hey guys

I've read a lot of material and also practised a bit, and recently been trying to absorb red pill theories. However, I have been quite unsuccessful with bridging the gap between actually approaching and getting to a situation where I can escalate. I can approach at social events and also am not afraid to escalate when there is an opportunity (isolation etc). Its the stuff in between that's causing me grief. Like what to do you actually talk about once you approach to lead her to better things?

Recently, a hot milf was giving me a lot of not-so-subtle signals so I talked to her for a bit but did not know what to do next to see if she would be open for a romp. She came and told me the next day she had a hotel room booked and was staying alone last night and that I missed my chance.

Also I find it difficult to read some subtle sexual signals from women and fail to spot the women who are into me. Is there a RP book or reference that has some tested details on what to look for in terms of sexual IOIs? I heard about a book called "Undercover sex signals" but I am not too sure if anyone of you experienced folks have read it.

Thanks