TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

ibhova Archive

View 9 posts and 91 comments by ibhova on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

Esther Perel
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/23 12:50 AM
6

You always offer some great insight.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/23 09:55 PM
10

Lower your expectations. Assume she won’t show up.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 09:59 PM
8

If only it was just that. At least I wouldn’t be having this level of frustration
/r/askTRP17/08/20 09:37 PM
5

Yeah. Can’t win them all I guess.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 09:34 PM
4

That’s the plan. Another story to tell I guess 😂
/r/askTRP17/08/20 09:33 PM
5

I’m as shocked as you are. It’s going to take a while to process this. She texted a few minutes ago apologizing saying she gets weird when she is drunk and will do better next time. But I’m done at this point.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 09:32 PM
2

The feeling of not having tried at all is better than failure for me. It may not be smooth and fail but I always make sure I approach.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 08:59 PM
2

I don’t know. With the demanding nature of your job and your career trajectory, does it not make sense to have a girl like this? For a stable family and kids?
/r/askTRP05/07/20 07:10 PM
4

Yeah. All in all a great book. Another one I would recommend is Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. A nice gateway to Stoic philosophy if you are interested in that kind of thing
/r/askTRP05/07/20 07:04 PM
1

Assume it’s a catfish. Lower your expectations
/r/askTRP05/07/20 07:01 PM
6

How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 06:59 PM
2

I laughed at the “reasonable standard of humanity”😂😂😂😂😂 So accurate
/r/askTRP03/07/20 09:00 PM
2

I just can’t get how you fuck around for two years. At some point you have to learn to prioritize the things you value most.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 09:04 AM
123

Ignore
/r/askTRP21/06/20 06:17 PM
6

Snake Oil
/r/askTRP15/06/20 10:01 AM
2

All I will say is be extra careful and don’t shit where you eat. Academia is not a friendly place for men right now.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 07:57 PM
1

Changed my life
/r/askTRP06/06/20 12:21 AM
51

So many questions here but I will answer the one on money management: Read the Richest man in Babylon
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:40 AM
2

The therapist is pretty awesome
/r/askTRP11/05/20 04:26 AM
1

I would be more worried about having a random guy’s pic. Seriously, love yourself
/r/askTRP09/05/20 09:46 PM
1

I mean if he is a real solid dude. You might want to stop hanging out with his girl alone. Shit sounds foul to me.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 04:02 PM
6

Oneitis. You are too invested in this girl. As a guy coming from something similar and thinking several strategies will eventually get you the girl, it’s not worth it. My advice: Move on. If you really start having options, you won’t have to show them.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 09:28 PM
1

Recently went through a heartbreak
/r/askTRP13/04/20 09:20 PM
2

Whatever you do, make sure you take care of your daughter.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 11:11 PM
19

Been there, walked away. The green wasn’t grasser
/r/askTRP04/04/20 11:04 PM
12

Thanks. I needed this! Let me go back to the sidebar.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 08:41 PM
2

At this stage I think I will go on monk mode for a year.Approaching right now only leaves me more dejected! Guess I got to take it in the chin.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 05:12 PM
6

Make sure you don’t have regrets the next time you are faced with the same situation.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 07:24 AM
2

Ohh boy
/r/askTRP22/01/19 02:16 PM
4

You can waste your time and have sex with a Tinder slut or you can just waste your time.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 08:22 AM
8

The medium is the message. I would read more what she does than what she says. And from the looks of it she isn’t as interested as she claims
/r/askTRP18/01/19 03:34 PM
1

I should be thanking you
/r/askTRP07/01/19 11:58 AM
3

Man this sounds like every big brother. Best place to develop thick skin, i can guarantee the world isn’t any kinder. My advice would be to respond with a equal amount of banter. If you have a good relationship, I’m sure its coming from a place of love.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 02:45 PM
3

The Secret Diaries of Gayry Jones
/r/askTRP03/01/19 02:11 PM
2

Yes your brother might have been a little rude but so what?I would be the same way with my brother. Another thing, maybe don’t let this thing of your girl talking shit about your bro continue. I get it, he was rude but thats my brother-deal with it!
/r/askTRP03/01/19 02:06 PM
1

Choose wisely.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 01:45 PM
4

Your brother made a decision to not let a girl who may or may not have been drunk drive you home. And your takeaway from this is how it made you a lesser man in front of said girl. Fuck it man, you have an awesome brother!
/r/askTRP03/01/19 01:43 PM
1

