Not getting IOIs. What am I doing wrong. Lost approximately 30 lbs of fat/put on some muscle and I definitely look better then some of dudes in my classes but I’m still not getting IOIs even from below average women.

FereallyRed · 2019-04-02T20:06:39+00:00

You started to look better.

Now you have to act better.

Frame and game.

You're still beta in your outlook of comparing yourself to other guys and looking for external validation of IOI's.

That comes through.

If you're not creating conditions of interest you can't expect to receive spontaneous indicators of interest.

That's not how women work.

resnine · 2019-04-03T01:19:10+00:00

Like someone else said, it's one thing to look better but you got to act the part too.

Our prophet St.Patrice said something quite interested when he was asked this type of question, he said something along the lines of:

"The day I realized that women aren't men, and that they like us for other things, that is when my problems with women stopped"

Basically he is saying that his personality began to carry him. The guy is funny dominant. It's a powerful combo, and he's a witty genius, he could make'em wet just by chatting them up and passing their shit test.

Unless you have a Chad-tier face women aren't just going to come up to you. You gotta put in the work and create a Chad-tier persona.

You should never think that you can coast on your looks alone.

FixYourselfFirst · 2019-04-02T20:25:39+00:00

Are you happy and fun with the women in your class? Or do you still hate them, "after learning the true nature of women"?

You are probably still in the anger phase. Angry = unattractive. Women easily pick up on that shit.

zeekt12 · 2019-04-02T22:51:52+00:00

Probably give off a lack off abundance vibe.

Fake it till you make it fam

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2019-04-03T02:28:25+00:00

Still pretty upset/dissatisfied with your life?

That's probably a big reason. If you have a negative mental space, it shows in your posture, body language, and expression. While I'm an advocate of faking it until you make it, this isn't always easy to fake. It's much easier to focus on holding a powerful, amused mastery attitude, and then "peacocking" a little bit.

Another issue is you're presuming disinterest until proven interested. This means you're taking actions that will conform to this presumption.

This is why you always need to assume interest in all women until proven otherwise.

Vikingcel · 2019-04-03T13:55:14+00:00

Your face is subpar.

Solution:

Step 1. Get depressed

Step 2. Get over it

Step 3. Enjoy life

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