Matched with this girl on OkCupid a few weeks back. She is cute, unique and interesting - very different from the girls I've met. We started talking, then eventually face time and made plans to meet. She's a very private person, so I do have to admit I enjoyed the "challenge" she was giving me to get to know her. Two weeks ago, I had an all boys weekend and got really wasted. I ignored her and she called me asking for an explanation. I was too drunk to take everything seriously and told her that I will make it up to her that night, only to stood her up.. I wasn't aware of what I was doing because I was drunk and when I sobered up, she texted me a long paragraph about how mad she was, she even tried to call me several times. I didn't remember what I did that made her mad, so I ignored her.

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A few days later, she texted me apologizing for being harsh on her words to me. We made up, that night we talked on face time and she told me why she was mad. She was mad because I stood her up and when she called me to confront, I put her on loud speak and had my friends teased her. She made me promise to never do that again. She also told me that she doesn't expect me to prioritize her nor text her 24/7 but she expects me to respect her and be honest. That night, she asked me if I liked her and I said yes. When I asked her if she liked me, she tried changing the topic but eventually said yes too. She also told me that she wants me to take her out on a date and I told her that I will take her out yesterday.

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Yesterday, she texted me in the morning asking if I was taking her out. I didn't reply her until afternoon and told her that I was playing golf, my phone was in the locker. This is the part where she started bombarding me with messages.

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"I'm not angry at you but I am really sad at what you did to me this whole time. I don't expect you to understand me or care. If you don't understand or care it's up to you but please stop being so mean to me. I'm not a toy, you can't keep doing this to me I have feelings. If you don't like me and you don't want to spend time with me, you can tell me. I wouldn't be mad or upset. I would appreciate your honesty. Would you like it if someone does what you did to me to your own sister? I hope you can reflect on this. It really hurts to be treated like this."

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A few hours later, another text from her. I was asleep then.

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"Can you pick up my call? Please call me or reply to my texts when you get home. If you really respect me you wouldn't upset me then ignore me. That's so evil of you."

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"Thanks for ruining my day and my week in general. You really REALLY hurt me it's insane. What you did makes me feel SO damn disrespected and I literally feel like I have lost my dignity and respect for myself. This really makes me so sad you have no idea. What hurts me most is how you are ignoring everything like it doesn't matter.. I would appreciate if you can at least respond."

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This morning, she texted me again.

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"Can you stop reading my texts and reply? If you don't care you can at least reply me with "I'm sorry" and I'll seriously stop bothering you it's not that hard. I'm giving you until the end of the day to reply me and say whatever you have to say. If I don't hear from you I am literally cutting you off from my life completely."

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I replied to her, ""Hi, sorry I was really playing golf yesterday and fell asleep when I got home! But yeah since I think I cannot fulfill your expectation, I don't think we can continue this. I didn't mean to hurt you, but I just broke up and it's not my intention to get into another complicated relationship situation. I don't think this is going to work out because you are starting to act needy. I hope you understand. 🙃"

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She then replied me, "The fact that you hurt me still remains. You said that you didn't mean to hurt me right? If you really didn't mean to can you call me some time today, I'm not saying we should continue this but that is the least you can do after everything you've done. I hope we can be mature about this."

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From what I've gathered, she seems to be very straight-forward and has high ego. I'm at a loss of what to do. How does she feel towards me? How can I approach this situation? Thanks in advance.

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