2 weeks ago I Went out for drinks with a girl from uni but failed to escalate besides some light kino, hair brushing and touching thigh on and off and sometimes she would rest her arm on my arm when talking.
We had fun but as soon as we left the bar she called two of her friends if they were awake so she could go over.
I kissed her on the cheek goodbye and she said see you in Uni I guess?
We did grab a coffee a few months back and that's about it.
Now I am out of town for a few weeks and I am already planning on asking a different girl out (girl #2) when I return (in one week) that seems way more intested and maybe contact #1 a week or two later if I can.
So I was thinking if that would destroy any chance, if any with girl #1 if I don't talk to her for a month or so.
I could delay meeting #2 coz she seems like a sure thing, I am just wondering if ignoring #1 would hurt my chances if I decide to try again in the future, or strike while the iron is still hot(if my failure to escalate enough did not make her think I wasn't interested/friendzoned me) .
P. S #1 is in a LDR but never mentioned her BF with me and she even said she was bored going back to her town for holidays(where her bf is)
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