sibling advice

spoetnick · 2015-04-22T19:23:01+00:00

Yes, both your sister and your mother. The phrase AWALT applies to family as well, it's just a bit harder to accept at times.

Learn holding frame when dealing with them. Sister gets in your face and you want to react the same way she's acting out? Don't do it. You've lost your frame and entered hers. Remain calm and stoic. Find out if she's really having a problem or if she's just trying to push your buttons. Observe how she handles you and your dad. If she's like my sister, she will try to manipulate to get her way without her even knowing it. See how it works and remember it. Because ladies later in your life will do the exact same shit, but maybe more subtle. AWALT.

Is your mother giving you shit? Stay in your frame, find out what she wants and why she wants it. If you still live at home, you should still do what she's telling you, but that doesn't mean you can't learn from it.

Ace_Eagle1 · 2015-04-23T00:00:38+00:00

thanks spoetnick! yeah I'm still living at home, and I'm sure that is affecting any alpha potential. I gotta figure something out with that b/c now my dad is starting to give me shit about "man up" and society this, kicking me out that. this is prob one of the biggest issues I'm dealing with right now.

Title	sibling advice
Author	Ace_Eagle1
Upvotes	0
Comments	4
Date	April 22, 2015 3:43 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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