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Now women can get pregnant from being boned in two ways.
/r/MGTOW08/09/17 01:22 AM
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The wisdom that comes out of actual humility is rare in women and it is the lack of this wisdom and humility and corresponding self importance and entitlement that makes it impossible for most women to admit to what men have built, which is the very bedrock that civilization rests on. This was not always the case. Women at their core now feel profoundly inadequate to men but many men are blind to this because their own projections of fantasies they have created of the perfect women that they pro…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 10:17 PM
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Most heterosexual men know the experience of being intimidated by a woman. Maybe she is beautiful or maybe she is angry but the feeling of being intimidated is there. Frame starts with mindfulness and mindfulness starts with acceptance of emotions and men are not good at this because they run from being aware of what they are feeling. They suffer from a "fear of fear" as fear of the emotional self when these emotions make them feel weak and in danger. Men are taught in countless ways to hide wha…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/17 03:23 AM
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It is always interesting watching how a woman's mind works regarding sex. They get hot over dominance but feel like they are than being submissive (weak). The constant message pounded into their heads to be strong women has royally screwed their ability to be submissive i.e. .. enjoy sex. Their identity must be that they are strong independent women who would never submit to a man because they do not need a man. To need a man is to be a weak woman. To want a man is to be a weak woman. Their iden…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 12:59 AM
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You may not have done anything wrong. Women can buy things with sex, including getting guys to pay attention to them and entertain them. I have never married because I watched so many married women fucking around behind their husbands back when I was growing up. I have also had plenty of married women offer to spread their legs. Three that were pregnant at the time. Women can use their pussy like men use money and they can also buy things that money can't buy. There is a reason that for hundreds…
/r/askMRP21/01/17 07:12 AM
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If you answer "self help books" that implies you need help which could be viewed as weakness which could be further exploited by a wife who does not have your interest at heart. Human beings tend to be motivated by self interest. If her self interest is controlling you than that means monitoring your behavior. This goes beyond simply wanting to connect with you and is a form of policing. IMO STFU is a form of strategy that is useful in all social contexts and a must in marriage depending on a pa…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/16 02:08 AM
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IMO there are two types of frame. Consciously done so the person is controlling their behavior and a higher state of "frame" that is effortless and natural. This higher level frame comes out of a form of high awareness. An extreme understanding of how things work which than allows the individual to move beyond the limits of the self. It is based on truth, wisdom and experience so it is learned and earned. It is also a very peaceful state of mind and IMO has a spiritual component. It is the resul…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 01:23 AM
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Imagine the same pics taken after four years in the marines or as a MMA fighter. After looking at the pics again maybe ten years and you will have you answer.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 05:48 AM
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Here is one you can use.. " Most women are shitty lovers or dumb as rocks. Why would I want crappy sex or stupid conversations?" When you judge women as a group this makes an individual woman want to "prove you wrong" The key word is Most not All. You want her to be left with the impression that you are selective about who you fuck and hang with. And that is because You should be. IMO Guys who will fuck anything are losers who get exactly what they deserve. When a woman senses you are controlled…
/r/askTRP17/12/16 05:37 AM
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For myself the greatest life satisfaction I have experienced comes out of my work and learning. Because of my work I have traveled and lived in many different places. Met people from every walk of life possible. I'm often surprised by those who approach work as something they have to do instead of something they create out of themselves. The only other experience for me that would compare would be raising a child because creating a business and raising a child share many of the same qualities. A…
/r/askTRP31/01/16 11:08 PM
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Women can love sex and a woman that loves sex can out fuck any man. Being out fucked by a woman is a common subconscious fear among men because if they can not satisfy her they fear she will go looking elsewhere. The problem for women is what it takes to have good sex. Good sex is not always as easy to come by as it may be for a man. Good sex is what creates the craving for sex and also the emotional connection that takes good sex to a higher level which adds fuel to the fire of their craving fo…
/r/askTRP31/01/16 10:46 PM
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Saying anything about the attention you receive from women will either make you appear insensitive to your wife's feelings and or that you are bragging so either full of yourself (arrogant/superior) or insecure and need validation (inadequate/inferior/needy) On the other hand if you have ever been accused of being insensitive you may have been accidentally running dread by talking nonchalantly about your interactions with other women When I was more naïve about women they were constantly angry w…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/16 10:21 PM
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"Woman think of themselves as lower than alpha males on the social hierarchy" The problem for the alpha male is that a LTR can shift power from him to her by the very nature of a LTR. A LTR can castrate an alpha male unless he retains the same power he had outside the LTR (commitment) The LTR changes the hierarchy so her relationship to him. IMO It is much easier to be an alpha male spinning plates than an alpha male in a LTR or marriage. For me it goes from something fun and easy to work. The d…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 12:29 AM
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Feminine men love trashy women. They are excited by her masculinity because they do not have any of their own. Someday not to far in the future I suspect a penis will resemble a clitoris and a clitoris will resemble a penis.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 12:10 AM
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She may have shame or body issues. Some women take pride in their oral sex skills and others feel embarrassed. One possibility. She is conflicted about what you will think/feel about her if you see her giving you head because she is conflicted about sex or her attractiveness and worth as a woman. Women love candles. You can ease her into having the lights on by leaving one candle lit. She may be insecure because of her inexperience so fears you may make fun of her, tease her or think she is stup…
/r/askTRP30/01/16 11:16 PM
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Owning a LTR is like owning a house. There is always maintenance. I worked similar hours and had the same complaints from women in LTR and that was one of the many reasons I preferred spinning plates. If you do not have time to own a dog you probably do not have time to own a LTR because women's expectations and behavior have changed drastically in the last fifty years. Women usually want far more from a relationship than a man does. Especially if he is focused on a career. There are plates out …
/r/askTRP30/01/16 10:56 PM
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Attacks can be subtle forms of bullying. Bullies do not stop on their own. John needs to be put in his place while leaving him in a position he does not lose face. Allan probably does not project the ability to be violent. He does not intimidate people. Someone who has this ability can glance at someone with a look and they will back down. The other person senses that there are no limits to where this person will go. This is an extremely important ability a man must have. I would suggest Allan l…
/r/askTRP30/01/16 10:17 PM
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You are experiencing clarity because you now see clearly. An epiphany where all the pieces fall into place. Hinesight offers 20/20 vision. Idealism causes people to have idealistic views of that which they feel idealistic about. I have built homes for a number of famous people and I have found myself enjoying their work less after meeting them because what they created was so great that I thought they would live up to the greatness of their work, which they never do. It amazes me how vile people…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/16 04:37 AM
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Appeal to their vanity and exploit their insecurities without ever allowing them to become aware of either. The same as you would with any woman you are gaming but only more so. They must think that you offer them something that no one else does without them seeing that you are planting this idea in their head. You do not point things out to women (sell them) as much as you place something in their path that they find so that they think it is their idea. Just as advertisers tell people what they…
/r/askTRP30/01/16 12:32 AM
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"civilization" changes how people adapt to their environment. The Taliban probably does not study the red pill. You live within a system. The system has structure as rules and penalties as costs. It is like playing a video game. Men and women have been at war with each other since the dawn of time. They seek to both utilize each other while also protecting themselves from each other. Women have sex and children to offer among other things. Men may offer sex but they are offering something a woma…
/r/askTRP30/01/16 12:19 AM
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Ideally if you can work in the same field as your studies, you will get a jump on others. The approach I took was looking for work where I could have time to study so in essence being paid to study. I worked in the hotel business during the school year, first as a front desk clerk from 3-11p.m and than a night auditor from 11pm to 7am. Working nights can be rough but I had three hours a night to study. Avoid places where you are likely to get robbed unless you like the rush of adrenaline that ge…
/r/askTRP29/01/16 11:52 PM
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Being seen with another woman may make her want you even more. If she is competitive with women and attached to you she will look for ways to make herself more important to you It will depend on the tension between her self image and her attraction for and to you. Between her dignity and what she does to keep it and her desire to have you in her life. Men have relationships with a woman's self opinion as much as they have a relationship with a woman.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 11:19 PM
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I worked as a construction manager in the Mumbai Pune area. West coast of India about midway between north and south. Mainly setting up manufacturing facilities. A lot of under the table money changing hands takes place. Controlled chaos. Agree with Russia. Those people are a tough hard bunch. Long violent history and cold winters. The women are amazingly beautiful until they turn amazingly ugly. You see some of these women as Ukrainians in your part of the world, Edmonton as an example. I'm fon…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 11:09 PM
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If you make first contact it will look like you are acting out of fear (guilt, fear of consequences, losing her) If you lied to her and she thought you were exclusive than you are on the path that the lie created If you did not lie to her and gave her no reason to think you are exclusive than you are on another path. The path is decided by what you want to accomplish and what has taken place in the past.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 10:33 PM
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Describe how you did the pulls. The answer may be in there. It was her perception and interpretation of what you were doing as to why (meaning she gave) that probably caused her to pull away. Your pulls may have pushed her away (made her defensive so prevented attraction) She became hostile. This is easy to do with women depending on where their head is at concerning men in general. So much of game is about being able to size up a woman quickly and constantly. It is being in the flow. It reminds…
/r/askTRP29/01/16 10:12 PM
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Yes and no. Most hot and or rich people are fucked up in their own ways and being attractive or rich seems to keep them fucked up. It is paradoxical that often the person who has nothing has everything because they have nothing. I see this when I travel to poor countries. The U.S is rich and its people are miserable but go to India where poverty is everywhere and the people seem much more content. It is one of life's lessons that getting what you want does not necessarily make you happy. Travel …
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 10:05 PM
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Men lie more often than not for strategic reasons. They usually have a conscious goal and use lying to reach that goal. It is consciously planned and executed (intent) or a calculated reaction to avoid/gain something. The key is that men usually know they are lying even if they may not fully understand why they are lying. Women can lie for the same reasons men do but they are driven by subconscious needs much more than men. Women are prevented from knowing their own minds to a greater degree tha…
/r/askTRP29/01/16 09:48 PM
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She is using your need to win against you. She keeps you hooked through your anger and need to win. The interplay between ego and emotion. Smart girl. She understands men. The challenge keeps you interested.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 04:23 AM
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Selling real estate is usually commission based and you will need to take courses and pass a state exam. Usually you will not see money for the first year unless you accidentally fall into a listing or sale. It is an excellent way to make money long term when the market is hot I have my HVAC certs and went to tech school. I have made hundreds of thousands of dollars with this knowledge and it has also allowed me to work all over the world. The refrigeration angle could be a good one if you like …
/r/askTRP28/01/16 11:36 PM
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It takes time to learn these lessons and we all need to learn them. Be hungry for life. Be curious and seek adventure. Cultivate your appetites and skills. It is always about how we value ourselves. If time feels like a burden that you must find something to spend it on, than you are not moving toward valuing your life. The days fly by when you reach that place where life is precious. You can see how a person is living by the relationships they are having. Make your life interesting for yourself…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 11:24 PM
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Women crave power. It is their drug of choice and the more they have the more they want. Receiving attention makes them feel powerful. They prove to themselves and others they have power (are powerful women) with sex by what they can make men do with sex. This is such a basic aspect of women that it shocks me when men do not see it and most do not. Men cannot afford to see women as they really are. They must make women something pure and innocent. To see women clearly terrifies and disgusts men …
/r/askTRP28/01/16 11:10 PM
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It takes a confident man to have enough self respect for himself that he can acknowledge when he is not wanted or liked so chooses to leave. At first a man may think he is leaving with his tail between his legs but where the self respect comes in is having higher standards for yourself. Why associate with people who do not enjoy your company or like you. Find those people that do. By moving out into the world and meeting people who complement you instead of trying to be what they want, you are n…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 10:45 PM
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Anxiety seems to be a very large part of young men's lives and this anxiety incapacitates them. Introducing physical risk into their life (done intelligently) will move them in a direction of being less anxious. Often ADHD and anxiety go hand in hand. Because of testosterones effects on the male body if they are not using up this stored energy it turns inward. There is a strong connection between hormones and ADHD. The lack of physicality in men's lives is making them sick. To stay healthy in bo…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 10:31 PM
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The bottom 25% of men is gone. They did not die in war but died inside. They still live at home with their parents even though they are in their late twenties or early thirties and sometimes even older. A movie Failure to Launch even glorified living at home with your parents. They work at McDonalds or its equivalent and have a high school diploma or less. Mens lack of ambition and womens new found oportunity and ambition have created a great divide between the genders. Add to this that homosexu…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 06:59 AM
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The way you describe John he is either more naturally dominant without realizing he is acting dominant so overshadows Allan or feels threatened by Allan so attempts dominance. Look at how the man views his world. Does he have an adversarial relationship with it? Men like this will have problems with other men because they always see men as a threat. Men who are comfortable with themselves and in the world will not automatically have an adversarial relationship with their environment. They wait, …
/r/askTRP28/01/16 12:31 AM
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Do you care if you are loosing her? How a man tries to keep a woman is often how he looses her yet you will loose her if you are indifferent about keeping her if she has other options and is confident enough in herself to pursue them. "You don't know me" is often when guys think they do know her and tell her what they know when they are actually wrong about what is going on inside her head. It is risky to assume you know what a woman is feeling. The world they live in is often so contradictory a…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 12:17 AM
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The older I get the more I value the company of men because they are not women. I did not see this in my twenties because I was a hound chasing pussy and largely ignored the world of men except for a few close buddies who were hounds themselves. The more women act like men the more disgusting they become. They pervert what is well and good in a man into something twisted and evil when expressed in a woman. Women take the worst things found in feminine men and give it a truly toxic spin. I'm very…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 10:10 PM
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Yes and no. I do not believe in rape but I do believe the animal must be released to remain an animal. Sex must never become to civilized as always being civil. You can arouse a woman during foreplay so she is wet and ready and than you take her like an animal. Rape is wrong but the rapists are animals and it is this part of their sexuality that I think all men must tap into and keep alive if they are to remain sexual beings. Why is stranger sex so good. Because it is lust in the absence of love…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 09:57 PM
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I wished mothers loved their children, or at least more of them and in ways that are healthy. I have had to many innocent buddies in divorce court get called pedophiles by women who I knew did not care about the children to believe in the maternal instinct any longer. Society raises men to be good because they know how bad they can be but this same society completely ignores the harm women can do, especially as mothers. The older I get the lower my opinion of women becomes.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 09:39 PM
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Women collectively have little faith in a mans love. There are many reasons for this. Their past relations with men and negative messages they received in childhood. Because their main value to most men is sexual. The inherent mistrust that women have from being physically smaller. The strong effect their body chemistry has on them. I have found that loving a woman is as much about managing her without her knowing she is being managed as any thing else. It is a learned skill that must be practic…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 09:31 PM
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Those who step out of the herd are always resented. It takes courage, determination and the ability to tolerate risk to do so. When you reject the herd you show them what they are lacking that keeps them in the herd. Strength points out weakness by the contrast it creates. People want sameness so they can feel good about themselves. This is why in a democracy the lowest common denominator is worshipped You can be different only if you do not rise above this denominator. It is not that you left y…
/r/askTRP27/01/16 09:09 PM
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You can do a head fuck on yourself by trying to control your orgasm all the time. In nature with the threat of being killed close by, fast orgasm was necessary to survival. To orgasm fast is the way we are wired to be. I would occasionally give in to that impulse to rip her clothes off and fuck her hard and fast without any concern for her pleasure. That is closer to how evolution designed you to be. If you bend your sexuality to far from how it was created you risk breaking it. Sex is a primiti…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/16 11:23 PM
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Try not to lose that vital connection women need while staying uncaged. I would suggest you give something of yourself intensely that leaves her feeling very aware of your awareness of her or she will leave you to protect herself. Women do not tolerate feeling unloved for long. If the tears are real and not a ploy you may have a serious problem on your hands. Men tend to be very task oriented. They either damage a relationship with a woman by ignoring her completely or they damage it by becoming…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/16 11:07 PM
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I would need to know about you and the life you have lived. The forces that have shaped you into you and who you are. Family relations, culture, religion, siblings, past abuse, if you have been bullied by men. How you fit into the social world of men. All those things that build your self image as what kind of man you are. I speak in generalities because there is never enough information to speak in specifics. PM me if you want to.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 10:53 PM
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Women do not forget the guy who took their virginity and they never forget the men who they got a get out of jail free card from as being able to piss all over them without consequences. Once a dog bites, you can never trust that dog again. She will always smell blood at any hint of weakness and because of your desire to protect your children from her you are automatically in a weak position if she is under the same roof as you. I'm not sure you can turn a woman with that history and the power d…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/16 10:41 PM
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When a woman disrespects you give her the bird and walk away. You are being abused because they sense weakness (femininity) All sexual women carry loathing for weak men because they experience them as unnatural. Your grandma, sister or mother may not care if you are feminine but any woman of child bearing age will. Think of this as a form of hate. Nature has placed this in women to keep them safe from weak men. It comes out of their maternal instincts. It is not personal but it always comes out …
/r/askTRP26/01/16 10:04 PM
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Don't shit where you eat unless you want to smell it while you are eating. If the relationship goes south you are stuck working with her and in all likelihood she will be bad mouthing you and trying to get you fired. Work poontang is low hanging fruit that is rarely worth picking unless you don't care about the job. In college I would take jobs as another avenue to scoring pussy but I did not care about keeping the job
/r/askTRP26/01/16 09:51 PM
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This is not going to seem relevant but it is a forest for the trees answer. Women rape victims often have guilt about being raped when they had an orgasm during the rape. This sets up an intense conflict within their mind. Some say the orgasm is a protective response so the female is not harmed during what is often a violent act against her body. I think there is another reason. Violence is an expression of power. In life power is erotic so violence becomes eroticized. Women have an erotic relat…
/r/askTRP26/01/16 09:32 PM
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Women cheat for specific reasons to fulfill specific needs. Sometimes because they love dick the way men love pussy and always want a new experience. Men are amusement parks they use for what men can give them. Attention and entertainment along with sex is mainly what they want and need. This type of women is very restless and is comfortable using men and will have a difficult time being monogamous. There are also the women who need a strong man who adores them. They need his strength to feel pr…
/r/askTRP25/01/16 11:14 PM
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Don't help to get sex. Don't help because you have a need to rescue people (co-dependency) Don't help because it is expected of you by society because you are a man. (leeches of society) I help people all the time because I have the ability to do so. I have the health and the resources. I help as a way to give back to the world what I have taken from it. If they expected it because of what they have between their legs than I would have said no. If they needed help and were reaching out than poss…
/r/askTRP25/01/16 10:44 PM
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Some guys do everything they can to avoid being rejected. If you are one of them than use women to get over your fear of rejection. The fear of rejection will always leave you at a disadvantage in relationships. If you are avoiding humiliation, embarrassment, ridicule, rejection, cruelty than you are trying to avoid life. Life is ugly. Jump in with both feet and get dirty. Sometimes to be strong you have to survive those things that make you strong. Remember that you are always swimming with sha…
/r/askTRP25/01/16 10:37 PM
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Understand the difference between what a woman says she wants in a man and what women really want. When you know that in your bones most of your problems with women will disappear and the problems that are always there because they are women, you will know what to do about.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 10:29 PM
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Well said
/r/askTRP25/01/16 10:22 PM
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I would run into this guy occasionally whose whole purpose in life was to come across as mysterious. His game was to imply he was working for the CIA. It worked on a few but most saw him as a fool and he was clueless about how he was really perceived. To act mysterious or powerful will come across to many as an act. They play this game because they believe they are smarter than everyone else and this is their undoing. More people than is imagined have good B.S sensors but they often do not call …
/r/askTRP25/01/16 12:17 AM
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What do you want to accomplish with monk mode? What will bring you peace and what does it mean to you to be free? Free from what? How have you been trapped for 25 years ?
/r/askTRP25/01/16 12:07 AM
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The more we use that which is outside us to make us into what we are the more the outside defines us. Men use women for status and to support their identity as men. This than makes them dependent on women for their sense of self and confidence. Women become a crutch that a man always needs to feel like a man. People using other people to establish themselves in society. To carve out their place in it. They become trapped by the very thing they are seeking to use. Don't sell your soul for a woman…
/r/askTRP24/01/16 11:56 PM
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I was one of the lucky ones and avoided addiction of any kind. Largely because I knew I could become an addict so did not tempt the fates. I have known hundreds and hundreds of addicts through work and just meeting them in life. The problem seems much larger than what a casual look would revel. It is everywhere. You identified one of the problems of quitting. Everyone that you socialize with uses drugs. You live inside this drug culture. People rarely want to admit that they have a problem so if…
/r/askTRP24/01/16 11:50 PM
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Branch swinging at its finest.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 11:37 PM
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The secret they sense that they call calmness is something they want for themselves. This is found by those who seek it that are willing to do what it takes to have it. You will not be able to give it to them because they will not understand what you are trying to give. You would be trying to describe color to someone who was born blind. Women are even more prone to this blindness than men are and why they often look to men to be lead out of the darkness they are lost in. If your calmness is gen…
/r/askTRP24/01/16 10:44 PM
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Sometimes the best way to get a woman out of your head is to fuck her. You than realize it was the sex fucking with your head and not her. This of course is not a good idea if there are red flags and fucking her will actually do the opposite and put her in your head even more. I was never blinded by sex by having more sex. Fucking a woman always helped me see her more clearly.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 10:42 PM
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Love is a gift and the gift of love that women offer is not the gift men think women are offering. The way men want to be loved by a woman is unnatural to her. She would have to set aside everything she is and wants, to be able to love that way. You are looking for selfless love. There is no such thing. There is love that looks selfless but that is only because of the perspective of the person who thinks it is selfless. Selfless love is a delusion that humanity is addicted to. A human being must…
/r/askTRP23/01/16 10:28 PM
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I think when men intentionally harm a woman that has not harmed them they diminish themselves as men by taking unjustified revenge against an innocent woman. We become what we do. I'm very firm with women but I'm gentle with them within this firmness. The more you understand women the more difficult it is to not feel sympathy and even pity for them as the plight of being born a woman. I do not allow my sympathy or pity to weaken me by allowing them to abuse me or by trying to rescue them or make…
/r/askTRP23/01/16 10:07 PM
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Unsolicited keeps the guy in a dominant position. It is doing it on demand that I have a problem with. Think of it like sex. Once a woman is commanding you to perform in the bedroom you have entered her frame. If she commands you to eat her out you are now in the role of gigolo as her servant.(Beta) If a woman screams out "fuck me harder" because she is in the throes of passion this is not a command but something she could not help screaming out. Context is everything
/r/askTRP23/01/16 09:59 PM
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When you understand why it is so important that a woman has sex with you beyond just the sex, than you will understand why they are so important to you. Them having sex with you symbolizes and promises something else. It has meanings that you are attaching to it. Understand what that is and you will find balance.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 02:05 AM
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Nothing makes a woman feel more like a slut than loving a man who does not love them back while still having sex with him. Nothing makes a woman feel less than human (slut) than trying to fuck like a man. Some women will feel like a slut if she fucks a man the first time she meets him and he does not call her or make an effort to have her around. This is becoming rare because women now have casual sex with anyone to protect themselves from feeling like sluts. They have stepped fully into the par…
/r/askTRP23/01/16 01:45 AM
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Women do love a man because he loves her. Women love a man because of "how he loves her" How he loves her is an expression of his own love for himself as embracing that which makes him a man (not a woman) There is beta love (feminine) and than there is alpha love (masculine). Sexual attraction for the woman is the feminine attraction for and to the masculine. It is animal energy so is instinctual and largely subconscious. Love is the sexual attraction blended with the father the little girl insi…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 12:35 AM
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IMO It is better to be alone than to be second choice. Attraction from a woman demands that you are first choice. Anything less and you do not have attraction. Only attraction protects you from what a woman inherently is. If you fuck around with women where you are second choice you must be ice cold as seeing that about the relationship. They must be nothing more than a thing that you use for your own pleasure and dispose of afterwards.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 12:25 AM
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I dated a very decent girl for about a year who would have a once a month melt down by going into hysterics. Full blown hysterics where you worry she may swallow her tongue or someone would call the cops. Very freaky IMO I realized she was suffering in the relationship because I could not love her the way she needed to be loved. It is like watching an animal suffer from an injury that you care about. I felt both sympathy and pity for her. You have to put the animal down to stop the suffering. Wh…
/r/askTRP22/01/16 11:48 PM
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Sociopaths do not seek approval. They are also likely to hide what they are because they know that others experience them as abnormal so this makes others dangerous to them. They sense they are different but do not have the words to describe it unless they spend years in therapy which they avoid because either they do not think they have a problem or once again because it is best to live in the shadows. Someone who is dark triad would not waste their time on a forum because they are busy doing w…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/16 10:59 PM
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Idealism as magical thinking is the same thing as feeling like you will live forever. You do not actually think you will because on some level you understand that you will die but the power of youth and health as the body you live in and possess makes the thought of death something so remote that you feel like you will live forever. You are intoxicated with the sensation of the magical as magical thinking. You have accepted your relationship like we learn to accept our mortality. The sweetness o…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/16 10:37 PM