Always assume escalation
/r/askTRP05/12/18 03:34 PM
1

Join a class or do a hobby you enjoy. Try to connect with people there,its all about networking and always creating new relations. You like bowling? Yeah i like bowling. Great you should come to our next tournament and be part of the team
/r/askTRP05/12/18 02:09 PM
1

I usually leave a running joke/pun to continue in the next encounter...
/r/askTRP04/12/18 01:41 PM
1

Giving off creepy stalker vibes. Get it under control man, plenty of fish out there-leave the girl and her friend alone.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:18 PM
20

You are the plate here, and already in her frame. Try not to fall into the dread game she is playing so well. She is fucking you because of something these other “hotter than you guys” don’t have. Focus on that and know your value.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:16 PM
6

Rollo talks about operative social conventions. One of them is that “you are lucky to get a girl” Keeps you from realizing your true value,if you are under 30 what are you doing giving commitment. Build life experience
/r/askTRP28/11/18 08:41 AM
0

Pook Commandment:Be who you are! If you like a piercing and are comfortable with it,a bitch will get in line
/r/askTRP28/11/18 08:36 AM
3

I don’t know man, if she is interested she will text you first. This might be your mind trying to justify the beta shit you are about to pull.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 08:24 AM
7

This is great advise man, thank you!
/r/askTRP27/11/18 03:01 PM
1

An hour wasted.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 12:35 AM
-1

Your are living in her frame now
/r/askTRP23/11/18 09:09 PM
1

Iron Rule of Tomassi #3
/r/askTRP22/11/18 08:17 PM
0

Never apologize.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 09:35 AM
1

Are you actively trying to do more activities with her or you want her to take the lead like the man of the house?
/r/askTRP21/11/18 01:24 PM
1

Have some self-respect first!
/r/askTRP21/11/18 01:19 PM
1

Did you even fuck this girl?
/r/askTRP21/11/18 01:16 PM
2

If you read the material here then you know the cardinal rule. The one who needs the other the least has control of the relationship. Now I’m not sure what you are into but i refuse to believe she is the only woman in over a year who has peaked your interest-right now you have a scarcity mentality and because of that your moves will most likely come off as desperate and needy Get out more,meet more women and have outcome independence. Be the prize, the guy she needs not the other way around. Als…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 01:10 PM
2

You will fail-not because she doesn’t like you or you are inadequate but because somehow you have elevated her to the only goddess who can make you happy.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 12:59 PM
3

Get some dick
/r/askTRP20/11/18 09:58 PM
2

Are you straight?If its a yes then maybe you are in the anger phase, snap out of it man. Life is too short to be missing out on easy lays like this!
/r/askTRP17/11/18 08:45 PM
1

If you are still making fake Tinder accounts,you aren’t becoming more red pill! Between focusing on you,your career and purpose really who has the time?
/r/askTRP14/11/18 08:59 PM
2

It is not “what it is”,it is what you make it!
/r/askTRP13/11/18 12:28 PM
2

Stop asking for TRP advice if you are not willing to accept red pill truths. If you read the sidebar you know what you are, what she feels, where you are and how to change that! Start getting some abundance,working on yourself and stop using these excuses of your childhood to continue unhealthy habits.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 12:27 PM
1

Never explain yourself.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 02:09 PM
1

Let women be the icing on the cake, killing it in life should be your first priority. Do not quit something you are obviously good at for some pussy!
/r/askTRP07/11/18 02:05 PM
4

Don’t listen to what she says but observe what she does.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 11:33 PM
55

Is this a relationship or House of Cards. Red flag for me if an LTR leverages past indiscretions to get their point across. Who knows when and where she might use potentially damaging information about you as a bargaining chip somewhere else.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 11:32 PM
1

Im not saying you should not cuddle or anything like that but give her space to fall for you. Leave while she still wants you there.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 10:52 PM
28

Treat her as any other Tinder hoe.Play along, don’t mention it until she does.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 10:40 PM
0

I would read the sidebar again and pay attention to the part which clearly states “Plates break”
/r/askTRP05/11/18 10:35 PM
2

1.She is not your plate unless you are banging her. 2. Even if she was plates break all the time, you move on by learning that there will be plenty others to follow. 3. She neither owes you her time, company or exclusivity so who she hangs out with shouldn’t bother you! Abundance,abundance,abundance!The whole point of this is not to observe things like who Miss Precious chooses to hang out with because you are too busy with your own!
/r/askTRP05/11/18 10:33 PM
2

