Just gonna get straight to the point with these. I've done loads of reading on the sidebar and posts, but I'm struggling to actually put it into practise. It's like I'm trying to think of all this stuff i read when in conversation.

1) since trying to change from beta boy, I think i might be too much of a dick, but I'm not sure. I used a chick in my school as a litmus test. Went from being kinda friendly with each other to her now just having a grudge against me cause i don't do beta shit for/around her. I don't know if this is a good sign or bad.

2) I'm struggling to use the game I've read about. I can't really grasp the concepts when I'm in the moment and conversation is flowing.

3) the lines between being a so-called "gentleman" and beta are blurred for me. Ex: Do i hold the door open for a chick? Or is that too submissive? Or does it even matter. I can't really tell

Any answers would be appreciated