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I only see it now because I have known so many women. This requires time. I only sensed the truth in my twenties but it took twenty more years for me to put it together. It is a bit like pulling back the curtain to see how the magician did the magic. What you are trying to see is extremely difficult to see because it is so vast and woven into everything. This is why I really appreciate the movie the Matrix. It shown perfectly how hard it is to understand something when you are on the inside of i…
/r/askTRP22/01/16 09:54 PM
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One of the ways women try to stop men from banging other women is by threatening to bang other men. If you want to be free to experience your sexuality the way you want to than you have to let go of the concern about what a woman is doing when she is not with you. Otherwise you are handing her your sexuality. Guilt is felt because you feel that using women for sex is wrong. This is another aspect of you not owning your sexuality. You have been taught that male sexuality is bad and so how you fuc…
/r/askTRP22/01/16 09:45 PM
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You can make it about her insecurities or you can make it about guys being dogs that will hump anything or both. I have never met a woman yet unless she is fucked in the head that is comfortable about guys only seeing her as a fuck toy Women are very sensitive to feeling like a piece of meat. Trying to not feel like a piece of meat is one reason I think some women are hyper sexual. They think that if they fuck every guy available that they own their sexuality so will avoid feeling like a piece o…
/r/askTRP22/01/16 09:21 PM
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People may not give you pleasure. You may not find pleasure in what people do "together" that gives pleasure. I have this problem. I need to be intellectually stimulated or I get bored fast. I could not find this intellectual stimulation with most people and found myself suffering. I turned to books to find the people who could give me what I needed. My interests are esoteric. I do not find pleasure in ways most people do. I was not a loner by choice but was forced to become one. If you are an o…
/r/askTRP22/01/16 01:15 AM
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Part of the problem may be a lack of experience so she never learned skills. The other part may be her attitude as to all those reasons she may not be into it. (taste, gag reflex, feeling humiliated/slutty, worried you will stop respecting her, ect..) It helps if she brags about her ability to give good head. If you have had mindblowing BJ's than you have an advantage because you know what you like so it will be easier to teach her if she is teachable (good attitude) If she is a reader pick up a…
/r/askTRP22/01/16 01:07 AM
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The environment shapes the person. People are nicer to attractive people so they are more likely to think the world is a nice place and be nice back. Of course if you run across a stuck up beautiful bitch than this is a different animal from the nice girls. Pretty women are also pressured to act pretty (be nice and sweet) There are many messages women receive that you are nothing if you are ugly. I think this can make them hostile and defensive sometimes. Ugly women tend to not trust for their o…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 11:13 PM
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Intimidation is an art form because to intentionally intimidate shows fear if fear is being felt. Fear shows weakness if it is the fear of harm coming to the self. You may want to read about soft power and indirect forms of domination and intimidation. I am more on the quiet side myself. I manage hundreds of men similar to your coworker. I'm very good at it because I do not need to get in pissing matches with them but if I do they know what will happen. Your being an introvert gives you the chan…
/r/askTRP21/01/16 10:47 PM
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He came more from a position of strength than weakness. It is the difference between expecting respect because you are worthy of it versus demanding respect because you do not have respect for yourself so need reassurance. In his words what I saw was a man who was not emotionally needy because he is comfortable in his own skin as a man so he did not feel threatened by his wife. He was not in a defensive frame of mind. A mans relationship to and with women always comes out of his relationship wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 10:25 PM
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Good looking men are at risk for vanity and narcissism. ( I had to overcome both to become mentally healthy in my own life) Nothing is free in life. You pay for what life gives you. I could not see my own physical attractiveness but apparently everyone else could. Most women who have been in my life felt unattractive compared to me. This makes them extremely insecure because in their minds they hold a man partly with their beauty. To much of a good thing stops being a good thing. It made me have…
/r/askTRP21/01/16 10:10 PM
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Alpha is an interesting concept. Asking what is alpha is similar to asking what is courage. Many men project strength without actually being strong. Many men project alpha without being alpha. Sometimes a man is labelled a coward when he actually has shown great courage and heroes often are made out of men who were not acting heroically. The longer I live the more life proves to me that what is easily apparent often is not. You may be able to look for indications that someone is alpha but only t…
/r/askTRP21/01/16 09:54 PM
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Smile and wink while you say it.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 02:21 AM
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The higher a woman's number usually also means the higher the crazy. Women cannot handle being beautiful. It fucks up their head. Your disciplining of her will have to be a constant. You will always have to treat her as an insecure rebellious child that needs a firm hand. You can never afford to be influenced by her looks. That will be the death of you. It is the only way to reduce the crazy that comes out of being beautiful. She has a love hate relationship with her outsides. You are entering i…
/r/askTRP21/01/16 02:16 AM
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Get your fucking foot off my wheels man, you aint paying for that shit. Usually works for me. If you are packing bigger guns than him I doubt he will fuck with you. He sounds insecure and needs to test you because of this. I would suggest establishing dominance because you are giving candy to a child otherwise. He will only want more and more. Lose the nice guy attitude and adopt the velvet glove attitude. Don't publicly shame him. Do it one on one. The guy who truly does not give a fuck whether…
/r/askTRP21/01/16 02:04 AM
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Your talking so that means that your mouth is still working.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 01:58 AM
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Single mama's often become very attached to beta males. Betas slide nicely into the "family unit" A beta male is less threatening to her because of the children and a more practical choice. If you are alpha than she wants to get her rocks off but if she thinks she can turn you into a beta than she will want a relationship. Is she shopping for sex or a daddy for her children or both? Also how will you handle it if it turns into a relationship and the kids get close to you? There are a lot more co…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 11:53 PM
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Flakey women are for fucking and nothing else. She is looking for something from everyone. Wrap your dick and watch for crazy otherwise enjoy her unless the crazy becomes dangerous. (stalking, camping outside your house, physically attacking other women, ect..) In general my opinion is to next flakey women because they are never worth the trouble. They are either fucked up (crazy) or playing you (calculating) or both. Why bring drama into your life? If you do than you pay the drama price for pus…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 11:40 PM
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One reason men are more likely to commit suicide or experience certain forms of illness comes out of them trying to "be strong" Being strong does not mean being an unfeeling robot because those feelings will turn on you. There is a difference between crying because you feel sorry for yourself and crying because you are mourning the loss of someone you love. Experiencing and showing grief does not make you weak. At the same time you are not responsible for other people as to how they act or feel.…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 11:34 PM
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Women are more susceptible than men to adopting a herd mentality. Feminism is simply an expression of this herd mentality. Women move like a flock of birds. Feminism capitalizes on this as strength in numbers. The media is what people use to learn how to act like people if they want to be what the media represents as successful people. The media tells women how they are suppose to act to be "winners" or "cool" This simply means what they need to do to be in the herd and while in the herd also th…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 10:43 PM
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All human beings are delusional. It is necessary to cope with the truths they are trying to avoid seeing. Understand why and you stop being delusional.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 10:23 PM
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Stop basing your opinion of yourself on the actions of others. You have placed all of the power of what and who you are in the hands of others.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 10:19 PM
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Life is one giant cosmic joke played on all of us. Women are the vortex of that joke. Sarcasm can have a hardness to it that works against itself. You could come across as bitter and angry. I do not take women seriously but I also do not take myself seriously either. The reason comes out of understanding the cosmic joke we are living in. When you step back and you see the game every single person is playing it is funny IMO. You are gaming women by pulling the strings and like a puppet they dance…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 10:07 PM
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Building muscle has a great deal to do with age. If you are in your teens or twenties it is much easier than when you are in your forties. Being skinny means it will take time and effort. You have testosterone working for you. If women who do not have that advantage can bulk up than you can. Impatience and frustration are bigger enemies to you than your being skinny. Also much of TRP is about your mental game. Finding that warrior spirit and developing it. A strong decisive mind can take you pla…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 09:38 AM
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Agreed. Women changed partly because of birth control and partly because of the sexual revolution. The main idea behind it that women should have the same sexual freedom and rights men do. In the past women controlled other women as not being sexual outside of commitment. They understood that the more women who had sex the more they were pressured to do the same. The community, family and religion were also invested in women not being sexual outside of marriage. The sexual marketplace was restri…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 09:26 AM
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Shit tests make me salivate. I wish women would ask me the types of questions you guys post on here but they never do anymore. Often I take their question and throw it right back at them as a question. I would say one word "Intentions ?" said as a question as I raise one eyebrow. She has backed herself into a corner. If she answers back. Are you just trying to get sex. I than ask another question. You think I'm trying to get sex from you? Try playing the game of never answering by always throwin…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 09:12 AM
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A man who lives within the law faces a paradox of questioning if he is a coward who fears the consequences of breaking the law (fear of other men as state) or is a good man and his respect for the law is an indication of this goodness Is it courage or cowardice to respect the law? A lawless man many fear the consequences of breaking laws but he is not asking himself if he is a coward. Fear is not necessarily cowardice. Are European men cowards proved by avoiding confrontation with the barbarians…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 12:34 AM
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A woman lives through a mans power. A man becomes a man by giving his power away because he has an endless source of it as that which he draws on from within You were not diminished by her including herself in your accomplishments and she honored you for it by acknowledging you as the true source of the power. You proved your power by not needing to demand recognition of it. Perfect balance. Perfect harmony
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 12:12 AM
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If you finances will support a maid service I would take some of the pressure off her. Women are usually control freaks and freak out more the less they feel they have control. This is extremely so for mothers You as an alpha can delegate and manage (leadership) reducing her freak outs (need for control) by solving the problems that leave her feeling out of control Dirty house, things needing repaired, disorganized, ect.. That which worries her and makes her feel vulnerable to bad things happeni…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 12:01 AM
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A man who needs nothing is a powerful man. The challenge for you would be to find and give meaning to your life in ways very different from how others do it. I have been with hundreds of women and sometimes I think about what I could have done with that time if I had not spent that time with women It is not regret because I'm content with the life I have made but only the question of "what if" I'm 45 now and the hormones rage less and I like the quiet because it frees me to think of other things…
/r/askTRP19/01/16 11:52 PM
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Women find safety in numbers. To be isolated is a woman's worst primal fear. Taking your daughters cell has socially isolated her. She is gathering her troops and keeping herself relevant by making you "the bad man" This behavior is as old as time. Your daughter does not need a therapist because unfortunately your daughter is normal. Teenage girls are perfect keyholes to view what woman inherently are. You are only seeing that which women keep hidden from men when they become more sophisticated …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 11:38 PM
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Women who are not hooked on the sex will have sex until they do not think it will lead to commitment. They are either shopping for a relationship or really like to fuck you so stay around for the sex. If they do find that man who rocks their sexual universe than they become very much about locking him up in a relationship. IMO you have the perfect balance. You are not getting them hooked on the sex and you are not giving them commitment. They leave and you avoid the crazy that comes with the oth…
/r/askTRP19/01/16 11:23 PM
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To label a woman a slut based on numbers does not tell the actual story behind what made her a slut or if she is actually a slut. A slut is about how a woman uses sex and the numbers are an indication that she is a slut (misuses sex) A slut is a "mindset". A pattern of behavior that comes out of who and what she is. In this day and age when easy sex is available men do not need to commit. Men currently create and control the sexual marketplace. Men define the rules of the sexual marketplace that…
/r/askTRP19/01/16 11:02 PM
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Are you a man that women do not want to kiss and if so how?
/r/askTRP19/01/16 10:29 PM
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He may fear your becoming stronger than him. He may fear who you will be associating with a the gym ((bad influences) He may think only gay men lift. All his reasons are likely about him. Making your body the best it can be has lifelong benefits. It has saved my life on a number of occasions. Google building muscle without weights. There are many different approach's to working out.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 10:27 PM
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Masturbation can be abused or it can be used. If you masturbate to porn or if masturbating replaces your drive to meet women than you may be misusing it. On the other hand if it brings peace of mind and calmness so you are less likely to become addicted to tinder, porn or fucked in the head women than maybe masturbating is a good thing. Approaching masturbation as a black or white choice and activity may be a bad idea that is harmful to you. Masturbation as an act of self awareness as being awar…
/r/askTRP19/01/16 10:18 PM
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I have worked in construction with hundreds of men over many years. The hostile guys are always the guys secretly pissing themselves inside. Actual men understand this about the boys trying to act like men. That shit is everywhere in the world. Not just in the red pill world. The more men are expected to act like men the more the boys act hostile because they think they will than be perceived as men by men. It is a dead give away that they are not.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 05:28 AM
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You can fuck a woman the same day you meet her or seduce her over a lifetime. Seduction is an art, where any moron with a hard on can fuck. Trust takes time and consistency. Are you worthy of trust? If you want someone longterm you should be selective. To be selective requires seeing her in many different circumstances so that the actual person she is "like cream" rises to the top. Flirt and keep the sexual tension high. Doing this and not going for the fuck will make her crazy horny but she wil…
/r/askTRP19/01/16 05:12 AM
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Why do you describe yourself as an Omega male ?
/r/askTRP19/01/16 04:53 AM
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Do you have the money to buy them? I used buckets filled with water hanging from each end of a metal rod when I was first starting out. I built my bench out of scrap lumber.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 04:46 AM
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For the same reason that Marilyn French stated in her book that all men are rapists. Self loathing breeds hate
/r/askTRP19/01/16 04:42 AM
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Is this co-worker your supervisor? As an electrical contractor your concerns about the legality of the work you are doing are correct. If someone is injured or killed you will face criminal proceedings. Nothing usually happens until after the shit hits the fan. Low voltage is one thing but if you are playing with line voltage the risk goes up dramatically Plus in the advent of a fire the fire insurance is now worthless if it can be tied to changes made to the building and insurance companies alw…
/r/askTRP18/01/16 11:50 PM
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Do not sacrifice your health for money and do not sacrifice money for your health. You need both. School (future money) , work (present money) and health (everything else) Brazil is in trouble because the economy is tied to China. Any economy tied to commodities is in trouble. I made my own weights and worked out at home while studying when I was you age. It actually helped my studies because it kept me alert. Sometimes it is possible to combine more than one thing you need to do for yourself at…
/r/askTRP18/01/16 11:41 PM
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I'm a high stimulation seeker. My mind is always hungry for new experiences. I had a problem with focusing on tasks at hand. Working in construction helped teach me mindfulness because otherwise you get injured or killed. Being in that environment forced me to stay in the moment. I also participate in sports. Sports are excellent for teaching mindfulness because you must focus and be in the moment. If you are high energy and do not manage this energy, it will turn on you. Meditation as emptying …
/r/askTRP18/01/16 11:14 PM
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A good man finds himself living in a paradox when surrounded by evil. Who is innocent and should he protect them if by doing so he encourages the continuation of evil ? This is why I like Ayn Rands writings. She could foresee the paradox good men would be faced with. I think of it like fighting for freedom and democracy. What if you are only fighting for the illusion of freedom and democracy to keep you fighting? I think many come back from war wondering this.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 10:54 PM
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Men are women's natural enemies in a woman's mind. She needs them but also fears them. She wants to utilize them without any risk to her by locking them up or civilizing them. The elites and women work perfectly together because they both fear free, strong, confident, couragous men.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 10:49 PM
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She will love you in her own mind and she will be convinced that this love is eternal and no one will love you as much or more than her. What is not included in these words because she herself does not feel them is " For the moment" or "For now" You may or may not have experienced unconditional love of a parent. This is that love a parent is programmed by nature to feel unless the parent is so broken they cannot feel what nature programmed them to feel. Maybe you experienced this love from your …
/r/askTRP18/01/16 10:37 PM
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How serious we take ourselves considering that we die no matter what. There is nothing funnier to me than the display of human ego as it runs from the obvious. How little we value the little time we have to live. Needless to say my humor is dark and I laugh to avoid crying.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 10:18 PM
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Are the European men to docile to protect women or are they apathetic and indifferent. Men all of the world are checking out of participation in society because they do not see how it is in their interests. Why protect something that has no value? The way men are controlled is by branding them cowards. You can make a man do anything to prove he is not a coward and men make this possible. Men implying cowardice of one group over another plays perfectly into the hands of the elites who pull the st…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 10:11 PM
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I believe in throwing a woman a bone occassionally and taking a suggestion if I think it is a good one. If I have no interest in doing what they want or going where they want than that is another matter altogether. Usually I dump them or only fuck them because it means we have no interests in common.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 03:33 AM
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If she actually experienced you as dangerous than she was responding to and verbalizing that which she felt. The feeling that she could not influence you and by not doing so making you dangerous to her. If she felt strong attraction to you when you were making out and than you were able to easily pull away this would make you dangerous. It not only demonstrates your power to affect her sexually but her lack of power to affect you sexually. This is the opposite of what most women understand as be…
/r/askTRP18/01/16 03:26 AM
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Many guys either creep out a girl, piss her off or bore the absolute shit out of her by how they approach and interact. They are selling themselves to buy pussy and she knows it. I think life is extremely funny and my sense of humor shows this. I was the class clown in school. The gift of laughter has gotten me laid more than anything else. I do not try to make a woman laugh but simply let her into my world of funny by sharing it with her. When you see the humor in life and share this with other…
/r/askTRP17/01/16 11:20 PM
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Behaving like others makes you less of a threat to them and also makes you someone they may be able to benefit by through association. Taken to far and you risk betraying yourself by staying in a herd you do not belong in. Society fears the lone wolf as a man. He is unpredictable and untamed so apt to do "bad nasty things to others" They not only want to civilize you they want to find a way to make you useful to them "as society" (your community) Also by not living as them you make them question…
/r/askTRP17/01/16 10:57 PM
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A seed holds within it, what it will become. If you are finding people to be boring than perhaps you are not associating with your own kind. If you (as that seed) are an Oak Tree surrounded by Dandelions and you do not like the view than pull yourself up by the roots and plant yourself where the soil and company are more conducive to your growth. Complaining about how the world "is" will not change the world to make it less painful and more pleasant to live in for you. Use your power to change y…
/r/askTRP17/01/16 10:36 PM
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You are not responsible for what the world does. This is how men get turned into beasts of burden. She is playing you.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 10:27 PM
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If I'm tense from the stress of life I will usually go for a run or hit the heave bag. My work is very physical so often work releases the build up of stress as it builds up. The stress of living is drained off. Women use words to do the same thing. The problem is that they may try to beat you up with words the same way I beat my heavy bag. I always call bullshit on that and sometimes very forcefully, leaving them crying. A good cry also drains off toxic stress. It is why children often cry for …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/16 10:18 PM
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Women have their own agenda. If you want to read the agenda read a poem by Rudyard Kipling called " The Female of the Species" It perfectly encapsulates the source of female hypergamy.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/16 09:58 PM
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You are not weak. Human beings are weak and you are a human being. You are trying to transcend the inherent weakness in all human beings. The weakness is in the animal part of your brain that craves pleasure and wants to exert the least amount of effort to experience it. It wants everything but does not want to pay any price. The cognitive ability of the brain is where the executive functions live. This is developed and will not develop without the will. The will to live must be used to develop …
/r/askTRP17/01/16 09:48 PM
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Because you cannot possibly be real and I want to prove it to myself. Works everytime. Don't enter their frame by elaborating.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 04:13 AM
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Stop paying for pussy with attention and money. You attract women by being both indifferent to them and intently interested in them. Give her your attention and than take it away. It is very much like fly fishing where you keep casting in different places. You must make women chase you to be able to capture them (fuck them) Your frustration is working against you. It is only a game after all. Enjoy the sport of seduction.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 01:37 AM
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If I understand the context of your post... Your wife had an affair behind your back while you were fighting for your life. She had an affair while being a mother to your children with no concern for how this would impact the children. She is using your love for your children against you. Are you sure you want this person in your life ? Sometimes I think it is wives that cause the early death of men.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/16 01:28 AM
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Frame as that which is not an act but that as what you are is something you become by becoming self actualized. As a self actualized person you are fully autonomous. It is a sense (understanding/awareness/knowing) of self that is so deep and profound it cannot be disturbed by others regardless of what they do. It does not mean you are unfeeling and actually you can feel deeply because you no longer lose yourself in those feelings Perfect frame is perfect identity as an awareness of who you are t…
/r/askTRP16/01/16 11:15 PM
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There are LTR's and everything else. Most young women look at a man as someone they build something with and often they call it making a life together. In her mind she has these fantasies of what that life will be and she is trying to create it with you. If you do not step onto this path she will keep trying to pull you onto this path using every tool at her disposal until she gives up. If you waste her time she will accuse you of having ruined her life. Divorce rape is usually about children. N…
/r/askTRP16/01/16 10:57 PM
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Emotionally cold sounds mechanical. Women do not like fucking robots. Your vitality is a strong source of her attraction to you. Your enthusiasm is strong source of all peoples attraction to you. There is something about sex that blinds people to each other. It has many of the same properties as addictive drugs, where the drug distorts your ability to perceive reality correctly. This makes it much easier for a woman to deceive you. It also makes it more likely that you will become beta in a LTR …
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 10:13 PM
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Unknowingly I worked for a guy passing off phony money when I was in my early twenties (Printer) It resulted in me getting hit upside the head with a shotgun by the secret service during a raid and than put against my head after being knocked to the ground. That was a fun day my ex asshole boss got me involved in. The feds do not take kindly to that shit. I would let him know that.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 02:45 AM
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When sexual tension is lost between a man and woman than she will become comfortable with him, like he is a brother or some other family member. Once she feels this than sex feels incestuous (feels weird) if he tries to become sexual in anyway. I think this is why so many husbands are not getting sex from their wives. The husband gets friend zoned by losing the sexual tension. If you want sex from women avoid the familiarity that destroys sexual tension. I'm not talking about physically avoiding…
/r/askTRP16/01/16 12:10 AM
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For many women once a plate always a plate. They get bored easily in relationships and want new dick. Let her go. If you were any good in the sack she will be knocking on your door again. Once you feed a cat what it wants to eat they never actually leave. Any man can offer a relationship but few offer great sex as a connection that she is always seeking. Great sex is a hook that a woman never forgets because it is an experience she rarely experiences. It is not sex she seeks but what the sex tel…
/r/askTRP15/01/16 11:21 PM
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A woman's sexuality has always been owned (controlled) by others and still is. In the past it was the church, her father (family) or husband. The sexual revolution, birth control and relaxing moral standards has changed the expression of female sexuality. Because women are very sensitive to the effects of social exclusion they use their sexuality to buy inclusion. In the past they feared being socially ostracized for being sexual so avoided sex of hid being sexual and to become pregnant was sham…
/r/askTRP15/01/16 11:04 PM
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No man wants to admit he is being used (the one being fucked). To be used is to not be a man. This makes using men very easy because they put up blinders to its very fact. History speaks volumes to how men are and always have been used. Men than allow themselves to be used to hold onto their sense of being men (identity). You cannot be used (emasculated) if you are allowing yourself to be used because that suggests control. Society exploits male pride by threatening male identity. The Red Pill i…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 10:06 PM
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Interesting link. I have found understanding primate behavior useful in understanding human behavior so I appreciate your posting the link. We pay for entertainment because we are pleasure loving beings. This makes sex a natural to be used as entertainment. I often think of sex like oxygen. We are so immersed in it we do not really appreciate its power because we cannot easily see it at work. In my opinion sex touches everything. You cannot separate it out from all other human behavior. It is a …
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 09:49 PM
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Managing a wife reminds me of managing employees. If you have a weak employee who you do not want to terminate than your own competence can be an obstacle if they are allowed to ride on your coat tails. A wife should not receive a free ride because of your abilities and her lack of abilities. This encourages her to become lazy, anxious and over dependent. If you have children than you have an additional child to take care of. This will break your back. She may be the oldest teenager in the house…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 09:40 PM
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You may have an avoidant personality. You avoid conflict and try to appease people when you sense there is the potential for conflict. You become the peace keeper. This is co-dependent behavior that was learned in childhood. If you grew up in a high conflict household you also may be suffering from CPTSD so are triggered by conflict. If you were bullied this could also create CPTSD if it was extensive enough. Sexual abuse may also create CPTSD. Many children sexully abused by Priests had very un…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 02:46 AM
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Men like this are controlled by shaming and guilt tripping. That is how she got him to marry her. She repeated what is mother probably did to him and society still does. The message to men has always been the same. Don't be selfish. Men are often to blind to see that this actually means. Don't be selfish so we can be. Men are tools until they stop being tools.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 02:24 AM
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Women can use sex as a form of currency to buy things with. They can fuck without attraction if fucking will get them something. If they are able to enjoy sex and get something at the same time all the better. Women fuck all the time in the absence of attraction. They are often called hookers when they make obvious what they are doing. The world is a giant mall filled with the stuff women want that they use sex to get. Birth control took what was once a corner drug store and turned it into a sup…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 02:00 AM
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In this age women feel shame for not being sluts. To be a virgin is considered to be loser in ways very similar to how men would feel if they were virgins. Combine this with womens propensity to use sex to cure feelings of worthlessness and you have a world where most women are sluts or sluts in waiting. They have to be to feel good about themselves. It is a good time to be alive for men who need to fuck but not so good for men who need to love
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 01:51 AM
4

