So I have a career (engineer at 19) A car and license 7-8 attractiveness, 7 personality and 9-10 style I don't lift because I do MMA and don't want to go up a weight class but I'm very toned=attractive with shirt off

If I consistently approached I know I could get laid with 7-8 and maybe the occasional 9 but I find myself wanting to raise my smv even more to avoid rejections.. it's been over a month since I had sex and I really want to start approaching but keep finding excuses eg. Oh but that guy's bigger why would she want me etc. Comparing myself to others is not helping..