you lifting? What's your bodyfat? Facial hair?
/r/askTRP24/02/19 02:40 PM
0

Pick up some hobbies and befriend the valuable people there. BJJ, Climbing, Dancing, etc
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:25 PM
1

Pick up some hobbies and befriend the valuable people there. BJJ, Climbing, Dancing, etc
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:18 PM
2

Your SMV is the average of the 3 hottest chicks you can get a date with this week. Sounds like you have a pretty face, but no Game/Frame to back it up.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:12 PM
3

Approach, Isolate, Escalate - There used to be a post on this, can't find it now. Approach - You got this down. You approach, gain their interest and IOIs. But add light kino, touch her arm, shoulder, hair, etc. Isolate - Once they show significant interest, lead them away from the crowd. Outside/patio/deck for fresh air. Or down the hall, where it is quieter, so you can "talk". Or you want to show them some artwork in the entryway. Just find some excuse. Girls will be more open when their frien…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:07 PM
2

Sure, this is a place for people to ask questions and learn about TRP. The people asking questions are trying to learn.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 08:45 PM
5

Sure, if that will make you happy. Sounds like you are lazy, IMO
/r/askTRP23/02/19 07:53 PM
3

Yes, give up. Just like you've given up on lifting. Nothing will be given to you. You have to work for it.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 01:02 PM
1

She is a woman. That is your explanation
/r/askTRP22/02/19 10:15 PM
5

At first I didn't feel comfortable shitting where I was eating but I couldn't ignore the fuck me looks. You are asking for trouble.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 08:12 PM
3

Remind me why this is bad Oneitis, don't put her on a pedestal ​
/r/askTRP22/02/19 07:57 PM
2

why not post your stats: height, weight, age 1RM squat, DL, BP You posted your routine yesterday, but deleted it. ​ OR ignore all this if you dont want help, and just want to complain.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 06:47 PM
1

It gets really annoying when you post the question, get lots of responses, then delete it, then post the same thread the next day.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 06:31 PM
3

Sounds like you were being an asshole. I didn't read it wrong.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 04:39 PM
2

Sounds like you were being an asshole, telling everyone that his girl was going to leave him due to SMV.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 04:36 PM
1

Don't talk about TRP. Pretend the incident didn't happen.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 04:16 PM
3

You don't have to Lift, but then you are not following TRP. Maybe you are doing a subset of TRP and can get by with that. Good Luck.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 03:50 PM
3

Don't be overt with this. You want her hamster to turn, so she can up her game. It's called DREAD, and is in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 03:47 PM
4

n=10? 18-22= 5 years, Two partners a year for five years seems normal. Say 3 LTRs, 3 One Night Stands, and 4 Dated for a month. n=10 would not be a red flag for me. Plus she's going to lie anyway. If she says 4 or 10, you'll never know the truth. I don't have a cut off.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 12:40 AM
5

Pair Bonding and Alpha Widow are two different things. Pair Bonding is good thing. It's caused by Oxytocin, the "love hormone", typically generated by sexual activity. When Oxytocin stops generating, the pair bond fades away. It's not a permanent conditions in humans. When you start fucking her good, she will start to pair bond with you. We don't bring up pair bonding much here, as it rarely has any effect on our decisions. Alpha Widow is a bad thing. She dated an high value Alpha, who wouldn't …
/r/askTRP21/02/19 10:55 PM
1

You said: The first chick would be more scary to LTR imo What are you scared of? She's a woman with one partner. You don't have to decide on LTR today. Date her, have sex with her. Then 4-6 months into this, you can decide about the LTR.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 10:16 PM
2

So your GF did a branch swing. That happens to nearly everyone. She isn't yours, it was just your turn. You will be angry for a while, probably several months. It goes away. Focus on your classes first, then your job as it is paying for everything. Hit the gym, lifting is a good way to burn off some stress. As the anger dissipates, you'll want to find time for social activities. I'm not sure why you lost your room. Were you cohabitating? ​ ​
/r/askTRP21/02/19 09:50 PM
2