I worked in Hollywood and watched how mothers often pimp their children. They dangle their children in front of men to get rich and famous. I bet a attention seeking whore mother is coaching the girl. The new twist it to make them look like sexual assualt victims where before it was actually allowing sexual assault.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 01:44 AM
3

Adults watch children to see if they are misbehaving. Children study adults to see if the adults really are powerful or if they are pretending to be powerful. They look for cracks in the armor (testing). People keep this same habit that they had as children until they move beyond it. Women are less likely to move beyond this habit because they still face many of the same dangers as child do. Their relationship to power does not change as it does for a man. It tends to remain infantile. There is …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 11:41 PM
1

She either does not trust you with money or selfishly see's everything belonging to her. If her selfishness has replaced her attraction for you than IMO you are in a precarious position. You than become only that which she can use as your resources and nothing else. She will be emotionally bonded to your money, time, energy, without being bonded to you as attraction.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 11:26 PM
3

A man acting guilty must be guilty. When you jump every time your wife snaps her fingers not only does this turn her into a tyrant as all children become when given to much power but it makes her highly suspicious. It also makes her fearful because if she must protect you (demonstrated by her ability to dominate you) than who is going too protect her? Which is also the fear a child feels when they have power over a parent. The power makes them neurotic as the anxiety they cannot escape. To act f…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 11:10 PM
1

The stupid stuff is mainly nerves mixing with wants. If you did not want something than you would not fear losing it or not getting it. Why do men get nervous talking to a beautiful woman but not an ugly one. Still a woman so why should it matter? Because they want the beautiful one but not the ugly one. Practice talking to women (people) who do not make you nervous. Take the risk out of the equation so fucking up does not matter and than slowly increase the risk as your comfort level rises. You…
/r/askTRP14/01/16 10:46 PM
1

Girls love bling and he is a form of bling. Because of procreation we are wired to be attracted to the superficial. They are doing the same thing men do and largely for the same reasons. I have a buddy that considers himself an expert in the use of vibrators on women. This guy digs through my shop looking for ways to make new types of sex toys. Throw out a vacuum in his vicinity and he will eye it for its possibilities. His one rule is to never use a vibrator on a woman that is larger than the e…
/r/askTRP14/01/16 10:36 PM
1

Read Ayn Rands The fountainhead. She had penetrating insights into the uglier aspects of human behavior that will give you the tools to see how society moves and why. Interesting that a woman was so perceptive in what it takes for a man to be a man. Also Jiddu Krishhnamurti. He shows the path out of the wilderness that your ego is lost in as the interplay between "fear" and "wants"
/r/askTRP14/01/16 10:23 PM
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If you are a reader you may benefit by a book called "Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience" It is a state of being where you are not thinking about what you are doing but just doing. You see it displayed in sports often. Others have called it being in the zone. Acting mysterious or stoic is still an act. The problem with acting is that you are reacting to others or controlling yourself so preventing yourself from reacting. The problem with reacting is that whatever form it takes the very a…
/r/askTRP14/01/16 10:09 PM
1

