Met up with a girl month and a half ago. The situation is pretty messed up because she still loves her ex and is in constant vain because he doesn't want to be with her anymore yet he is still contacting her (maybe a lot to learn from this man in RP context...). Anyways i went to her place 3 or 4 times and i fucked her every time except one. However she started to become a pain in the ass and i realized that and got a little bit distant from her. Went NC for a week and yesterday she called me on the phone "just to check if i was ok". Told her i'm fine and in that very moment i felt the urge to fuck somebody ASAP so i figured out why not fuck her again. Told her that tonight i'll come by her place to check on her. However she told me to not go because there is no point in that (i hope you can understand what i'm trying to say since i'm not a native writer). I asked her why not. Maybe i fucked up a little bit asking her the reason. Maybe you can figure it out that she didn't point out a valid reason why i should NOT go, but she kept insisting that i should not go. I got a little irritated by her behavior and told her that this is my decision, like it or not, and i'm going. She always have two options which i respect and they are to let me or to let me not in her apartment. Then i hung up.

As the night is coming soon i'm sitting here wondering should i go? As everybody here says "watch what she do, not what she says", so i guess that the fact she called me after a week of NC is pretty solid that she is available.

What would you do if you were in my shoes, gentlemen?

This is my dilemma for today because i need to fuck , yet i do not want to go there and come home after without a fuck. I guess that calling her on the phone and asking is not an option.