Hey guys,

First time in years I'm considering something longer, and this happens lmao

I'm 25, she's 26(HB7) and the third one is irrelevant, but probably between 18-23(HB6?) The first one is hotter.

So I met a girl in the middle of December, we spent 2 nights together and had some decent fucking and she could actually hold a conversation and was fun to hang with. So then she left for the holidays+new years and we kept in touch via text etc. We met up on the 1-st, she got me a present etc. (sorry none for her, too early imo)...

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I slept with a random chick I picked up at the bar on NYE and she's posting over FB about me and my appearance trying to reach me, since I left with no contacts exchanged. Now it's probably a matter of time until the first girl sees the post and asks me about it.

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I kinda like the first girl and was thinking about vetting her for an LTR, but I'm sure this is going to turn out ugly lmao.

We've not had a talk about exclusivity, but I'm sure she will flip out, as I can feel her assuming exclusivity tbh.

What would be a good way to hold frame and react to the confrontation? I'm assuming coming clean before her finding out is out of the question.

The key point, I think, is that monogamy is kinda expected in our culture, but it's not like we've been fucking for months or something...

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My go to would be just a very cold "yes, it's true" blabla facts about not establishing exclusivity etc.

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While writing this out, I realized I got hit with oneitis, but I'm still going to post this, fck it.