Psychopaths have the ability to experience empathy but also can switch it off. Here is a link if you are interested. http://www.bbc.com/news/science-environment-23431793 The problem with empathy comes from how it is packaged as only being a good, so an indication of not being able to empathize means the person is somehow defective. Psychopaths use it like a shark uses its ability to smell blood so if it was missing in a psychopath they possibly could do less damage. Empathy as the ability to emp…
/r/askTRP14/01/16 04:43 AM
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She is pushing a legal drug and using her sexuality to get guys to throw money at her in the form of tips. Where do you think her head will be at concerning sex, money and men?
/r/askTRP14/01/16 04:30 AM
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In both examples, cognitive and emotional the person has an ability. Being able to tell (conscious) versus being able to feel (information through affect on them by another, experienced as subconscious awareness) In both instances it is simply having access to information through an ability. Empathy is an ability. Empathy is not compassion but compassion may be assisted by empathy because otherwise you lack information helpful in given reason to express compassion. Compassion can also be that wh…
/r/askTRP14/01/16 01:18 AM
2

Feminism originally was about fighting for rights that women did not have. Such as the right to vote. There was a time when women could not own property and were considered the property of their fathers or husbands. The message today is that all men are monsters who abuse women whenever they have any power over her so that only abuse of women took place in the past. It is the same as saying all men are pedophiles or rapists. Guilty until proven innocent is the position of modern feminism. It cap…
/r/askTRP13/01/16 11:11 PM
2

Women are emotional chameleons. The question concerning women is always whether what you see is actually what you are getting. A woman can thoroughly convince a man that she loves him while actually hating him. She can fuck you for her own reasons and than fuck your brother for other reasons. It does not make her bad or good but simply a woman. They are consummate actresses because that is how they have survived in a world that is dangerous to them and their children. Their brains are designed t…
/r/askTRP13/01/16 10:38 PM
1

I'm one of those people who think everyone should be trained in the handling of firearms and have permits to carry "if" they are psychologically fit to carry, which is the crux of the problem. Half the girls in Texas seem to carry guns in their purses. Mainly because they have to deal with the men they share the state with. It is when they panic and shoot thru doors without knowing who is on the other side of it that it becomes a problem. I have personal experience with that unfortunately. She k…
/r/askTRP13/01/16 10:16 PM
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I love women but I think nature has put the heart of a murderer in each and every one of them but it is a defensive heart that attacks out of fear and not one who murders for thrill. Hate and or anger that comes out of feeling threatened mixed with the emotionality of a child that is always feeling sorry for themselves. It is an expression of their instinct to survive with men representing the greatest danger to their survival while needing men for survival. They feel trapped. Most people will i…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 09:52 PM
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Breast feeding often knocks down a woman's interest in sex. You may want to consider getting the one year old off the teat. If she gets an emotional high by breast feeding she will fight you on making a change. She will not want to give up the bond with the one year old and there are a million "reasons" she will give not to. The child could be cuck blocking you and can in many other ways besides just breast feeding in your not to distant future such as having the child sleep in bed with you. You…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 09:43 PM
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I have had similar experiences with women when they are on the rag. There is a moodiness and irritability that almost always goes with it. Different from one woman to the next as intensity but still there. Usually the more sexual a woman is as having high libido the more volatile she is when on the rag. For these women I do not provoke them but I also take no shit from them either. They can be like an animal that smells blood so goes for the kill. No weakness can be afforded at this time. I have…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 02:47 AM
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A woman is designed by her very nature to emasculate a man (own his balls) but the more she can do this the less she actually feels attraction to him because it is not owning his balls that creates the attraction. Any man in a LTR lives between these two contradictory impluses (emotional needs) in women. To be in a LTR with a woman is to walk the edge of a razor that can slice you in half if you make a misstep. Makes for interesting experiences IMO You checking out women in front of her in her e…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 01:50 AM
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Does she wear pants and you would like to see her wearing a dress more often? If so pull the old water/funnel/coin joke on her. Show her how good your coordination is by placing a coin on your forehead as your head is tipped back and tilting your head forehead until the coin drops off your forehead into the funnel that is tucked in at your waist. Women almost always have the need to compete with men. If you can do it she will naturally insist that she can, especially if you have set her up by ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 11:51 PM
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Imagine your life as an empty space that needs to be filled or you will suffer. People fill this space with all sorts of stuff and when they do, it "may" give meaning to their life. When a woman leaves and you feel sad it is because that empty space that you filled so were no longer suffering from is now empty again and you are back to the beginning of suffering as loneliness (loss of connection) and purposeless (filling up the empty space) We are social animals. Connection with others is very i…
/r/askTRP12/01/16 09:47 PM
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I understand what Marx was trying to say with the statement that "Religion is the opiate of the masses" I have also seen enough proof in my own life that the universe does have some form of consciousness that we partake in. Science as the study of the physical universe is a good way to uncover that which is God. We cannot understand it because we are on the inside of it just as the billions of individual cells of our body create and support our consciousness but do not have the consciousness cap…
/r/askTRP12/01/16 09:58 AM
1

Hahaha And I would rather have been able to love a woman like you have. I don't like going through life being battle weary concerning women. Truthfully I hope I'm wrong about women but I have not met one yet that has changed my mind. It would be nice to have what you were looking for and thought you had. I actually hope you find it in the right girl. I'm red pill but I will always have my eyes open for a Unicorn.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 01:58 AM
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Nature did not design women to be what the blue pill needs them to be. The blue pill is the delusion men project onto women. The blue pill actually expects women to act unnaturally as not being instinctual creatures driven by the forces of procreation, mate selection and resource acquisition. The blue pill is male arrogance, cowardice and delusion mixed together and run amok. Women do not serve men they serve their wombs and if a man is not useful to this purpose he will be ignored or dispensed …
/r/askTRP12/01/16 01:12 AM
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That's a different lesson you learned The lesson that she never loved you but it was only your turn. I learned that lesson by watching how my mother fucked over men constantly when I was growing up so I never put all my chips or anything else of value into a bitch. You probably had more positive experiences with women growing up so were more likely to trust them. My life lessons made me very clear about what women are capable of because of what they inherently are. I grew up the way most men now…
/r/askTRP12/01/16 12:51 AM
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My experience with more picky. It is an expression of more damaged. They have less going for them so put on a show of actually having more going for them. Under the haughty superior behavior you can smell the desperation and anger. They are playing a game they learned when they were young and do not realize it does not work any longer. The slings and arrows of life make some people better, others bitter. Usually men get better and women get bitter. Don't buy into the act because at that age the …
/r/askTRP11/01/16 11:53 PM
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There are three ways to have sex. Quality sex. Quantity sex. and Quality/Quantity sex Most guys have stories of mind blowing sex that happened sometimes three or four times a day for weeks and months on end. This would be those Quality/ Quantity times that are so memorable. Often guys kiss those times goodbye in LTR and accept quantity over quality if that is all that is possible. Nothing wrong with this if you are cool with using her like you would your hand. I prefer quality over quantity. I l…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 08:29 PM
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Change your emotional relationship with failure as the meaning that you attach to failure. Mistakes threaten you because you see them as enemies because you do not trust or believe in yourself. In your mind a mistake is a finger pointing at you calling you a loser so you beat yourself up over it. This is bullshit. You only stop making mistakes after you are dead. Whoever put a different message in your head needs their ass kicked Use them to learn with. Not to judge yourself with. Trying for per…
/r/askTRP11/01/16 06:48 PM
1

Keep control of the birth control and play it the best way that serves your interests because she will be doing the same.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 06:37 PM
2

Being with someone below your SMV can bring problems. I have done this and the women could not handle it. They become even more paranoid, clingy and jealous than what you would expect from a typical woman. I have never met a fatty that did not come with serious baggage whether they are still fat or not. I actually like a woman who looks healthy with curves instead of these boy bodies women workout like made to get but they always have head problems. The lies will bring more lies and there will b…
/r/askTRP11/01/16 06:32 PM
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Anger is a luxury that should only be experienced by those who can afford it. I cannot control my anger because I always go for the kill so have learned to simply let it go otherwise it would have destroyed my life. I'm either all off or all on and do not know how to be halfway. I think of it as having a loaded gun. It's there if I really need it but I do everything I can to be sure I don't I envy guys who can get crazy angry and do their monkey dance with other guys or the women in their life b…
/r/askTRP11/01/16 07:17 AM
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She has the psychological advantage by dumping you. There is something about rejection that for most people they have a visceral reaction to. It seems to attack their very core concept of themselves so they end up with a wound that for many does not heal. I have been rejected so much and survived so much that it does not affect me so I'm not wounded so there is nothing that needs to heal. The need to get over her means that this wound still exists. It really has nothing to do with her and everyt…
/r/askTRP11/01/16 03:36 AM
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You need to act fast because more than likely Australia is going to get hammered by the shit going down in China, the worlds second largest economy. You may want to investigate working in Canada. Both being ex colonies of England may make this possible. Technology is changing everything fast. White collar jobs and some service sector jobs are at risk. If I was just starting out I would get into robotics because everything is moving that way as technology goes nano. Another area is micro biology.…
/r/askTRP11/01/16 02:54 AM
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I'm not sure there is any one or correct answer for this. If I'm sitting across the table from some fine ass that I want to tap I'm probably going to show her a time she will remember. Something she will not forget easily. I have the money to do this and I'm interested in her ass, not a LTR. What I do comes with less consequences than a guy searching for a partner. If you are thinking long term than everything you do establishes a precedent that you will have to live with or break later. Scoring…
/r/askTRP11/01/16 12:30 AM
1

Women understand the power of sex plus they are very keen on resource acquisition that comes out of the instincts they were born with when they were born with wombs. They subconsciously expect men to pay as their instincts just as men subconsciously expect to pay as their instincts. It is the way of nature as the instinctual mating dance between men and women. Nothing wrong with this except that how it is done can turn women into greedy whores or attract greedy whores. Women rarely see the dange…
/r/askTRP10/01/16 11:09 PM
1

Money is a fascinating dynamic to study. Particularly when used between men and women. Are you the powerful alpha who demonstrates his power by being able to spend money represented in all the ways money can be spent ? or........ The supplicating Beta who must pay for a woman's time and attention by the money he spends on her ? I see money as manure. It does good when spread around but I refuse to pay for a woman's time, attention or company. It is not about the money but about the person spendi…
/r/askTRP10/01/16 10:42 PM
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It is fear. Hers, because she knows that she is emotionally vulnerable right now and fears you will take advantage of it. It is a legitimate fear because it is very possible to take advantage of her vulnerability if you are that type of guy. Guys who practice pick up would call that fresh meat. Personally I think guys who go for the easy kill are losers.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 10:19 PM
1

Geeks, nerds and other intellectual types seem to always be at risk for getting fucked over by women. In relation to these guys it does not take much for a woman to be an alpha widow and start thinking about the one that got away. Nothing wrong with being a geek,nerd or intellectual. These days they are the ones running the world but you have to remember the risks that come with being one. Usually they are missing that raw masculinity and killer instinct that women get tingles for when they are …
/r/askTRP10/01/16 10:01 PM
1

Nature gives a woman a different relationship with death because she is where life is born from. Nature gives men a different relationship with death because of how and why they create life with a woman which is outside of them but inside of women. Sexuality and death are intertwinded where each shapes and affects the other so by extension affects the people participating in the sexual dance. You can see it in behavioral differences between men and women. Men take many more physical risks. They …
/r/askTRP10/01/16 08:34 AM
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There is a strong need in human beings to guarantee the future. Over the course of a lifetime a partner will change just as you will change. The only constant is change. You can influence her but you will never make her "ideal" as that creature that will never be what you would not want her to be or become. Trying to control her may actually change her as she seeks to rebel against your authority. You can lead a horse to water but if they do not drink be prepared to find another horse.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 08:27 AM
2

Many people have signed up to be included in a mission to Mars even though it is likely a death sentence or at a minimum they will never see Earth again. To leave everything behind and face death. Why do they want to do this? Are they insane or is it something else ? My guess is that it comes out of the human spirit to strive and explore regardless of the consequences. Nothing can hold a man back who brings this same spirit in his exploration of women who are each universes unto themselves. Expl…
/r/askTRP10/01/16 03:39 AM
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If you are a reader I recommend picking up a book called "The Worm at the Core" by Sheldon Solomon It is not possible to understand people without understanding their relationship to death because this relationship guides all human behavior. To see the truth you have to dive deep down into the heart of it. This is difficult to do because the mind wants to do what everyone else does and turn a blind eye to it or react to it through creating delusion, magical thinking, illusion, superstition, fant…
/r/askTRP10/01/16 03:22 AM
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Try not to isolate yourself from people. It will make your situation worse. You want to get out of your own head. Take up running or some other form of exercise. The chemicals produced through exercise are beneficial to your brain. Stop eating sugar and avoid a high carb based diet. Eat leans meats, vegetables and fruits.(mediterranean diet) Do not eat boiled vegetables because it boils out what is good in them. Use a Wok or slightly steam them. Food should be as close to its natural state as po…
/r/askTRP10/01/16 01:40 AM
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You may be experiencing dissociation. This is particularly likely if you have suffered through any form of trauma or if your parents have because of the influence they had on you. (intergenerational transfer of trauma) Use the internet to learn about complex post traumatic stress disorder, psychosis, schizophrenia, bipolar disorder. Mental illness is not to be taken lightly. Seek out help.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 01:26 AM
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"Romance novels are the best-selling segment of the paperback fiction market in North America. According to statistics compiled for the Romance Writers of America, romance novels account for well over 50 percent of mass-market paperback fiction sold in the United States each year" When you fuck a woman you are fucking romance novels (or some version therein) mixed with feminism. What women want is impossible for a man to be. Mystery offers protection from their insanity while playing into it.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 12:35 AM
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At seventeen your sexuality is like a team of eight horses pulling you down the road in a buggy as you attempt to hang on and control the horses. There is not much a seventeen year old will not consider fucking. It is a wonderful terrible time in life and someday you will look back and wonder how you survived it. It is both painful and beautiful. The very thing she needs (your patience) is the very thing most difficult for you to offer her. Take the time to let her get used to your body. Go swim…
/r/askTRP10/01/16 12:26 AM
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So you were able to hide all this rage and hate for women from her for ten years? Your wife does not have much confidence in herself concerning her ability to discern the difference between a good person and a bad person. You can thank her father for this but she is still responsible for the shit floating around in her head. You may want to thank her for showing you this before you made the mistake of marrying her. Never tolerate or have patience for irrationality from women or they will suck yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 11:48 PM
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If she is a virgin or sexually inexperienced you are bumping up against her anxieties. Remember you are most likely bigger and stronger than her and it will be your body penetrating hers. Sex is scary for a sexually inexperienced woman. If she has moral reasons for not having sex you are bumping up against those. Morals are those rules that breaking come with the risk of severe consequences. If she has self esteem issues such as she thinks she is ugly or has body privacy boundaries (many women d…
/r/askTRP09/01/16 11:40 PM
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Men have always lived with the problem of women thinking they are only wanted for sex because for many men this is largely true. The problem grows the longer the relationship lasts when it is only a relationship that exists for sex and would not otherwise. A guy who wants to fuck with the least amount of effort as to "romancing her" (spending time with her, listening to her, sharing with her) and all that other shit... Will end up with conflict, coldness, manipulation tactics or her leaving. I o…
/r/askTRP09/01/16 11:07 PM
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I was sitting in a restaurant the other day listening to a guy at the next table over who was clearly on a date. He talked non stop trying to impress her with all is worldly wisdom and exciting adventures he had experienced. He was fairly good at sharing a story but everything in her body language was telegraphing that she was becoming increasingly annoyed by him. If I had known him I would have texted him and said dude shut the fuck up and give her a chance to be part of the conversation. You a…
/r/askTRP09/01/16 10:43 PM
2

Strongly agree. The power women have is given to them by men. The problem is that collectively men do not seem to be able to stop doing this.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 10:23 PM
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When you have the power to create life inside you, few would be expected not to be corrupted by or misuse this power. I have seen far more women use children as tools than I have seen pure unadulterated love for a child. There is something callous about mothers that is shocking to witness when you realize how common it is. They are simply corrupted by the power of the pussy and the womb as to how they use them. I once remember reading of a woman whose child had died by her carelessness and her r…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 03:10 AM
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I bow hunt. Nothing against guns but I like the thought of giving what I'm hunting a better chance at surviving plus it teaches self control and stealth. Skills that have been useful in my dealings with women and in business. I'm into motorcycles. The freedom of the road can't be beat. If you like using your hands and have a tech college nearby enroll in a welding program if they have one since you are talking about forging metal. You can pick up a 120volt self feeding flux core at harbor freigh…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 12:04 AM
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I have read the threads in there. My own opinion is that the Reddit RPW is mainly made up of blue pill men posing as women trying to con women or subvert the red pill Women and men move differently even in how they use words. I did not see any "women speak" on there. It is guys posing as women pushing an agenda. Funny actually to read. Most women are clever enough to see through the bullshit there so do not participate.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/16 10:53 PM
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Women become addicted to their husbands always jumping every time they bark. If you do not jump you are not being respectful. Just as a mother must slowly wean her child off the tit you must slowly wean your wife off of all the power you have given her. There must be a certain measure of common sense applied to how you challenge all the authority you have given her over you and the family. You probably feel nervous about confrontation with her so may go from one extreme to another. This could be…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/16 10:36 PM
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Life is the only game where you are guaranteed to die at the end of it. For this reason do not take it serious while understanding that life is over in a blink of an eye so use the time to make your life as interesting as possible. Step back and imagine that you have already lived your life and are on your death bed. Would you wish for your youth back and the time that comes with it even if it meant for more rejections? Don't take all the shit that is going to happen to you to seriously. Stay de…
/r/askTRP08/01/16 10:20 PM
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People threaten all the time. Mainly because of fear, ego or appetite. You need to have and know what your boundaries and rules are that you live your life by and will not compromise on. These are the things that are the non negotiable's in dating, marriage and life in general. Personally if someone threatened the nuclear option (ending the relationship) over something as trivial as FB I would next her as being an insecure controlling bitch. Nexting would be a self protective act. The problem wi…
/r/askTRP08/01/16 10:09 PM
1

