There’s this girl (oneitis) she is supposed to visit me this weekend. She used to be my gf but we had to separate due to long distance. She told me two weeks ago that she wouldn’t sleep with anyone until our trip. I obviously don’t trust women anymore. I don’t really want her to come if she has slept with anyone recently. She is supposed to board the plane in 4 hours.

Should I ask her if she kept her word or just let her come and pipe? Not gonna lie, I have feelings and really don’t know what to do. If I ask her and she says no she may think I’m being insecure and I don’t want to ruin the energy of the trip. If I ask her and she says yes than I am going to be hurt to be honest, but it’s best for me that she does not come.

This girl plays like she is a sweet girl but she is manipulative to be honest.