Nothing out the ordinary here except you knowing when to leave!You couldnt get it up shit happens,spent the night okay but you staying till you have to be forced by circumstance to leave is not a good look man! Show that you have a life or pretend like you do. As for the follow up I would wait for her to initiate.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 10:28 PM
1

Could be you enjoy being a foot soldier more than a general! I say ride it out for a while, see if its just a phase-if it doesn’t go away then you have a lot to think about. Without that fire to drive you, one risks becoming stagnant!
/r/askTRP05/11/18 12:13 PM
3

Stop acting like a plate thats desperate to be promoted!
/r/askTRP04/11/18 10:39 PM
1

You have sold all the mystery. Why would she even meet with you now? She knows your favorite color, music,food and all that makes you interesting. So why meet up?
/r/askTRP04/11/18 10:32 PM
1

Today OP Learnt: You don’t have to be a jerk man!Practicing TRP and being a decent human being are not mutually exclusive
/r/askTRP04/11/18 10:24 PM
1

Start acting out of your best interest, do what serves you best and whatever makes you happy. People actually respect that When you think you are being a “genuinely nice guy” you are a being a fucking doormat!And who respects a doormat-I know I don’t, what I will do is rub all the shit in my shoes over it!! So start putting you first and everyone will do the same!
/r/askTRP04/11/18 10:20 PM
3

You have a 2.3 GPA. This means you are essentially chasing a mouse while your house is on fire. My advice-go on monk mode ASAP. Lift,study hard, read self improvement books, get a few hobbies,define and start chasing your goals and become someone who is so confident he doesn’t need luck to talk to people! You are the prize!Stop having a locus of external identity
/r/askTRP04/11/18 10:15 PM
6

Thats the thing, they are not my sister or daughter but thats just me,I look after me first, second and third!If you want to be a hero rather than let an adult handle their shit then its your choice!
/r/askTRP04/11/18 09:59 PM
47

You are mate guarding property that isn’t yours. Contrary to popular belief,women can take care of themselves without some orbiter stepping in. Do you really need to be the guy that gets stabbed for a girl?
/r/askTRP04/11/18 01:42 PM
2

Study hard, first impressions are everything(don’t get shitfaced at a freshman party), you are judged by the company you keep! And yeah-have a blast man!Varsity is the best
/r/askTRP04/11/18 01:29 PM
9

She was a tease i guess, there will be girls like that. Next time maybe start escalating at a location where you can have sex. The makeout session and the lag time before you got to your place might have worked against you even triggering more LMR
/r/askTRP04/11/18 01:25 PM
1

Strap it up!
/r/askTRP03/11/18 10:31 PM
2

Well from your side there is nothing you can do except keep your cool and your mouth shut. Great move to assure her of your discretion. Her move!
/r/askTRP03/11/18 06:11 AM
1

No use thinking about it further since she wont be a plate is it?
/r/askTRP02/11/18 09:23 PM
17

Some girls just don’t put out on the first date, I wouldn’t read too much into it.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 09:12 PM
1

At no point do i see you mentioning when you escalate, could it be that you bored her? TRP is more that philosophy but a way of life,it is easy to say i don’t let a woman waste my time, hard next them all but what use is going on dates when you don’t try to f-close. This girl was not a flake, you just didn’t give her reason to continue honoring her appointments! Always go for the jugular!
/r/askTRP01/11/18 01:43 PM
1

Sidebar,sidebar
/r/askTRP31/10/18 10:44 PM
2

You either choose to move on or you don’t. If you think nothing will make you forget her then some internet strangers won’t change that!Anyone is expendable my friend!
/r/askTRP31/10/18 02:53 PM
1

Meet,Greet,Emphasize that you are in a rush but would like to hangout,get her number, leave
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:16 PM
2

She is not yours, it’s your turn! Unless you are looking for an LTR,I don’t see why you are judging this girl. Wear protection and have your fun
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:13 PM
6

Well played, this sounded like a good date-except the lack of the f-close
/r/askTRP30/10/18 10:35 AM
4

She is a whore and they don’t deserve your time.You know what does??Lifting and putting some work on yourself!! Good luck!
/r/askTRP28/10/18 09:45 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter