So how am I doing?

Rasalom72 · 2016-01-26T20:56:00+00:00

Head over to MRP (marriedredpill), and learn all about dread. If she has friends you don't like, then you simply get her to stop seeing them.

marty2k · 2016-01-27T00:10:32+00:00

The key to relationship game is to realize your are constantly manipulating each other. She manipulates to get commitment, he manipulates to get sex and submission. It all matters who gets what in the end and who is the actor/reactor.

In a beta relationship, the woman files out sex only when the beta behaves well, and just enough to keep him from leaving (for some it's a few weeks, some it's a month, some it's a year). They use sex to get more commitment (marriage), to get gifts and vacations, to keep beta man in a subservient role. Since he will not leave and has no options, she is in full control. She rewards his good behavior with sex. She is the actor, he is the reactor.

In your case, you are the actor. You are in control and manipulating as much as she is. She still manipulates you for commitment, you manipulate for sex. The difference is she knows you have options and aren't afraid to leave, so she must react to you. By fucking you, she's saying "see, you don't have to go out and find another woman, I'm taking care of your needs".

As long as your rewarding her good behavior in reacting to you, you come out on top. If she takes sex off the table or doesn't react to dread game, then you leave. But if she reacts to dread in a way you like, you reward her. She gives you sex and submission, you keep up committing.

MrFuckupKing · 2016-01-26T21:32:55+00:00

This is not going to seem relevant but it is a forest for the trees answer.

Women rape victims often have guilt about being raped when they had an orgasm during the rape. This sets up an intense conflict within their mind.

Some say the orgasm is a protective response so the female is not harmed during what is often a violent act against her body.

I think there is another reason. Violence is an expression of power. In life power is erotic so violence becomes eroticized.

Women have an erotic relationship with power. This is what a woman is at her core. To not understand this is to not understand women because it creates the very foundation everything else rests on.

Masculine power awakens a woman's sexuality. I have seen this thousands of times. One of the things that reduces masculine power is monogamy.

Monogamous men produce less testosterone and give off different pheromones than a man spinning plates. In a sense monogamy castrates a man.

If you want sex in a LTR and you are going to be monogamous you have to edge the relationship so that you keep the very thing alive that creates attraction.

You must spin plates with the whole world of women without actually fucking them to keep alive inside you that which you will need to keep the one woman you want to stay interested in you.

Always being available to a woman is the opposite of this mind set and will crash the relationship. To keep attraction in a LTR you must act like you are not in a LTR while being in a LTR.

You must have a high conflict relationship as the jealousy she feels that her attraction causes her. If you are not experiencing conflict from her being possessive and jealous than you have lost her by not being masculine (powerful/desirable) to other women.

Her insecurity in this instance is a measure of her attraction for you.

If you are dominant enough she will not attack you because of her insecurities concerning the relationship but you will sense her fear of losing you.

To keep a LTR where sex takes place you must always be risking the stability of that relationship or her sexuality will go to sleep.

You must "rape the relationship" as that mind fuck you do to her to keep attraction created out of your masculinity.

LTR's create a paradox because by there very nature they destroy sexual attraction. You have to game her sexuality by leaving her with the impression that you always are looking around for options. It is a perfect balancing act between destroying the relationship and keeping it so that the relationship itself does not die.

Watch the movie "The Walk" to get a sense of what you need and how difficult it is to accomplish.

The movie is a perfect metaphor for life and the red pill.

Title	So how am I doing?
Author	mattyice6000
Upvotes	5
Comments	3
Date	January 26, 2016 8:50 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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