Maybe you could help me out.
I’ve been Redpilled for a year now, and I’ve applied a lot. I’m a salesman door to door and in the uk. Almost everyone I meet has told me I’ve got the “gift of the gab “ or that I could sell snow to an Eskimo with how I talk. Now with that in mind, I’ve pulled women before many a time, a couple same night lays, I’d say objectively I’m an 8, Pretty much everywhere I go I get looks from guys and girls. I’m 6ft, 20 years old and very good shape.
However, I really haven’t been on any real dates, which I’m fine with but now I’ve moved to a major city I’ve already started setting things up for when the bars re open. My question is. The bulk of TRP suggests to be the aloof guy who’s mysterious and as you say let her do the talking , treat her like a kid, be the father figure etc don’t emotionally overinvest, in essence this James Bond motherfucker. But I’ve got this way of talking and it’s like when I’m talking to a girl or anyone for that matter, as long as it’s for more than 2 minutes, they get this look in their eyes of pure amusement and joy it’s indescribable and they normally follow that by saying “you could sell snow to an Eskimo”. Now I’ve always spoke like this and it’s why I got a door to door sales job as it appears the way I talk is enough for people to agree to what I’m selling. When I’m with a chick, I don’t talk like this for her benefit or because I’m trying to pull her, I almost do it for my own entertainment because I know it works and I find myself funny. I’ve got a strong frame and a lot of confidence as I’ve been door to door selling for a year now but...
My theory was as long as I was talking like I do for my own benefit and just having a laugh, then so be it, it’s only if I was using it to try and get laid it would fall flat because that would be emotionally over investing. So do I suppress this side of me that can talk for days and become this James Bond style aloof guy, or stick with it. I mean I can create mystery by not revealing much about myself which is what I do and I’m good at teasing.
My answer so far was as long as I was this cocky funny guy for my own entertainment and it came across as that when I talk then I’m calm.
Any ideas?
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