Met up with a girl on Friday night. Ended up having sex on the first date.

Sunday we scheduled for a Tuesday date. I texted her Monday morning to confirm date but she didn’t text back until Tuesday morning saying she had a hectic Monday and didn’t realize she worked Tuesday so she wouldn’t be able to make it. She didn’t try to reschedule. She has mentioned she likes it when men take the lead so I hit her up today to hang out tomorrow (Friday). Mentioned she has a wake tomorrow and funeral Saturday and once again didn’t try to reschedule.

She’s going to a funeral so I’m sure she has other things on her mind than trying to reschedule but Tuesday night when we were supposed to go out she updated her tinder bio and added pics

What is the correct way to play this? Soft next or “take the lead” and invite her out a week or two from now?