Many of the problems of life happen from not understanding people at an individual level. Not understanding what motivates them. Thinking they are trustworthy when they are not or that they are untrustworthy when they are actually trustworthy. Not seeing clearly what they want and how they are going about getting what they want. Developing emotional intelligence and your powers of observation along with being able to ask questions in such a fashion that people let down their defenses or do not p…
/r/askTRP08/01/16 09:44 PM
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Thinking men naturally see the danger of their own attraction to women. They see the risks of becoming entangled with and by her. Being deceived by a woman is easier for a woman to do when you are vulnerable to deception. Being harmed by a woman is easier for her to do when harm is possible. A bad woman will use the goodness of a good man against him and an inexperienced man will not know how to protect himself from her experience. Fleeing and being paranoid keeps you in check and buys you time …
/r/askTRP08/01/16 07:49 AM
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The apple does not fall far from the tree. What they are is because of what they were made to be. Your current way may be the best way. Trying to fix, rescue or change a broken woman is a serious mistake, made only more serious by compromising what you need and want just to have a woman in your life. In general human beings are fucked up. Go out in the world and find the few that are not and keep them in your life. Until than move slowly and don't compromise your values or morals. Punishment is …
/r/askTRP08/01/16 07:24 AM
1

The only way I know how to keep this type of relationship going is to make the woman addicted to sex with you. The problem with sexual addiction is it always means they "fall in love" which brings problems of its own. There is something about women collectively that they think if you give them these intense sexual highs it must only be because they love you / you love them They cannot accept that a man is simply playing them like a musical instrument and he can do this with any woman. I suspect …
/r/askTRP08/01/16 06:54 AM
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When someone goes to prison they ask what type of work they did while on the outside. The most common answer is working in construction. Having worked in construction for many years I have met some interesting types. One guy I became fairly good friends with because except for the life he had lived previous to my having met him, he actually was reasonably normal as in "I did not worry about him sticking a knife in my back the first time I was not paying attention". He was an extreme adrenaline j…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 05:13 AM
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It is possible that marriage on some level has never worked but it was the only choice available. I do not remember seeing very many happily married couples when I was a kid. It is mainly why I never married and have always been suspicious of the institution but I'm suspicious of all institutions that society sings the praises of. Many were sneaking around fucking each others wife or husband. Alcoholism was rampant. Domestic violence common and I grew up in a wealthy community. I'm not sure men …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/16 04:22 AM
1

Good luck on your journey. I appreciate that you are trying to do right by your girl. When we stop caring about others we lose ourselves.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 03:56 AM
1

As alpha goes up so to does love as that intense desire to be with someone and form connection, attachment and bonds. When a woman wants this but does not feel it is reciprocal they become insecure as that questioning of why the person is not being reciprocal in their love for them. Women by their nature tend to blame themselves as the expression of their ability to attract males. The power to attract comes with the cost of blame as not being able to attract. She may also want security and to cr…
/r/askTRP08/01/16 03:27 AM
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Women hate the whip (alpha) as much as they crave it. A natural alpha must protect women from what he is or they will have a breakdown They basically cannot handle the intensity of the attraction because it at once makes them feel like a dependent child with all the fears of childhood and also that intense ability a child can have to bond to an adult while needing psychologically to live as a strong autonomous independent woman. Alpha males can cause a woman to feel like she is experiencing mult…
/r/askTRP08/01/16 02:27 AM
1

There is an interesting experience that most parents know as their children reach the age where they realize that they as child are separate from the parent. The children usually ask about death and sometimes become preoccupied with it This is the beginning of separation anxiety and the building of the ego and movement into neuroticism that most of humanity lives in. The way people try to escape the anxiety as the expression of neuroticism is by feeling powerful (omnipotent ) Those who feel anxi…
/r/askTRP07/01/16 11:28 PM
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By understanding how and why charity "may" be detrimental to those receiving it so that you are actually harming them by giving it to them. Use the parent child metaphor. You as parent are at risk of spoiling the child through your charitable actions. Look at liberal policies that hand out taxpayer money to those dependent on it. The government hands out the drug of money making those that take it dependent on the supply of that money so they have no incentive to make the effort necessary to mak…
/r/askTRP07/01/16 11:06 PM
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Your emotional sensitivity and intellect will bring you great suffering if you do not let go of your ego. The ego is the "will" that wants things to be the way the ego wants things to be. It is child like in its stubbornness and usually self righteous. Your intellect sees the hypocrisy and injustice but it is your ego that wants things to be another way. This is why there must be a spiritual approach to life otherwise you will end up or stay bitter and angry. Be thankful that you can see all the…
/r/askTRP07/01/16 10:29 PM
2

She is being careful because in the past you have chosen another woman over her. She may also be secretly pissed about that fact so you could have that emotion in play. She is going to have trust issues with you on top of the trust issues all women have with all men. Be sure she is worth it.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 10:19 PM
1

Somewhere between 50 and 75 percent of the women on planet earth are completely bat shit crazy. Crazy on some level equals women. Having a crazy mother actually prepares you for dealing with women. It is like joining the marines to learn how to be able to kick ass later in life if you need to. Call it Mother BootCamp. Don't kill her because than you will become part of her crazy frame while you are sitting in a psych ward that they have thrown away the key to. Go get a part time job to make some…
/r/askTRP07/01/16 04:05 AM
1

Understand the power of pussy. Really really understand HOW it gets into you head and WHY.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 09:20 PM
1

Google "how to overcome procrastination" This is a problem most people struggle with until they overcome it.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 06:42 PM
1

Familiar comfortable sex with someone you know everything about will never be the same kind of sex as stranger, know little to nothing about you sex unless you can keep or introduce elements of that same sexual tension you had in the beginning. These two types of sex are based on different reasons for sexual attraction. You can keep your girl wet for you through displays of raw animal sexuality and power to offset her becoming to comfortable with you. This is why makeup sex after a fight can be …
/r/askTRP06/01/16 03:17 PM
1

Part of it you are born with as the instinct for violence that is inherent in human beings. Learn about human violence by studying the evil human beings inflict on each other and why. Understand the darkness that is in all human beings. Than take this understanding and look at how your own experiences blend with this dark nature. To understand yourself as a man you must unapologetically and unflinchingly see men's nature and understand everything you see in them as potentially in you. There must…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/16 02:52 PM
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It is difficult to look at mothers objectively without feeling guilt. You are both confronting all the messages you have been taught that you are suppose to protect women (not bring harm to them) and to honor and respect your parents. (especially mothers) A parent that is not mentally and or morally healthy will exploit this (make you feel guilty) My own opinion is that your mother is fearful of being left alone and is using you as a security blanket disguised as her concern for you (love) She m…
/r/askTRP06/01/16 07:59 AM
1

You will not find much of what you seek in a forum or message board setting because the average person simply does not have the intellectual horsepower to deliver what you are looking for. Go to the source through specific publications, documentaries and gatherings that which interests you and avoid the generalities of the masses who only spew forth that which they have consumed through mass consumption which than creates and sustains group think. It is always best to separate from the herd at s…
/r/askTRP06/01/16 07:50 AM
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He does not understand women sexually. "Love" has confused his sexuality and his understanding of a woman's sexuality. What some refer to as the madonna whore complex. His problem is not with sex but with love as to how he thinks he is suppose to love so that it is actually love blocking his natural sexuality as dominance. His sexuality is repressed in the service of love for a woman because he fears himself as the hate he has for women and what this could do if he lost control over it. (false/f…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/16 06:04 AM
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Children will do anything for the attention of adults. They need this attention like a drug addict needs their drugs. Children are spoiled by the quality and amount of attention you give them and once spoiled they will turn on you like the feral animal you have made them into. It is the exact same dynamic with woman as child and man as parent. Because of sexual attraction for women that men have they create, encourage or sustain the spoiled monsters by feeding that which is in every adult child …
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 02:17 AM
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Your wife has a poor relationship with her own sexuality. She uses sex to get things and reward behavior. She is prostituting herself. Any time your wife tries to do this than decline sex with her and tell her the reason you are declining sex is because you do not have sex with prostitutes. The mercenary behavior of prostitutes makes attraction impossible because it objectifies their target (you) and this impulse is in every woman until it is thoroughly extinguished. To objectify someone you mus…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/16 12:21 AM
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It is interesting the different attitudes women have toward giving BJ's. They are all over the map. There are women who take great pride in their ability to give good head and others who see it as the most disgusting and demeaning thing they could do. Wives are invested in maintaining a certain image that they want their husbands to have of them which precludes BJ's. Combine this with a strong gag reflex and the mental image that semen is noxious and you have a serious barrier to getting good he…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/16 11:13 PM
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You must crawl before you can walk and walk before you can run. If you are completely uncomfortable around attractive women than you must crawl first. When attractive women lose their ability to intimidate you than you are ready to walk. The way you stop being initimidated by attractive women is by learning how fucked up women are in the head, especially attractive women. I do not mean trying to brainwash yourself that women are fucked up by telling yourself but actually go out in the world and …
/r/askTRP05/01/16 05:12 AM
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Glad to help. I have been where you are so I understand.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 04:51 AM
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You are "projecting" your thoughts and beliefs (about yourself) into other people and or You have an inherent mistrust of people. Many (probably most but not all) people are not trustworthy. They are not necessarily bad but mainly weak. Accept this and position yourself so that it does not matter. You are expecting some form of an attack. This can lead to paranoia and it is a dangerous state of mind to live in because people will feel it and it will make them uneasy around you plus fear clouds t…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 04:40 AM
1

You may be struggling with depression. Depression often travels with anxiety. If you are hurting and out of feelings of shame you hide this and do not seek help you will stay sick and never grow as a person.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 10:36 PM
1

If you read your posts the common theme is that all these outside influences are controlling your life. That the confusion and unhappiness is caused by outside events. That you are trapped and cannot make a decision. Do I stay or do I go? Do I keep this girl and give up others or let her go to be free to pursue whoever I want? Do I do this work or that work? Do I go back to school or not? You have so many choices available that you are frozen in place because you fear making a mistake and suffer…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 10:30 PM
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You are not weak. You are simply trying to work through the same shit everyone else is. Let go of the shame and start seeing yourself as an imperfect human being like all those around you.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 10:12 PM
1

Women hook up either because they are afraid of love or because they are looking for love. It is the rare woman that can relate to sex like a man does. It is possible but unusual.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 10:10 PM
1

If I understand your post correctly you are saying that you cannot initiate sex because it places you in a weak position so you wait for her to initiate sex (pursue you) This may have the opposite affect because you are placing the power of choice in her hands. You may be doing this because you fear your own sexuality getting you hooked on this girl if you "let the dogs out" You could seriously fuck up your sexuality this way. A man's sexuality is not designed to be restrained and when it is you…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 09:56 PM
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The stronger a man is the more he can afford to cry. Don't lose the tears because that will make you weak in other ways. Gain the strength. The cops only make you cry because of the power you give them by the feeling of being powerless that makes this possible. It is not actually about tears at all. Go deeper into your understanding of what the tears tell you. They are a message and a meaning worth exploring.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 08:21 AM
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Banging new pussy is a very different way of relating to women than sharing and loving one specific woman. I have been with a couple of hundred women over the years and could only connect on a deep level with two of them. I enjoyed and found all the other women interesting in their own right but grew weary of them over time and needed space. You seem torn between serving two masters. If you love this girl perhaps you need to keep her in your life while being strong enough to live your life as yo…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 08:03 AM
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It can be difficult to hold frame when drinking and part of holding frame is holding respect. Slurring words and weaving or stumbling as you walk is going to severly test your position as captain in the eyes of others. Guy are notorious for becoming pricks when drunk. Being a prick is sometimes part of being a Captain but not when being a prick is due to alcohol. Nothing wrong with tying one on. I have woke up in places without any clue as to how I got there. But the trick is to do it when you c…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/16 02:20 AM
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I lose interest after 5 months and I'm amazed when men keep a life long interest in the same woman. I think it partly goes to temperament. My sexuality has always had a strong predatory side where I experience it like hunting an animal and capturing it and I have never been able to move beyond this desire as part of my sexuality. I'm like a dog that must chase cars but if the car stops it than quickly loses interest. My sexuality is very primal and primitive. There is nothing enlightened or civi…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 12:30 AM
1

You are being pulled by your love for your girl and your love of freedom as being free. This is one of the defining experiences of being a man who loves a woman.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 12:13 AM
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Marriage was created to assist social stability. Marriage and everything that comes with it focuses a mans energy on that. It gives meaning and purpose Married men are invested in the community because this community affects the children they have that live in this community. Marriage is a social institution as that which many people participate in. It is a social order that has members doing things in common. Staying with her means joining this community so of course your goals would change so …
/r/askTRP04/01/16 12:04 AM
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When someone suddenly becomes rich they find out they have many relatives that they did not know about. When someone dies that has anything of value suddenly all those people who ignored them when they were alive suddenly show up at the funeral. First accept people for what they are and do not expect them to be otherwise, than look for the exceptions. Make those people your friends but for them to want this friendship you will have to be exceptional yourself. Water seeks its own level and like i…
/r/askTRP02/01/16 10:12 PM
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Small steps, small risks. First learn to become comfortable with one person, than two and than four , ect.. Give yourself time to heal but insist by the challenges you give yourself that you do. You'll get there. Rome was not built in a day.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 10:02 PM
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Very little alcohol would be sold if people did not use it in the same way you do. You are running negative self talk inside your head as to how you think people will experience you. The negative self talk was learned by being judged, criticized, rejected or defeated by others in your past which created the negative self image you have that you use alcohol to escape with. Alcohol suppresses anxiety so you are free to be yourself. This self must still be within you or you would not "become it". A…
/r/askTRP02/01/16 09:42 PM
1

Passion is something you find by exploring life. It is not something that you can imagine into existence Your passions find you and all you do is recognize when this has happened.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 09:32 PM
1

Most people have mental issues. The human mind cannot handle the concept of its own demise. Much of want people do with their life as all the choices and behavior is trying to run away from this awareness. Some people run away by risking their life everyday and this keeps death close others never step outside their front door. You simply feel trapped by what it means to be human and by your circumstances. You do not have to blow up your life by leaving your girl and moving to the other side of t…
/r/askTRP02/01/16 09:24 PM
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Cruelty is self serving (selfish) often packaged as being humanitarian to give cowards the freedom to be bullies. Bullies are child like. They must have the world be the way they need it to be because as children they cannot tolerate it any other way. Children throw temper tantrums when they do not get their way. Children want everything to be pretty and are disgusted when it is not. Their minds are weak and they stay weak by insisting the world changes for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 06:16 AM
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From the moment of conception to the moment of death the risk of death is greater for males than females. For all the various reasons this is true, females have it easier. This fact is what makes being a man unique to a man. He understands this on some level even if he has not articulated it. Life is against men and this is instrumental in creating the greatness of men as to what they create because of it. Take this away and they become women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 05:57 AM
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Everyone is trying to escape themselves in some way. Taking molly changed his (your) state of mind so you could enjoy being you regardless of what was happening to you. To live beyond fear and pain. The molly was the method used to escape with. People who seek enlightenment seek this same experience but without any dependency on the external because they understand that the dependency creates an attachment that prevents the state of mind they seek Enlightenment is when you have this experience w…
/r/askTRP02/01/16 03:22 AM
2

Money is the shit that attracts flies. If you are OK with that than no problem.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 03:12 AM
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Spiritual enlightenment will do the same thing but requires far more effort than taking a pill, smoking weed, snorting cocaine, eating, alcohol, fucking, fighting, (adrenaline) ,ect..
/r/askTRP01/01/16 11:40 PM
2

Pay attention to that feeling of being attacked. It is very important in defending yourself when you have been trained to think it would be immoral to do so or are inclined to underestimate the danger of the person attacking you
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/16 11:34 PM
2

To walk away when you know you are going to lose may be about wisdom or cowardice. This is only answered by knowing the self. Are you someone who hates injustice and wants to right all the wrongs you see in the world? If yes than this is part of your self. It is important to understand this need because it could be about the moral concept of fairness as much as having been shamed through unjust acts against the self. Competition can be unhealthy or healthy depending on the reasons one wants and …
/r/askTRP01/01/16 11:27 PM
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Which is worse. Being 35 and looking back with regret or on your deathbed? Life is not about winning a race against other people. It is about winning the race with time that brings death. You may be behind but you have not lost this race because like all races it must be finished before the results are known. You are both the runner and the judge. Nobody else is living your life. It is and always has been about the universe that exists between your ears and will stop when your heart stops beatin…
/r/askTRP01/01/16 10:06 PM
1