You need to edit the post. It's not clear what actually happened.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 09:23 PM
2

IMO, Video games caused a huge problem. Boys used to go outside and play with other boys. Now they go home and play video games for hours. They don't learn how to interact with other people. They don't learn from other boys. They don't know how to resolve conflicts. ​ ​
/r/askTRP21/02/19 08:41 PM
0

Yes, exactly.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:45 PM
0

You can't make these generalizations based on the one relationship you've been in. The whole post is worthless. This just cries bluepill ​ ​ ​ ​
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:39 PM
1

So just give up.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:29 PM
7

Who fucking cares? Don't you have enough things in your life to worry about?
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:25 PM
2

Go with a full body compound lift program for 3-6 months, then reevaluate. StrongLifts 5x5, Greyskill LP, or something similar.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:00 PM
2

No, it's a very gradual change, not a cliff. ​
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:59 PM
2

WHERE? Everywhere. Might be the MILF at the grocery store. The coed at the coffee shop. The nerdy girl walking her dog at the park. Get out of your house and meet people. As an introvert, you'll have issues working the room at bars and clubs. Do some day-gaming. ​ ​
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:41 PM
2

The sluts are all fucking Chad, not some 30yo man living in their mom's basement. ​ ​
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:15 PM
4

Looks like SL5x5 plus accessories. Everything is solid. I'd just swap out sit-ups for planks, easier on the back. Men usually still produce T as they age, just less of it. ​
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:02 PM
19

STFU and get a lawyer. Don't go for questioning without your lawyer present.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 05:53 PM
1

She lost interest in you. Best to move on. Chasing her is likely a waste of time. Spend your time and energy on new targets.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 05:49 PM
1

https:// www . mealviewer . com/family-home/menus/ ​
/r/askTRP21/02/19 05:44 PM
2

Passion and Aptitude, find a career that covers both areas. If you like doing your job, and you’re good at it, the rest is simple
/r/askTRP21/02/19 04:27 PM
1

You have a ton of issues, being short and ugly. Don't be stupid too. For example, Creatine has zero calories. Use your brain. Count your calories.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 03:46 PM
1

I don’t really know how many calories I have eaten Then start tracking your calories. And stop lying about bulking with 2000 cals when you don't have any clue about your caloric intake. Your estimates could easily be off 500 calories a day.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 03:02 PM
1

You are not tracking your calories. Just yesterday you said you had no idea how many calories you were eating. So no, you haven't been bulking with 2000 cals. If you lie about your calories, you could be lying about your height, age, even your sex. You could be a woman trolling us. ​
/r/askTRP21/02/19 01:41 PM
1

You are a liar and/or a troll. Done with you.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 01:23 PM
3

ASD. Give her some non-sex reason to go back to your place. Tell her you want to show her your record collection or guitar, or feed your fish. ​
/r/askTRP20/02/19 10:06 PM
0

swallow the black pill.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 09:18 PM
1

What if, on average, the Western man... Who cares about "average"? You should be above average and stand out. When the average goes lower, it's even easier to be better than the average BP low-T man. ... if we are ever going to have a chance. Worry about yourself. Make yourself better. Don't try to fix all the males out there. ​ ​ ​
/r/askTRP20/02/19 09:03 PM
1

What is a "possible LTR"? Have you kissed her? Are you having sex with her? Is she dating other guys? You might just be an Orbiter.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 07:57 PM
5

Any suggestions to get over it? Stop drinking so much. Go to an AA meeting if you have to.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 07:31 PM
1

Did you say this three days ago: i found trp in 2015 and then started lifting etc. Lost my virginity that year and got a gf too. ​
/r/askTRP20/02/19 07:26 PM
4

