Would it be inappropriate to offer a couple hundred bucks for a blowey and a trip to pound town?

This broad I matched on tinder looks hot but also potentially a catfish/l.e.o. (?) and she always unmatches me but has matched again about 5 times now... I only ever tried making actual plans the first time I matched her.

I did message her through instagram (stupid, I know) but she "likes" my pics and idk the sketchy part (super sketchy imo) is that she has 10k+ followers on that shit (insta) but looking at her facebook she has very few "likes" (only useful info because it is so different from the insta)

What the hell did I do to deserve being catfished/entrapped? fucking pathetic number of matches in my hometown shit is dumb and idk what keeps me from meeting women in person (none look available, mixed feelings about workplace approach, excuses excuses)

but anyway i cant tell if she's soliciting me or if i should solicit her...