You become good at debating when your ego is not invested in the outcome. This allows clarity and calmness to enter your mind. Similar to test anxiety where the mind freezes up but with the added burden of standing naked on the stage as you take the oral test in front of everyone. When you can stand naked on stage and take the test without fear you will become good at debating. Of course you will have lost much of the reason you desire to be a good debater (your ego) so will not likely pursue it…
/r/askTRP01/01/16 09:59 PM
0

I never came across to strong because I did not pursue women for the reasons men pursue women but for my own reasons. I enjoy beauty and sex but I'm far to interested in what goes on inside the minds of women and people in general to be much bothered with the outside. I have thrown away beautiful women that men would kill for because they were empty shells that left me feeling empty in their presence. A woman's flesh does little in holding my interest. I go for the souls of women so I never had …
/r/askTRP01/01/16 09:52 PM
1

You are thinking in terms of wasting your life and also trying to get as much for yourself as possible. This is an addictive relationship to life (hedonistic) that will not fulfill the deeper need to give life meaning. You are living for pleasure and comfort but without purpose (passion). Find your purpose and you find your passion and in this passion you will give meaning to your life. It is never to late to start.
/r/askTRP01/01/16 09:44 PM
1

You need high levels of stimulation (gambling) It is your minds needs that are bringing you pain. To the degree you can retrain your brain you can change what it needs and wants but this requires the ability to step outside yourself and see yourself objectively. This requires effort (it is work) The result is self mastery which brings clarity and in this a life purposely lived. School will teach you very little of what you actually need to live life with clarity and purpose.
/r/askTRP01/01/16 09:40 PM
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Any knowledge I have comes from standing on the shoulders of those who came before me combined with a deep curiosity of my world. I also do not trust the mind and see it's inherent weaknesses. These weaknesses create addiction along with having destructive wants. Even the love of beauty can be destructive.
/r/askTRP01/01/16 09:34 PM
1

When someone's mind is not quiet they feel like they are going mad from the noise inside their own head. This is an affliction of the modern age because people are immersed in constant external stimulation that they become addicted to. When they are not being stimulated they crave stimulation so the mind creates the noise inside itself to replace that which they are not getting externally. This is experienced as anxiety but really it is withdrawal symptoms. In my opinion you are suffering from t…
/r/askTRP01/01/16 09:29 PM
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People would bring far less misery into the lives of others if they stopped changing for others. You are what you are. If you change for him you will resent him later and with resentment always comes blame and revenge. I have never asked a woman to change for me. I accept them as they are and seek out women who complement me as the person I am. I seek out people walking the same path I walk and leave others to walk the path that is natural to them. You cannot change people but people are very go…
/r/askTRP01/01/16 08:54 PM
2

At eighteen the drinking age works against you. If you can handle retail sales than sell woman shoes at an upscale store. The right job will bring you into contact with these women and you can develop your soft flirtation skills.(soft seduction) You do not have to be smart or worldy because at eighteen they do not expect this. You do not have to impress them and it would be difficult to anyway because of the large age difference. You just need a hard dick and the ability to keep your mouth shut …
/r/askTRP31/12/15 06:42 AM
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Being labelled a ladies man may not be a compliment from a woman. Early in my game I would get that same label and I always sensed it was not really a compliment but a dig about my character phrased as a compliment. Women excel at giving these. What I found out later is that it actually means that they see you as a commitment phobe, slash man whore, manipulating your way into womens heads to get them to have sex with you. It stopped once I worked at coming across more genuine by dialing down how…
/r/askTRP31/12/15 02:57 AM
4

Find an older rich attractive women (cougar) to teach you about sex and women's bodies Most of these older women are not getting fucked because the men they associate with are usually fucking much younger women. Many older women would like to brag to their girlfriends that they have an 18yo stud fucking them. You may not be a stud but that is the way they will spin it so who cares. Putting your dick in a hooker will not teach you much about how to actually be a sex god in the rack and good sex i…
/r/askTRP31/12/15 02:44 AM
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People love to talk about themselves. Learn to ask questions about subjects they want to talk about without being to intrusive. I made a comment to a woman today about her fingernail polish while standing in line at the bank and before I know it she is telling me all about her life, family,kids, problems with her oldest daughter, ect.. One question and I did not have to talk for the next fifteen minutes but just nodded my head in sympathetic understanding. She was laughing and giggling and thank…
/r/askTRP31/12/15 01:47 AM
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Allow her to be grateful. It makes her feel good. There is no such thing as a sexual favor. She is not having sex with you as a favor but because she has attraction and the attraction makes her want to have sex with you. If she ever does start or is having sex with you as a favor your relationship is on the way to or is dead before it ever started. A woman should hunger for you with as much intensity as you hunger for her or something is wrong. The text and gifts are to keep her in your mind as …
/r/askTRP30/12/15 09:45 PM
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More water. Stay hydrated Also eating turmeric will reduce or eliminate leg cramps. Yellow mustard and cherries usually work.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 09:32 PM
1

Have the two girls perform for you and sit back with a good cigar and a glass of scotch neat. Jump in as the mood strikes. They are there to serve you. Two girls performing for a guy while being into each other will make them go crazy. Take one from behind while she has her face buried in the others pussy. Don't approach it like you have to please the bitches. They are there to please you.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 09:28 PM
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Find a chocolate lab puppy you can borrow and return. Using small children is hit or miss because women are likely to think they are yours. I walked around with a Siamese cat slung around my neck. She was mellow but most are to high strung to be used that way. Anything high on the adorable cute scale will attract a woman who will than talk to you. I never liked cold canvassing women on the street. Their guard immediately goes up (stranger danger ) Playing an instrument by yourself but near a wom…
/r/askTRP30/12/15 09:18 PM
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She is looking for a new boyfriend and you were her target. She confessed to having a boyfriend to imply that you simply swept her off her feet and she could not control herself This reduces her future concern that if she does end up with you as a boyfriend that you will not see her as a cheater. With women it is always about perception and reputation. Not bad game for an eighteen year old girl. She is experienced with men. I briefly dated a nineteen year when I was in my early thirties whose mo…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 06:30 PM
1

Hahaha.. I make my living in construction but write fiction (short stories) for a couple of magazines. Not much money in it but I do it for my own entertainment. My audience is mainly (all) women. I usually get comments about my stuff being a "bit much" or something similar from men so your comment cracked me up.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 05:13 PM
5

IMO reading erotica is less damaging (if at all) because it relies on the imagination.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 05:03 PM
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That was the perfect thing to say. You basically put her over your knee and gave her a spanking with words, which she deserved for being so full of herself. You did her a favor. Her friends will love you for it even if they do not thank you. Also you primed her for wanting to fuck you in the future so she can feel good about herself again
/r/askTRP30/12/15 05:01 PM
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Pity never serves love. You will harm her and yourself. Watch for altruism in your actions and thoughts. I also suggest you read up on Co-dependency because pity is the cornerstone of co-dependent relationships. Often pity masks ones own sense of inferiority. It is like only loving women with no legs so she cannot leave you. Loving a cripple because they are a cripple is a good way to keep everyone a cripple.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 08:29 AM
1

There are different types of depression. Depression could be living in a vacuum of hopelessness. Depression could be from looking into the future and seeing no reason to live. This is existential (existential crisis) and why giving meaning to life is so important. Structure is important but so is not having so much structure you are straggled by it. An example would be the thrill of chasing and experiencing new pussy versus the comfort and familiarity of a woman you know and care for. Step back …
/r/askTRP30/12/15 08:14 AM
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Your libido will follow your mind because it flows out of it. Make women central to your existence without making them important to your purpose. Watch them, admire them, consume them, undress them, study them. You should be able to glance at a woman and touch her with your mind so powerfully she blushes even in this day when whores rule. Be that creepy guy peering through a keyhole but do it with elegance, class and respect. Have the energy of the creepy guy without actually becoming him. Be th…
/r/askTRP30/12/15 07:43 AM
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There are certain women who as soon as they know you love them, will leave you. They collect men to reassure themselves that they are not worthless (unlovable) which they believe in their core that they are. They are perpetually looking for daddy's love from every man and using sex to get it. Getting a man to submit to her will equals love for her and once she has it she no longers wants it (him) You keep these woman around by never submitting and this is only understood by them when they are be…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 07:29 AM
3

Creepy is reduced in a LTR but agreed it must not be looked on as being sexual. In my opinion to sustain a healthy sexual relationship with a woman they need a great deal of non sexual touch to balance only being touched through sex. I have over the years talked to and listened to hundreds upon hundreds of women about their complaints concerning sex and men. This is almost always one of their complaints. He only touches me when he wants sex. This right here is one of the strongest reasons IMO wo…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 06:37 AM
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It may be about your son. Having a child outside of wedlock means the child is illegitimate. This can be a serious breech of her maternal duties in her mind. She may want marriage to protect the child. If she is modest to any degree having an illegitimate child also makes her appear to others as a bad person,woman and mother. She will leave you to find a man to marry her to make an honest woman out of her and than she will have the step father sue for adoption. Your situation is very precarious …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 06:28 AM
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If you can go MGTOW you are in the drivers seat because you can be extremely selective. What fucks men over is grabbing onto the first woman that shows interest or is willing to have sex. Seeing women as fucked up and potentially dangerous and being willing to walk away is your best chance at taking your time to find a woman of healthy body and mind. A woman can only hide things for so long and than like cream it rises to the top. Move slowly. Don't believe anything she tells you and develop you…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 03:32 AM
1

The power of game stops when a woman feels like she is being manipulated (gamed) or... When she thinks she is nothing more than a piece of meat being used by a guy who is to damaged to love (commit) represented by him wanting to fuck as many women as possible (not commit) Attractive women are particulalry sensitive to this because of how men have reacted to them. They become attuned to being played and become careful, suspicious, defensive, anxious, ect.. One reason beautiful women are often neu…
/r/askTRP30/12/15 03:20 AM
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Going cold on a woman when she rejects you for sex can be interpreted by them as sulking (passive aggressive/mean) If you know her patterns you probably know when she is likely to reject you. By anticipating this you can either win (hold frame) by not playing (don' t try to have sex) so avoid rejection or early in the evening begin soft seduction to warm her up to the idea of sex later. I usually randomly massage a womans feet and calves by placing her legs in my lap while she is sitting next to…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 02:40 AM
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Do you want to be a part of a fucked up family? It is rare that the apple falls far from the tree. A drug dealer is talking morals using christianity and the sister and mother support him? Personally I would get as far away from the whole family as you can. In choosing a partner always look at the family of origin because whatever dysfunction in that family will follow you into the family you create.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 02:29 AM
3