Texting is very difficult at building attraction. Speaking with her on the phone is better. I suppose FaceTime would be even better. If she lives 1 hr away though, why bother? LDR don't work. ​ ​
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:52 PM
1

Don't worry about something you can't change.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 04:03 PM
4

...I will be very disappointed in her. No, tell her you will drop her if she goes for coffee with this man. This man is attracted to her, and is trying to isolate her in a non-work location. This is highly dangerous. ​ ​
/r/askTRP20/02/19 04:02 PM
5

Best to enjoy your life while you are alive. You can't save the world.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:53 PM
2

It's a very bad sign. If she will lie about something small, she will lie about bigger things.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:05 PM
1

Maybe you don't understand "Don't shit where you eat". Don't see women you work with.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:01 PM
1

Then why ask the question?
/r/askTRP20/02/19 02:59 PM
16

You are still thinking from a BP perspective. You are the prize. Own it. Don't get defensive. ​ Her: Are you seeing other people? You: Sure Her: How many? You: A dozen or two Her: No seriously, how many? You: I want to be here with you right now. I don't talk about you to other women, and I'm not going to talk about other women with you. ​ Sure, this might scare off someone who wrongly assumed exclusiveness. But most of the time, it will make them try harder. Women love to compete for a high val…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 02:54 PM
4

So why do you need to justify the gifts existence? You have no reason to hide anything. ​ ​
/r/askTRP20/02/19 02:37 PM
21

If you want it, then keep it and display it proudly. If another plate asks you about it, just tell them the truth "it was a gift from Becky". Use it as DREAD. This is assuming that you haven't implied exclusivity.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 02:27 PM
11

Preselection works better with more attractive girls.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 02:20 PM
1

You asked her out a couple years ago, and a couple weeks ago. Obviously you are attracted to her and want to go out with her. So ask her out. You've never been on a date before. You won't have a better option this month. Worst thing that could happen is she stops bringing you store-bought cookies. ​
/r/askTRP20/02/19 02:09 PM
5

Girls lie about their n-count. Guys lie about their conquests. You’ll never know what is true
/r/askTRP19/02/19 11:50 PM
50

Join a circus. ​
/r/askTRP19/02/19 10:26 PM
2

You need to be passionate and realistic in your career. passionate - You'll be doing this 250 days a year for the rest of your life. So pick something you enjoy. realistic - consider job availability and pay, and your ability to do well in it. I know nothing about SEO and internet marketing, or Romania
/r/askTRP19/02/19 09:54 PM
3

IMO, since you went to the store on your on accord, without an agreement for sex beforehand, it wasn't transactional. Transactional: If you go to the store today, I'll give you a BJ Reward: Thanks for going to the store, I'll give you a BJ ​ ​ ​
/r/askTRP19/02/19 09:33 PM
1

This convo is going nowhere. Thanks!
/r/askTRP19/02/19 09:25 PM
2

cum washes off with soap and water. Insecurities don't.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 09:19 PM
3

I don't understand why you are constantly in a social setting with your coworkers. Find some friends to do social things with.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:30 PM
1

This subreddit is a stinking pile of dogshit. Most posters, myself included, are just trolling the incels and their stupid questions. Read the theory. Read the top/gilded posts and sidebar. Ignore personal stories. You'll know more than 95% of the posters asking questions. ​
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:19 PM
3

Yes
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:51 PM
1

Buy a Jeep. Women dig jeeps
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:06 PM
2

He’s asked this question 30+ times. Check his post history
/r/askTRP19/02/19 04:11 PM
1

What is your question? Do you want us to determine if you can succeed as a SEO consultant? We know nothing about your skills or motivation. Two months ago, you wanted to be a Fireman. ​ ​
/r/askTRP19/02/19 03:19 PM
3

For you? Not a chance. Keep making those fake Tinder accounts though.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 01:45 PM
2

i just want to be with her Sure, understood. You want your unicorn to come back home to you. TRP does not help you here. This is a "sexual strategy" subreddit, not a "save my relationship" subreddit. ​
/r/askTRP19/02/19 01:44 PM
9

