Should you fap or not?

mountainThruster · 2016-09-23T10:08:24+00:00

Should you fap or not, if you are a virgin and trying to be cool around women?

Should you lift or not, if you are a virgin and trying to be sexy around women?

No one wants to hear about a dude and his fapping habbits but here is the context (I have my answer) and here is the problem.

No one wants to fuck a dude and specifically me but here's a problem that just says I don't want to deal with reality.

Side question. Is it healthy to pause your release while cumming so you can semi-cum 4-5 times without needing a break?

Side question that really says I have no fucking clue what to do with my life. Is it healthy to something, something, no pussy, not interesting, not reasons things?

I'm going to direct you to the side bar on your right. That is the winning pussy lottery ticket if you'd just fucking put in the work at the gym and in mandatory readings.

Go look in a mirror for some external validation mind hack. Tell yourself I have nothing to be guilty about. This is my biology and it is completely natural. I would like to fuck women now. Get your ass to the gym. If I have nothing at all to do, I will start with StrongLifts 5x5. I will never miss a dead lift. I will never miss a proper squat. I will learn from youtube videos on how to do that. Because that is much more constructive for one year than deciding to NOT JERK OFF.

Commitment is an action done consistently over time. This is the very moment in your life where you shut the fuck up and produce. This is the moment where your actions will lead you to abundance of pussy or an abundance of videos with pussies in them being fucked by cocks that will NEVER EVER be your dick.

AceBenedict23 · 2016-09-23T09:21:23+00:00

I noticed your other threads and a pattern is starting to form and I can see directly where your issue lies.

If I'm not mistaken you are the guy that wants to be friends with a lot of girls first, and you think that will help you eventually have sex with them.

You can go no fap if you want. Either way it really has no correlation to how many women you can bed. Your main issue is that you do not have the courage to approach yet.

Identify whatever reason you aren't cold approaching, write it down, and then shove it up your ass. It's your hamster making up excuses.

The only way to improve is to face your fears head on, and stop letting this fear have power over you.

Feel free to PM me, I know exactly what you're going through, almost identically. I'll help point you in the right direction if you want.

Title	Should you fap or not?
Author	IamNewToTheUS
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	September 23, 2016 7:08 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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