It is in the nature of men to compete with other men. Men since early childhood are testing each other to establish a power hierarchy and also to test for trustworthiness and reliability. They also feed their ego as that need to feel powerful through being superior to other men. Much of male identity is based on performance. Fucking is a form of performance. An insecure fragile male identity requires constant support or the male feels inadequate. (his identity is under attack) He must fuck (perf…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 01:50 AM
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It has been my experience with women that the older they get the more they want sex. By their thirties they can be insatiable I think in marriage many women cheat because they are so damn horny that their husband cannot keep them satisfied so they go looking for dick somewhere else. In some cases young men fucking older women and older men fucking younger women actually aligns their sexuality better. Many young women often have to work through alot of head problems before they actually start to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 01:42 AM
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Emotional abuse is more dangerous than physical abuse. It is insidious and difficult to identify. Hence its power to do harm. In general women are better at it than men. Someone slaps you, you know that you are slapped. You can readily identify the source of pain. Emotional abuse (fucking with someones head) is much more difficult to understand. I support any law that teaches a man to walkout on a woman. Walking out is actually the greatest power a man has in a relationship with a woman. When me…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 01:24 AM
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I would think that many women reading TRP would think that it would lead to abuse of them by men in all the forms abuse can take. Emotional indifference, cheating, abandonment, physical abuse, ect.. Certainly there are those women who see men becoming organized as threatening there influence and power over men but the majority of women know how dangerous men can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 01:18 AM
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It is unfortunate that a man thinks of himself as a loser if he is a virgin or men think of a man as a loser if he is after some point in time. This thinking only makes him feel insecure about himself as a man. To base your opinion of yourself on what other men think of you is a serious mistake. It keeps you weak. I could actually see the value of abstinence and sometimes wish I had been born without such a strong desire for sex. There is so much a man can do with his life when he is free to cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 01:13 AM
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I absolutely agree that it is the ego that comes first in a mans weakness. When I speak about empathy I mean to describe a man's decency that allows him to be manipulated and used through it. I see women using children to manipulate a man's decency all the time. She is a bad mother and he steps in to protect children (that may not even be his own) from her. A nice guy which IMO requires and comes out of empathy sets a man up for a serious fucking over by a predatory women and IMO there are many …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 12:19 AM
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Not a "borg" but there are a limited amount of flavors and in time you can understand them all by how they taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 12:15 AM
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Should implies a command or expectation. This is where men get in trouble with modern women. If you own a dog and this dog licks your face this is a sign of submission but the dog feels happy and not dominated, objectified or exploited. The dog is doing what it is instinctually programmed to do. When you tap into a woman's instincts she will follow them. it is almost impossible for human beings to step out of their instinctual responds. One reason feminism risks making women neurotic is that it …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 12:09 AM
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Women have a powerful effect on men. Even gay men are enamored of them. A mans brain is wired to protect women at all costs. It is the same wiring that makes people protect children even when those children are not their own. Men at the deepest part of their psyche feel the same protective qualities for women as they do for children. This is partly why men see women as children. Women and children share many of the same visual cues. Hairless bodies, soft skin, small stature, big eyes, ect.. Many…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 11:54 PM
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You can push a woman into a corner using to much dread. She communicated that in her reply.... "If you want to end it just say the word. I KNOW YOU DO " Something in your behavior is telling her that you want out or more than likely her own self doubts are interpreting your behavior that you want out. Fucking a woman is not necessarily enough to make them think a man wants to be with them. She may think you want out to escape the heavy responsibility of being a father with all it's time, energy …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/15 11:31 PM
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There was never a game for me either. I'm simply not invested in women as most men are. It is not about winning or aquiring anything. I cannot be destroyed by a woman because there is nothing to destroy.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/15 06:17 AM
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Persistence could come across as desperate and needy. At the same time sometimes attraction is intimidating to a woman and she may move away not because she is not attracted but because she can not handle how attracted she is. Soft non threatening persistance could give her space to cope with her feelings of overwhelming attraction. Watch for annoyance or irritation which may indicate lack of attraction. The more you can read a womans body language and facial cues the better positioned you will …
/r/askTRP29/12/15 06:13 AM
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People submit subconsciously to those who are more powerful than them all the time. If you watch people you will see this dynamic at work all the time because it is instinctual. (the mind made a value judgement and submitted). This is usually done so fast the person is not conscious they have done it but for a self aware person it may be calculated (consciously done) Men who want women to submit to them simply because they are men have always struck me as fools who do not understand animal (inst…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 04:27 AM
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Perhaps initially. Disgust and loathing sometimes takes time to ferment. Also a woman can be very good at masking her feelings when it is in her interest to do so and wealth can create a powerful interest in doing so. I would urge caution when having confidence in wealth and being physically attractive. I have seen many wealthy handsome men seriously fucked over in divorce court.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 04:12 AM
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IMO It is a mistake to give a woman the experience you are describing because they can never get enough of a man like this. A man like this is forced to keep women at arms length to avoid women becoming addicted to him. In general women are emotionally high strung which leads them to being jealous,envious, possessive, paranoid and controlling. Sorry, but the women of the world are simply not ready for the type of man or love you are describing. That motherfucker gets it but he does not get the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 04:01 AM
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Alpha makes a woman want to fuck you. Beta helps her to feel good about that fact. Because of how a woman's sexuality works you cannot reverse this and expect her to want to fuck you. Beta does not create attraction but makes possible the continuation of attraction to the degree a woman is conflicted about her attraction to alpha (dominance / power) Women have a love hate relationship with strong men but loathe weak men who disgust and repel them. It is better to be hated than loathed because ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 03:34 AM
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Venting to a woman may place a burden on her she is not prepared or able to carry. If it helps you thats cool but it can create a dependency on her you may regret later. Some women are natural nurtures but feeling helpless tends to make them fearful when they do not feel safe and protected. Try not to isolate yourself from men. Nothing weak about having a good support system of men you can trust and lean on or at least one or two close male friendships.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 02:39 AM
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No two days are alike. I thrive on chaos and need to be able to multi task on many different levels to calm my mind and give it something to do. Perfect for working in construction which is controlled chaos. I abhor structure and routine so leave the daily minutiae of business to those who have the temperament for structure and detail. I have a more macro approach to life and leave the micro to others. I can at times obsess over details in the planning stages but only when I think it is importan…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 02:31 AM
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Dichotomies interest me because when I was young I sensed I was different from most people. I did not realize at the time that I fell on the psychopathic narcissistic spectrum. Bascially I could not feel empathy or bond to others and I felt secretly superior to them partly because of this. I would watch people show affection for others and I thought they were actually faking it to manipulate other people into doing what they wanted. My mother also falls on the psychopathic narcissistic spectrum …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/15 02:08 AM
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The tedium and repetition of life can destroy a mans soul. You may be using weed to deal with this. Your mind craves stimulation just as your stomach craves to be filled when it is empty. Your mind is a living thing. The human brain is the most powerful organ ever devised. Look around this world for proof of that. If you do not manage and feed this organ it will devour you. Think of your mind as a wild horse that has all this potential ability locked inside it if it can be bent to your will. Ste…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 11:42 PM
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45y.o I went to college at my parents insistence. I had trouble with the law for a good part of my teens. Robbing houses mainly but I set my school on fire because the principal unfairly accused me of doing something that I did not and it pissed me off. I was that kid everyone expected to end up dead or in prison. My problem was not that I was bad or even particularly violent but mainly bored with a strong curiosity about everything and poor impulse control. Probably ADHD but never diagnosed. I …
/r/askTRP28/12/15 11:18 PM
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Yeah, I'm interested in exploring abandoned buildings and have made that part of any trips I make. I'm an amateur spelunker and have had a fascination with caves since I was a kid and exploring old abandoned buildings gives me a similar satisfaction. I recommend using the buddy system for this because shit can go wrong in a hurry. You can find these places through an internet search.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 10:52 PM
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I have known angels and I wondered why I was not interested in fucking them after the first few times. A man's sexuality needs a bit of darkness to stay vital. Vanilla sex gets old in a hurry. You may feel guilty about the girl because you feel guilty about the darker aspects of your sexuality. You do not want to expose her to that. Maybe she would not be interested but I have met women that will go to places I even cannot and I'm fairly open minded. You simply may be mismatched sexually or you …
/r/askTRP28/12/15 10:44 PM
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It was not about honor. He was trying to fuck her by drowning her in his brilliant repertoire and you got in the way by sending her to bed. Plus you elevated yourself in the wolf pack by taking control so sending him down the hierarchy below you. Guys that are hot heads have self worth problems. They swing back and forth between inner shame and acting grandiose. When he blows up his life (and he will) be sure he does not take you down with him.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 10:24 PM
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Is she stubborn and confrontational? Does she like to have pissing matches with you about who is right and who is wrong? Does she compete with men (you) to prove she is better than men ? Is she self important where her shit does not smell but everyone else's does? Does she try to control or scrutinize your every move and decision? Does she endlessly vent on you (bitch)? If so you may want to trade her in for another model. Women are becoming very masculine in their nature. I have avoided many pr…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 07:55 AM
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I have always had money. I was born into it and I have been good at making it. I cannot think of many times where I had a good time with a woman because of the money I spent on her. Most of what people do to have fun that they spend huge sums of money on I find really boring and the women that want this money spent on them are usually boring people themselves. Find women that crave adventure and you do not have to spend large sums of money. Plus any woman worth her salt will carry her own financ…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 07:19 AM
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In my teens and twenties I had to orgasm two or three times a day or I would have become violent or a rapist. My appetite for sex was insatiable and I really feared it and not being able to control myself was a major concern. I thought I was abnormal for being this way and probably was to some degree. Also I could see how living with this sex drive could easily blow up my life. My uncle knocked up a girl at fifteen and was in a miserable sexless marriage. I had plenty of opportunities growing up…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 06:39 AM
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People who need to pull you down to raise themselves up are communicating a powerful message. They are afraid. Never allow someone to harm you because they are having a dishonest relationship with their own fears and in this dishonest relationship they remain in ignorance of who they are and why they are that way. He was likely made into this type of man by his own family and instead of facing himself remained what they molded him into. Be the generation that changes for the better. Move on.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 06:05 AM
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I have a buddy who started losing his hair at fourteen and he is butt ugly partly from birth but going pro boxer and having guys beat on his face did not help. He owns it by shaving his head and has since his late teens. He is in his mid forties now and where most guys are fat and out of shape he is rock hard. Runs everyday, hits the gym and than the heavy bag hanging in his garage. Eats well and gets enough sun so he is not pasty white. Women will crawl over broken glass to get the chance to fu…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 03:29 AM
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At least you are honest about being scared. Everyone feels fear except a fool. Nothing wrong with fear or anxiety and it is what you do with it that teaches you some of the most valuable lessons in life. You plan the best you can and than you push through the fear. I have been all over the world and what I have learned is that people are pretty much the same the world over. People are social creatures who like to laugh if for no other reason than life is a harsh experience. You will be amazed at…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 01:45 AM
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If you have never been in the miltary or other circumstances where you had to survive on nothing more than your wits I would suggest spending a summer working with your hands in some form of manual labor that places you in the company of other men doing the same thing. I spent time after college hitchhiking all over the country by myself with nothing more than I could carry in a backpack doing odd jobs for pocket money. Admittingly I was to stupid to really appreciate the danger so it was not th…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 01:23 AM
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Sometimes in a relationship it is important to step back and ask "is this person worth keeping no matter what the costs of getting rid of them?" The more we are entangled in another persons life the more this opens the door to outright abuse. This is one of the stronger reasons for my not marrying or having children. I did not want to give some cunt the opportunity to abuse me. In the past they could not get away with this shit unless they wanted to eat their teeth but smacking around your wife …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/15 11:23 PM
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A mans self worth comes out of what creates his identity as a man. This identity is the total of all he believes himself to be as a man. This identity is strongly influenced by status until this identity is separated from status. A man that seeks status among other men will tie his identity to this status so when he loses status he loses himself. This is one powerful way how women make men vulnerable. Men use women like they use money, cars, big homes, prestigious titles to elevate and signal th…
/r/askTRP27/12/15 10:51 PM
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You are struggling with not wanting to hurt someone yet living your life the way you want to. Anyone with a moral conscience has these struggles. I have been in exactly your same place. You want to protect her from yourself. That shows you care about her and or you care about being able to look yourself in the mirror. There is a old movie called " It's a wonderful life" with Jimmy Stewart. It portrays exactly your struggles. A man who wanted freedom and adventures yet also loved a woman. Another…
/r/askTRP27/12/15 10:31 PM
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Yeah a lot of guys get their panties in a bunch when another guy catches a mistake. Personally I appreciate it and that reminds me that I need to go back and correct it. Thanks again!
/r/askTRP27/12/15 09:24 AM
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I have had that happen to me. I do not think it is a rape thing but simply sex moved to fast for her. She is conflicted about casual sex. Possibly was feeling internalized slut shame or may recently have come out of a bad relationship and was still feeling emotions for the past guy. Personally I do not think it was about you and it was clear she was to embarrassed to talk about it. I have had many women do freaky things the first time we were sexual for various reasons if it was moving to fast. …
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 09:19 AM
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You are correct. Thanks for catching that and pointing it out.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 09:05 AM
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A damaged woman will split what she needs from one man into two men. The security blanket at home and the man she fucks outside of the home. In the beginning the crazy sex came from you being that other guy but now you are the security blanket guy and it will only be a matter of time before she goes looking for the other half of the equation to get her sexual needs met. The BDSM triggered past abuse. Also abuse survivors are compelled to reenact the abuse. It becomes an obsessive pattern of unst…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/15 08:47 AM
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She may have gone from tipsy to head in the toilet drunk. Not likely she would have invited you just to fuck with your head. She owes you for fucking up your evening though.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 08:24 AM
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A man can never become a man if he is not willing to pay the cost of standing up for what he believes in. Fuck anybody who tries to exert mind control over you. They are not worth your association.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 08:17 AM
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There are three ways she will have a relationship with all this male attention. She will love it and crave it and do anything to keep it. Fuck her all you want but do not love her and let her go when it is time. She will not understand the reasons for the attention and simply thinks people are being nice to her. She is naive and innocent and if she does not realize the power she has she will probably remain faithful to you for the reasons she has choosen to be with you She understands this atten…
/r/askTRP27/12/15 07:49 AM
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I experienced serious fucked up parenting. An example would be my mother coaching me on how to lie to the wives of the husbands she was fucking so she was not exposed. Also society and the world in general are fucked up. I turned to books to find the inspiration, guidance and wisdom written by men in the past such as Marcus Aurelius. Reading books will not work when you are fucked up because it is like being born sick so you have no idea what true health feels like. (you do not know what is or i…
/r/askTRP27/12/15 12:44 AM
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In this superficial world of ours where it is all about what is on the outside and easily observable it is what is hidden and not well understood that often is the most persuasive and powerful. Learn about referent power. By birth and circumstance I was given all the gifts a person could hope for but I have found that they all pale in comparison to referent power which is available to anyone who understands and knows how to utilize it. In my opinion if the red pill has a heart it beats with this…
/r/askTRP26/12/15 11:45 PM
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You would not have posted this if you did not have a conscience. A conscience is that ability to look inward and reflect on the wrongness of ones actions. This is missing in a bully because they do not want to or need to look inward. Your having been bullied probably has been instrumental in the formation of your moral conscience. You gave into revenge which is strong in those who have been violated. This is not bad or good unless you become seduced by the need to continue getting revenge agains…
/r/askTRP26/12/15 11:27 PM
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Women use sex for every reason under the Sun other than sex. They branch swing by using sex. Branch swinging both creates opportunity and provides the new attention that creates tingles. Women use sex to create their emotional inner world and gain an advantage in their external environment and men get caught up in this meat grinder when they do no understand it. A loyal woman exists but she is almost as rare as a unicorn and it is mainly the man that creates this rare creature. Most women will n…
/r/askTRP26/12/15 10:44 PM
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Children become parents to their parents. You are moving into adulthood and their approval is not necessary because you are no longer a child. Do not confuse approval with respect or not living by their rules, morals and values as being disrespectful. You can respect your parents by respecting the choices that they make to live their life by but you absolutely should not automatically impose these rules on yourself. To be free a child must break away from a parents control and it is only in this…
/r/askTRP26/12/15 10:22 PM
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You are fighting to many battles at once. Each battle represents a worry, concern or fear. This is confusing you and making you feel like you are going in circles. There is a hierarchy of needs that must be met to experience personal growth. The first is self reliance. Money before bitches. You must start working toward a career even if it means taking shit jobs somewhere. Be extremely careful about being supported by others and personally I recommend never letting this happen. The second is get…
/r/askTRP26/12/15 10:13 PM
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The way I see stoic is that you are stoic in the face of adversity but not that you are emotionally dead. I work in construction and can talk passionately about building because I'm really into it. I also like to laugh and enjoy a good joke and pulling pranks on my buddies. Women usually carrying around a lot of anxiety inside their heads where men learn to grow out of this, if they even struggled with it at all. Stoic men can make an anxious woman more anxious because she is anxious about what …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/15 09:53 PM
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I have never seen a break up where the guy was not resented and did not immediately be viewed as dangerous. She will now always see you as a threat. She may back off if you begin to fuck her again because than you are now on her side. This is why fucking coworkers can blow up in your face.(Don't shit where you eat) Practically every one breaks this rule because work pussy is low hanging fruit. I quit jobs to get away from breakup pussy because I did not want to deal with the drama. She probably …
/r/askTRP26/12/15 09:39 AM
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Be aware of how greed and temptation affect you. Wanting to fuck every beautiful woman is both natural but also greedy. If life gave you everything you desired you would actually lose the ability to enjoy anything. Hedonism punishes the hedonist by stealing his ability to experience pleasure and so he needs more and more to experience the original pleasure. It becomes the drug addict chasing that first high. Be careful of greed. Slow down and relax. Be in the moment and not always thinking about…
/r/askTRP26/12/15 09:15 AM
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You are working yourself up partly because you are racing the clock. Here is a joke with a message. An old bull and a young bull stand on a hillside, overlooking a pasture. The young bull says to the old bull, “Hey, let’s run down and fuck one of those heifers.” The old bull replies, “let’s walk down and fuck ’em all.” Don't try to drink up the whole ocean in one swallow. Take your time. Avoid scarcity mentality by thinking you are running out of time and accept the limits that are naturally pla…
/r/askTRP26/12/15 08:54 AM
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You feel inadequate as a man. In your mind it is easy for your girlfriend to meet men she prefers over you because they are better than you. This plays out as you not trusting your girlfriend. This gives her incredible power over you to make you dance like a puppet on so many strings. Plus women will use a man who feels inadequate because it is easy to do but they will also loathe him and look for a man who does not telegraph his feelings of worthlessness. If you have been fucking her and reachi…
/r/askTRP26/12/15 08:40 AM
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I hooked up with a girl who flew into my city to give up her baby for adoption because she did not believe in abortion. She was eight months plus. Very cute little blonde except for the big belly and the adopting couple were paying all her expenses. Sitting around all day waiting to drop the kid she was bored out of her mind. Having sex with a pregnant chick was one of my bucket list things to do and yes I know I'm an immoral pig with perverse tastes. I personally have never heard that sex is da…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/15 09:05 AM
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Hahaha I never take what I have not earned. I suspect my words paint me as an asshole with no virtues or morals. I certainly worried when I was younger that I was a sociopath but I actually care about the world and humanity and people in general. It was this innate concern that kept me from tipping over into something I would not have returned from. I suspect all men with conscious wrestle in some way with this problem. It has been a challenge finding a way to fit into civilized society without …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 11:33 PM
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I think a person can make many mistakes in life and still die a good person because they have not gone so far into darkness that they can no longer see the light that will deliver them out of the wilderness of confusion that evil creates. Child abuse or fucking over children in any way will take a person into a darkness they will never escape. These people always strike me as being somewhat insane almost like their brains are infected with a virus. If you want children you must protect your soul…
/r/askTRP23/12/15 11:16 PM
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You probably will get bored with it. At a certain point I found that there was a sameness to sex and I also moved past that stage of feeling like king shit for all the pussy I was able to get. Seduction for me in the early years was partly driven by ego and arrogance. My identity as a man was woven into how many beautiful women I could have on my arm on any night "because I was competing with other men to be the better man in my own head" This was ego and insecurity and I needed to work through …
/r/askTRP23/12/15 10:57 PM
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I think the mind can only be as healthy as the brain allows it. Your body and brain are the vessel you travel through life with. They are organic and subject to the conditions of the environment they are exposed to. Weed, friends, work, partner, family are all part of this environment. You change by changing your environment. This vessel wants to survive as all life does. We are pain avoiding pleasure pursuing creatures. Sex (orgasm) is so pleasurable that it can slide into addiction. Sex can be…
/r/askTRP23/12/15 10:36 PM
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Excellent thread IMO. We have a similar approach to money. Money prevents other people from trying to own you through intimidation or exploiting your need to eat. Money is your best friend, not a dog. Money may not buy happiness but it does buy a measure of freedom, control and movement which than allows for opportunities to grow. Keep your material needs simple unless you can walk away from them without concern. Never become attached to your possessions so that they end up owning you instead of…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 10:08 PM
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For men who want their life to be a wild interesting ride monogamy can be a difficult path to walk. Its tempting to try it both ways with a girl at home and fun on the side. Women usually have good instincts when a man is getting strange pussy plus it can suck always looking over your shoulder or it can add to the thrill depending on the man. No good answers for you. Ultimately I decided what I could and could not compromise on and that was my compromise.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 06:37 AM