You can do what you want. But we don't approve of trying to "save" a broken relationship. The TRP strategy is to hit the gym, improve yourself, and approach other women. The sooner you make a clean break from the ex-gf, the quicker your turnaround will be.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 01:39 PM
34

Moral of the story: If you approach and escalate, no matter how poorly, you might get laid.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 01:16 PM
1

You are overthinking this. Just STFU about it until she brings it up. You could apply Dread, but you'd probably fuck it up.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 09:42 PM
13

Some women cannot orgasm with PIV-only sex. Oral sex is a great way to give a girl an orgasm, for a beginner. If you can't give her orgasms, she's going to find someone else who can. ​ ​
/r/askTRP18/02/19 09:34 PM
22

What a fucking train wreck of a posting history. In the past month, you've basically asked the same three questions over 200 times How to lose weight I'm a virgin Jeep or Truck Seek professional help for your OCD ​
/r/askTRP18/02/19 08:57 PM
2

It would help if we knew your location, as we could address the specific laws on your country.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 08:07 PM
3

TRP isn't a unicorn.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 06:54 PM
3

You are 100% correct on me. Congrats! If you had confidence, you'd look this girl up and ask her out yourself. And you wouldn't be asking the internet for permission first. ​
/r/askTRP18/02/19 06:30 PM
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if you can't gain weight under your doctors care and supervision, how do you expect a bunch of internet geeks to help you? ​ ​
/r/askTRP18/02/19 05:59 PM
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Don't cohabitate. Also break up with her. She is screwing the "orbiter"
/r/askTRP18/02/19 05:51 PM
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Been on Retin-A and other prescriptions for years but no progress Then see a different Dermatologist Unable to gain weight, I have GERD which causes me to vomit if I overeat anything GERD is completely manageable. See a Nutritionist to help you plan a weight gaining diet I’ve been lifting for a year and a have and gained no mass Lifting doesn't put on mass. Eating puts on mass. Lifting turns the mass into muscle. ​ Try, then try harder. Get professional help if you can't do it yourself. ​
/r/askTRP18/02/19 05:42 PM
5

So then tell us about the other girls you are approaching, dating, and having sex with?
/r/askTRP18/02/19 05:28 PM
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Short, bad skin, weird head and facial bones, underweight, no muscles, no game, no money. Is that about right? get a good education, so you can have a good career and pay for everything below improve your skin - work with a Dermatologist if you need to Gain weight - work with a Nutritionist if you need to Lift and put on muscle mass - work with a PT if you have to Learn to talk to people. Practice! Forget gaming until people don't cringe at the first words out of your mouth. Grow some facial hai…
/r/askTRP18/02/19 05:23 PM
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my SMV is at max but too low to game obese/autistic women Then go over to MGTOW. This isn't a place to cry about your misfortunes. No sympathy here. ​
/r/askTRP18/02/19 04:39 PM
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You are leading, being a man, and initiating more. And it is working. Keep doing it, don't worry about what label to put on it. ​ ​
/r/askTRP18/02/19 04:21 PM
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You will look "desperate and beta" because you are desperate and beta. Start lifting weights, gain some confidence.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 03:53 PM
3

Is this the same 46yo woman who you refused to help carry a heavy chair up two flights of stairs? ​
/r/askTRP18/02/19 03:44 PM
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"put someone on a pedestal" definition - to admire or love someone so much that you believe they have no faults ​
/r/askTRP18/02/19 01:53 PM
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What is your current relationship with her? How long
/r/askTRP17/02/19 12:53 AM
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Are you paying rent? Sure it was a shitty thing for them to do. But if you were living rent free you have to put up with some of the shit
/r/askTRP16/02/19 09:46 PM
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Check your form. You could hurt yourself
/r/askTRP16/02/19 09:43 PM
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