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Think of seduction as a form of hunting. The thrill of the chase. The sex is not the only reward. The Red Pill talks AWALT and there is truth in this but also each woman is unique. Seducing a woman is like traveling to a foreign land and each woman is her own exotic country. I actually made it a goal when I was younger to bed a woman from every country on earth because I wanted to see how they may be different from each other. Men who deeply love women and everything about them want to experienc…
/r/askTRP23/12/15 05:53 AM
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It is possible that blue pill men are men who never broke away from their mothers when they were children so continue to identify with women. They have an internalized female identity. A girl is handed her identity through her mother who is the same as her but a boy must separate from the mother and build his own identity. How he does this or if he does this at all will decide the man he is as the identity he lives. This identity strongly influences how he relates to women. Men who grow up in si…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 02:05 AM
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It is common for women to hate the man they are with during and after giving birth. She is simply hating on you by saying you are a crappy lover. Also she probably feels like shit (physically ugly and unattractive) You do not want to appear weak (that she can get under your skin by hating on you) but coming across as an indifferent asshole will probably make matters worse. If you try to hurt her back you will experience a drop in value because you become the bully but if you do not stand up for …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 12:29 AM
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Every generation thinks they are the first ones to invent the wheel. There is absolutely nothing new in TRP. This shit has been around since the first time a woman said no to a man for sex and he had to accept it. I grew up reading seduction books and men's magazines along with talking to older men on how to seduce a woman. The Red Pill gets shit because it is not hidden from view where before women were not as aware of the private conversations men had between themselves. This is true for femin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 11:23 PM
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This is the problem with so many men working in office cubicles. No woman has ever said this to my face because I have never given them a reason to or those who would won't because they are to afraid of what I would do to them if they did. They have called me practically every hateful word you can think of but it was because they could not tell me to be a man. If a woman tells you this lose the bitch immediately because you never had her. Only two reasons this is said. She is fucked in the head …
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:29 AM
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They are the oldest teenager in the house and teenagers cannot resist temptation. For women it is the temptation to use their pussy to get stuff. They can buy almost anything that a man can offer this way. This is not bad or good but simply something that must be accepted and watched carefully.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/15 03:22 AM
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A whore is a whore is a whore. There are women that simply cannot be faithful. Chasing strange dick is a complusion that needs satisfaction. I have seen this countless times. Plenty of men have stories of fucking other guys wives, often without knowing she was married. I'm not sure Alpha can fix a whore short of beating her near to death regularly like a pimp does with his girls to keep them in line. If you marry one of these you are fucked and often they know how to keep it quiet long enough to…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/15 02:57 AM
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Hahaha.. Great movie!
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/15 02:13 AM
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There are many women like you. You are not broken but a victim of nature (biology) that does not require women to have an orgasm to become pregnant. I'm surprised that women can orgasm at all and if there is a reason I suspect it is more about emotions than biology. Probably something to do with bonding to one partner. I have a very deep bag of tricks and yet I have known women I could not bring to orgasm. I was not the right man for them. Sometimes it really is about meeting the right man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 02:12 AM
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Marriage is about a man serving a woman because of her children. They will always be her children that she allows him to have a relationship with unless or until she does not want to be bothered with them. A man always comes second to a womans children even if she does not love the children. If the children have any kind of value she can exploit that is greater than the value he has that she can exploit, he comes second. Marriage with children is always a ménage à trois Don't marry unless being …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/15 02:03 AM
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Historically men had resources and women had pussy. This turns sex into a transaction which can make having sex rather mechanical. More like jerking off into a body than the amazing sex that can happen when both want to be there because each is into the other person. Women are loathe to view themselves as whores and will fuck a man to prove they are not if he knows how to play it right. I think this is one reason sex often dries up in marriage for men. There wives start to feel like whores (or a…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/15 11:19 PM
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Most of the nerves seem to be at the opening of the vagina when you are not talking about the clit or G spot. Length can actually hurt a woman if you hit against her cervix but few women complain about girth. Penis size is relative to the woman you are with. Not all vaginas are created equal. I have been with women that I could not enter because they were simply to small and others I could have fisted up to my elbow and they would still want more. The relationship a woman has with her orgasm cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/15 10:42 PM
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A man who does not overcome the fear of rejection will never be successful with women. This also includes the fear of rejection he still carries even after he is in a relationship with her. It is a constant crippling anxiety that steals his ability to function like an autonomous human being. In general people do not like being around anxious people because it makes them anxious. Insecure men create unpleasant emotions in a woman. Incels often suffer from this anxiety and the only way to overcome…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/15 10:07 PM
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I personally like women like this. Sweet women get on my nerves. The main thing is not to let your confidence take a hit. I'm immune to this because I could give a shit about what women think of me so how they treat me does not matter. I actually think it is funny and fun when they try to fuck with me. Of course I was that kid with a magnifying glass spending my afternoons on a hot day burning up anything that moved.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/15 05:25 AM
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There are different types of women. Think of them as different styles of dresses. All dresses are the same but they still have different characteristics. On your birthday she feels like it is her duty to be nice to you. This obligation sets her off. Maybe she is simply selfish and wants all good attention going only one way, toward her. More than likely she feels threatened when expected to be kind and nice. Being kind opens her up to feeling vulnerable (exposed). Women like this are hard. They …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/15 10:47 PM
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Women are concerned about their social image. This never stops because it is woven for survival into their brains. A newborn female will stare at a face much longer than a male newborn who will look off at other distractions. Hyphenating her name is both stylish and shows she is not the property of a man. (not being oppressed, submissive but equals) It is similar to how so many women now cover their bodies in tattos. To understand women it is important to understand that they are very much a par…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/15 03:22 AM
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My own opinion concerning sex and women is to never let them know they can use sex against you or to control you. I do everything I can to make sure their appetite for sex is greater or at least equal to mine for them. If they are sellers in a sellers market you are fucked so will not get fucked. It is fine to make them think you want them more than they want you but only if you have firm control over their commitment to you. If they are not intoxicated by the mere thought of you than you are no…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/15 02:55 AM
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My mother is a successful actress whose name you would recognize. She had multiple marriages and many lovers of both sexes. If you have ever watched the movie "Running with Scissors" that was how my childhood felt like but only on steroids. By the time I was twelve years old I was reading every book I could find on how to seduce women. I have never loved a woman and never will but I have had many amazing times with them and do not regret any of it. I owe it all to my mother. She taught me everyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 11:44 PM
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The red and blue pill portray the dichotomy of how men relate to women. With the mixture of beta and alpha being the "ideal" to keep a woman in a relationship a man wants. What it does not seem to see is that both make women central to a mans existence. Both the blue and red pill are reacting to women but in different ways. MGTOW is still a reaction to women albeit one rather extreme. When a man needs to see a woman as lessor he does so because she poses a threat to him. It may be a reaction to …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 02:42 AM
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Perhaps. The title of the car stayed in my companies name along with her being on my companies payroll. Both of which she loses when I grow tired of her and she knew it. I like crazy bitches because they keep me entertained and on my toes. I have dated the nice girls and prefer to avoid them for their own protection and mine I tend to view women as whores in one form or another and treat them as such until they prove me wrong, which they rarely do. Probably from having a mother who was a supreme…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 12:36 AM
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One way I would mate guard is using God. The idea of an all knowing God that is watching her at all times is just to good to pass up as a tool to develop her moral conscious. I'm a hypocrite in that I don't buy into all the religious crap but I would not be adverse to using it "within limits" on children or a wife. Many of the problems men have with women is from her not fearing the consequences of her actions but at the same time how you put that fear into her could make you look like a weak in…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 12:16 AM
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Beautiful video. It shows well what a man will go through for his children and why men are vulnerable to the mother of their children if she has no scruples. I have been there for a number of buddies as they have gone through a divorce. I have seen the ugly side of divorce and how common it is for the mothers to insinuate the fathers are pedophiles in an attempt to get sole custody. Not out of love for the children because true love for children by a mother is rare indeed but out of revenge, spi…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 10:25 PM
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I have fun using a vibrating cock ring on my current girlfriend but you could hit her clit with a ball peen hammer and she would still want it slammed harder. That would certainly make her blush but use it cautiously if she is sensitive. Give her skittles as a first gift and wrap it really nice. I gave a gal I was dating a bottle of BBQ sauce once that I picked up in the airport gift shop on my way back to LA from a Vegas golf trip and it was very obvious that it was bought at the airport becaus…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 06:44 AM
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Men make the mistake of using women and sex to find and support their identity. This in my opinion is a more powerful need than sex or validation even though both are contributors to identity for some/many men. A man fears emasculation. This fear is not known to women. Men die in the name of identity and because they put this identity in the hands of other men they are vulnerable to women who are used to establish their identity (masculinity) among men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 05:53 AM
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I have never known a woman who did not need to feel protected. I have known plenty who will hide that need but none who actually had that need absent from their psyche. There is a little girl in every woman wanting this protection and it is experienced as love. I think the opposite for men is when a woman wants to fuck them this is experienced as love even though I have always seen a woman wanting to fuck me as needing and wanting something so I personally do not associate them wanting me as the…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 11:04 PM
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I have been with hundreds or women and have never been rejected. Simply because I have never given them the opportunity to answer a yes or no question. I flirt and keep it lite and casual until I see they are becoming impatient for me to go for it which by than it is a moot point because we both know each is into the other. Women communicate interest all the time but they do it in women speak and I speak the same language back to them. It is the language of flirtation which is actually alot of f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 02:15 AM
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In my opinion there is a lot to be said for fucking plain or even ugly girls if you can get it hard for them. Also fat girls seem to like sex more than skinny girls and I don't think it is only about being insecure so giving it up more. Being in possession of physical beauty tends to fuck people up in the head. IMO this is true for both men and women. Every crazy woman I have ever known was also extremely good looking. The problem with plain jane's is they fall in love harder and faster and it s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 12:09 AM
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Yeah, my apologies. I knew what I was trying to say but not how to say it. Story of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 12:02 AM
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I think opportunity makes monogamy difficult. I have always had it very easy with women. This probably made me lazy and indifferent because it is human nature to value what you have to work for and to not value that which is given to you freely. Those men who do not have women throwing themselves at them probably find it easier to be monogamous. I was born into abundance so have not been able to "imprint" on only one woman. I get bored extremely easily or perhaps restless would be a better word.…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/15 09:44 AM
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Two men together sexually is taking the visual of the male and doubling it. The erection is strongly dependent on what the male see's with his eyes. A male hunts with his eyes. Also men place a premium on physical beauty as ownership and through ownership an increase in status. This is a gneralization but in the world of gay men the men are as concerned as women about their looks because they are subjected to the same forces as women because of male sexuality. A women has other things driving he…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 09:30 AM
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For better or worse we inherit our moral conscious from those who form us in childhood This is always imperfect because it is formed out of fear. Fear of what your parents thought others would think of them as parents or fear of what could happen to you if you did not do XY and Z. Morals taught out of the need to control and not or rarely out of love and even than always an imperfect selfish love. This causes inner conflict because it pits a man against himself. What you are experiencing is the …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/15 01:31 AM
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Men are visual, gay men are EXTREMELY visual. The hardness of the cock is directly linked to what the eye see's and the imagination "imagines".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 03:19 AM
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I have fucked women because they had hot bodies even though their face would stop a clock so IMO this does not apply to women. With men money makes you beautiful if the guy is not so stupid to think he is loved just for himself. If you are ugly embrace it and make it work for you by being entertaining and successful. Women do not evaluate men solely on how they look. Thats a domain largely occupied by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 03:14 AM
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That not all men are rapists, pedophiles, wife beaters or in other words "low lifes" I have hurt plenty of women through my indifference to their words "I love you" but I have never raised my hand against one, even when she was doing everything in her power to castrate me one way or another. Collectively men are no more or less evil than women but society is playing the moral card through social justice warriors in trying to imply men are collectively bad (war on boys) and women are collectively…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 03:07 AM
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An apology is an admission of guilt. In these circumstances you cannot afford to admit guilt. Messing around on tinder while traveling means to her that you are fucking other women when you travel. The more you deny it the more guilty you appear even if you are innocent. Even from my point of view as a guy you look guilty. 2k while traveling? At best it looks like you are having random emotional affairs with strange women. To win wars you must sometimes lose battles. You will need to take a hit …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/15 09:35 PM
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Stop thinking with your dick. Guys fail with women because they try to make a woman who is clearly unsuitable for a relationship into a relationship. They do this because they want to control the pussy and cannot tolerate being alone. Whores are for fucking, not for relationships. She has slept with dozens of guys. Why would she stop? When you have a relationship with a woman you are having a relationship with how she uses her body as sex. This post almost seems to stupid to believe. Seriously a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/15 08:54 PM
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Excellent point! Cookie cutter approaches to women assumes they are all alike. I have known hundreds of women and they were all unique while also sharing much in common. I suspect women find this true of men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/15 12:54 AM
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There is good crazy and bad crazy. Good crazy can often work to your advantage because it makes you more interesting as a person and often a better sexual partner. Good crazy often means she is up for anything. Bad crazy is she pulls a knive on you because she is paranoid. I have known plenty of both. Boring can usually be cured by becoming curious about the world around you and exploring it. As far as BF's bumping you that may have more to do with men wanting as much variety as possible with wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/15 12:50 AM
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You could go to war with her by filing a discrimination complaint with the college. If she is lesbian and the college is liberal it may not work in your favor but she may fold to avoid the potential of exposure. You will be playing poker and waiting to see who blinks first. In general colleges are on the defensive and have been caving into student demands. Of course if you are white on top of being male you are at the bottom of the heap.
/r/askTRP
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A plate is not someone you are invested in. Their image of you is less important than a woman who you want to be central to your life. You can afford to fuck not only their bodies but you can fuck around with their minds to see what happens. This means you can afford to experiment and by extension fuck up with these women because if they lose interest and leave who cares! Jealousy usually is about ownership (someone stealing what is yours) mixed with feelings of not being as good or better than …
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You can run dread simply by being someone every girl wants. Successful, attractive, intelligent, personable, humorous, possessing emotional intelligence, confident, ambitious, healthy, are all qualities that make a person desirable. Intentionally running dread than only becomes necessary as a reminder in those situations where you are being taken for granted. If a woman is already concerned about losing you than using dread could make her insecure. The need to run dread could be an indication th…
/r/askTRP
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If you give her something that improves her life while sending the thank you, all the better. Every time she uses it she remembers you and the thank you.
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This is a serious suggestion. You need to bleed and sweat. ALOT You are living in your head and not your body. It is no wonder you are sex avoidant. Join a gym where you can learn to box. Once you are comfortable being hit and hitting others I promise you your problems with sex will largely be resolved. You are logical and rational but have no animal energy in you. You need to find physical anger and rage and enjoy both. Not anger of the mind but anger of the body. That thing that makes us all k…
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I like to answer a question with a question. I would reply with... Are you a woman worth having sex with? How she responds could be very insightful.
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If you are deep into the alcohol and drugs you will not be able to simply stop on your own. Death by drugs for those in their teens and twenties is now reaching the same level as death by AIDS in the eighties You are living in an epidemic of alcoholism and drug addiction that is a symptom of the collapse of western civilization. You are living in a sewer and trying to not smell like shit. You will need to be with others trying to crawl out of the same sewer you have been living in. I would sugge…
/r/askTRP
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Don't make your life about other people. Work out to be the best you can be. Your body is the vessel you live your life through. Separate competition from your self imagine as a winner or loser. Winning or losing is separate from being a winner or loser. If I do not live an authentic life I would think of myself as living the life of a loser. To be a loser is to not live my life based on my values. Only I can decide if I'm living my life as a winner or loser and it is not measured against or by …
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Her sending you pics may have left her feeling exploited even if it left her feeling desired. The act always has elements of sexual objectification wrapped up in it for women. Women are constantly receiving the message that they are being sexually objectified while they willingly participate in it. She may want pics to reduce the dissonance she is experiencing by putting you on her level as trying to sexually objectify you. She wants to put you in her frame because of dissonance to lessen disson…
/r/askTRP
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It is a mind fuck. A form of bragging to communicate how popular they are. She may or may not know that it makes you jealous. Something that she learned to do to women that she is now doing to you. Think of it like a guy puffing up his muscles when you walk by. It shows she is unsure of herself as a woman just as it shows with a guy who puffs himself up that he is unsure of his masculinity. Self importance mixed with doubt makes for a human spectacle. Sit back and enjoy the show unless it leaves…
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You are trying to force him to see his wife as a potential adulterer. That will never happen. Accept that people wear blinders because it is less stressful to live a lie (illusion) than a truth (reality) Everything around you is an escape into illusion in one form or another. IMO It makes for an interesting life when you can step outside the need to do so yourself. You will find it is easier said than done. There are many illusions laid over top of each other. You will be pealing that onion for …
/r/askTRP
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Do you feel the eyes of women on you when you are out on public? Do women notice you? Do they try to get you to notice them? If not than women are not finding you attractive so when you approach women you are trying to push through that which is unattractive about you. The question is if it is physical or something about your personality that is putting them off. If you receive no random attention form women than it is physical. If so what can you change to make yourself more appealing physicall…
/r/askTRP
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I currently have six masons installing brickwork on a house I'm finishing and they all come in the same truck together because only one has a drivers license. All others were revoked for back child support payments. One recently spent a night in jail because his ex wife called the cops when he broke the restraining order and called her at home to talk to his daughter who was sick. Soon you will not be able to get a passport if you have unpaid child support. Debtors prison has returned with a ven…
/r/askTRP
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Attraction is more about the person you think she is (fantasy) than the person she actually is. This fantasy comes out of your sexuality mixed with everything that you think about women as all those positive things you believe about women that you project onto the target of your sexual interest. Most love is the experience and addiction to fantasy that is very painful to give up. Oneitis is a form of magical thinking that your sexuality creates. You lose it when you are no longer invested in mag…
/r/askTRP
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The smaller a guy is the more scrappy he needs to be. Big guys pull this shit because they know (assume) no one will stand up to them and almost always they do not have a clue how to fight because their size has saved them from ever needing to learn how. They get by using intimidation because that has worked so well and they are comically over confident in their fighting skills or their tail will go between their legs the first time they are seriously challenged. Small guys have an advantage bec…
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Some men are very conscious of their place in a social hierarchy and they want and need to be top dog. They try to establish dominance in the hopes of having social success. This is how he is using you. Another reason is if you are some form of a threat to him because you have abilities or gifts he does not have. Perhaps more money or education. Something you have that you may not even be aware that you have that he is envious or jealous of that threatens his self worth and status. Your deprecat…
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He is using you to elevate himself in the eyes of others. You are the butt of his jokes so he provides entertainment while intimidating (warning) the others not to fuck with him. I manage a couple hundred guys in construction. This behavior is instinctive in men even when it is calculated. If you are going to travel through life as a free man you will need to learn how to manage men that have the need to test you or use you.
/r/askTRP
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Why do you associate with people who disrespect you? If you are thrown into this group without choice than you must learn how to assert yourself. He senses your reluctance and capitalizes on it. Assertiveness training, self defense training and lifting at your local gym. There are 3 and half billion men in the world. You need to learn how to manage your relations with men. You do this by making it costly for them to fuck with you. There is no other way.
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Many women wonder if the guy on the other end of the text is the reincarnation of Ted Bundy. It is not a weakness to acknowledge a womans fears but only a weakness to be manipulated and or controlled by them. When a woman is hesitant to met me for the first time I always bring up their worst fear while also turning into a joke. Not a joke at their expense but to keep things lite. I say something along these lines... "Hey I get the idea of moving slow. If I was a woman I would to. There are alot …
/r/askTRP
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I personally think the Red Pill severely underestimates the power of "referent power" "Referent power is power of an individual over the Team or Followers, based on a high level of identification with, admiration of, or respect for the powerholder/ leader. Nationalism, patriotism, celebrities, mass leaders and widely-respected people are examples of referent power in effect." This power is not always bestowed on someone because of their other powers, gifts, qualities, ect.. I have met people who…
/r/askTRP
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Porn causes an over dependence on the visual for arousal. It also limits what will arouse you. If you cannot place your nose in the neck of a woman you are attracted to without feeling a stirring in your loins you have been damaged by porn. Attraction requires the full use of all of your senses if you want to experience, reach and sustain the possible heights of intense arousal. An over reliance on the eyes fucks up a mans sexuality. Porn dulls the mind by separating the mind from the senses. Yo…
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" I have been nexted by 2 of my crushes this year" Your using the word crush is disconcerting. There was an interesting Reddit front page piece that Spock was many womens sexual fantasy. I did not know this but it does not surprise me. He would never suffocate a woman emotionally by being to much like her emotionally. He was the "other" to their (her) femininity. Your inner emotional life that women sense or observe will have a profound affect on their attraction to you or not. All the lifting i…
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